or is that an exclusive thing

Different Types of Hufflepuffs
  • The Soldier: the epitome of "Yes, we can" always defying odds, Eye of the Tiger playing in the background
  • The Sunflower: Friends with everyone, never gossips, some bitter people don't like them because "no one is ACTUALLY that nice" yes they are
  • The Punk: wears exclusively leather, probably has hair dyed a crazy color, chokers are a must, does not put up with people's shit
  • The Dork: blushing 80% of the time, loves the little things in life, lives for sweater vests
  • The Guardian: will fight anyone who talks shit about friends, probably has a hit list
  • The Designated Driver: always taking care of friends, gets called "Mom" or "Dad" a lot, low key loves it
  • The Golden Child: perfection™ incarnate, cannot do anything wrong, probably was on the LIFE cereal boxes as a kid
  • The Sass Master: has a snarky comeback for everything normally followed by a chorus of "yassss queen", lives life with a smirk or cocked eye brow

anonymous asked:

CMS is bisexual, not gay. #stopbierasure #whyisthisstillhappening???

Okay.

1. You don’t know anything about his sexuality for a fact any more than I or anyone else does.
2. The only thing I said was we are underestimating how gay he is.
3. That statement does not contradict his being bisexual.
4. Liking men and going to gay bars is not mutually exclusive with being bisexual.
5. You’re coming at me for asserting that he likes men when the general trend is to insist that he is straight and erase his queerness altogether, would you prefer that or would you rather I be stating that he is gayer than people assume?
6. I never made any definitive claims regarding his sexuality, but you have. So if Cory is gay, or pansexual, or something else, and you are here insisting that he’s bisexual, you’re the one erasing his sexuality, not me.
7. I can’t erase his bisexuality if he isn’t confirmed to be bisexual. You’re making a leap of logic and assuming it’s a fact. 

Finally, Cory being bisexual vs gay vs what-the-fuck-ever is a real life issue, not one that we should be arguing over in terms of which is more ~diverse~ and who’s erasing who. The kid might be ace for all we know, we have no idea what his sexual history is or who specifically he is attracted to in that way and that’s his business! 

Let’s be honest, here. Anything is preferable to people insisting he isn’t some type of queer. I’m on your side here, man. You’re mad at the wrong people.

TL;DR You don’t know him and I don’t know him but you’re the only one here making claims like you do, and purposefully misinterpreting what I said to be erasure when your real issue should be on the other end of the spectrum with people insisting he is straight. Good day.

anonymous asked:

The stereotype is that fours are over-sensitive, emotional whiny crybabies, but I also see a lot of people say they can be extremely aggressive? These two traits seem to be mutually exclusive, but the stereotypes exist. Why? And do you have an example about why/how a 4 might be aggressive?

Well here’s the thing. Every enneatype is either phobic or counterphobic in expression– some people disagree on what numbers are which, but this is my opinion:

Cp: 1348
P: 2579
Both: six

Since six is ruled by anxiety and people deal with anxiety by either avoiding it or confronting it, that’s why the expression of six is either p or cp.

That said, obviously I think fours are counterphobic for one main reason: they are not afraid of their emotions. They confront them and integrate them into their self-definition and self-understanding.

They don’t avoid their emotions– if they do, they aren’t a four (though fours CAN BE ashamed of them). Because fours value and integrate their emotions into their identity, this includes negative and “aggressive”, otherwise belligerent ones. And they’re not afraid to express any emotions, including those. Or at least a properly developed four isn’t– some SO or sx dom fours may try (and fail) to curtail their emotional expression around certain people/people in general. However, they still confront them.

Fours may have difficulty accepting these emotions, but not looking them in the eye. Because of all this, fours are cp both theoretically and in expression.

They are the artists, poets, inspirational speakers, and great visionaries of our time when they channel their deep #complex emotional life. This even includes four fixes, to a lesser extent. And as we know of all artists, poets, and world movers, they will stand for and express something– with fours, it’s how they feel, be it positive or negative.

