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My dear lgbt+ kids, 

Liking girls and boys is not abnormal. 

Liking girls and boys is not weird. 

Liking girls and boys is not slutty. 

Liking girls and boys is not dirty. 

Liking girls and boys is not rare (and it’s not a “new trend” either!). 

Liking girls and boys is not a “phase that always ends in choosing one over the other”. 

Liking girls and boys is okay! 

Liking girls and boys is normal, it’s natural, just like being straight or gay is normal and natural. 

If you like girls and boys (or wonder if you maybe like girls and boys), no matter which label, if any, you use: I support you. 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Mom   

Becoming Queer

When I was 8 I was obsessed with Disney’s Aladdin. Not just the original movie, but both of it’s poorly made sequels too. I watched them everyday after school while I drew pictures in our basement TV room, simultaneously fixated on their adventures and creating my own on paper.

I remember being absolutely in awe of how handsome Aladdin was, but also of the beauty of Princess Jasmine. They were the most attractive people I could ever imagine existing.

When I was 10 my mom gave me an American Girl book all about puberty and the female body. I only read through the whole thing once, but I left it close to my bed because of the one page I looked at nearly everyday.

It was one of the sections of the book on bodily changes throughout puberty– body hair, periods, etc. At the bottom of was a picture of several girls in front of a mirror, completely naked, to illustrate the different sizes and shapes of breasts. I was absolutely fascinated by these girls: the soft curves of their hips, their round and full breasts, the way their thighs came together. Despite their cartoonish nature, this was the closest I’d come to seeing a grown girl’s body. It was foreign and beautiful to me.

Somehow, I knew this wasn’t normal, so I always hid the book after I was done in case mom asked why I still had it.

When I was 12 I found my self distracted in classroom discussion circles looking at girls chests and lips and thighs. Every time I caught myself I’d immediately look down at my lap and blush. I’d learned by now that it wasn’t normal for girls to look at other girls like that, what it meant to be gay. But I’d eventually find my eyes wandering again, my thoughts focused on how beautiful one of my female classmates was.

I remember walking down the hallway one day mentally reciting “you can’t be a lesbian, you like boys… every girl must look at each other like this.”

When I was 13 one of the girls that I clung to during PE (because they were just as repulsed by physical exertion as I was) told us she was bisexual. This was the first time I’d been told someone could be attracted to boys and girls at the same time. It was confusing and enlightening at the same time.

I remember she put her arms around my shoulders once, during badminton week, her face inches from mine. It made me nervous, but in a way that I’d never felt before. My stomach had dropped, and I didn’t know why. It wasn’t like the fear I’d felt from scary movies and my dad yelling at me, but it wasn’t quite like when I felt exhilarated from riding a rollercoaster or binging on sugar with my friends… it was something in between, and entirely new.

I’d told my mom about it and she immediately wanted to call the principal and make sure the girl didn’t touch me like that again. That scared me, her reacting like that. I started acting repulsed by the girl afterwards, telling my friends she had flirted with me even though I wasn’t entirely sure she had, how weird it was and how weird she was.

Looking back, I probably wish that she had been flirting with me.

When I was 14 I was acquainted with the first queer couple I’d ever met. They were in theatre with me, and I’d been wanting them to start dating for months. At this point I’d stopped acting weirded out by gay people and claiming that bisexual people were “selfish and should just pick a side already.” I openly showed my support for gay people, citing my theatre friends of examples of how “normal” they could be.

I walked in on the couple in the dressing room one rehearsal, shocked to see them making out. I stood in the doorway a moment, then walked out without either of them seeing me.

I thought about their kiss for the whole day, wondering how their relationship worked, what it was like to date someone of the same gender as you. I was dating a boy at the time, my first boyfriend and the one that would create fear and an inability to trust for my entire high school career when he started abusing me. I wondered if this couple’s relationship could be anything like ours.

