one showed up on my dash

So I’m binge watching Shameless US, since one of the blogs I follow would sporadically fill my dash with lovely Ian x Mickey gifsets. I finally had enough of seeing the cute, sad puppies and needed to know what was up. I instantly loved the pairing as well as the show. It’s so well done! However…after all out abuse from both sides, baby snatching, mental institutions and more heaping piles of emotional abuse…I was a little, dare I say, relieved when Ian ended it with Mickey. It hurt to see but after everything I just wanted both characters to find genuine, healthy relationships and just be happy. So when Caleb was introduced I was cautiously optimistic, but he quickly won me over. Full disclosure, I’m not quite done with season six (I’m on episode eight) but I’m really liking how open and honest their relationship is turning out to be. So why does everyone hate this ship? I took a peek in the tag and quickly left. It was practically an anti tag. Should I be preparing myself for some unforgivable offense in the last upcoming episodes? Or is this another case of, “we like the damaged white boy better?”

Goodnight my darlings!

I had to scroll past about 50 posts before a Muse related one showed up. Nope, no, that’s not on. Tomorrow I’ll try to sort this out and follow some new, regularly updated, Muse blogs.

And I know that this happens every time that the Muse boys finishes a tour but all of the sudden it feels quite lonely and..empty here, like *poof* ‘ok guys the [world] tour is over we gotta dash see you next year!’.

So starting tomorrow I’m just going to do what I always do when this happens: Let the album era live on (or rather: make sure that it does), stay hopeful and optimist about a Drones stadium tour (go on lads, I know you want to. go on) and just continue on like normal.

So goodnight to you all my darling and I’ll see you again tomorrow<3

anonymous asked:

She didn't apologize at all though? Not once. She claimed she was taken "out of context". She won't even admit she said it at all, let alone that she shouldn't have said it. It wasn't an apology, it was a lecture to us for daring to be insulted.

So? Like, honestly, I rather care than write some stuff I’ve already seen on my dash. Saying that she’s ignorant, or stupid, or I don’t know what is not okay. We don’t know anything about her, or what she’s been through because one showrunner decided to put his fantaisies in priority of his own show, and ruined everything. Like, okay, sorry, but Eliza was literally THE ONLY ONE who had to publicly face the issue: for months, JR never showed up and never said anything to adress any issue. Yes he aplogized, and yes he restrained himself and that’s good. But Eliza, having all these cons by herself? That wasn’t okay, I can’t even dare to think the pressure she had to go through. There are literally yes, bullshitty people who relied on her to say what they wanted to hear about Clxa, but also sensitive people, living a hard life because of something that is part of who they are (their sexuality) who were really hurt about what happened on the show. I know that Bob, and Jarod, and Lindsey, and Adina (but heck EVEN ALYCIA) were the main victims of what happened because the social media literally turned against them. Still, in terms of communication, Eliza was the face who had to “settle things” for these sensitive people who needed reassurance and for the rabid jerks who acted like… hey, jerks. Jarod and Bob and anyone else were entitled to state their real, harsh opinions (whether they received hate for that or not doesn’t matter, everyone stating their opinions on the internet gets hate and/or anon asks: just look at your ask! Just because… I stated my opinion?). Eliza was the one supposed to “save the show” in terms of publicity after this mess, she was ALONE (with a shitty PR) and I’ll never forgive Jason for that. I don’t care if he vents a lot and talks a lot and whatever-gifset says the cast hates him. He wrote that episode 7 he should have been the one to handle it, not Eliza because she was playing half of the ship.
She’s still 26, and with literally NO KNOWLEDGE of the struggles LGBT youth is going through, because she’s not LGBT. She just PORTRAYS Clarke who is a bisexual: and still, it’s in a society where it isn’t even adressed, so that will NEVER be an issue for Clarke as well. Okay I’m gonna say this for the people in the back, of the antis, or anyone living in their own world: STOP EXPECTING STRAIGHT ACTORS TO BE THE VOICE OF THE LGBT MOVEMENT, they won’t satisfy you, because they don’t know what you’re going through. Just like me, for example, when I talk about something regarding the LGBT community, I get tons of hate like “shut uuuup u straight ass” so why isn’t it the same for ACTORS who STILL ARE straight, even tho they portray LGBT characters? Outside of his/her work, that actor/ress is still straight. Heck, nobody among the antis said anything about that, but Eliza actually spelled “LGBT” wrong once in an interview, and Alycia didn’t know anything about the Trevor Project before a journalist brought that to her. They learnt after that, still, they weren’t MEANT to be the spokewomen of a movement they’re not belonging to.

