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anonymous asked:

Hi :') I heard there was a hurricane in Texas? And I remembered you live there ;-; I hope you're all safe and are getting by okay. My relatives live there too, and we've been trying to reach them but the call isn't making it. Stay safe! I hope you're all doing fine over there. Count on my prayers love :')

Yup, hurricane Harvey! So far I’ve been completely safe where I am, we’re not even getting rain <:) But thank you so much for the concern, it’s v sweet, and I wish you lots of love and safety for you and your family, too! And for anyone else who is dealing with Harvey! Much love to you and pls be safe! <3


Originally posted by thalassa55

Tom Holland x Reader

Request: Yes

Summary: Struggling with scars due to several surgeries as a child, Tom is there to comfort and love the Reader.

Word Count: 2,580

Warnings: Language, body image issues, talk of scars, childhood, loving!tom, sad stuff, fluff. (That’s it ??)

A/N: Wowza, I posted ?? I know, it’s crazy. Hopefully this is close as to what the anon asked for and is a decent tom imagine (still struggling w/ those tbh). As always, enjoy reading and feedback is appreciated!

Today was yours and Tom’s one year anniversary of being together.

You were beyond ecstatic when he had asked you out for the first time.

Thinking about it always makes you crack a smile, remembering the horrendous first impression you both presented to one another.

You had been at a local cafe getting a simple cup of coffee, enjoying your time.

Tom, however, was in a rush to get to a meeting, so as you were reaching to grab a napkin off the baristas counter, he quickly and accidentally rammed into you.

His coffee went everywhere.

He started apologizing profusely, but you were too entranced  by his muddled hair and deep brown, chocolate eyes that glistened every time he stared into yours with worry spread across his gorgeously chiseled face.

After that, you two kept running into each other.

A few of your friends always commented how it was “fate.”

And after a while, you started believing it too.

Tom is my soulmate.

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  • Chloé: I can not believe it! Finally Ladybug comes to visit me, and just to ask me to be the bait for an Akuma!? As if I had not been pursued by other brainless Akumas for NO reasons. And why should they do it? Everyone loves me!
  • [Ladybug reaches her]
  • Ladybug: Chloé, please... You're my number one fan, and you're good with the makeup and clothes. I cannot ask anyone else. [makes a puppy face]
  • Chloé [trying to not look]: Oh... with that face and those eyes and the--all right! But don't make me do anything embarrassing.
  • [cut to Chloé dressed as Marinette]
Guardians of the Galaxy Preference "How they take care of you when you're on your period"

(AAWWW OUR FAVES 😊Hope it is as requested and you all like it :3 Gif not mine/found it on google/credit to the original owners.)

Yondu-Whenever you’re on your period, he’d just hate seeing you in pain so much, he’d be willing to do and get you anything to make you feel better. He’d make time to sit by your side as you’d lie in bed, waiting for you to fall asleep comfortably, only to reach his hand out to your stomach to try and comfort as he’d rub you slowly, only to usually make you laugh with some off comments about what he’s doing for you. In times when he can’t be by your side, he’d always make sure to put someone on duty by your side, assisting you in his stead.

Peter-Whenever you’re on your period, he’d get nervous and panicking slightly, looking around the ship to see if there’s something he can take to help you relieve you from the pain you’re feeling. He’d really try anything, hoping it’ll work but just ending up either frustrating you or making you laugh, depending on what it was. In the end, he’d stop himself and just realize that you need the rest from his constant bothering and would leave his walkman by your side to take when you need.

Drax-Whenever you’re on your period, he just hates to know that you’re in pain and would come up to you, asking whether you’d want or need a hug from him. Of course, he’d always end up cuddling with you, holding you tightly and asking you if it all makes you better before yelling at everyone on the ship to get you whatever you might want for him to get for you, whether it be snacks or more blankets, simply because he doesn’t want to let go of you.

Rocket-Whenever you’re on your period, he’d get irritated at everyone that’s bothering you for anything and just tell them to report to him instead if they need something from you or for things to be done. He wouldn’t be too certain on how to approach and would only get closer to you when you’d request for him to your side. As you would, he’d get flustered and even more as you’d ask him to curl up to you for you to hold.

Gamora-Whenever you’re on your period, she’d tell you to head to bed earlier and take care of your duties for you, not wanting you to stress over other stuff that she can handle. She’d make time to actually make your bed comfortable enough before even telling you to lie down and would be ready to help you with what you need at the simple call of her name.

Nebula-Whenever you’re on your period, she’d feel bad to know that you were in pain but wouldn’t know how to handle it to make it all go away. She’d be too embarrassed to ask you for what you might need or want from her and would instead resolve to just hear your complaints or what the others around would say, in order to try and get you whatever you might need.

Mantis-Whenever you’re on your period, she’d try her best to make the pain go away, already touching and feeling you, trying to make you feel some joy and happiness. She’d insist on staying right by your side and keeping check on her. When it gets too overwhelming for you, she’d manage to help you fall asleep more peacefully and would keep you that way until she could sense you were much better.