When I was 15 I joined Tumblr. I’d just moved from Michigan to Alabama, had my heart broken by my abusive boyfriend furthering the pain he was inflicting by cheating on me, and was just beginning to realize that I had an eating disorder with no idea how to feel about it or whether or not I wanted it to go away.Tumblr became a place for me to escape all this into “fandoms” and “fitblrs” and personal posts from strangers I didn’t know but whose lives intrigued me. It was on Tumblr that I first encountered the word “pansexual.” I was 16.

I was intrigued and slightly obsessed with the concept of it, pansexuality. I’d only just begun to learn about transgender and heard rumors of other genders outside of men and women, and being attracted to all of them or being “genderblind” seemed impossible, but incredible. I spent months randomly researching sexual orientation and transgender people before finally adopting the term as my own.

Though, it was only in my head that I claimed pansexuality as my own. I didn’t want to tell anyone… not because I was ashamed so much, I’d forgotten that stigma several years ago, but more because I was afraid that I only wanted to be pansexual, not that I actually was.

After all, if only ever been in relationships with boys at that point. How could I know if I was actually attracted to other genders if I’d never dated them?

When I was 17 I got my first crush on a girl. I didn’t recognize that that was my motive at the time, but I was constantly staring at her in the two classes we shared, payed special attention when she spoke, and the day she announced that she had a Tumblr I made it my goal to be a part of her life.

By winter we were best friends. By summer I’d begun to realize the extent of my feelings for her. The first time I got drunk at 19 I blurted out that I thought about making out with her all the time. I told her how I felt at 20, 3 years of pining later.

She told me she didn’t feel the same.

When I was 18 and in my first year of college, I binge watched all of Laci Green’s videos on YouTube, deciding that it was time I figured out how my body and how sex worked. Through her I found not only the courage to masturbate for the first time, but my first confrontation with “third genders.”

I obsessively studied nonbinary genders, claiming to just be interested in them, giving speeches and presentations on them for class, messaging nonbinary people to ask about their experiences. I came to accept that I identified with this term the summer of my sophomore year of college.

When I was 18 I also came out to my dad. I’d already come out to my close friends, sisters, and mother at this point– all giving me generally positive responses. This was not the case with my dad.

We were fighting in the kitchen, something that had become a regular thing since I’d started expressing my feminist and liberal beliefs. He was making homophobic comments and I guess I must of have been very clearly upset by this, because he asked, “do you have a problem with that?”

To which I responded, “Yeah, because I like girls, dad!”

My outburst led to two and a half years of him telling me that my identity was fake, a scheme to get attention, that all I believed was a result of my being brainwashed at college and my own self delusion. The full force my panic, bipolar disorder, and depression came out during this time. The first time I thought of killing myself was when he threatened to kick me out and cut me off from my sisters if I didn’t stop with this “feminazi LGBT bullshit.”

When I was 19 I started dating one of my best friend from high school– a boy, but pansexual like myself, I felt like this was the first queer relationship I’d been in.

He told me he didn’t want a monogamous relationship, that he identified as polyamorous– which I knew because this was one of the reasons his last relationships hadn’t worked out. Thinking I wouldn’t fall as desperately in love with him as I did, I agreed to an open relationship.

Two months into the relationship and much research and self reflection later, I’d come to accept that I was also polyamorous and I never wanted a monogamous relationship again.

When I was 20 a girl on Tumblr reblogged a set of selfies that I’d posted, exclaiming in the tags about how handsome I was. I took one look at her blog, saw the profile picture of her staring directly at the camera with intense blue eyes and an expression impossible to read, and immediately followed and messaged her my thanks.

We started messaging frequently, talking about such expansive and random things, things I’d never talked about with anyone. Soon we were messaging everyday and I began to realize how hard I was falling. I wanted her, I wanted her so badly.

