other people understand me dont they

anonymous asked:

After bts won last night I saw so many of their fans dragging other groups and other people and I thought??? Do you have to be a dick for no reason? Can't you just congratulate them and not turn this into a fight? I saw someone complaining about EXO-L's talking shit but the only activity on my feed I saw from EXO-Ls were birthday wishes for Suho so? Idk I just dont understand why armies always have to try and create conflict for no reason.

that’s what I don’t get!!! like yall… you can stan a group and not put down another!!!! like don’t get me wrong, credit deserves where credit is due but that’s not putting someone down. you can be proud of bts without being like “LOL BTS ARE THE KINGS BIGBANG IS UGLY AND OLD KILL URSELF GD” 😐

Reasons To Love Svt

  • not so Subjectively the best group ever 
  • They were supposed to debut years before they actually did 
  • The fact they kept going after something like that 
  • Like we get upset when a single members been training for a long time cough sm rookies cough
  • But svt as a group had to wait 
  • But when they did debut they were such a hit 
  • Like carats couldn’t be more proud
  • They grew in popularity so fast too 
  • We couldn’t be more proud 
  • The relationships between the members is half the fun
  • They love each other like family so much 
  • Constantly looking out for each other 
  • Seungkwan feeling bad about his body?
  • 12 other members will be right by his side to reassure him he’s perfect just the way he is
  • Mingyu messing with the filters because he’s worried about his skin color?
  • Someone will be saying he doesn’t need a filter within seconds 
  • When chan graduated a good handful went to go see him
  • Like if that isn’t love what is?
  • With 13 members you’d think someone is bound to get left out 
  • And not that it doesn’t always happen 
  • The members do make efforts to include each other 
  • They are always having fun no matter how tired they are or how late it is
  • Turning lights out on each other when they are taking showers 
  • Playing rock paper scissors at restaurants to see who has to ask the owner to play their songs 
  • You can just tell they genuinely love each other like family 
  • Like lets be real
  • If you spent so much of your time with that large amount of people 
  • You would totally find someone, if not multiple people that clash with your personalty 
  • And i’m sure these guys have had that happen
  • But they’ve worked past that
  • To the point where us fans cant even tell 
  • And boy we find out a lot of things lol
  • What Im trying to say is that they are totally accepting of each other and i find that amazing
  • They love their carats so much 
  • So so much 
  • Like when they each wrote an encouraging letter for students taking the SAT
  • The amount of work they put into making their performances perfect for their carats 
  • They’ve been through so much for us
  • They always bow so deeply at their concerts and it breaks me 
  • Seventeen in carat land was honestly the most beautiful thing
  • Their carats love them just as much, if not more
  • Like ask a carat what they love about svt
  • And they will either go on for hours 
  • And never run out of things to say
  • Or just be so overwhelmed they can’t even say anything
  • Because their love for the boys is just too much
  • Its adorable
  • All of them are super sweet people 
  • Constantly encouraging the members 
  • And always so content with anything svt gives us like 
  • Carats are so sweet
  • Super artsy too i dont understand 
  • Predebut videos are better than any other groups omg 
  • Your bias list is never safe when stanning svt because everyone is perfect 
  • All the carrot puns we can make and they make
  • They are literally a giant meme 
  • And they never fail to put a smile on our face 
  • Idk if yall have noticed but svt has been making an effort to be more active on social media 
  • They even did live shows on instagram 
  • And they’ve posted so much stuff on all their social media 
  • They blessed us with their dance covers of happiness and wild eye 
  • Synchronization kings 
  • When i first saw wild eye i was so confused 
  • Because i thought my video had frozen
  • But nope
  • That was just part of the dance
  • They have such a unique style
  • Like three units but one group
  • And they still all function as one working group 
  • 13 members, 3 units, 1 team = Seventeen 
  • Hella attractive 
  • Like seventeen is just made up of 13 visuals 
  • Everything they do is so amazingly aesthetic 
  • Their music is perfect 
  • That one time we thought we were getting a dark concept 
  • And it said Only for today 
  • And we were like !!!!!!!!
  • But they literally meant only for one day
  • It was just a black and white filter 
  • And we were freaking speechless 
  • Lmao that was a wild time 
  • But the fact that even the rappers can sing
  • And it sounds like heaven 
  • They are all really respectful 
  • We’ve all heard stories from staff thats worked with them 
  • And there is never anything bad to say about them
  • They cover girl groups in a respectful way and aren’t making fun of the songs like pretty much every other boy group out there
  • They aren’t in it for the fame 
  • They just want to make music
  • Cause i mean, lets be real, if their only goal was to be famous they wouldn’t have have ended up at Pledis lol
  • They are super super humble
  • How hype they get with each other 
  • They are their number one fans 
  • No one loves svt more than svt loves them
  • Its fantastic 
  • Freaking Bong Bong
  • Our lovely Kim Bong Bong
  • The fact that bongbongie represents the fans 
  • And they have named it genderless 
  • And hoshi broke down the stereotype that pretty eyes equals girl
  • Like when will your faves ever?
  • Their stages are freaking lit 
  • They go all out 
  • Whether youre there at the concert or watching a video of it 
  • You’ll get super pumped
  • And you can just feel the passion radiating out of the video 
  • Because they put 110% into everything they do
  • Stanning svt is like finding a new home 
  • Everyone is welcoming and warm
  • The guys just make you smile all the time
  • No matter what they are doing
  • Their love is neverending 
  • And everything is so personal and relatable
  • It feels like you know them personally and not like they are some famous untouchable group 
  • Everything about them just makes me smile and they can improve my mood like no other group
Paint mixing videos are not a waste of paint

