once insecure

anonymous asked:

I wonder how marrying estellise would work in a new rf game, if she were a bachelorette, because how much she loves zaid????

Ah, I’ve thought about this some before! Rival marriages would have to be a thing for sure, and it wouldn’t be outright stated that she has feelings for him, even though it’d be really obvious. Based on the backstory I wrote for her, one of the main requirements for the avatar to marry her would probably be helping her patch up her friendship with Zaid, because it’d go into her backstory and her insecurities. Once that was solved, you could either pursue her or set the two of them up.

anonymous asked:

My girlfriend (or ex???) is always insecure. She once told she wanted to break up with me because she kissed a guy for a dare. Which I didn't worry, I trust her. So we gave ourselves some time. Now we are back, I guess. And many other situations, how can I make her feel less insecure?

You can’t take on that burden. You’re not responsible for her insecurities. You can point her in the right direction for psychological help, you can tell her how you feel and make her feel special, you can communicate honestly with her - but at the end of the day, it’s her who needs to overcome the insecurities.

- Ash

anonymous asked:

Dad: How do you feel about the way Leah's been acting? Are you proud of her?

send me ‘dad’ and a question and my character’s dad will answer it.

    ❝ if you’re asking if i’m disappointed in her, i’m sure the hell not. i know that nobody could even imagine what they would do in her shoes. i see the guilt she carries around about my death from up here. i see the way she tries to push everyone away…. i see how scared she is to get hurt again. i see how all of those boys have bitten back ten times harder at least once. i see how insecure she is about being the first female wolf, but it’s just because she is so god damn strong. don’t think that the quileute spirits could have picked a better woman for the job of being first. i’m very proud of how much pain she has been able to live through. not just anybody has that inside them. i wish that she’d be easier on her mother, but i guess i can understand why she isn’t. if only i cold tell her it’s okay for her mother to try to find happiness without me around. ❞

Can Numerology Make You A Millionaire?

It can guide you and give you hints if you wish to become a millionaire.

Money wants to flow!  It is neither good nor bat.  It is completely neutral.  Money is simply energy.  Money is energy flowing. You determine whether your money carries a good or bad energy.  Money doesn’t mind what you are thinking.  But what you think will determine how you act with money, and that in turn influences the flow of money.

What type of money manager are you?

Type 1: You will be successful once you overcome your insecurity, realize your own potential and have confidence in your own creative possibilities.

Type 2: You  have an instinct for success and money increase if you serve humanity and regard money as a source to help you enjoy your life.

Type 3: Your success depends on your commitment and your self-esteem.

Type 4: You’re successful when you live by your own potential and patiently let your creativity flow.

Type 5: You love to achieve success but from a safe framework.

Type 6: You have goals and ideas you want to achieve professionally according to your own self-confidence.

Type 7:  You are successful when you integrate the law of giving and taking. You take a holistic attitude towards success.

Type 8:  You have a more materialistic view to success. You love competition and status.

Type 9:  Your success is a natural offspring from your service to humanity.

- Taken from Numerology by Christine Bengel and Patrick Stahel

Why do I even bother

When I first started this I assumed I’d keep it secret, as a safe space to share my feelings unfiltered. I figured that at some point my metamour might read it and with some distance maybe understand a different part of me but these days I’m having less and less hope that this might happen. In fact I’m pretty sure if she reads this she’s just going to hate me even more. They keep saying that I’m paranoid and that I always think that everyone hates me - That might be true, but I’ve also known love. I’ve felt it and while I might have my moments  of panic and insecurity, once i calm down I can usually remember it. 
Not with her. With her I’ve felt tolerance at best. Maybe its the way she talks, or handles thing but I just know I’m not getting what I need and I’m not sure if its worth it anymore. 