Kraglin-Whenever you’re on your period, he’d seem to forget his whole surrounding and would pay attention to each and every detail about you. He’d soon enough figure out what you’d want or need at the right moment, impressing you by how sweet he can be. His favorite thing to do for you would just have to get you some desserts for you and eating along with you, enjoying to hear you laugh and see you smile rather than crumpled up in pain.

Ronan-Whenever you’re on your period, he’d pray for you to not suffer too much and when it does happen, he’d get his own servants to attend you along with the others. He’d make sure you weren’t missing anything and would go rather far to get you anything that you might want or need, as long as it would make you forget about the pain you were feeling, he’d always be willing.

Stakar-Whenever you’re on your period, he’d let the more experience crew members in that matter take care of you during the day but of course promising you his attention once he is done with work. As he’d get back to you, usually suggest you a proper bath and let him show you how much he wants to take care of you before tucking you back to bed.

The Collector-Whenever you’re on your period, be willing to do and give anything to feel your pain instead. He’d close up shop and make himself available for you at all times, staying right near you to give you any snack or meals in particular you’d want. He’d show you how much he cared for you and wouldn’t hesitate to sit you in his lap to keep you all curled up as he does his best to soothe the pain away by rubbing your soft stomach and praising you for being able to go through it all.

Garthan Saal-Whenever you’re on your period, he’d want to do anything to stay by your side but because of his work, he’d simply resolve to have already everything prepared for you while he’s away. He’d get you a stash of all the snacks you love, make sure the bed or the couch was comfy with all the pillows and blanket along with the movies he knows you love most prepared for you to enjoy. Of course, he’d call in to check if you’re alright and promise you that once he’s home he’ll do his duty.

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anonymous asked:

If you're still doing that writing thing, can you write a story about Trans Boy Keith on his period? And he has cramps but his bf(s) is helping him with it and it's adorable? It doesn't matter who the bf(s) is. I'm feeling this hard core and it might make me hate being alive less

Keith had been trying to ignore the ominous signs all week, but when he woke up feeling the cold claw of Death reaching into his abdomen, he knew it was over. Really the warning signs had been obvious; an unusually vindictive twinge of satisfaction when the subway doors had closed on some hipster douche bag, his intense craving for pistachios- of all things- and (worst of all, he barely wanted to admit it,) the extreme, burning annoyance he had felt toward Lance all week. 

Lance, who had just wanted to stop and buy a gyro on their way back from class. Who had just wanted to sing along to the radio in the kitchen, who had just wanted to watch The Lion King for the sixth time that month. Sweet, beautiful Lance. The love of his life.

Lance, who Keith honestly would have choked out without a second thought.

His period was evil.

As much as he tried to have patience, Keith knew his temper was somehow even shorter during his period and Lance, bless him, had to bear the brunt of it. And yet, after all the snapping and glowering, Lance was the one hovering over his bed as Keith tried to find a position that would both ease the ache in his back and get the heating pad to hit just the right spot.

“How’re you feeling, babe?” Lance reached out, hesitating for a second before laying his hand gently on Keith’s forehead, pushing back his bangs. 

Keith sighed under his boyfriend’s touch. “A bit better, after I took my binder off,” he tried to muster a smile.

Lance nodded, meeting Keith’s expression with a frown. “Well, that’s good. Are you sure I can’t get you anything else? Another heating pad? Some tea? What’s that pill you take sometimes- Mo-train?”

Keith chuckled, reaching up to grab Lance’s hand. “It’s Motrin. And I’m fine now, thanks.” He brought Lance’s hand down to press a soft kiss against his knuckles.

“Are you sure? My sister always drank raspberry tea on her period, she said it helped. I think I have some in my apartment, I can grab it-”

“-Lance,” Keith interrupted, smiling genuinely now, “I’m fine. Really. Please don’t run halfway across the city for tea.” 

“Okay, I won’t,” Lance said quietly.

“But, if you want, you can climb up here with me,” Keith scooted forward in bed, careful to keep the heating pad in place under his shirt.

Lance climbed over him to nestle against his back, wrapping an arm around Keith’s waist and tenderly kissing along his shoulder and neck.

Keith sighed, trying now to ignore the hot pain that pooled in his stomach and focus instead on how Lance was hands down the sweetest man on the planet. “I’m sorry I’ve been such a dick this week,” he murmured, “You’ve done nothing wrong.”

“Don’t apologize,” Lance’s chuckle was muffled against his neck, “I know this sucks for you.”

“You’re too nice.”

“I can be mean, if you want me too-” 

Keith could hear the smirk in his voice as Lance pulled him closer. He turned to look over his shoulder, pouting until Lance leaned forward and met his lips once, twice. “I would hate that,” Keith breathed.

plaguedaemonart  asked:

How do you reach an audience when you're first starting out as an artist?

Building your audience base is hard. Mostly because, well, it takes time. Lots of time. 

