I’m so done with everyone who thinks that everything about k-pop is a genderized issue. Boys have it hard too. Being sexually objectified, flashing their abs all the time, faking bromances on stage to the point where they have to pervertedly touch their co-workers, being portrayed as boyfriend material and hiding their relationships so that fans won’t go crazy. They have to diet as well, because “if he has no abs, he’s fat” right? And do you even know how much effort it takes to keep your abs visible all the time? Heechul used to eat only tofu, Yesung has said multiple times that he’s super strict with his diet, Junho, Jimin and Jungkook used to eat only once a day and Kwanghee only ate salads to lose weight, I could list more things, but yeah.