one more because of reasons

You can call an experience or relationship traumatic even if there’s no one you can/want to blame for what happened.

If you were traumatized by what happened, that impact is real even if it isn’t anyone’s fault. There are situations where everyone involved does their best with the information and abilities they have and someone still experiences trauma.

Abuse is not the only traumatic experience, just a common one. Not having your needs met for totally blameless reasons can be traumatic. Having your autonomy taken away by illness or other random chance can be traumatic. Many traumatizing experiences can happen when you’re utterly alone. Even ‘ordinary experiences’ can be traumatic in some contexts.

There’s no reason for trauma that’s ‘too silly’. If you’re traumatized, it’s not because you’re 'too sensitive’ and it doesn’t automatically mean you’re minimizing other people’s experiences.

You’re allowed to acknowledge your trauma. You’re allowed to look at experiences you’ve had through the lens of trauma. You’re allowed to grieve and process your traumatic experiences even if you don’t understand why they were traumatic or if similar experiences didn’t tramautize others you know.

You’re allowed to acknowledge how badly you were hurt even if you can’t point a finger at one person who hurt you.

“The amount of information in your brain could be stored in a paper airplane.”

aka my quest to make any bit of dialogue into something fond HAHA…

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Q: Can we talk baby goats and how that completely blew up?  How everyone loves you holding baby goats in the show?

Travis Fimmel: Oh, did they really?  Oh, that’s funny.  I don’t know if I’ve held a goat.  I held a lamb one time, it was a lamb.  I dunno, I just walked past and I grabbed one.  I needed something to hold because the two girls sitting next to me weren’t very happy with me.  It got comforting that way.

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All’s fair in friendship and espionage.

reasons to watch juana inés:

  • it’s based off a real-life mexican poet who is widely considered the first published feminist of the new world. 
  • it even includes some of her poems/writings as voiceovers
  • also there’s speculation that she was a lesbian and that’s touched upon in the show!!! a lesbian nun!!!!! 
  • it doesn’t ignore what was happening outside of the court. that is, it shows the racism and colonization in really jarring scenes imo. personally i wish it had been in it a little more, and i especially wish they’d included part of sor juana’s loa to divine narcissus, but… it is what it is. 
  • personally i love the acting and the plots and the antagonists are just so annoying like let my girl write!!!! let her live!!!!
  • it’s only seven episodes long 
  • the cinematography is honestly so beautiful??? some of the shots still have me speechless they’re just so breathtaking and vibrant. 
  • literally i just love it so much and that might be because i love sor juana and i’m biased but also i just? really love it??? 
  • like it honestly did just such a good job imagining her life and it is just so beautiful
  • in summary: watch it

A big angel with his beautiful smol angel. 

I swear I’m doing the devil’s work here since there still isn’t enough deckerstar fanart for my liking. I shall make more until more artists do the same. 

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ways that silver and gladion are the same

  • edgy nasty boys
  • both homeless / living alone
  • sad childhood
  • want to be strong
  • zubat on team
  • both angry that youre stronger than them
  • poses before battling
    • silver points and gladion goes full dio (glaDIOn) 
  • relations to the bad guys
  • pointy
  • probably like really big self esteem issues
  • dark clothes
  • just real nasty
  • this

“lets make headcanons that ‘fix’ the sexism of the sixties" 

or lets not in case they get popular and people new to the fandom confuse your headcanon for irl canon, and instead lets openly talk about the sexism, racism, homophobia, transphobia, and all the other bigotry ingrained into the show because of the time period and environment it was written in, ya know, like adults.

like, stop fucking ignoring the problems and actively address them. Especially in a show that is ABOUT moving beyond and learning from our bigotry and prejudice, actively criticizing it can help future series or movies also learn from the problems and fix them.

Not to like, start anything, but why is Bodhi Rook so small in all the Rogue One promo material?? Like I’d consider him a focal part of the show and yet:

Like…. the droid is bigger than him in 3 out of 4 of these???? Why is he so far removed from everyone else??? He NAMES the TEAM guys

The villagers were all staring at him expressionlessly. Coldly. The village head threw the bright red fabric at his feet. Her cruel expression was shrouded in darkness.

“Leave!” she barked. “Leave and let the wolves be done with you.”

when people hate karamel and mon - el for no reason and you’re just

listen…..we gotta talk about yamakage

midnight-mod  asked:

QUICK TELL ME ABOUT CLARY I HAVE SO MANY FUCKING OCS AVAILABLE FOR SHIPPING LET'S MATCHMAKE

OH HONEY HERE WE GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO 

“Howdy y’all~”

Clary is my sweet southern belle who is just… hERE TO HELP. THAT IS IT THAT IS WHAT SHE’S HERE FOR.

She’s an aromatherapist! She works really well with herbs and flowers and she can just tell what, exactly, it is you need. Honestly the aromatherapy is like… secondary almost, she’s here to make YOU feel better however she can, and while they supplement that she’s also really, really good at talking to ponies/knows when to give them space. I’ve been on the fence on if she might be a licensed counselor actually! It could definitely be canon honestly. 

She’s also like…. a giant goob. She makes the most killer tea. She’s got a really thick accent. She’s never seen snow before she moved to the empire. She absolutely is not fazed by anything, a bomb could go off behind her and she’d just be like. 

You can read/see more about her right here on her blog~

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방탄소년단 THROUGH THE ERAS:
JEON JUNGKOOK (A SMOL BUN FOR SMOL MY BUN @taehkooks)

Here’s Ed in a dress.

FUN FACT: up until about the 40s or 50s, pink was a boy’s color, since it was thought of as a diluted red. Blue was for girls, because Virgin Mary was oft depicted in a soft blue shawl.

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☆ I just want to draw Goku  ☆

Can’t believe Goku becomes a bara in 10 years, though. I like to think that by then he’s no longer constantly hungry and can bench press mountains.

Also if he had kids, he’d totally name them after food: “Ichigo”, “Ringo”, etc.