  • Don’t let having a small audience discourage you. 
  • Stay focused on your work and improving it. Try new things. Work on pieces/projects you’re passionate about. 
  • Interact with other artists. Reach out to artists close to your skill level. Ask tips from/interact with artists you look up to. Help out artists who are working on skills you’ve already honed. Leave lots of comments. Give shoutouts to artists you love. We’re all here to help one another. And good networking is a fantastic tool for everyone.
  • Don’t be afraid to post plenty of your work–sketches, studies, WIPs, etc. Being an active artist means your followers won’t forget you exist. Of course, don’t post to the point that you become a nuisance! 
  • Be professional. Be kind, courteous, and be genuine. Don’t post unnecessary or “unpopular” opinions. Don’t complain or whine or speak harshly when it isn’t warranted. The #1 reason I unfollow an artist is because they act or speak inappropriately. 
  • Find a strong positive place in your art. Art isn’t about numbers, it’s about creation and enjoying creating. And every artist is so unique and has something special to bring to the table. Don’t cater to your viewers. Do work that makes you feel happy and fulfilled and you’ll go farther than if you’re trying to produce work you think may be more popular with your audience.

I know that’s vague, but there’s no shortcuts or surefire paths to increasing your viewer count. Just time and focus on honing your craft. Best of luck with your paintings! 💛

I keep seeing little mumblings and mutterings floating around regarding the possibility that Carol and Daryl are going to have some sort of fight because of Daryl’s choice to lie to her about Glenn and Abe (and everything else awful that happened when the Saviors came).

And here is a thing: there is no way in this universe she will ever be angry with him for lying to her. I mean here is her face while she’s explaining why she had no choice but to leave:

[.gif by poee-dameron]

She’s broken. Sobbing. Destroyed by even the thought of her family being hurt by the Saviors (and she knows what they’re capable of – she’s seen and experienced some of it herself).

So Daryl lies. The truth is that I doubt she even entirely believes him. He hesitates too long and she knows him much too well. But for the moment, she wants to believe because doing anything else might make her shatter.

The very idea that she’s ever going to be anything other than an exploding ball of love and gratitude when she finds out what he did and understands why (like for example the fact that it was all 100% for her, given that I’m sure he could have used some emotional comfort in this moment) is – quite honestly – a ludicrous reach by people who clearly do not watch this show very closely. 

And y’all know I don’t even make predications about this damn show like, ever.

Church's story arc ending monologues:
  • Alpha (Season 5): You know Caboose, I used to not care. I just went along with orders, and hoped that everything would work out for me. But after all that's happened, you know what I've learned? It's not about hating the guy on the other side because someone told you to. I mean, you should hate someone because they're an asshole, or a pervert, or snob, or they're lazy, or arrogant or an idiot or know-it-all. Those are reasons to dislike somebody. You don't hate a person because someone told you to. You have to learn to despise people on a personal level. Not because they're red, or because they're blue, but because ya know them, and you see them every single day. And you can't stand them, because they're a complete and total fucking douchebag.
  • Epsilon (Season 8): I'd like to say that I found her right away, that I just walked into the Epsilon Unit, and there she was, waiting for me. As you can probably guess, it didn't happen that way, but, I know she's in here somewhere, and I'll find her. We always seem to find each other, for better or for worse. I don't know why the Director did what he did. I don't know if he was trying to revive a memory from his past, or if he was just trying to get it out of his head. But I figured out something that the Director didn't. It took Alpha, Delta, and the rest to help piece it together for me, but what I've learned is that a great love is a lot like a good memory. When it's there, and you know it's there, but it's just out of your reach, it can be all that you think about. You can focus on it, and try to force it, but the more you do, the more you seem to push it away. But if you're patient, and you hold still, then maybe... Just maybe... It will come to you. I just need to make sure I'm somewhere she can find me. I think this place is a little different than it was before. See, out there, everything is based on the Alpha, but in here, I guess I'm the Alpha. And maybe this time through, things will be a little different for me as well. I guess I'll find out. And I mean, hell, if you have to live the rest of your life in a memory... you might as well make it a good one.
  • Epsilon (Season 13): It was Doyle who made me realize something I never thought of before. There are so many stories that some brave hero to save the day, and because of their sacrifice, the good guys win, the survivors all cheer, and everyone lives happily ever after. But the hero never sees gets to see that ending. They'll never know if their sacrifice actually makes a difference, they'll never know if the day was really saved. In the end, they just need to have faith. Ain't that a bitch?
gentle reminder to this blog's 100 followers

I simply cannot express how much it means to me that this simple blog has reached 100 followers (we’re actually at 130 now, oh my goodness) in only a week of existing.

Thank you to each and every one of you that have been reached by this blog, thank you for sharing my small words of kindness through your reblogs, and thank you for following in order to continue doing that in the future.

This blog means the world to me. All I have ever wanted to do is help people - and to know that I might help out one or two people with a post on their dash is so important.

I originally created this blog with the intention of reminding my group of friends and myself of the things that we need to hear, to help out as much as I can - this personal creation has however turned into something much more, thanks to all of you.

