or how to be happy forever

anonymous asked:

Omg I was already rewatching 13x06 and came to your blog to freak out about how in the "that's a pretty damn big win" Sam closed the doors of the drawer like that was such an unnecesary moment and I felt like it could mean "he's out of the closet for me, these doors can shut down forever there's no going back in" or the other way around idk. And then saw u were commenting about it just on your last ask and gods thank god I wasn't the only one seeing that




Yeah, and the whole thing took place in the room with the saloon doors (you know, the kind that swing both ways?).

I mean, I had to watch the whole thing like three times through because I couldn’t believe it.

Groggy photo of me after surgery. Im definitely more awake and mobile now, but still have a lot of restrictions. Im stuck with the drains for 2 weeks because of thanksgiving. My doctor will be out of town but oh well. I really don’t like the drains but they wont be there forever. I cant take the binder off either so I have no idea how my chest looks, so im excited for the reveal on the 28th when i get the drains out. After the drains are out I will still have one week of wearing the binder.
I still can’t believe this is real. I’m so happy. I have been so calm these past few days. Honestly I think a lot of my anxiety and anger issues were from my dysphoria. I feel like a new person.
Im still deciding if I will post chest pictures. This is a fandom blog and I don’t want to upset anyone.
Anyway, I’m alive and doing well!

anonymous asked:

I think if(when) Kara and Mon-el get married the episode should definitely have Myxy crashing the wedding. That would be just too awesome! I could just picture them saying, "If anyone is against this marriage, speak now or forever hold your piece." And you just see a hand stick up and you don't know who it is. Then he just stands up and Kara and Mon-el both say, "Oh come ON!" This is just one of my favorite head-cannons and I just wanted to share haha

Lmao And then turns out he has learned his lesson and he delivers a heartfelt speech about how he now knows the true meaning of love and that he is very happy for them and apologizes for the inconveniences he caused years ago. And Mon-El is like “Ok that’s really sweet but is this really the right time for that? We’re kinda getting married here!!”. 

anonymous asked:

When you came out online/to your friends what were some good and bad experiences if you don't mind saying. My friend came out as trans to me and I don't want to mess up by accident and say a backhanded comment.

Honestly all my friends are lgbtqia+ so I’ve not really had any experience with non-supportive people? I’m happy to just ignore gender and I like agender to describe myself, but it didn’t really require a coming out, I’ve been drawing myself genderless and using they/them online forever anyway! And I still pretty much go by she/her irl because it doesn’t matter to me as much as how I look!

But I dunno, it doesn’t change who your friend is? Just try to remember their pronouns and if they choose a new name, respect that! It’s ok to mix it up sometimes, apologise and move on. Don’t ‘out’ them to other people, it’s their job to tell people when they’re ready. And be sensitive with comments/jokes, don’t go into gender territory unless you know it’s ok? Ya might just make them feel bad, and not better?

I guess just- don’t make assumptions either, do some googling, read other peoples experiences, and ask your friend if there are things that you aren’t sure about (if they’re comfortable answering!). No trans peoples experiences are the same, some people have dysphoria (feeling like their body doesn’t match their gender) some people want to go on hormones, some people want surgery, some people just want to change pronouns and leave it there! Gender is- all over the place and there’s no correct way to define it.

And ignore the mass media, its bullshit.


[170921] Happy 25th birthday to EXO’s angel, Kim Jongdae 💚✨

can i just say i paid for a feel good fluff game where i could potentially romance this closeted suburban masc-twink daddy but noooo instead i got a batshit crazy christian cult leader slash murderer who, under more fortunate circumstances, still dumps me for his wife, after screwing me on his own romantic private yacht surrounded by whales

anonymous asked:

I sent her a message two weeks ago and told her that I was pregnant and how happy I was building a family with the love of my life. When I met her yesterday she pulled me into a hug and said "oh my god you're not showing at all" and I couldn't help but burst into tears. She immediately knew that something was wrong but I tried to act like those were just happy tears. She then hugged me again and I couldn't help but tell her that my doctor told me that there's a high chance that I will miscarry

and she just hugged me even closer and then asked me If I know why and if there’s any chance that we can do something about this. I said that I feel absolutely lost and hopeless because I had a miscarriage before and Taylor just looked into my eyes and grabbed my hand and said that she will make sure that I get a second opinion from a doctor who’s an expert and that she’ll promise me to try everything to help us save our “little angel” (that’s what she called my baby a few times).  and then she hugged me again and said how important it is for me to stay positive and have happy thoughts. And then she asked me all about what it’s like to be pregnant and If I feel sick or weird and how my husband reacted and everything. I said that my husband has some trouble dealing with my mood swings and she literally said “well, I’m not pregnant and my man has to deal with that already” lol She just really made me laugh and cheered me up and MADE ME be positive. And today, I just got an email with the address of a doctor ( Of course, I won’t say any names) and some possible date’s that I get to choose. I was overwhelmed because she didn’t just keep her word but when I asked for financial infos about this specialist I learned that “everything is being taken care of”… I’m speechless and thankful and even though everything about this is so private, I felt the deep need to share this story. I cannot even start to say how thankful I am for Taylor and how considerate and kind she is. She knows me and my story and I will never be able to thank her enough for doing everything to help me save my “little angel”. She, herself, is an angel and it makes me happy to know that she has found her own happiness. I hope everyone reading this will think twice from now on before judging Taylor or anything she does. I will never forget that she has done this for me and I will forever be thankful. Thank you for sharing this, Shay!

oh……my………god…….this woman is literally AN ANGEL!!! first of all, i’m so sorry for what you’ve been through and i’m sure everything will turn out for the better, but also wow, THIS IS WHO TAYLOR SWIFT IS! This is literally the best fan interaction i have heard and i really hope people understand her personality more rather than judge her. i’m so happy that she managed to get you advice and help, hopefully everything will turn out positive! Thank you so much for sharing this, you are very brave!

also the  “well, I’m not pregnant and my man has to deal with that already” hahahahaha this woman omg i love her so much


“I’ll become a greater hero than all of you!”

Shinsou Hitoshi || dedicated to Aseel

Say cheese~! ✌


Happy 21st birthday to GOT7′s dancing machine, Kim Yugyeom! You keep bullying your hyungs, but it’s obvious how much you love them deep down. You also never forget to express your love to ahgases, always including #igot7❤️🐥 in your Instagram captions. I believe that you’re a giant maknae because you have so much love inside of you. Just like your birthday wish, I hope that GOT7 and ahgases will go on together forever. Always stay healthy and never stop dancing! #DandelionYugyeomDay 🌻🌼


make me choose @jakesamys​ asked:
isabelle lightwood or clary fray

I’m calling it now, Supergirl and Reign are going to be fighting to the death when they both stop and abruptly leave, much to everyone’s confusion, because they realized they’re going to be late for Lena’s birthday party.

Cut to five minutes later, Kara is kissing Lena and saying “Happy Birthday, sweetheart” when the doorbell rings and “omg Sam how are you? It’s been forever!” and “Kara, it’s so nice to see you!”

because they don’t know

this dream is short but this dream is happy
—  Kiss of the Spider Woman by Manuel Puig