another thing that mostly only men get praised for: being a single parent. for some reason women shit their pants over single dads but not single moms cause I guess as women we're supposed to be good at this so it's not that great when we do it.
oh yeah the stigma about single moms is awful it’s always like “she must have gotten married straight out of high school” “couldn’t keep a job” “couldn’t hold down a husband lol” “she should have gotten an abortion” but if it’s a single dad he’s pretty much a godsend and should be hailed as the overlord of the new world
i think the biggest issue with the kellin thing is how he's acting towards peoples reactions. i understand you have a family to feed but i doubt they're exactly starving and he's being really rude about it. i don't like when bands are rude to their fans because they're where they are because of the fans, you know?
no i agree he could have addressed it more professionally but on the other hand he was kind of being attacked for hours on end by literally everyone
halesyeah, livology, daisydavis, just-a-lovely-runner, angelb0nes, transcendingit, operaticskelet0n, belov-ed, gaunt-emaciation, fallenscars. --- ok thats it for now haha i just thought id give u something to do. those are all i can think of rite now!
I’ll just answer the ones that I know of
livology I’m in love with olivia. she’s the sweetest girl and we have the nicest conversations together :) we relate a lot.
transcendingit I think that she is a very wise and strong individual with an interesting look that I really dig.
operaticskelet0n I love emily. We’re hilarious. She makes me feel good too :)
mama beaaar. you’ve grown so much in the past year, thanks to the baby but all the same. you’re so incredibly brave. most people don’t think it’s brave to raise a baby, because it’s “normal” but fuck THAT. being a mom is so fucking hard and i am so proud of you and how far you’ve come. you have the most beautiful baby (ok i may or may not be biased). it’s been a privilege seeing you grow into this beautiful woman (you were always beautiful, though) and i can’t wait to see more good things come to you.