So again, thank you all so much. I hope I can continue to brighten at least some of your dashes up a little bit in the future. I will try my best to keep posting three reminders a day in order to reach as many time zones as I can. (6am, 12pm, 6pm, AEST, for any curious.)

Please know that I’m always here to help if you need. I hope you have a lovely day today - and please don’t forget to try your hardest to smile. Thank you all again.

anonymous asked:

How to know if you're asexual or demisexual if you have never had sex and don't know if you can have sex after having an emotional bond or not into sex at all

Hi there!! Thankyou so much for reaching out to me I really appreciate it!  First I’d like to say that it is okay to question your sexuality and if anything it should be encouraged. We are always finding ourselves and trying to decipher our emotions. Yes demisexuality is a need for strong emotional bonds before sex and asexuality is a lack of interest in sex, but it is okay to have sex and determine your emotions from there. Your emotions and your body are yours to share as you wish or not and the all, but do not be confined by a label. Define yourself by your own standards and if your standards just happen to fit into asexuality or demisexuality that’s okay. If sex just isn’t your thing that’s also okay! If they don’t then that’s okay too. I view sexuality as well as gender as a spectrum that everyone lies on. You should find where you are on the spectrun and howncomfortablenyou are with certain things before you ever apply a label. Some people choose a label first then shift sexualities as they go along in life and that is okay too!! I wish you luck in your self discovery friend!

anonymous asked:

Although I feel that both Tom and Harrison are the cuddliest being on earth, I feel like there are definitely differences between them. For instance, we'll go with this scenario: they wake up before you and you're all curled up with your blankets happily, but a piece of hair is dangling in front of your face and tickling your nose.I feel like Tom would smile softly and reach out to tuck the hair behind your ear, then try to carefully get up without waking you in order to make you breakfast 1/3

or something.On the other hand, I feel like Harrison would start the same. He’d give a small, sleepy smile to your sleeping figure before reaching out and tucking the hair behind your ear. However, I think he would then leave his hand on your cheek and start stroking your cheek with his thumb. 2/3

When eventually you started stirring slightly (a smile covering your face, a grumble, etc.) he’d lean forward and press a long, soft kiss to your lips, and just start being all fluffy and cute with you bc you’re still sleepy and not entirely aware of what’s happening. (SORRY IM HARRISON TRASH, DONT JUDGE ME) 3/3