Hello! Real life artist here!

i’ve seen people in the past say that paint mixing videos are a waste of art supplies so i thought that i’d just put my opinion out there :)

So, reason one why I dont thing paint mixing is a waste: Its a great way to get rid of old paint! You know that paint that’s not so good for actual painting anymore but you just cant bring yourself to throw it away? Paint mixing videos are a perfect way to put it to good use! I personally have some really old paints that im about to make some videos of!

Also, you dont necessarily have to use top of the line paint. Some craft stores sell small bottles of acryllic paint for only a couple dollars, perfect! And since paint mixing vids typically dont use a ton of paint, a little bottle should last a while!

Finally and probably most importantly: paint mixing videos really help calm people down. I have severe anxiety and paint videos are part of what introduced me to stim blogs and stimming in general! Watching the pretty colors being mixed together can really calm me down sometimes and i know that a lot of other people experience the same thing!

Now these are just my personal opinions, I completely understand if anyone doesnt agree with me on some things, thats perfectly fine.

But if you have any more reasons then feel free to reblog and add them! Happy stimming!

okay I have a question for anti-Otayuri people…

I’ve noticed that some of you ship Mila and Sara

Why is that ship okay, but Otayuri is not?

I know Mila is 18. But Sara is 22.

The girls have been skating competitively for years. I think it’s safe to say that they’ve probably known each other since before Mila was 18. Especially because they seem pretty close in the show. They’ve probably been friends for at least a few years, since Mila started skating in the senior division with Sara. Perhaps since Mila was 15/16 and Sara was 19/20.

Yall seem to have a problem with people aging up Otayuri. Or with them waiting for Yurio to turn 18. Like yall argue that Otabek would still be a predator for “waiting” because that would mean he had romantic/sexual intentions with Yurio from the start or something.

But Sara and Mila probably knew each other when Mila was still a minor. Why is it okay to ship them just because Mila is 18 now? When they probably knew each other when Mila was still a minor. So going by your logic, why is Sara not a predator as well for “waiting” for Mila to turn 18?

Like this is a legit question, I don’t understand your logic, please explain?

I dont think i have ever seen a character with such expressive eyes. Fenris speaks a whole lot louder with his expressions than his words. I understand everything he is feeling just from a look so its strange to me that other characters find him hard to read. People dont know how to listen unless you yell.

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We Support Sheith!
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We went to a Sheith meetup at Katsu to show our support to everyone ;3;)9 their is no reason to be an anti and put other people down for what they like. If you dont like it then stop wasting your time looking it up and being called an anti. I don’t understand why we cant all just love and care for each other in this wonderful show we all watch
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Come at me weenies (ง •̀_•́)ง ill fight all of you
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Lance: @akrcos
Hunk: @featherofdrew
Pidge: me

anonymous asked:

