or-so-I-tell-myself

anonymous asked:

Hello! This isn't a request but I have a little something to ask you. In one of your last mtl, you said that Jin is traditional when it comes to relationship so it'd be hard for him to date a guy except if his feelings are rly strong.. as a lgbt+ jin stan it kinda rubs me the wrong way bc by traditional I feel like you're saying that for Jin, a 'normal', a 'right' relationship is between a man and a woman only, which is kinda homophobic? So, what did you mean by 'traditional'?

Hi ^-^ that is a valid point, but I don’t think that Jin would be homophobic. By “traditional” I just meant that I think the first thing to pop into his mind when he thinks about his future s/o would be a wife, two kids, white picket fence, etc. THAT kind of traditional. And by saying that his feelings on it would change, I just meant that if he loved you (or his male s/o) enough, the image that surfaced in his mind would be that male in the place of the “wife” from before. Does that make sense? Like, I don’t think he’s homophobic, but I don’t think he’s homosexual. Possibly bisexual but leaning more towards females? Of course this is all my opinion but that’s just how I see it and I hope that makes sense and doesn’t seem offensive in any way~

EDIT:: (just saw your second ask) Also you totally didn’t sound rude at all~ but thank you for sending that message to let me know that you weren’t trying to be ^-^ it lets me know that you were just genuinely wondering and I’m glad you pointed it out to me

anonymous asked:

"i hurt myself harder to make the empty stop" oh

wish i could go back & tell myself that that wouldn’t help, u know? wish i could go back & tell myself so many things, but all of those things come down to: please be gentle with yourself, please be soft to yourself, please be as kind to yourself as you are with others -

i hope ur okay, my sunshine. look after yourself for me.

i remember when i was in middle school and me and my friends would tell people that you could buy ninja babies on ebay like actual living babies that were also trained to be ninjas and i started telling this so often that i truly started to believe it myself

idk man the thing that sucks about not being really pretty is that no matter what you tell yourself and what your friends might say, you sort of always know that you’re just not. and i’m not talking about being stubborn and fishing for compliments, it’s just knowing that you’re not conventionally attractive, that people on the street won’t double-take when you pass by them, that people won’t be flustered trying to talk to you. and i know looks aren’t everything but damn it sure feels like it when you aren’t absolutely gorgeous

You haven’t called in two weeks

That’s what I keep repeating to myself
That you haven’t called in two weeks
so when I go to a restaurant

And know what you’d want to order
or when I see something in a window
that I know you’d want to wear
I tell myself
that you haven’t fucking called so it’s time
to start forgetting what you like from places that you’re never going to be with me

So when I laugh a little too loud at parties

With a different boy hanging from my fingers
that doesn’t smile the same way

Or delete your number in front of my friends

as if I wouldn’t get that rush to my heart
if you ever called again

Know that it’s all for you and in spite of you

Because you haven’t fucking called


And I don’t really want to remember
the sound of your voice
or the way your laugh sounds
when it’s right next to my ear

because I know I won’t hear it
not anymore
not in person

not even over the phone

—  you promised you would

Coffee addicted Agent Anders is pretty done with life it seems…
I’m head over heels in love with ilyahna’s fic about Hawke and Anders as FBI agents (”All that Remains” on AO3) so go read it!

(Okay now I should actually be drawing both him and Hawke in fashionable suits  but since I’ve recently lost control over my life I hope this suffices as a small filler until I get actual work done orz)

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not pictured: the delightful aftermath wherein I returned to my desk to find that the fucker had dISAPPEARED WHERE THE FUCK IS IT THIS HAPPENED LIKE 10 MINUTES AGO AND I AM VERY MUCH ON EDGE

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“https://t.co/NwZPZQ63un VIDEO OF TAYLOR LEAVING @AnotherLoveAu YESTERDAY EVENING 😃👸🇦🇺 #TaylorInAustralia”

I dont think anyone has posted this video yet? The gist: (1)Apparently taylor was googling where to shop and ended up at this store (called “Another Love”) where she shopped after-hours & met one fan. (2) The story also mentions (as we’ve heard) that Tom plans to celebrate his emmy nom this weekend….

anonymous asked:

Mr. Outsider, I am struggling with my thoughts;here one moment and gone the next. There are so many deadlines and not enough inspiration for the pieces assigned. Would you happen to have any suggestions on how to give those pieces quality?

I find preparation is key, but not to the point of it being detrimental to the more organic creative process.  But when you have a clear plan in place, things tend to move along smoother and with less wasted time.  

As for keeping quality, give yourself opportunity to step away from your projects, clear your mind of it for a moment and then regroup.  It will keep your eye fresher for details you may otherwise miss.

“Feminism and Fandom” lecture outfit. Really hoping someone asks what it means. “It means Bad Ass Mother Fucker. Yep. And that actually brings up two important facets of our question: first off, it represents interpretive community. Those of us who know what it means share a connection, a moment of insider communication, that binds us. But it’s also potentially sexist, or at least masculinist. Do fangirls bond over masculinity? Is that really feminist?”

Crudity can be soooo thought-provoking…