i’m so upset that i had to cancel fluff blurb night :((

  • <p> <b>Me trying to use all of my 5'2 to close the class' window:</b> Fucking fuck fuck FUCK<p/><b>Boy I like, a fucking building with his 6'2:</b> awn, you're so smol! That is cute, love.<p/><b>Me, still trying to reach for the window:</b> *mumbles* cute my ass. You'll see how smol I am when I fucking PUNCH your beautiful face.<p/><b>Boy I like, closing the window and hugging me:</b> Can you reach it?<p/><b>Me:</b> UH BOY DON'T TRY ME<p/></p>
  • Tobias: So it is down to you, and it is down to me.
  • [Gumball (disguised) moves closer]
  • Tobias: [holding a knife to Penny’s throat] If you wish her dead, by all means, keep moving forward.
  • Gumball: Let me explain--
  • Tobias: There's nothing to explain. You're trying to kidnap what I have rightfully stolen.
  • Gumball: Perhaps an arrangement can be reached?
  • Tobias: There will be no arrangement, [holding the knife closer] and you're killing her.
  • Gumball: But if there can be no arrangement, then we are at an impasse.
  • Tobias: I'm afraid so. I can't compete with you physically, and you're no match for my brains.
  • Gumball: You're that smart?
  • Tobias: Let me put it this way: have you ever heard of Plato, Aristotle, Socrates?
  • Gumball: Yes.
  • Tobias: Morons.
  • Gumball: Really. [pause] In that case, I challenge you to a battle of wits.
  • Tobias: For the princess?
  • [Gumball nods]
  • Tobias: To the death?
  • [Gumball nods]
  • Tobias: I accept.
  • Gumball: Good. Then pour the wine.
  • [As Tobias pours the wine, Gumball pulls out a small vial, and uncorks it]
  • Gumball: Inhale this, but do not touch.
  • Tobias: [sniffing the vial] I smell nothing.
  • Gumball: What you do not smell is called Iocane powder. It is odorless, tasteless, dissolves instantly in liquid, and is among the more deadly poisons known to man.
  • Tobias: Hmm.
  • [Gumball turns away from Tobias with the goblets, and pours the poison in. Goblets replaced on the table, one in front of each.]
  • Gumball: All right. Where is the poison? The battle of wits has begun. It ends when you decide and we both drink, and find out who is right...and who is dead.
  • Tobias: But it's so simple. All I have to do is divine from what I know of you: are you the sort of man who would put the poison into his own goblet or his enemy's? Now, a clever man would put the poison into his own goblet, because he would know that only a great fool would reach for what he was given. I am not a great fool, so I can clearly not choose the wine in front of you. But you must have known I was not a great fool, you would have counted on it, so I can clearly not choose the wine in front of me.
  • Gumball: You've made your decision then?
  • Tobias: Not remotely. Because Iocane comes from Australia, as everyone knows, and Australia is entirely peopled with criminals, and criminals are used to having people not trust them, as you are not trusted by me, so I can clearly not choose the wine in front of you.
  • Gumball: Truly, you have a dizzying intellect.
  • Tobias: WAIT TILL I GET GOING! Where was I?
  • Gumball: Australia.
  • Tobias: Yes, Australia. And you must have suspected I would have known the powder's origin, so I can clearly not choose the wine in front of me.
  • Gumball: You're just stalling now.
  • Tobias: You'd like to think that, wouldn't you? You've beaten my giant, which means you're exceptionally strong, so you could've put the poison in your own goblet, trusting on your strength to save you, so I can clearly not choose the wine in front of you. But, also bested my Spaniard, which means you must have studied, and in studying you must have learned that man is mortal, so you would have put the poison as far from yourself as possible, so I can clearly not choose the wine in front of me.
  • Gumball: You're trying to trick me into giving away something. It won't work.
  • Gumball: Then make your choice.
  • Tobias: I will, and I choose— [pointing behind Gumball] What in the world can that be?
  • Gumball: [looking behind him] What? Where?
  • [Tobias switches the cups]
  • Gumball: I don't see anything.
  • Tobias: Well, I- I could have sworn I saw something. No matter. [starts chuckling]
  • Gumball: What's so funny?
  • Tobias: I'll tell you in a minute. First, let's drink. Me from my glass, and you from yours.
  • [they both drink]
  • Gumball: You guessed wrong.
  • Tobias: You only think I guessed wrong! That's what's so funny! I switched glasses when your back was turned! Ha ha! You fool! You fell victim to one of the classic blunders! The most famous is never get involved in a land war in Asia, but only slightly less well-known is this: never go in against a Sicilian when death is on the line!! [starts laughing and then falls dead]
  • [Gumball starts untying Penny]
  • Penny: Who are you?
  • Gumball: I'm no one to be trifled with. That is all you ever need know.
  • Penny: And to think, all that time it was your cup that was poisoned.
  • Gumball: They were both poisoned. I spent the last few years building up an immunity to Iocane powder.
Ways to Cheer Yourself Up (When wanting to be alone) - 50 top things to do
  • 1. Go ON Tumblr, believe it or not, we don't care where you're from, what you do, how you're being you, as long as you are being you, you're pretty much welcomed on here. That's why i love it. Unless of course you are homophobic or judgemental or ignorant - then the people will speak for themselves, we look out for each other here.
  • 2. Read Books; escapism is a wonderful thing
  • 3. Listen to music; and no - not the sad, 'ALL BY MYSELF' type music, but the kickass songs like 'I will Survive' or 'Loser Like Me' just celebrate yourself for being awesome, because we know you are; even if others don't; especially then actually.
  • 4. Become your own superhero. Every single one of you have a talent or a dream. Follow up on that talent/dream. YOU ARE WORTH IT, and you can be whoever you want to be.
  • 5. DISNEY MOVIES. Unless you absolutely hate bursting out into song - better cut of highschool musical and glee while were at this, then Disney is the best pick me up ever.
  • 6. Watch your favourite TV shows. Remind yourself why life can be awesome. Watching your fav characters usually means you can relate to them.
  • 7. Go on walks - it's very pretty outside, and sometimes our heads can be overloaded with information or stress, I advise calming music and a nice walk outside in comfortable clothes.
  • 8. Have a diary. A friend of mine recently bought me one, and it's a godsend because all the anger, or emotions I feel, I try to put in the diary rather than putting it out on others. It also calms you down. I feel better when I write.
  • 9. Speaking of writing...if you enjoy it- WRITE. Writing is a wonderful way to escape. You can put all your emotions into your characters and they just come to life. I tend to do that when I'm stressed.
  • 10. If writing is not your thing then bake. I've actually ironically read in a fan fiction where a character would bake when stressed and try out new recipes, this character tried making butterbeer; maybe be adventurous; have a food blog or something to keep you occupied.
  • 11. Be With Your Pets - Pets are loyal creatures, and they love you, even when you're being a pain in the ass, and I hear they're very good listeners.
  • 12. Now I don't know about you, but I LOVE Musicals. If you are a musical fanatic like me and you're feeling a little down, my dears; listen to those awesome voices, because sometimes we just - need - a break (Also, if you haven't watched RENT, watch it - NODAYBUT TODAY...or Starkid...Starkid make the most funniest musical parodies, even if you don't like musicals I suggest it, and if you're not enjoying their YouTube Channel, then I'll eat my own hat).
  • 13. ASK ME ANYTHING. If you really want to talk to somebody but you don't want to talk to people you know and you just want to get things out, my ASK box is always open.