All cp types/cp ruled types (2 or more cp fixes) are world shakers in their own way. It’s primarily because we can very easily stand for and fight for something, whatever it is, with minimal fear to the consequence. For ones, it’s their moral vision, their ideal utopia, or their “law”. For eights, it’s their lust for life, continual self improvement, and eventually, desire to share their strength with others. for threes, their insatiable ambition to better advance themselves, which has both negative and positive effects on others. And fours, who, when well developed, share their feelings and highly value their self expression above all, and are capable of great creative and inspirational works when they get over any emotional shame they have.

Like this post if and comment whether you would like to be a main/exclusive. Mains/Exclusives have their threads prioritized and replied to quickest. Just note a few things:

  • We need to have an active thread, or be willing to plot one upon liking this post.
  • I will not become exclusives with someone if I already rp with a duplicate of their muse. I won’t become ship exclusive with you if I already ship with another one of the same muse. This is because I refuse to cut out people unnecessarily.
  • Please be willing to have me throw ideas at you, as I am considering you a close rp partner by doing this.
  • I will only choose up to two of the same muse. This is for the sake of my sanity, so I don’t get overwhelmed or confused.
  • You will be added on a page in my blog, where it will be publicly said that you are a main/exclusive
  • If you want to become exclusive/ship exclusive, I expect the same in return
  • I HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO, IF I DON’T WANT TO DO THIS WITH YOU!!!

Our struggle is against authorities, against the power of this dark world. Our government, the state, is the enemy. 

This psychopath, this war-machine, this serial killer, is no longer nuancing things to chill out liberals. He’s not covering up the fact that nearly 90% of those killed in drone strikes were innocent with a quotable speech and an exclusive photo op. He’s still lying, yes, but blatantly lying. But he’s also openly sharing his plans to kill, steal, and destroy. And he intends on doing every bit of it.

This is the state. And, really, this has always been the state.

The state was always the enemy. The state has always had a monopoly on violence. The state has always backed and institutionalized oppression. The state has always waged wars grounded on and led by racism and greed. The state has always ruined and destroyed lives, innocent lives. The state has always meant to be opposed, always meant to be smashed.

The state is not for the people, and we need to stop acting like the state is a person. The state is not a creature but an ungodly force, a vehicle for Satan. And really, there’s no such thing as violence against the state.

And if you have ever read the Book of Revelation, you’d know that state has an expiration date, and we’re getting closer and closer. If you keep reading, too, Jesus wins and the Kingdom of God will one day be fully realized on earth. 

Are we ready to reject the violent authorities of this world and rely on Christ again as our King, our Shepherd, our Friend? I hate to say this, but the truth is that Judgment Day is coming. I don’t know what this will look like, or how it will go down exactly, but I want to be able to face Christ and say that I served him, that I was loyal to his Kingdom. I want to be able to say that I fought empire with all that I was, and if I can’t do that, I will be admitting to have supported empire and siding with the anti-Christ. We are all complicit when our very existence is so deeply tied to empire, and that’s something we have to face and reflect on regularly. But even as we are being exorcized and healed, we need to offer this gift to the world. 

Church, it’s time to live like the Kingdom of God is real, like this is our Good News. It’s time to move-in together and live our lives centered on building and extending God’s kingdom, our unkingdom. We need to reject the false authorities of this world and look to Christ to build the Kingdom in the midst of empire. We need to build a new world as Satan’s collapses around us. We need to provide for one another, and we need to offer liberation to all those around us. We need prophetic civil disobedience and the active creation of a new kind of society. We need to be the Church again.