And I mean, I literally can’t even imagine the level of pressure she’s had. And I’d still like to remind people that yes, Eliza didn’t say anything about Bob being bullied, or Adina, or Lindsey, Jarod and everything. She didn’t say anything about Alycia’s privacy being violated either: guess why? Because she had enough to deal with already, attending to a con almost alone every week or something like that - and even when she’s not alone, it’s still a Clxa con. Stop saying she’s not defending her castmates because she hates them or whatever, she has her own problems, and I think they are taking a lot of her energy and making stress out a lot as it is. She doesn’t need to fight the other’s battle, they did it on their own. I know Lindsey, Jarod, Sachin and Bob kinda sticked together, but they also… bailed or weren’t on most of the conventions this summer? I don’t know what to tell you?? They have their life? We don’t fucking know! Maybe they talked over the phone about that over and over again: and that’s not out business. Still, it looks like that Bob/Arryn and Eliza hung out A LOT together this summer. So hey, they don’t hate each other, amazing, surprisiiiing. Like okay, I’m tired of this fandom or THE OTHER ONE putting words in an actor’s mouth. I bet her words WERE taken out of context by some people on twitter and/or instagram (people are CRAZY out there). And that came from both sides: like honestly, I was ready to think “meh she said ‘shit’ like she would have said ‘stuff’“ because that’s what she meant, it’s kinda obvious. But then THE FANDOM made it all like “shit” is shit. Yes the word wasn’t appropriate, it’s still one word, compared to dozens of interviews she’s made before all that drama where she stated that she LOVED Bellamy and Clarke and their relationship and that she loved working with Bob. Like, I’ve seen on my dash people insulting her, and saying “she hates Bob so much” because she said “Bellarke shit” how does that even relate to BOB??? Bob isn’t Bellamy, you know. To me, the way the antis took that sentence, and put it in gifsets to mock us and sending us anon asks mocking Bellarke fans was WAY MORE offensive than anything Eliza said. And that’s totally what emphacizes her words and pushed everyone to make a fuss about it. Guess what, she also rolled her eyes several times when talking about Clxa, and two minutes before saying “Bellarke shit” she said that Clarke would move on, and when she said Clxa she said it like “Cleeee/EEEE/EEE/exaaaa” in a kinda “offensive” way you may judge. But yeah, since the other part of the fandom is so eager to mock us, we just keep little stuff she slips out about Bellarke. Yet, in interviews with journalists, she just seemed tired of talking about SHIPS in general.

I’m tired because “duh Eliza talks only noww” yes because she defended HERSELF after going through a horrible summer where she had to come after all that mess. She said it on her message, she just came to watch her twitter pics and all she saw were horrible comments. And we KNOW there was horrible hate about her body, more than what she said! She said “Bellarke shit” and on twitter, there were TONS of body-shaming tweets sent to her. How does that relate to Bellarke? Guess what, people are petty and horrible, that’s just it. We don’t know what she answered to: was that people being offended by what she said or was that people being MEAN to her because she slipped up? I don’t like the fact that yes, our fandom is now the “mean one” when we all know which one is the most horrible of the two. And yet, she didn’t even say “You bellarke fans are meaan”. She said SHIPS with an SSSSSSSSS. I’ll be honest, to me, the communication around Bellarke is so TRANSPARENT (and stupid) and BLATANT that just for that it’s SO CLEAR that Bellarke is meant to happen (and even be endgame?). They started addressing to bellarke fans that way since SEASON 1, when we were nothing but a nice fandom just asking “maybe” questions. Yet, they were avoiding it already. And Eliza was YET the “main event” of that ship. Just picture yourself, you’re on a tv show, and it’s been four years that you have to watch everything you say regarding a ship, and then you have all that drama coming from another one, and everyone is exploding and her friends were bullied and everything. Like, okay, she didn’t defend Bob and the others, but she was like… MIA from twitter and instagram at that time. The antis translated that by saying “she just haaates the show sooo muuuch” when I guess she was just… hella running away from them. Because as soon as she promoted the show again - like, ep13 I think? - she got tons of shit and hate. Just because a LARGE vocal, very active and very rabid part of the fandom (the antis) interpret things one way, doesn’t make it real! The “Bellarke shit” wasn’t meant to be deliberately MEAN, so yes, she’s “schocked” that it hurt a lot of people (because guess what, she truly is disconnected from her fandom, whether it looks like it or not, she just keeps repeating the same words at every con she goes to, and doesn’t put more efforts to it), just like the writers were shocked that Lxa’s death hurt a lot of people. They are SHITTY at adressing their fandom about ships, and that’s no news. I know Bob handles it better, maybe it’s a question of maturity, or prep, or because… HEY HE ONLY HAS BELLARKE TO TALK ABOUT IN TERMS OF SHIPS?? While Eliza had… three majors one up until now? What would happen if Bob was stuck between VERRRYYYY high expectations from Braven fans, and high expectations from Bellarke fans? Yeah, everything he’d say would be very problematic in some aspects. Just like everything Eliza says is problematic to some aspect.