  • 14. Find a hobby. If you don't really want to talk to anybody, that's okay, sometimes we need to just have some 'me time'. In my me times, I usually deactivate from Facebook, and just focus on things that make me happy. Like; Puzzles, Sudoku, Games, writing, cooking, singing, whatever it is...travelling even. Enjoy yourself.
  • 15. Travel. Maybe being stuck in the same place is the problem, maybe you're head wants to be in a place where it can ACTUALLY THINK.
  • 16. Go Hiking. I suppose Hiking is similar to walking but if you're an outdoor person, this is a great way to clear your head and to feel fresh.
  • 17. Hit The Gym. Or even do your own exercises. I like to walk - do crunches, and I love Zumba. I love dancing. If you love being active, this is also another way to clear your mind from negative things.
  • 18. GO SEE A MOVIE!!! When was the last time you had fun? Even if it's just by yourself. You're allowed to treat yourself. Go, enjoy, be surrounded by people, even if they're strangers.
  • 19. If you like coffee, treat yourself for one at a local cafe. Who knows, you might meet your coffee soulmate in a cafe one day.
  • 20. STOP thinking Negative. Have a Pros/Cons List. Try not to outweight the Pros list with the Cons. Please?
  • You are good enough.
  • 21. Write down a bucket List, and start ticking them off. Having goals and dreams is healthy. If you have dreams, then you have a direction of where you're going.
  • 22. Get help. It's okay, if you're head is in a really bad place to reach out to people. It really is okay.
  • 23. Help others. If you're not sure what to do with yourself at all, be useful to other people less fortunate than you. Volunteer! Work with Charity, Feed the homeless, help the guide dogs association.
  • 24. Smile more. It looks good on you, believe me. Spend time with your guilty pleasures, my guilty pleasure is binge watching glee
  • 25. Please DO NOT go to a pub to drink to ease your mind, if you are going to do that, do it with a friend, or somebody close.
  • 26. Eat Chocolate. Okay yes while society says NO DON'T EAT THE FATTY FOOD. Hey; screw them. If you feel better eating a bit of junk go for it. There's nothing wrong with eating a whole pizza or tub of ben and jerry ice cream when feeling upset - just try not to make TOO much of a habit : p
  • 27. REBLOG YOUR FOLLOWERS POSTS, you might be surprised that you aren't the only one feeling the way you're feeling, you might be surprised by how much you're forgetting that hey - it's gonna be alright.
  • 28. Do something nice for your neighbour. Ah who knows, have you ever actually talked to them? Maybe they might be lonely too.
  • 29. Have a GAMES Night. A very good friend of mine loves Games. If You LOVE Games, then hell have a marathon of them. Play the sims, be in control.
  • 30. Speaking of marathons...dun dun dun - MOVIE MARATHON, I Don't Know About You Guys, But Having A Harry Potter Movie Marathon always cheers me Up. WITH FOOD Of course, and good company, but this is about cheering yourself up, so if you don't want company, that's okay.
  • 31. Draw. I love drawing too. I suppose I'm more of the creative person. There are a lot of different types of people out there, maybe you like solving things - do those fancy cube things Idk what they're called. If you are like my brother and you love Maths, then maybe you can tutor someone. On one hand you're helping someone, and doing something you like doing, just like I'm drawing because I like drawing.
  • 32.Be with kids. believe it or not, kids are the most innocent little munchkins, and they honestly don't care what you look like, if you play hide and seek with them they'll be thrilled, so long as you're nice to them, they're generally nice to you... but be warned, they tell it how it is too. I talk a bit different. The most popular thing they've said to me was "Is that why you talk funny, because of the things in your teeth?" (They've also never really seen braces before) I even had one kid determined to get me to sing 'Everything is awesome' I'll never forget that because this kid clearly didn't care how I sounded, and just wanted me to sing with her. I felt great.
  • 33. If you're into Fairy Tales, Please Please Read Chris Colfer's The Land Of Stories series 1-4. It's an amazing series, and you almost forget what world you're in once you start reading. Plus, there's more coming (I'm a little excited)
  • 34. Watch Pixar Movies. You can't go wrong.
  • 35. GO TO HOGWARTS. Harry Potter Fan? Visit - Platform 9 3/4s in London, or go to the Harry Potter World, or if you can't actually visit these sites, go on Pottermore.
  • 36. Read Fan Fiction, you might not be a harry potter fan, but whatever fandom you are in, believe me sometimes Fan Fictfion Cheer me up. I adore Glee *Don't Judge Me* and Dalton is the best thing ever. Or Little Numbers...or Both. They cheer me up big time.
  • 37. Role play. If you like superheroes or characters, go be with the crowd. I believe they have events like Comic Con, and on Facebook they even have Events for such things, go be with strangers! So long as it's safe of course.
  • 38. Write a letter to the person who inspires you most and send it. You might be surprised by an answer.
  • 39. Pick up your instrument. Don't ignore your musical talent if you do have a musical talent. Remember, you're worth it. I don't care what you've done. Pick, It Up.
  • 40. Maybe go visit your family? I know this is about 'quality me time' but if you haven't seen your family in such a long time or are at a distance. Maybe being surrounded by something familiar is what you need.
  • 41. Change Careers. If you're not enjoying what you're doing or studying, change it. I remember in highschool a teacher said you might change your job 10 - 12 times before getting it right. It'okay, you just haven't found where you're meant to be yet.
  • 42. Enter a competition - Who knows what will come from it, take risks.
  • 43. If you're a risk-taker, challenge yourself. IDK how you're going to do that, but google has some pretty good answers. Even ask your tumblr followers, they follow you for a reason after all.
  • 44. Go on a boat. Go Fishing! I don't know, it's not my thing, but if you like fishing, then hell - go out there and fish.
  • 45. Find time for yourself, are you working too much? Maybe you are working too much. You know life doesn't stop for nobody, and if you keep pushing yourself so hard, time will go so fast and you won't realise how much of that time you could have spent on your own self.
  • The world is not going to end if you treat yourself.
  • 46. You ARE Good Enough. Listen to my words. Sometimes encouragement is all we need, when people feel hopeless, or like everything's gone wrong. It's gonna be okay. I promise, just hang in there.
  • 47. Write Down Quotes that Inspire You. I have a wall of these, and of people that inspire me too, and it reminds me of the good things in life when I'm in a crappy mood.
  • 48. Find something to do. If you're not doing anything, go take up a course, research things that interest you, you might be surprised by what comes from it. Join a community that enjoys doing things you do.
  • 49. Go To The Beach - If you live in Australia like me, visiting the beach is actually really calming and me and my best friend always would go on a random drive, and drive up to a beach or a look out, and it was always calming. Enchanting too sometimes. Maybe we forget about the place we live in, and what's exciting about the place. If you're in New York, visit Broadway or The Statue Of Liberty, or if you're in London, go to the London Bridge, or the Eye, visit the Eiffel Tower if you're in Paris...just go Anywhere.
  • 50. Take a random journey. Go on a train to somewhere new, go on a road trip. You never know what's around the corner.

