or so people in this situation know they have every right to get out of it

Except for the few, adorable moments he dedicated to kids, he walked that red carpet as if there was fire burning under his feet. Of all people, he had Simon Jones attached to his hip the entire time and that was only part of the horrible company he had to endure throughout the evening. And yet no Danielle, who’d be always so very willing, alongside him. Beautiful, but tense, dedicated to nicest fans but mostly detached, he might have nothing to promote but a dubious girl band project coming up and yet he could have made a good use of such a fitting opportunity to bask a bit in the spotlight, get a little more attention, spread his enthusiasm about his personal and professional moves. Instead he ran faster than Forrest Gump, chose not to discuss anything of what is publicly associated with him at the moment. Why? Is he as private and shy as Danielle shielding the wrong side of her face from the mean mean paps? 

One day it’ll end, but today isn’t obviously that day. And calling that a happy, free, willing Louis is like attending a Donald Trump convention and judging him a wise, competent, upright person.

jimon week day 2   //   valentine’s day

i had another idea so here have some more headcanons (i wrote these at 3am but had to wait until this morning to format them @tumblr mobile why)
again, i’m not a writer…pls forgive me i know these are bad i tried okay

  • so jace normally spends the day with alec and izzy on valentine’s (bc family time is important okay)
  • and simon and clary usually hang out too even though it got awkward when everyone assumed they were dating (just let clary be a lesbian okay jeez)
  • but alec and magnus are obvs off doing something together this year and clary and izzy are busy being adorable together
  • so jace and simon agree to chill together bc why the heck not
  • anywho they decide to go sightseeing (gotta do something on your day off right) and just wander around brooklyn together
  • jace struggles not to get caught staring at simon
  • people keep assuming they’re dating and it gets rly annoying to keep having to explain the situation every time so in the end they just pretend they are
  • they keep trying to come up with more and more ridiculous lies of how they met / got together without the person getting suspicious
  • jace seems to be better at it
  • simon isn’t a very good liar (also jace is rly pretty and he keeps getting distracted)
  • anyway izzy and clary are in the same area and see jace and simon holding hands while they’re telling one of their stories
  • so obvs they’re rly confused and happy and ‘why didn’t you tell us sooner!!’ for jace&simon bc everyone knew they liked each other
  • also they have the role of embarrassing sibling/childhood friend so immediately try to tell jace and simon about the other one pining for an embarrassing amount of time
  • simon by this point is p much on fire with embarrassment
  • he’s ready to just start running and hide somewhere far away for the rest of his life
  • jace is kind of dumbstruck like cute boy??????? likes me back??????????????
  • simon is yet to process this fact due to being wholly consumed with embarrassment
  • izzy and clary notice that something is Not Quite Right and then realise that these idiots were not holding hands and sightseeing on valentine’s day bc they’re dating but instead bc they’re idiots (like I love them but they’re so silly)
  • so they just awkwardly back away (what other solution is there to this) and hope that this will end well and they won’t need to do any damage control
  • simon starts apologising and saying he’s made it weird by spending valentine’s day with his unrequited crush (he’s rly stressed) he didn’t want to take advantage of his&jace’s friendship ahhhh
  • jace is just looking at him like ‘unrequited??????? tf??????? did you not hear what was just said about me pining after you for literal months’
  • simon just freezes (he struggles to process these things he is pure anxiety okay)
  • and then he realises
  • on their next valentine’s day they are unanimously voted #1 sickly sweet couple by their friends (and they love it)

PSA: Don’t ‘ship’ idols and sexualise every thing two males do together if you don’t actually support the LGBTQ+ community. Don’t. You can’t have it both ways, you can’t use our sexuality as a means of entertainment and to get yourself off, but then turn round and not care about REAL people in these situations.

The amount of bullshit I’ve seen excusing what Jaebum said on Celebrity Bromance is fucking ridiculous. Here’s some words from an Actual LGBT Person: It was homophobic. There’s no misconstruing or people overreacting. Saying you would beat someone up for wanting to take a guy out somewhere is homophobic. I don’t care if he was nervous or it was a joke or you show me a picture of him holding hands with a guy once. It. Was. Homophobic.

If you excuse people’s comments as not serious or just jokes instead of actually calling people out just because you like them as singers, you are being homophobic too. Listen to actual LGBTQ+ people who are telling you this was wrong of him to say instead of taking it as just a part of his personality or his culture because you don’t want ‘drama’. There are real fans who must feel fucking heartbroken at someone they love using threatening language about LGBTQ+ people. It’s not people overreacting. It’s people hearing an idol say something that we hear time and time again out of the mouths of homphobes, and we have every right in the world to be upset and call him out.