I’VE BEEN TAGGED

like a marine creature, presumably for study

Rules: Answer the questions and tag 9 people you want to get to know better. (tagged by @gurguliare) (i keep forgetting to tell you that nick refers to you almost exclusively as “goggle”, so now you can consider yourself informed)

How old are you? 29, going on Forest Hag

Current Job? spoonie parasite; itinerant reader of manuscripts; technically, words

What are you talented at? Horking up mucus; inappropriate analogies; asking questions.

What is a big goal you are working towards (or have already achieved)? Make leg work. Leg, make go? Leg, do thing! Also, I really want to finish another manuscript this year. We mostly finished one last year, but got bogged down by the fact that we knew what was wrong with it + the sick person depression spiral. Have recently dragged self kicking and screaming back into the writing process with the carrot of New Canon, bringing the number of ongoing projects up to three.

What’s your aesthetic? Judging by the posts people send me, body horror monsters, awkward shadows, owls, vultures, and stupid, stupid cats.

Do you collect anything? Tasteless tchotchke. SUBLIME TCHOTCHKE. Those tacky historical action figures (see: Marie Antoinette with head-popping action). Cute shadow-type plushes (a Kingdom Hearts Heartless; No Face/Kaonashi from Spirited Away). 

A topic you always talk about? My… my cat. THE INTERNET by way of my thesis (see: homophily, “bubble effect”, intra-community aggression) (i’m the worst!). That time a rooster took a chunk out of my shin.

Pet peeve? Usually the spots where language and meaning don’t perfectly align; these make me argumentative in the stupidest way. “I don’t understand why X-people do Y-thing,” says friend. “YES YOU DO,” screams my brain, “YOU DO. YOU’RE JUST IRRITATED SO YOU’RE PRETENDING IT’S IRRATIONAL. JUST SAY IT MAKES YOU MAD. FUCK.” Anyway, I don’t generally tell people I’m feeling this (unless they’re Nick), but if I look constipated, that might be why.

Good advice? Based on what I actually say on a regular basis: “Shit or get off the bucket.” Less broadly applicable: “Rip off that band-aid.” (”Be kind to yourself”?)

Recommend 3 songs: I wish I was a person with actual musical taste. “Let’s Get Fucked Up and Die” ~ Motion City Soundtrack, “Leonardo Dreams of His Flying Machine” ~ Eric Whitacre, “Rocks and Water” ~ Deb Talan

i really feel like i should be tagging people bc i know i never do these unless i am specifically called out, but i’m also bad at putting together lists, so: if you listen to all three of those songs, you are obligated to complete this meme as well. voila. now guilt does all the work for me.

anonymous asked:

"Why hasn't at least one of the papers broken the story?"--In the beginning it looked like some tabs knew, were using it as leverage to get exclusives from Bens pr. Ben isnt the hot property he once so now looks like arrangements in place to keep a lid on it. We've been long wondering how off they looked for two years yet not a peep from anyone something is amiss. Legit happy couples get TIP written if they're papped doing mundane things and not smiling. Never the Dismals, its always 'loved up'.

And I know of TWO different outlets in two different countries who WERE working on stories…but nothing came from either. Which tells me the Rat stepped in and got the stories squashed. Maybe they’ll give the exclusives of the “official” story to the outlets?

anonymous asked:

Having het ships does not immediately disqualify someone from fetishizing gay relationships, the two things aren't mutually exclusive. You're of course free to ship what you want, but it can definitely rub people the wrong way when you disregard a canon het ship with a strong woman of color in favor of a white boy who's canonically unsupportive of JJ, only to turn around and hetbend that same relationship. I don't think you had any bad intentions, but like I said, it might bother some people.

I know, the thing is that, and ?

It looks like you guys never been in a fandom. There will be things that you don’t like and the best option, when the persons producing this content didn’t do it in an irrespective way, is to scroll past it.

I’m not “disregarding” this relationship, I just don’t ship it. This too is something common in fandoms : not shipping something canon. You want to enjoy it ? Ship it, enjoy and create content. I won’t stop you. In no way or shape am I invalidating JJBella shippers. And I guess there’s no way for me to defend myself on the racism point outside of pointing that I support poc JJ, ship JJbek, have woc queer ocs, and ship salamila.