Does she deserve to be hated, I mean- BODY SHAMED?, shitted on and everything because she’s doing something SHE’S NOT GOOD AT? Just because she said something offensive, doesn’t forbid her from defending herself when she sees horrible tweets body-shaming her, people insulting her and everything. Guess what, maybe by reading these comments, she was just as hurt as “her fans” when she says something they don’t like.

Okay I’d thought I’d share something I do, especially with what happened with Harley and Sweets recently, if you ever fear a blogger/ friend is going to kill themselves you or are really worried about them you can do this-

Go to their blog- (sorry to use you @sweetsagainstddlg you where the first anti on my dash)

Click on the person icon

And turn on “get notifications” this will show up when you do, the little lightening bolt.

If will give you an alert whenever they post, so you won’t have to keep checking their blog over and over, I used this for Harley so I knew right when they posted something because I was worried, I used this when one of my friends said they might kill themselves and didn’t post for 3 days. 

On a lighter note I use this for art blogs I like, just thought it would be useful. I know the alerts come up on phones, they should on the computer as well.

furrbuster  asked:

Mihawk, Zoro, Kid, Law and Coby with an actor/singer s/o? Someone who sings musical songs 24-7 or puts on a show just to end it with 'just kidding'... LOVE YOUR BLOG! Please please keep up your work! I smile everytime I see you on my dash °w° <3

DAwwwwwww you’re so sweet! THANK YOU :D ♥

Mihawk

  • I think Hawkey would actually kinda dig that :D
  • He likes music, soft music that is, not full blown musical perfomances but whenever his s/o is singing he can’t help but smile at least a little bit and listen to them
  • Oh bro, please play an instrument, more specifically accoustic guitar, he’d love that a lot, since he really loves soft guitar music anyway a helluva lot
  • So while he really loves his s/o singing voice and is totally in for some soft, quiet and slow songs, he doesn’t like it too much when they sing overly loudly while killing a song

Zoro

  • usually doesn’t mind the singing and will from time to time make ‘not bad’ face at their singing voice
  • when he has enough liquor in his system, aka is in his party mode he might consider partying alongside whenever they’re belting out a song, maybe even cheering, rare but possible
  • Oddly enough really likes it when they hum a bit while he’s training, he likes it anyway when they’re with him as he’s doing his daily workout, and singing kinda puts him at ease, it’s great

Law

  • (Name), please, shut up
  • most of the time they would simply singing alongside Law’s more lively and funloving crew
  • oh yeah the heart pirates LOVE Law’s s/o for the super singer/performer they are 
  • Law would mostly be in the background with that and listen to them if anything
  • that said he would secretly want them, during the occasional cuddling sessions, when Law is the little spoon, to hum a bit for him, just to help him fall asleep
  • which he would never admit, no chance in hell hon xD

Kid

  • awwwwwww Kid loves a sexy singing voice
  • No for real he’s complete and total game for that, since he really, really likes listening to music
  • Would become his personal performer tbh
  • with this even cuddles would be possible, and cuddles are literally never possible with Kid tbh xD
  • Same with Mihawk, huge, huge bonus if they’re able to play an instrument
  • At best the drums or the electric guitar