I simply can’t shake the feeling that no matter what she’s deeply invested in this idea that I’m a bad person. Every time I reach out to her I get almost no compassion in return.
When I talk to her she just gives me a blank stare. It’s like talking to a wall. She hardly ever offers an opinion and when she does its to either tell me how I’m being an asshole or justify my husbands behavior. I’m fine with her telling me that I’ve done something wrong but I wish she’d stop acting like I just do shit in a vacuum. Every action has a reaction. It comes from somewhere. I’m not proud of who I am right now but I’d be totally delusional in thinking that it just fucking happened. 
She says to my husband that she cares for me but I never see that evidenced in her interactions with me. My friends that DO care about me, that DO care about my husband and I staying together see it as a two way street. I dealt with a lot of shit and it affected me negatively and now we need to work on that together. To her and A I’m just the problem, plain and simple. They may not actually think that but that’s what gets communicated to me. 

  He says its because she’s afraid of me, because she’s intimidated by me, because she has issues with her aunt . After a while it doesn’t matter any more. I don’t know why I keep going to her for something that I’m never going to get. 

thecompetitor  asked:

idk do that loser thecompetitor maybe

Personal Thoughts | Accepting 

@thecompetitor

I mean this loser right here… is the shit tbh. Dee is awesome, seems really passionate about the plots that we talk about even if we don’t get them into threads straight away. Never once have I felt insecure about hitting her up with anything, she makes me hella confident about my writing even when I think it’s awful. Can I just say I love the random graphics whenever she makes them for our ships - I feel so blessed that it’s given her muse to be creative like that! Also her puns/jokes have a weird way of cheering me up I don’t know if that says something about my sense of humour or not?? - I see your ¾ am text posts buddy, every day (timezones I guess?)

And no, she isn’t the easiest girl to love. She has this bad habit of overthinking, she tends to overreact more than she should, and she gets a little insecure every once in a while. She’ll be needy for your attention, she’ll want to literally take up all of your time, and she’ll require a lot of reassurance. If anything, she is everything you wouldn’t want in a girlfriend. She isn’t capable of fully trusting you, she doesn’t know when to stop fighting with you even if she’s wrong, and she has no problem pushing you away if she feels like you’re close to hurt her. Loving her will stress you out, loving her will make you angry, loving her will break your heart at times, loving her will test you, loving her will challenge you, and loving her will change you. It may get so demanding that you’ll be tempted to walk away, it may get so hard that you’ll think about giving up, and it may get so complicated that you won’t want to deal with her anymore. Loving her means you get to see her at her worst and most vulnerable and that is something that you’ll have be strong enough to handle because she needs someone who’s patient enough to understand why she is who she is today. It’s not gonna be an easy relationship with her. But if she is in love with you, then she can promise that you’ll be loved with such passion and intensity that you’ll forget what life felt like before she came along because she’ll always be there to put your heart back together after breaking it. Maybe she’s not the best at being loved, but she’s pretty amazing at loving.
black

i have so much to say, but the sad thing was no one among my friends or family is capable enough to handle the weight of my sorrow.
im so tired in bottling all these things up that i can feel the break of my bottle every passing minute. im so scared in doing something that can sadden others but i just want this to end this emptiness, this feeling of nothing to every damn thing at once, these insecurities, this sadness, this pain. i might seem happy but im far from that mask, im only wearing it for the sake of others if only i was raise selfish this whole thing would be done easily. i just want to end this feelings, these voices, everything, i want to end it all. 

anonymous asked:

HC for RFA + V + Saeran with a MC into cosplay and wanting to do couple cosplays witht them ? ~

Yoosung-
•oh fuck yes
•he already has a list of shit he wants to cosplay its overwhelming
•hes so exite
• this is gonna be grEAT

ZEN-
•cos-what?
• once they explain he thinks it sounds cool
• he could pull off pretty much any character so like d o i t
• he’ll also do some other things with them in cosplay ;)

Jaehee -
•needs persuasion
•eventually caves
•super insecure but once she’s I’m cosplay she’s totally feeling herself like she’s so confident its wonderful
• and god damn does she look good