I hadn’t had a crush on a girl that’d worked out in my favor and I was constantly pining for a girlfriend. I loved my boyfriend, I was still attracted to men and non-feminine genders, but I felt not only “too straight” to be queer at that point, but also like I was missing some sort of affection in my life that only a feminine partner could fill. And I was beginning to wonder if this girl was the person who could finally end my wanting.

The only problem with this girl was that she lived an ocean away from me, in Denmark to be specific. But my feelings became so strong that I couldn’t just be silent anymore: I told her I liked her.

She said she felt the same.

Today, March 2nd, 2017, Hayley Kiyoko released the music video for her single “Sleepover.” It wrecked me.

Hayley has become someone that I not only admire, but someone who makes me feel so validated in who I am. A mixed, Japanese American, queer girl in love with art and comfy clothing. Before Hayley, I’d never felt like there was anyone in the media who was even remotely like me. With great music and a connection I’d never felt in any other celebrity before, I became an avid fan. So naturally, when the video for “Sleepover” was released it only took me minutes to find it on YouTube and watch.

The music video was so much more than I could have anticipated, actualizing all my experiences as a queer feminine person, admiring from a far, living in my head with my fantasies and no hope of ever being able to experience them in reality. With this video I was thrown back into all the years I spent confused and afraid of how I felt and who I was, all the girls I wanted to be with but knew they couldn’t work out, or didn’t work out even when I tried. And as melancholy as these thoughts were at first, it pushed me to the realization:

I love who I’ve become. I love that I’m queer.

And despite how grueling the process of it all has been, I wouldn’t trade all that heartache for a normal life if I could. I wouldn’t give it all up to be the straight girl with no struggles or worries about who she loved as I once believed I would. Even with the pain that it had brought, becoming queer has made me the person I am today.

And I love that person, even if there are still rough edges to be smoothed, I am finally unafraid of who I am.


I always feel really bad when I breed pokemon I won’t use in battle (I just think small grass pokemon are cute..) BUT NOW with leavanny I feel like… if I leave my babies in the same box as him they’ll get aggressively cared for and therefore it’s OK

I’m reading The Lost Hero again and… Wow. There are so many things I had forgotten!

Well, this is how I see Piper in my mind now. Smol kiddo 100% ready for a fight.

She’s not the kind of girl I would befriend in school though. In Brazilian portuguese we have a word that kinda fits her: “Barraqueira”.

 At the beggining of the book she wants to fight every single girl who looks at her and especially every girl who looks at Jason, and this is really annoying. She basically wants to punch everybody to “show the world she’s strong". Of course I understand that, suffering from bullying all her life, it’s natural that she’s always in a defensive mood, but c’mon girl, just calm down. Pls.

 And to make it better, she kinda demonizes everything girly. I don’t blame her, the damn Riordan wrote her this way, but WOW it pisses me off. It starts with her judging Drew by her looks. “Too pretty, makeup, fashion style. Hum, must be evil.” And this judgement is then applied to almost every female character who does not follow the line “100% good”.

 And oh well, Aphrodite and her children. Do you guys remember the Hipnos Cabin? These guys sleep all the time, and do not seem to be good at battles. But still, whose fame is it to be useless in fights? Aphrodite’s children.

 “Ah but Hipnos’ children can make the enemy sleepy, blah blah blah”

 Aphrodite was born from Uranos. She’s probably as powerful as Zeus, or even more, because as we all know, even the gods can’t escape from love.