Just a reminder: all good things in a fandon will reach the toxic areas of a fandom. It’s unavoidable and all we can do is just remember that these things are good regardless of what the toxic people say about it.

greentaleteller  asked:

Hi, uhm... I don't know if you're knowledgeable about this kind of stuff, and I apologize if this is a bother, but I'm trying to reach out to some people to get advice. See, I'm moving into my very first, very own place in three weeks, and I want to cleanse it. Problem is that I can't do smudging, for many reasons, nor do I have any crystals. Do you have any advice on how to cleanse and protect without using those things? (I'll probably use runes, at the very least, because Swedish.)


Take look at this post about re-claiming rituals, from my main blog. You can pick and mix all that’s written there and adapt to your situation. There is some stuff about burning sage and incense (and candles) which you will omit I guess, and other stuff which you may find very handy.

There are things I didn’t mention there, because too long posts are not good, but which you can use instead of burning.
For instance if you have a receptacle (a bowl, a wineglass, a cup…) that makes a nice sound when struck, you can use it for sound cleansing. Pour some clear water into it (or an infusion of herbs if you prefer) and place it in the center of each room. Strike it for a satisfying sound (make a test, maybe you need to strike with a metal spoon, or maybe with a chopstick, idk). Let the sound fill the room and die down naturally. Strike as many times as you find appropriate.

This can be also done with other nice-sounding things, like bells, or possibly musical instruments  even. Or an empty bowl, or a bowl that has appropriate runes drawn on the inside.

  • Professor: I'll give you an extension on the things you didn't turn in today
  • Me, who had already gone through all the stages of grief for my grade and had reached the kind of tranquility you get when you're disappointed in yourself, sure, but there's no way now to do the work so no point stressing, no point trying, put that hat on backwards: cool....thanks.....

anonymous asked:

Sad but sweet Bucky coming your way. So after he loses his arm and comes out of Cryo, you're there to help him back into the real world. He gets frustrated from only having one arm, even still reaching for things with what's left of the arm before he realizes. One day, you're sitting with him, trying to help him cope. You both have had such feelings for each other, but he suddenly expressed how he's not a "whole man" without his left arm. (Cont)

With a soft frown, you straddle his lap and start kissing over his neck, telling him everything you love about him. How it doesn’t matter that he’s missing an arm, because he’s all you’ve wanted and more. You start to grind on him, seeing his dismay when he goes to flip you and he falters. “Let me do all the work, baby,” you say, looking into his deep blues before showing him that he’s still as much of a man, even more. (End)

I need to write something like this, so soft and pure - Gen 

Moaning Monday™

Just Relax/ Nolan Holloway *Smut*

Request:Hii! ? I have a request! I don’t know if you write smuts or not but you could do an imagine where nolan is really stressed about what’s going on in beacon heels and you gave him a blowjob or (if you are not comfort with that) where you cuddle him? ?

Warnings: Blowjob, sexual

A/N: So this is my first ever smut related imagine so please don’t be to hard on me this is my first time writing something like this so I hope you guys like it.