Why is calling myself a lesbian so hard? Why does even saying the word "lesbian" make me feel sick to my stomach? Why do I trip over it and stutter like an idiot when I try to express my identity? It makes me sad and I thought maybe u would be able to help me understand or lend some experience. Thank u knowledgeable gay

i absolutely understand and i still feel that way most of the time. i feel like any time i say it out loud then people are going to start acting weird around me or sexualize me in some way. i dont know, you just grow up hearing other girls whisper “i heard shes a lesbian” in the locker room about someone and you just always think. oh okay. that’s something horrible and disgusting. 99% of the time you actually hear the word is either when conservatives say it with a visceral disgust in their tone or by fellow feminist or lgbt “allies” who start their sentences with “Now I don’t want you to think I’m a lesbian but,” there’s almost no advocacy from people other than lesbians to give positive connotations to the term, or recognize the specific beauty of being a lesbian.

and it goes far beyond the word itself. the fact is that the mere existence of lesbians is one of the most threatening things to our current heteronormative/patriarchal society. and thus, language is constructed around this to put that shame into the specific terms that define us, or even talking about the facets of our sexuality in depth.

it’s annoying because i so desperately want lesbians to just live their fucking lives in peace and not have to represent some political ideal. but you can’t avoid it when things are what they are. so i guess, living unapologetically is fulfilling to me because its my small way of rebelling against those norms. an individual can’t change ingrained social stigma, but we can consciously rewrite or reclaim personal narratives that are imposed upon us so that we can have the mercy of living our lives more peacefully. i explored my feelings about being a lesbian in my short film and translating that into something visual & something that i could be proud of was transformative and liberating. i’m not sure how that would work for every other situation, but that’s just one example of taking a personal step to define yourself on your own terms. it’s a lifelong goal, and not an easy one. but you’re not alone. 

to the people who told me to "let it go"

stop invalidating the discrimination people with disabilities face from doctors and hospitals.

stop saying “its the doctors job to make sure youre telling the truth”, they couldve done that job without assuming i was making everything up, they didnt have to call me a liar

stop saying “well if you looked sicker, they wouldnt have been like that to you”, dont blame me for a doctors incompetence, they shouldnt have treated me like that in the first place.

stop saying “you have to understand, your illness isnt common, you cant expect them to have known what to do”, lmao not knowing what to do doesnt give them the right to mistreat me in any way, they couldve TRIED to do something instead of calling me crazy, a liar, an attention seeker and everything else.

stop saying “you cant expect a doctor to know everything, theyre human too ya know” i didnt expect them to know everything, or anything for that matter, this isnt a matter of their knowledge as a doctor, its a matter how human decency, something i was robbed of because doctors didnt even try to help me, they told me to go away, or that im overreacting.

stop saying “everyone makes mistakes, even them”, the constant discrimination i faced, the lack of help i got from doctors cause they were too busy calling me a liar has altered my life, it wasnt a mistake, it was a tragedy.

stop saying “well you know not all doctors are like that,” Yeah, i do know, i also know that alot of doctors are, and that it gets worse if people try to excuse what they do.

Im tired of being told to get over what i went through, im tired of being told to get over being told i wasnt sick, that i was insane, that i was a liar, because not only was it something awful to go through, but its something i am still going through. because there will be other people, and other doctors who think this.

only now its “i dont know what your illness is, it sounds fake”

and “i dont know how to help but let me act like i do”

now i have a diagnosis and i will face other types of discrimination by hospital and doctors. and people will tell me to let it go when i do.

and ill tell them to fuck off, cause it isnt somethig you just let go of.

headcanon about neil not being interested because he doesnt swing that isn’t him being ‘obvious’ and cruel to the interested party 

  • neil had girls flirt with him
  • neil had kissed some of them
  • sometimes it was him initiating the contact
  • it wasnt as bad as his mother thought it was
  • cuz he never got the hang of kissing girls
  • he was curious, but not interested
  • and after being beaten one too many times he never got the hang of kissing anyone again
  • that was, until andrew came along and gave him a reason to stop running

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Here it is, FIXED HUGS HEADCANON SET

I have posted this set before, but i did some mistakes, and i decide to fix it. First of all, I have tried to fix Lance’s skin colour, wich was wrong in first version of this set (i hope this is better q^q sorry please for this mistake), and also i have fixed some details in other arts in set. So, I hope this post is better UuU

and so, here is information about this set. I will just copy my text from first version of this post. So, here it is:

HUGS HEADCANON TIME!!!