And then, why would you care about what I do in my ship ? You obviously don’t ship it, and Pliroy is a generally unpopular ship so why does it matter what we do in it ? Pliroy is a niche ship, and my post is a niche au into this niche ship. It has literally no impact on the fandom as a whole nor on the JJBella shippers. It just exists. Those enjoying it will be happy. Others will ignore it. Period.

I’m not even trying to convince people to like “hetbending”, I don’t care at all. I’m just saying : why would it matter that you don’t like it ? I’m not hurting you nor doing any harm. If you don’t like something, ignore it. If it comes back a lot, block it. It’ll make your Internet life easier.

I can’t believe how long it took me to realize that the “nagging wife” sitcom stereotype is literally just “useless husband is incapable of doing his share of the housework despite being repeatedly asked” framed to demonize the woman

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Entertainment Weekly has debuted the first official of Stranger Things Season 2, featuring Dustin (Gaten Matarazzo), Mike (Finn Wolfhard), and Lucas (Caleb McLaughlin) dressed as Ghostbusters.

The new teaser for the new season of Netflix’s massive cult hit will air during this weekend’s Super Bowl.

The second season of Stranger Things takes place in 1984, one year after the events of the first season. Not many details have been exposed, but executive producer Shawn Levy (Arrival) stated “The Demogorgon was destroyed but evil wasn’t.”

so guys

  • jewish main characters
  • their indian uncle and black aunt
  • actually just so many poc it’s a delight
  • “the two definitions of partner are not mutually exclusive”
  • canonically nonbinary character
  • “nice girls shouldn’t know how to do that” / “my sister is a nice girl and she knows how to do lots of things”
  • “lots of boys play with dolls”
  • gender roles subverted - the adventurous inventive sister and the quiet bookish brother
  • “being raised in a violent and neglectful environment is not better than nothing” aka child abuse being called what it is and blatantly stated to be Not Okay

it’s been ten years and I’m right back in gothic novels for children hell

please watch a series of unfortunate events

don’t disappoint phil lester by electing donald trump just don’t

Bucky’s Plan

Note: the title sucks, but you know. I try. hi thanks for the request! I hope you like it! feedback is welcome! .c

Request: I’d like to request one where you and Bucky are together not necessarily publicly where the team knows but definitely a thing, and Bucky gets it in his head that’d be a great idea to dance with another woman at a party with the intention of making you jealous and leading to angry jealous sex but instead it upsets you making you think he doesn’t consider the two of you to be exclusive and that he doesn’t really care about you? Fluffy ending though after Bucky works for it a little? - @the-one-and-only-vampcake (im so sorry i just realized i didnt tag you in this!)

Originally posted by gliceria


As soon as Tony announced he wanted the team dressed and ready to go to the new nightclub his friend was opening up, you all but bounced in your seat. You were ready for a night out, having been on missions every day for the past few months. It was rare to see 9pm sometimes; your energy was completely gone by the time you got home.

Nights out with the team were always fun and you felt like you’d be able to let loose tonight, enjoy your time with your friends, and maybe even have some alone time with Bucky while everyone was in their own little world or maybe with them around.

You and Bucky have been together secretly for about 3 months and you felt safe to say you love him. But you understand him wanting to keep it hidden from the team. He was still getting through everything, but you were totally okay with taking your time. Or so you thought.

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if you think sanvers is better than clexa, good for you. don’t be a dick to people who don’t.

if you think clexa is better than sanvers, good for you. don’t be a dick to people who don’t.

if you’re jaded from how the 100 handled clexa and find it hard to trust that sanvers will be handled well, i don’t blame you bc same. but don’t guilt people who like and enjoy sanvers. 

people have their opinions and emotions. don’t be a dick bc you disagree.