You and your boyfriend Nolan were in your room studying for a test that you had this week. He was laying on your bed and you were sitting at your desk. You heard Nolan sigh a lot and you could hear his leg bounce up and down on your bed. Your turned around to look at him and sighed.

“Nolan can you please stop doing that it’s really distracting.” You said looking at him.

He looked up at you and sighed.

“I’m sorry but I’m just really stressed okay.” He said looking down.

“Why do you need to be stressed it’s just a test.” You said as you stood up and sat on the bed next to him.

“I’m not stressed about the test Y/N I’m stressed about everything that is going on.” He said as he sat up next to you.

“Nolan, there’s no need to be stressed about it. Nothing will happen to you.” You said with a small smile.

“You don’t know that.” He said playing with his fingers.

You sighed and tried to think of a way on how to make him feel less stressed and when you got an idea. You looked at him and took his hand.

“Nolan can I uh can I help you relax?” You asked with a small smile.

“Uh..y-yeah sure.” He said nervously.

You smiled an you crawled on to his lap and put your hands around his neck.

“Uh Y-Y/N w-what are you doing?” He asked as he started to blush a bit.

“Just relax okay.” You said with a smile as you leaned in to kiss him.

The moment your lips connected he melted in the kiss and started to kiss back. The two of you had kissed before obviously but he was very nervous because you had never sat on his lap before. He wrapped his arms around your wast as your hands went to his hair. You started to tug on some pieces of his hair and you hear him release a little moan. You smirked into the kiss before pulling away.

“Well you seem to like that don’t you.” You said with a smirk looking at him.

He looked at you and nodded with a goofy smile on his face.

You leaned in to kiss him again and then started to kiss his neck. You heard him start to breath heavily and that just encouraged you to continue. You started sucking on some parts of his neck and then kissing those places. You sucked on the part of his neck and he moaned pretty loudly. You smirked and kissed him again. You pulled away and looked at him with a smile.

“You a little calmer now?” You asked him with a smile.

“Y-yeah a-a l-little.” He said with a blush on his cheek.

“Are you sure I’m not really that convinced.” You said as you ran your hands down his torso and to his pants.

Your hands landed on both of his thighs and you slowly moved your hands closer to where you could see he wanted you. You could hear him breath heavily but like really heavily. You moved your hands closer to where the bulge in his pants was until your wands where on tit and you started to palm him through his jeans.

“Y-Y/N w-w-what are y-you doing?” He asked as he tried not to moan.

“Shh just relax okay.” You said as you started to unbutton his jeans.

“B-but I uh…..T-this is uh…..” He said nervously as he looked at you.

“What this is your first time getting a blowjob?” You asked as you got of his lap and pulled his jeans down.

All he could do was nod as he looked up at you.

“Don’t worry baby you’ll be relaxed in no time. Just lay down okay.” You said with a smile.

He nodded and laid down on the bed with his pants half down. He was breathing really heavily from the nervousness and the excitement. You leaned down and kissed him again as you started to palm him through his underwear. And as the two of you were kissing you could feel that his face was scrunching as he tried not to moan. You pulled away from him and smiled at the sight of him. His eyes were closed as he was biting his lip trying not to moan of you just palming him through his underwear.

“You sure you want to do this Nolan?” You asked him just to make sure that he was actually okay with this since this was the first time that you guys did anything sexual.

“Y-yeah I uh I-I’m sure.” He said as he finally breathed.

You nodded and then pulled down his underwear and his member popped up. You took his member in your hand and started pumping your hand down his length and you could see him try to keep in a moan again. You rolled your eyes because he was trying to keep it in so without any warning you removed your hand and licked his member.

“O-oh m-my….” Nolan moaned when you licked him.

You smiled and licked him a few more times before taking him in your mouth completely. You started to bop your head up and down his length and you stroked the part of his length that you couldn’t take with you mouth with your hand. You looked up at him and just saw him moaning breathing heavily as he closed his eyes in pleasure which made you smile.

“Y-you'r-re r-really g-g-good at t-that.” Nolan moaned out as he gripped the sheets of your bed.

You smirked and just kept going. You could feel that he was getting close which made you smile.

“Uh….Y/N I uh..I…” He said trying to warn you that he was gonna cum.

You just reached out your hand that wasn’t stroking him so that he could take and he took right before he came. You could feel him twitch in your mouth and you swallowed all of it looking him straight in the eye and when he saw that he moaned again.

“So are you uh relaxed now?” You asked as you moved to next to him.

“Um….Uh y-yeah I-I uh I-I am.” He said looking at you.

“T-thanks f-for uh t-that. You uh….y-you’re r-really good at uh…d-doing that.” He said with flushed cheeks.

You just smiled at him and kissed his cheek.

Thank You For 200 Followers!

Just wanted to make a lil thing saying thank you all for following me and showing interest in my version of Grima. Below the cut is hella long, and a whole lotta mush. Proceed as you will. 

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