I have saw headcanon about Hunk, wich is about him supporting members of team. And headcanon about Hunk’s hugs with Shiro and headcanon about cookies for Pidge from him and I am be like HMMM!!!!! So here it is, 

multi-headcanon about that kind of hugs everyone in team gets from our cinnamon roll then they need it

Big “Who wants space peanut cookies?” hugs for Pidge

Warm “We will do something with your nightmares. Come here” hugs for Shiro

Silent “I can just sit here with you if it will make you feel better” hugs for Keith

Trust “Tell me about your problems, i will listen you” hugs for Lance

p.s. thanks people in tumblr for headcanons wich are inspired me! As i remember they were @captainsbones and @yarrayora and i cant find that post with cookies for Pidge headcanon so i dont have the athor D”””: …and if i did something wrong please tell me, its just my first expierience with headcanons, au and other things like that so i dont understand how it works :D 

rosevinyls replied to your post “Hi, will you please the q slur? It was used in the post about gender…”

Also if this person wanted you to tag the word queer, the last thing you should’ve done is say the word they’re triggered by in your response lmao

I want to be respectful, and I want folk to have a good time on this blog, but you gotta understand that it’s ALSO important that I’m comfortable and having a good time.

because this is a personal blog where I come to post about my goofy cats.

so, if I’m personally uncomfortable tagging queer (a word I identify with) as q slur, I hope you can all respect/understand that.

these posts will all be deleted shortly, and for those sending asks (which, you know, I’d really rather you not send): they will also be deleted, and the rude ones will be blocked. 

EDIT: I’m going to leave this up a little longer than I planned, because I legitimately hate blocking people. it sucks. it feels mean. but if you send me an upsetting message about this, I don’t feel like I have other options.

tl;dr im a transphobic bigot

im really tired of nb people (or any other gender that isnt male or female/cis or trans) acting like they understand trans struggles. im tired of being lumped together with them. im tired of people assuming im a radical sjw because of them, because theyre what people think of when they think about trans. im tired of people telling me that you dont need to experience dysphoria to be trans, and quite honestly, this is the thing that hits the hardest. although my transitions been going about as smooth as it could go, its still been hard because of dysphoria, and it was incredibly hard to convince my parents that i was trans. im not trying to throw a pity party, but im tired of people treating being trans as a new fucking haircut or some new fashion statement. because, whether you like it or not, being trans is a fucking mental illness. and no, im not being a transphobic bigot, its a literal mental illness that has been scientifically proven. and so, despite all the things the actual trans community goes through, these people have the audacity to undermine us by stealing our identities and telling us (pretty much) that being trans is a choice (i mean, how could it not be a choice if you dont have to have gender dysphoria? if youre transitioning to a different gender despite being fine with your assigned gender, i really have to just assume youre some pubescent white girl who has too much time on her hands). stop putting yourself under the trans umbrella because trans is not an umbrella term. youre either trans or youre not, and you wont convince me otherwise unless i see actual scientific evidence. you cannot be transgender while also being nonbinary because YOU ARENT FUCKING TRANSITIONING TO ANYTHING. all youre doing is giving yourself a useless label and getting mad when people dont use fucking xi/xer pronouns.

if you are nb/some other gender, let me know how you feel because i always want to hear other peoples perspectives. im going to tag this as a lot of things so i can reach out to people past my followers.

anonymous asked:

(1/2) so i have a bit of a dilemma rn and id like some advice. theres a group of ~4 new witches who do NOT like me. 2 are old friends, one is an abusive ex, and the other is a pushover. anyway, theyre all getting together tonight and im about 80% sure that theyre going to try to curse me. what scares me is that they dont really understand how to control things, and with that amount of people im afraid theyre going to hurt someone else and not me (like my mother or my dog). i was wondering what


(2/2) you would suggest i do? i have no qualms about cursing, and im ready to pile on as many protection spells and sigils that i can. i just thought i would ask for advice or any resources you would recommend, and how to protect my family and friends if the group’s curse backfires


Hello Darling! You seem to be in an amazingly unfortunate position… But do not worry, I’m here to help! First of all, fuck those assholes. Second of all, here’s everything you can do to show these fuckers not to fuck with you.

Begin by cleansing yourself:

A cleansing bath by @magic-for-the-masses

An incantation for adding a cleansing boost to anything (Do this while pouring the bath ;) by @wicked-fae

A tea to sip whilst in the bath by @honeycoyote

A good guide to cleansing yourself by @thiscrookedcrown

You can also cleanse your home, but I don’t think it’ll be very necessary as long as the curse isn’t cast.