Jumin-
•what’s cosplay
•still confused after explaining it
•and the second time
•this could take a while

Saeyoung-
•OH FUCK YEAH
• he already had cosplay stuff anyway so he’ll put together what he can for whatever character
• and he’ll buy the rest
• happy boi

V-
• has no idea what cosplay is
• once its explained he’s a little on edge but agrees
•"whatever makes you happy dear :)“
•he looks good af in cosplay dAmN

Saeran-
•nope
•MC would have to beg and whine for DAYS to get him to agree
• and he’ll whine the whole time
• but damn does he look f i n e

And no, she isn’t the easiest girl to love. She has this bad habit of overthinking, she tends to overreact more than she should, and she gets a little insecure every once in a while. She’ll be needy for your attention, she’ll want to literally take up all of your time, and she’ll require a lot of reassurance. If anything, she is everything you wouldn’t want in a girlfriend. She isn’t capable of fully trusting you, she doesn’t know when to stop fighting with you even if she’s wrong, and she has no problem pushing you away if she feels like you’re close to hurt her. Loving her will stress you out, loving her will make you angry, loving her will break your heart at times, loving her will test you, loving her will challenge you, and loving her will change you. It may get so demanding that you’ll be tempted to walk away, it may get so hard that you’ll think about giving up, and it may get so complicated that you won’t want to deal with her anymore. Loving her means you get to see her at her worst and most vulnerable and that is something that you’ll have be strong enough to handle because she needs someone who’s patient enough to understand why she is who she is today. It’s not gonna be an easy relationship with her. But if she is in love with you, then she can promise that you’ll be loved with such passion and intensity that you’ll forget what life felt like before she came along because she’ll always be there to put your heart back together after breaking it. Maybe she’s not the best at being loved, but she’s pretty amazing at loving.
—  Anxiety
exo reaction to: their s/o being self-conscious about their stomach

request: I love your reactions! I was wondering if you could do an Exo reaction to their GF usually being proud of their curves but is self conscious about their stomach? Thanks and much love! 😊❤
author’s response: thank you for requesting and thank you so much for checking out my blog! much love to you too and i hope you have a good day!


Originally posted by daenso

suho: “jagi, come here. you’re beautiful just the way you are.” never feels hesitant or annoyed to assure you of your worth. he understands that your insecurities won’t vanish in a second, so he continuously presses about how wonderful you are to the point where it becomes engraved in your brain.

Originally posted by chenrrerorocher

xiumin: “now, baby, don’t be like that. you know you’re absolutely gorgeous.” will never get frustrated at you being insecure, even if he doesn’t like it. he’ll listen to your worries and talk them out with you and if that doesn’t help, he’ll lose his abs to make you more comfortable. he’ll want to show that looks really don’t matter, it’s what’s on the inside.

Originally posted by baekhyuntella

baekhyun: “hey, don’t say that.” although, he may not show it, your words really hurt him. he doesn’t want you to feel bad about your appearance and start overworking or even starving yourself to lose weight. he wants you to realize that you’re perfect just the way you are and that you don’t ever have to change a thing unless you want to, but not for the world. he knows that it’ll take a lot to convince you to love yourself, but he’s willing to go down that road to make sure that his wonderful baby realizes (her/his) worth.

Originally posted by dazzlingkai

jongin: “oh, stop it! you’re perfect!” jongin takes you seriously, but his bright smile as he tries to diminish your worries sometimes makes your insecurities vanish just for a moment. he lets you know that you’re absolutely gorgeous and that if anyone else doesn’t think so, that they’re the ones who’re stupid and that you don’t have to change a thing.

Originally posted by kaisanity

jongdae: “aww, now don’t feel that way.” tells you that you don’t have to worry about your looks, that to him you’re a beautiful young (man/lady) and that your looks don’t matter. during sex, he’ll pay a lot of attention to your stomach and rest his head there during pillow talk, stroking the region around your navel.

