It feels a bit strange to call myself asexual when I'm not even at the consent age. I'm kinda scared that when I do get there, I'll end up as something else and this community is already getting enough shit, you don't need "fakes" around.
Mm, I don’t think it’s strange. If you do, you don’t need to use any label that makes you uncomfortable or unsafe. My first “oh I’m ace” moment in retrospect was when I was 13. My friend told a story where hers was at age 5. Sometimes your environment gives hints or you outright know before the legal age of behavior.
Will you change later? Maybe. I have absolutely no problems with people re-labeling when they either find a better label or realize that’s simply not what they feel anymore. I think the conversation is always aces will change to different labels. Or bi people will change to different labels. In reality, all groups have a fraction that changes labels. It’s not fake. It’s as natural as the tides.
I think “you’re too young to know” creates a dichotomy the adds friction and hate to every identity queer identity. People learn things at different times in their life. You know when you know. And sometimes even facts change.