“i don’t want to be grouped with my oppressors, cishets” bruh okay then i guess i can’t be lumped with white people in the lgbt+ community since im a poc, i can’t be lumped with cis people in the lgbt+ community because im trans, i can’t be lumped with neurotypicals in the lgbt+ community because im mentally ill.
gay white people are discriminated against for being gay, but not for their race. but the asian gay person standing next to them is. they’re still in the same community because they share one trait of oppression. that white gay person still has privilege, and systematically oppresses that asian gay person by default. but that doesn’t stop them from being in the same community, the lgbt+ community, together.
so? my point is stop using that argument to justify your hate for aces. stop.