If you shrug it off or actively defend him, you don’t support LGBTQ+ people and you can unfollow me right now, and take your shitty attitude and your love of fanfic with you. 

❤️💖

finally getting into that mindset where i truly believe i am a boss ass bitch and any guy that can’t see that and that aren’t willingly to stick around to see what i truly have to offer- aren’t worth my time.
so my message to you all is, know your worth. because if someone is bringing you down and making you stress and worry in the worse ways, there is someone out there better for you eventually. either that be platonic or romantic, friendship etc.
never let anyone invalidate you!
this goes for all genders, all situations- if someone isn’t treating you right, you have every right to leave that toxic situation.
put yourself first. love yourself. find inner peace within yourself by being single before you get into a relationship. believe in yourself and constantly surround yourself with positive vibes and loving people. if you ever need anything, i’m here for all of you x

much love,

Jenna.❤️

squatsandsci-fi replied to your post: What’s happening with the shaytards??

I only vaguely know about those guys but was being nosy after you posted about them and watched their latest vid and the comments are out of control. I hate how much people think people in the spotlight owe them/think they can comment on their lives (esp when we see so little of what actually goes on). The whole situation is so crazy

100% girl. And i actually truly think of all social media celebrities that the line is the potentially crossed with Youtubers the most - it seems as if someone daily vlogs viewers really think they have complete access to every single emotion and moment that person has which is so untrue especially considering the creator gets to self edit. 

My comments in this instance are more in shock in this the juxtaposition between what was put online previously and what is the reality right now. It’s the starkest I’ve seen to date. This is going to become a landmark case in the absolute toxicity that can fester in the relationship between creator and viewer. 

anonymous asked:

He stopped replying cause his ignorant and clearly hasn't been paying attention to the show. Bellamy made the right choice they always find another way anyways you see it in every season. One plan goes wrong and they end up finding another way.

Yeah exactly. His answers kept getting stupider by the second. And you know what, anon? If Clarke and Bellamy had switched places and Clarke was the one who made that decision instead, EG and all the haters that are shitting on Bellamy would have praised the shit out of Clarke and called her compassionate and smart. It would have been hailed as the best possible solution for a very difficult situation. Poor Clarke.

But since it’s Bellamy that made the decision, it’s suddenly A Very Bad Decision. I wish people weren’t so fucking transparent. I’m so tired.

the thing is, i know people are going to get really antsy about how jemma’s turned out after the events of the midseason finale, and i’m actually really interested in how they’re going to keep going with this

jemma, the wide-eyed, naive little science princess who saw everything as an opportunity, who wanted to experiment on, and understand, and revel in the majesty and wonder of new found science is so trapped in grief that she can’t see past the horror and devastation that all of that brings with it.

how many good things associated with the word “alien” or “powers” have happened? how many bad? in the end, jemma’s lashing out, and it’s the first time that she’s actually been allowed to do that. and it’s raw, and it’s painful, but it’s real.

the fact is that everyone’s expressing their grief in different ways. for jemma, it’s shutting down every opportunity she once saw and replacing it with facts. alien = bad. that’s what she’s seen, that’s what she’s understood, that’s what she’s dealing with.

and how much is she dealing with. a hell of a lot. so, in the end, she’s going against what she’s known all these years for a new approach, because christ, everything she’s done before this has lead to pain and misery. why the hell not?

i’m so interested to see where they’re going to take this. with fitz almost taking over her role as “healer” (at least for skye, and if not healer then confidante), whilst she takes over that pessimistic “i can’t deal with change” standpoint. is fitz going to make her come to her senses, or is she going to stick with what she knows? or are things going to go even more haywire?

WHO KNOWS? THAT’S THE FUN OF IT, RIGHT?

I have a lot of feelings (about 4x13)

I’m screaming.

This episode.

I’m so tired.

Very subtle about the “people never change,” Arrow writers, very subtle. (A+ to Charlotte Ross for her immediate change in attitude, glorious.) 

Here we have Oliver desperately trying to change, clinging to the idea that he’s changed, that he’s better (with every fucking person pointing it out to him), because Oliver is the kind of person who commits. He’s gonna be good, he’s gonna do better, so that’s who he is… except for, you know, one giant ass lie, which I’m sure he’s justifying by putting the blame at Samantha’s feet. (I get that, I get that, he feels out of control and he doesn’t know how to handle it, doesn’t understand his rights or the situation, whatever - but it’s still not the man he’s purporting himself to be right now.) 