Coby

  • ahhh husband would find that hella adorable :D
  • would proudly and shyly point to them
  • “That’s your s/o?”, “Yeah, the one with the amazing voice.”
  • Even better if they actually give a full on perfomance, they didn’t think was really that good and Coby would just go like, u kidding????
  • Because he always finds it amazing

literally every post on my dash about pll is negative and full of complaining and I get it! I do! I complain too! but anyway here’s a positive post about how much I love that this show in its core is about best friends sticking together through the best and the worst and messing up and forgiving one another and building each other up and supporting one another and just having each other’s backs no matter what. I feel like so often, ESPECIALLY in teen dramas, friendships between girls are often portrayed as less than, as catty fights and gossip and betrayal and fakeness, and I feel like pll has done such a wonderful job at exemplifying four girls who truly love each other like best friends should

bc i get impulsive and am easily swayed by things showing up on my dash… a short while ago i bought this australia print from @plaemon’s storenvy, and realized i had the perfect place to put it next to: the map of sydney harbour that @gatoraid got me for my birthday :D:D:D:D also featured is a solafana print that came with one of their doujin, but i think these are a pretty good sight to keep staring at while waiting for the next two months to pass, hahah.

It’s fanfiction writer’s appreciation day.

I didn’t know it was, of course, until I came online and the posts started showing up on my dash.

Normally (and I say “normally”, but I mean in good times, in good mental health, in productive days, in a sense of security, in which normality is a sense of enthusiasm and fortitude) I would jump all over this. I would laugh and smile and be delighted, and participate joyfully, thanking all my favorite authors, people I consider foundation souls of my fic experience, highlight writers who I believe don’t get nearly enough attention.

I wish I could do that today. It’s one of those events that taking part in can bolster that sense of community love in fanfiction.

The unfortunate fact of the matter is I’ve been struggling. For the past few months I’ve been rolling under the waves of anxiety and depression, my head occasionally breaking the surface, always just long and often enough to make sure I’m constantly aware of just how hard it is to breathe, to keep swimming.

It has made everything a thousand times more difficult than “normal”, required an exponentially larger amount of effort and energy (of which my stores have been particularly low) to do… just about anything.

Writing. Reading. Interacting with others. Expressing myself, be it gratitude or enthusiasm or anything else. It’s meant that answering comments on fic has been impossible, that replying to wonderful asks from readers has resulted in staring at a blank box and a blinking cursor and coming up empty for words and losing my grasp on the good feeling the commenter so kindly gifted me.

It’s meant I’ve taken longer than “normal” to write even less than “normal”, and being acutely aware of the stagnation, the lack of progress, the stilted ebb and flow of motivation, inspiration, ideas.

I am thankful, beyond the words I can presently muster, for the fic writers who have created and shared the bubbles of wonder and enjoyment of their stories. I am so grateful to the readers and the commenters who make writing so much more than an exercise of curiosity and sharpening skill, to an order of magnitude beyond my ability to measure.

I am grateful for those who have been so utterly kind as to express positive things about me and my writing, too, on this day. Like any writer I often doubt that I have had any meaningful impact with the stories I tell, and it is incredibly fortifying and flattering to be reminded that, even if it’s been small, an impact was made.

But in the midst of this pitted canyon I’ve been blowing through seemingly without an end in sight, I want to take a moment on a day meant to honor fanfic writers to shift the lens a little.

I want to thank the incredible, wonderful, seemingly tireless friends who put up with me when I am like this, who keep me tethered, keep me grounded, and make sure I have a lifeline. These friends are the ones I turn to to vet my ideas, to go over my drafts with a fine tooth comb, to bounce my words back at me and interrogate them for flaws, to test my logic and my phrasing and my characterization. They’re my front-line encouragement, the ones who not just cheer me on, but sometime get out and push when I’ve stalled and am trapped behind a dead engine.

None of this would be possible without them. I write the stories I produce, but they make it possible

@ohemgeeitscoley is not just a darling, hilarious, clever, and utterly admirable friend, not just an effervescent writer in her own right, whose stories always have a certain brightness and incandescence that leaves me feeling warm. Her encouragement and enthusiasm are unflagging, and the insights she offers are often unforeseen and incisive.

@storiesofimagination is a stalwart, a pillar, with a heart like a fire, to warm you and sustain life, and to never ever go out. Handing something I’ve written over to her and waiting for her to react isn’t just an incredible, privileged delight, it’s a sounding board of whether or not anything I’ve done has been done not just right, but well. She’s a tuning fork, and I’d be lost without her.

@andyouweremine is just… wonderful. She’s an incredibly giving and caring friend, and a writer of such depth and nuance that it is genuinely breathtaking. And when she turns that sharp, intuitive, incredible mind on my writing, she unfolds and expands it, shores it up where it’s weaker and highlights where it’s effective.

