oops meant to queue that

if you have split attractions and you do choose to use the split attraction model or do find it useful, your orientation is good and valid and you’re not wrong for using something that is helpful to you in talking about your experiences

using the split attraction model is your choice. even if other people try to pressure you into redefining your experiences, telling you you shouldn’t use the split attraction model, your orientation is still valid. you don’t have to refrain from using or identifying with it. your orientation is your own to label and describe.

if you have split attractions and you choose not to use the split attraction model or don’t find it useful, your orientation is good and valid and you’re not wrong for not using something that isn’t helpful to you in talking about your experiences

using (or rather, not using) the split attraction model is your choice. even if other people try to pressure you into redefining your experiences, telling you you should use the split attraction model, your orientation is still valid. you don’t have to use it or identify with it. your orientation is your own to label and describe. 

no matter how you choose to describe your orientation and experiences, they are valid and you are valid.

throwback thursday to last otakon ~~~! I’ve haven’t deco’d this hard since !! (lately I’ve been focusing more on the outfits and less on the head piece) this wig was SO HEAVY and it was about 90 degrees outside too gosssh haha oh the things I do for decora~~! Im not going to Otakon this year BUT I do have some killer coords planned for Wakuwaku!

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(edit: oops I meant to put this in my queue and not post it just yet! throwback Wednesday I guess!)

Carmilla’s done. Next is Laura then Danny, then LaFerry…I want to finish all of them before June 2nd but I’m not sure if I can