Love is a powerful thing. Love can be BRUTAL. So that story of Aphrodite’s children being always portrayed as supermodels who only care about their looks and boyfriends and can’t fight a bug is just RIDICULOUS

Sorry about it, is just something that really bothers me.


tfw your prediction is extremely off but hey


#i’m sorry #what was that?? #i can’t hear you over the sound of their eye fucking

if skam was an america show:

  • eva would the typical main character who falls in love with the assole of the main guy

  • vilde would be the rich and annoying girl, cheerleader with a stupid gang of girls who bullies other girls

  • noora would be the normal girl who is new in the school and tries to make new friends

  • chris would be the girl who suffers bullying from the cheerleaders and the popular dudes

  • sana??? she wouldn’t even exist in an american show cos of reasons

  • william would be the typical asshole and stupid main guy who plays basket and soccer

  • isak would be the boy who is always suffering bullying from the basket team
  • the rest of the character probably would be just assholes and bitches 

Female / INTJ / Leo / Hufflepuff / Lesbian

mighty-poffertjes  asked:

Since Kazakhstan is a Muslim majority country, do you see Otabek being a Muslim?

Oh, you hit a jackpot with this question. In my opinion this is one of the most interesting things in Kazakh culture.

In short – yes and no, not really.

There’s a 99% chance that Otabek would be labeled Muslim BUT being Muslim in Kazakhstan comes with different stages of dedication. Otabek would surely be a “casual” Muslim. Meaning he would only be Muslim technically (would have gone through the rite in early childhood), would maybe share some beliefs and participate as one in some events/rites on occasion (such as major Muslim holidays or funerals) and that’s about it. 

For those who are curious about details, welcome under the cut:

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So….I’m not doing very good at the moment. To be honest, I’m  really really bad. I could cry for days and still find something to cry over even more. I could just stay in bed all week and watch my dreams and goals pass away but well…there’s this one girl that always cheers me up and gives me strength and faith in such a beautiful way…

Let me explain to you why :

She’s a normal teenage girl….maybe slightly clumsier than other girls :’)

…..she falls in love just like other girls do…

….she has the same amazing abilities as I do…

…but she’s careful…

…and shows love to her friends in a ridiculous but beautiful way…

….she’s an idiot and can’t handle compliments…

…..but on the inside she knows what true beauty really means…

….and eventually find out how precious she really is…

..and eventhough sometimes she doesn’t know her place in this world…

…she’s hopeful…

..she still struggles with her identity from time to time…

….and sometimes the road gets though….

…..and she get’s scared…

….strength and faith seem to leave her…

…..and she doesn’t know how to go on without her loved one’s beside her..

….and everything seems lost and hopeless…

…but in the end…

…we all know she won’t let us down…

….she’ll keep up the fight…

…for our sake!

Shining a light on everyone!

And…no one,literally no one….

…can imagine how HAPPY and STRONG she makes me feel.

Usagi Tsukino - Sailor Moon.



“Sometimes we have love and sometimes we lose love, sometimes love can hurt terribly like a deep wound. In our world we have lots of ups and downs, pleasures and pain but thats life and we learn to accept the bad with the good, without the bad times we wouldn’t appreciate the good times”


@hqtbells @ashleybenzoxoxo @theeshaymitchell Fuck you bitches for leaving me out of the hang and not supporting me on social media for the entire world to see. How dare.

P.S. @whiteboyharding you are so super cute.

A/N: This is my first actual smut so I hope this is okay! Im sorry it took so long to post it 😂
Request 9-

Every time I saw her my heart skipped a beat. She was absolutely beautiful and I was proud to call her my girlfriend.  We had been together for a year and I had recently convinced her to move in with Phil and I.

It was mid winter and so far today the snow hadn’t stopped. She loved the snow, when she saw the first flake she ran upto the window like children do in movies.

We were now sat together on the sofa, both of us wearing sweat pants, she was wearing my ‘potato sack’ jumper while I was wearing my eclipse shirt. I suggested that we should spend the day wrapped up in blankets watching random film, (y/n) agreed.

The second movie had just started and (y/n) was getting the fourth round of coffees.
“Love! The films starting” I shouted from my seat. It didn’t usually take this long to make coffee. There was no reply to my call so I stood up pausing the film, and went to find her.

Pushing the kitchen door open, the sweet aroma of coffee took over my sences. I looked around the room, searchig for (y/n). She wasn’t there.  Turning on my heal I called her name again downstairs. When I had no reply, I went down to the bathroom.