Then here comes Noah Kuttler, lying left and right, and basically confirming that people never change, which is especially heartbreaking because Felicity wanted to believe him. (I have so many issues of my own that I’m finding myself thinking, ‘What if he’s telling the truth?’ I don’t know if that’s a bleeding heart or me just reverting. But… it does lead me to wonder if they’ll use him as a stepping stone to bringing the idea of people can change to close at the end of the season, as a way to help close the gap between Olicity… Huh.)

Oliver’s blind naive attitude when it comes to Malcolm is exhausting. He’s trying to find the better path, but in doing so, he’s turning a blind eye to the very real danger in front of him, and that’s not counting Malcolm unveiling his giant-ass lie, it’s counting the fact that he’s putting innocent people in danger: his son, and his mother. I need a life lesson this season for Oliver to realize there is a balance, something Diggle touched on - you can’t be all bad, just like you can’t be all good. Malcolm needs to go. (And what makes it harder for me is that I get why he didn’t want to, I see what he’s doing, but it’s all projection of his own fears, he’s applying his own fears and insecurities on everyone around him and he’s trying to find ways around them, because part of him knows that he’s messing up, that he’s not the person he’s claiming, and so he’s trying to save everyone else except for his damn self, as usual, and unfortunately that’s leading him right down the path of destruction. Oh Oliver.)

(And are they thinking because the League is disbanded that the marriage is officially null and void now? Because that lack of resolution after wielding it like a weapon in and of itself tonight nearly made my eyes roll out of my head.)

Lies, lies everywhere, holy fuck, the lies. This entire damn show is built on lies and they are doing it justice.

Still…

There were so many lovely Olicity moments tonight, so many, the kind that give me hope that this shit will hit the fan and splatter, but that it won’t irrevocably break everything…

I absolutely screamed when Oliver said, “Will you marry me?” 

(Mostly because I knew exactly what Malcolm was doing, and I was thinking, ‘This is your time, Oliver, you better treasure this moment because this won’t be lasting.’)

(Look at the differences between them, oh my god, this is high heaven to my shipper heart and I’m so mad at Oliver, because he’ll be taking this away from me.)

Treasure her, Oliver, because you can’t lead two separate lives - did the first three seasons of Arrow teach you nothing? - and expect her to understand.

It’s just like this damn hug…

A beautiful moment, but it’s tainted because of this huge life-altering thing he’s keeping from her.

Oh Oliver, please don’t make me sit through a scene where Felicity tells you that you haven’t changed, that you’ll never change, because I will cry for 23 years and just live in a wine bottle.

Whew.

Okay, I feel better.

I did enjoy this episode, quite a bit. I didn’t like some things (I can see the theme, and I can begrudgingly accept it, they were building on with only Oliver beating Malcolm - which was hot as fuck, I love that they are remembering he’s a badass and sexy as hell fighter, please beat up bad guys forever, Oliver - but if you think I’ll believe that Nyssa couldn’t beat Malcolm’s ass, you’re wrong), and I liked a lot of other things (Laurel was on-point tonight, when she, Diggle and Oliver stood between Malcolm and Nyssa, that was gorgeous; Felicity is always amazing, but her scenes with her dad were heartbreaking and painful and so perfect that I don’t want to watch them again; Diggle is the rock, he will always be the rock, nobody touch Diggle…).

I do think they are doing a great job building up the tension around William and Oliver keeping it from everyone, I really do. They’re dropping foundation blocks left and right for why Felicity will not be okay with this, as well she shouldn’t be, because one, that’s a huge lie, a huge lie like that is never okay, not ever, we shouldn’t accept it just like Felicity shouldn’t accept it, and two, it’s another character growth moment for Oliver and this show is, after all, Arrow. So when the lie surfaces, and he’s faced with losing his entire world (both Felicity and William, because I’m pretty sure Samantha won’t be pleased when this hits the news circuits), he better grow, and learn, and change - become the man he’s so desperate to be by accepting his lies, accepting the penance and working on the things about himself that he doesn’t like. Like fucking lying.

So, next week… are we thinking they save the building and end the episode with Oliver debating with Ruvé Adams, only to have her drop the bomb about illegitimate children and if Oliver Queen can’t take care of his own child, then how can he take care of Star City?

Dear god.

The pain is starting. I love it, but I hate it.