All three of these magnificent women in the past six months have, in many ways both hyperbolic and literal, kept me alive. They’ve listened to me when I’ve been maudlin, pathetic, melodramatic–and desperately in need of being listened to. They’ve pressed and pried when I clammed up too tight to let the necessary venting happen, and the pressure has threatened to explode. They’ve gifted me with their time, their company, their attention. Distracted me when the yawning gulf threatened at my back. Encouraged me when hope and possibility seemed snuffed out. Even given me hard, no nonsense doses of reality when the storm obscured the world beyond it.

If I’ve written, it’s because they’ve held my hand. If my stories have meant anything to you, excited or delighted or touched or dismayed you, it’s because these women have been there to sprint with me, to help me inexorably press the word count onward. Because they have asked questions when I needed answers, have let me go on at length when I needed to unravel a yarn. They’ve entertained silliness and new ideas and laughter, and it has kept light in my heart when it’s been far too full of shadows.

This is a day to say thank you to fic writers, and it’s an incredibly kind and wonderful thing. But for me, I need to turn and thank the cherished friends who have kept me writing, kept me breathing, kept me putting one foot in front of the other and writing one sentence at a time.

You guys aren’t the only people I’m thankful for. I’m thankful for the writers in fandom, for the readers who are the other face of our coin. I’m thankful for so many friends, for so many reasons. Friends who helped get me back on my feet as a writer (@rosietwiggs), and whose brightness and love fed me when I need it most (@effie214) and who helped me plumb new depths and think in new layers (@storiesbyladychi), even those who I’ve lost touch with (@ash818) who nevertheless helped shape me.

But Kris, Coley, Kat… you three have been my lampposts and my anchors of late, and I know it hasn’t always been easy. I can be difficult, frustrating, and yes, sometimes annoying, I know. And each of you at all times has your own life, your own struggles and demands on your time, your attention, your energy. I hope I’ve made you always aware how much I value you, how much I appreciate you.

Thank you. I quite literally could not do this without you.

please, for the love of god

tag ur steven universe

there are too many rocks for me to blacklist each one individually

ask-queen-georgina  asked:

(( OKAY SO SOMEONE SENT ME A MEME SO THE 1ST MUSE THAT SHOWS UP ON MY DASH IS THE ONE MY MUSE HAS TO KISS AND THAT'S U SO LET ME KNOW IF THIS IS WEIRD )) Georgina leaned over and planted a kiss on Benedict's cheek.

@ask-queen-georgina ((IT’S FINE I’M TOTALLY DOWN))

Benedict jumped and gave Georgina a shocked look. “Um, what are you doing..?”

spelon-berry  asked:

OMGyou are Peixel! And u did that blue diamond art that showed up on my dash!! ImSCREAM I really hope for a speed paint of that one :P HAI!

Lol Hi!! And I actually did record the process. I want to upload it when I finish the rest of the diamonds 😁

So sometimes I reblog something and then one of my mutuals reblogs it from me and it shows up on my dash, but by then I’ve forgotten that I reblogged it, so I reblog it again from them and then I realize it five post later as I’m scrolling and I see my original reblog, so I have to quick go back and delete the second reblog.

eddieisnt replied to your post:“I thought ur character looked disgusting that is…

That is terrible and you (as well as your character) deserve better than that. You are an amazing artist, and I look forward to seeing your art, ideas, and characters show up on my dash~ And I guarantee for every one person like your parent who doesn’t understand your ideas or characters, there are 100 people who will wholely appreciate them.. it’s never fun to be insulted. I’m sorry that happened to you!

cries,,, thank u very very much :’) that means a lot <3

yeah not understanding it, she said that too;; idk im just kinda shocked and super bitter cause she never rly talked like that before ??;

anyway thank u though ;w; im just making my ocs for myself and ppl like u anyway so ill def keep going <3

Although I have been up to date with all events thanks to my dash’s dedication to the show, I have seen exactly two actual episodes of Steven Universe and about a third of the way through the first one my entire life became Jasper and now I think about stupid embarrassing self-insert fanfiction all the fucking time someone help me

armoroad  asked:

HEY YOU SHOWED UP ON MY FRIEND'S DASH YESTERDAY I about died

I don’t know how I missed this message ahhh WHAT HAPPENED???

…it was the jigglypuff one, wasn’t it?