Bind your oppresors:

A spell to suppress, bind, stop, and crush by yours truly (moi)

A kraken’s tentacles binding spell by @salt-like-wine

After binding them, I’d cleanse your space with sage or palo santo, something really simple, just to get the icky energy moving.

Protect yourself and your home:

Fiery wall of protection powder by @opencircle333

Black salt by @rhiannonchristine

Juniper berry protection candle by @the-darkest-of-lights

Apple protection spell by @whitekitchenwitch

Briar rose protection enchantment by @lavenderspells

A personal protection chant by @meskri

An awesome crab alarm spell by @salt-like-wine

I’d first start by making the fiery wall of protection powder and the black salt and mixing them together. Sprinkle this mix around your house to create a perimeter of protection. The crab alarm spell should be cast then. After that I’d start the briar rose enchantment and while that’s brewing I’d cast the apple spell. Then, I’d light the juniper candle for as long as you think you’re in danger. If you feel like your wards are weakening I’d start chanting the personal protection chant.

After all that shit, empower yourself:

An empowerment bottle spell by @earthiebee

This should give you the little boost of power you need to not be completely dead inside at this point. Also, coffee.

If after all that the curse still goes through (which it honestly shouldn’t be able to), here are ways to get rid of a curse:

Black as night curse removal body scrub by @oldmotherredcap

An easy Calcifer curse reversal spell by @thatemeraldkid

Simple curse destruction spell by @witchcraftings

I’d start by casting the calcifer spell first, and then sip the coffee involved while you make the body scrub, and then cast the simple curse destruction spell. Then take a shower and scrub yourself with the curse removal scrub.

And if you’re a little evil, turn the curse back onto the idiots who dare mess with your pristine self:

Blackthorn reversing spell by @thiscrookedcrown

To counter a curse the traditional way by @phoenix-fire-witchcraft

Drown the witch reversal by @thelifeinliminal

You can really use any one of these and they’d work great.

Now go show these asshats that they shouldn’t have messed with you!!

Love,

Mahigan

anonymous asked:

one of my friends reposted your art on instagram. im telling them to ask permission and/or take it down, but theyre saying its their acct and that they can run it how they want and a bunch of people do it anyway so its not a big deal. so i wanted to ask if you allow reposts if credit is given, or if you allow reposts at all? thanks sm (love your art btw!!!)

ah thank you so much for taking my feelings into consideration like that, it means so so much!! i do allow reposts on IG, but they have to directly @ me in the repost;; i have this in my description on IG so i Personally dont require permission, as Long as they @ me in the repost.

i don’t want to be mean to your friend as i understand they probably mean no ill intent, but it is harmful to artists, who work for hours on their pieces and sometimes longer, to have their art reposted in a way that nobody can find the source. and a lot of the time, artists’ hard work is reaped by others for benefit even though all they had to do is save the picture,,. just because a bunch of other people do it doesn’t make it right,, seeing my art show up on my explore page uncredited really hurts my feelings and it isnt hard to just credit the artist. i hope there is any chance they can see this so they can better understand the artist’s perspective! thank you for asking and for this kindness and being so understanding!! :D

anonymous asked:

I just don't understand the people that are blaming this on h instead of just jeff. I get being mad at his silence but for some people to say "he think he's better than the others and he doesnt appreciate his fans" or "he doesnt care about anything but his own ego" doesnt sit well with me especially when we dont know what he can or cant do in terms of his contract

Unfollow these people. Anyone who thinks that of Harry is an asshole. Me being put off by his teams promo strategy and his social media silence is one thing. But thinking these fucking aweful things about one of the most caring, respectful and polite people in the industry???? Hell nah

How I dealt with Aron’s disappearance:

Me: Have you seen him?!? He’s 176cm, Black hair, Brown eyes, eyebrows thicker than Baekhos thighs, kinda looks like a duck and always looks suspicious 

Police officer on the other end of my 911 call: Ma’am we’re sorry but we can only look for people who are actually missing and you know in real life, not a K-pop id–

Me: I DONT THINK YOU UNDERSTAND HE HASN’T UPDATED INSTAGRAM SINCE THE 19TH OF MOTHERFUCKING FEBRUARY AND WE KNOW THIS HOE LOVES HIS SELCAS—