“(Y/n)? Are you in there” I asked through the door. I could hear a quiet sniffling coming from the otherside.“(y/n) are you okay?” I asked again. She didn’t reply again, therewas only small noises.
“I’m gonna come in” I informed her looking at the door handle. Luckily for me it wasn’t locked.

The first thing I saw when I entered the room was (y/n) curled up in a ball next to the sink. I rushed over and sat next to her, pulling her into a hug.

“What’s wrong love?” I asked, confused as to why my gorgeous girlfriend was crying. She leaned back, breaking the hug and looked down at the floor.
“Lo-look a-at me” She cried into the sleeve of my sweater. “I’m- I’m nothing” she continued. “Th-this is ha-hangi-hanging off m-me” she was playing with the neck of the sweater, showing how lose it was. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I pushed a strand of her curly (y/c/h) behind her ear so I could see her eyes.

“(Y/n), listen. That sweater is huge on me, there is no need to be upset that its baggy. Thats the style of it.” I explained looking deep into her ocean blue eyes.
“I-it’s not j-just th-that though” she whispered before letting tears fall from her eyes. “I’m al-almost a-as tall as yo-you Dan, th-that’s not nor-normal for a-a girl. All t-the other gir-girls are sh-shorter ah-and prettier th-than me” she finished her sentence the tears falling faster and faster.

I reached for her arm and gently pulled it up to my mouth. I began pecking small gentle kisses up her arm, upto her neck where I stopped and looked into her eyes. The tears weren’t flowing anymore. Her lips curled into a small smile when I repeated my actions on the other arm.

I stopped at her neck again and placed my hand below her ear. “(Y/n)” I whispered, pushing her hair behind her ear again “you are beautiful, no matter how tall you are” I continued placing a kiss on her forehead. “I love your height, it’s perfect for cuddles and hugs. I can rest my head on your shoulder and you can do the same” I explained, kissing her nose. “I love you, no matter if you’re tall or short, no matter if you’re skinny not curvy”

I leaned in and connected us in a slow, gentle kiss. I could feel her smiling through the kiss as she bought her hand to the back of my neck.

Slowly, the kiss became more heated as tonges met with passion. My hand slid down to the bottom of her sweater and pulled at it slightly. She pulled back and pushed my hand away.
“Dan” she breathed “we, we can’t, not, not here” she spoke quietly, playing with the ends of her hair.

I stood to my feet and reached down, offering her my hand. She took it and stood with me. Smiling and looking into her eyes I had an idea. Before she could register what was happening, I had bent down and picked her up bridal style. She giggled as I placed a kiss on her temple.

She continued giggling until I reached our shared bedroom. Withing minutes of sitting on the edge of the bed, most of our clothes were on the floor. A small moan escaped her lips as she flushed red.  I smiled at the noise as I ran my hands down to her the waistband of her panties.

I ran my hand in between her thighs, feeling the wetness that was growing. I moaned as I oushed her panties to the side and ran my finger alog her slit. “Daaaan” she at the feeling. I looked into her eyes as i sunk my finger into her, pumping in and out. She moaned again as I added another finger.

After a while I removed both fingers and bought them upto my lips, sucking her wetness off them. I leaned over to the bedside table and retrieved a small silver packet as she slid her panties off.

She sat forward and pulled my Calvin Kleins down to my ankles allowing me to roll on the condom. I brushed my tip against her entrance as we fell back onto the bed. We were both moaning messes as she announced she was near her orgasm.

I reached down between our bodies and used my thumb to rub circles on her clit, making her scream my name as she reached her high. Mine followed seconds later.

We rode out our highs and after I pulled out and removed the condom, tying it and placing it in the bin.

I crawled back next to her on the bed and wrapped my arm around her. She was sleeping gently on her side. I placed my chin on her shoulder and whispered in to her ear
“See, perfect for cuddling”