Hello! This isn't a request but I have a little something to ask you. In one of your last mtl, you said that Jin is traditional when it comes to relationship so it'd be hard for him to date a guy except if his feelings are rly strong.. as a lgbt+ jin stan it kinda rubs me the wrong way bc by traditional I feel like you're saying that for Jin, a 'normal', a 'right' relationship is between a man and a woman only, which is kinda homophobic? So, what did you mean by 'traditional'?
Hi ^-^ that is a valid point, but I don’t think that Jin would be homophobic. By “traditional” I just meant that I think the first thing to pop into his mind when he thinks about his future s/o would be a wife, two kids, white picket fence, etc. THAT kind of traditional. And by saying that his feelings on it would change, I just meant that if he loved you (or his male s/o) enough, the image that surfaced in his mind would be that male in the place of the “wife” from before. Does that make sense? Like, I don’t think he’s homophobic, but I don’t think he’s homosexual. Possibly bisexual but leaning more towards females? Of course this is all my opinion but that’s just how I see it and I hope that makes sense and doesn’t seem offensive in any way~
EDIT:: (just saw your second ask) Also you totally didn’t sound rude at all~ but thank you for sending that message to let me know that you weren’t trying to be ^-^ it lets me know that you were just genuinely wondering and I’m glad you pointed it out to me