Originally posted by sehunicorne

sehun: “why are you being like that? you’re beautiful! have you not seen your body?” his confusion might seem a little harsh and insensitive, but he honestly doesn’t understand how someone so stunning can be so blind to their own beauty ??? he’ll often pepper kisses along your stomach a lot, unless it makes you uncomfortable.

Originally posted by kyungsuhos

kyungsoo: found you being insecure to be so sad. he thinks you’re absolutely stunning, but the fact that you can’t see the same thing makes him so frustrated. he’ll often randomly press about how beautiful you are or scribe notes when you wake up in the morning about how perfect you are to him. and if that doesn’t work, his frustration will only mount.

Originally posted by chanyeolaconda

chanyeol: doesn’t understand how such a beautiful entity can feel so insecure, so once his confusion clears, he does everything in his power to make you feel just as gorgeous as you are to him. whether that’s writing a song about how perfect you are or letting you know how beautiful you are every single day, he’ll do whatever it takes.

Originally posted by jhoonie

yixing: likes to cover your stomach with petals of sweet kisses no matter the occasion. when you often moan about how much you hate your stomach, he’ll gently wind his arms around your waist and tell you how much he loves you and how you shouldn’t ashamed of how you look and that it’s a wonderful piece of who you are – the love of his life.


author’s note: “there is nothing wrong with your body, but there is a lot wrong with the messages that try to convince you otherwise.” - rae smith. you are beautiful and perfect just the way you are. what you have is what makes you who you are and one day someone will see that and say “damn. they’re pretty awesome.” don’t change what you have for the world, change it for you. for your happiness.

i hope someone reading this feels better about themselves and has placed one foot on the path to discovering how beautiful they are.

It’s Time to Talk Sam Manson

If it’s not already obvious from the fact that I run the @sam-manson-defense-squad, I love Sam. Sadly, she seems to have gotten a nasty reputation among fans, which is a right shame because there’s a lot that can be done with her character. I do understand that her execution in the show was flawed, but if people can overlook bad writing for other characters, I think we should be able to do the same for Sam. Since the first two episodes do a pretty job establishing what she’s like, she seemed like a great character to start off with.

As a general rule, these character-specific posts will be focusing on the positives (meaning what I think makes them a good character and how they work as part of the show). I’m trying to enjoy something I love, and I don’t wanna spread negativity.

Anywho, let’s get started. (warning: will likely be image-heavy)

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{I think this is like the my first contribution to the VLD fandom/LANCE and also, I don’t know much about heterochromia, contact lenses and spectacles so gotta suck it up, if anything} {Oh, warning: bad english because it isn’t my first language so yeah and this is going to be a really, really long post}


-Since Lance was young, he has been very conscious about the condition he was born with; heterochromia but what made it worse for him was that his left eye seemed to be in an uncommon shade of turquoise/blue(??) and kind of look like it is capable of glowing in the dark (yeah, he figured he can see clearly in the dark which was an advantage but again, it can glow like a fucking light bulb, how much more scared and insecure can my son be?) 

-His condition kinda scared his younger siblings at first which made him insecure about it although later on, they were fine with it

-So he began wearing contact lens in his left eye when he started going to high school because his schoolmates teased and bullied him for that before 

-His contact lens color is the same as his right eye which is a shade of very dark blue to the point it looks like an extension of his pupil (I know I messed it up in my art I guess lmao)

-For years, he went on with it then in the middle, his eyesight started to go bad so he needed spectacles

-And he was also teased for that so he had to get new contact lenses but still keep the old ones and a pair of spectacles with him, just in case

-This went on from high school, to the Garrison, and then, Voltron period started (Hunk only knows about the glasses since Lance can’t keep wearing his contact lens all day long and for some time, he struggled to keep his heterochromia secret going on)(Lance was right, Hunk’s the best of friends he could have asked for, for keeping his glasses thing a secret)

-One day, after another day of battling the enemy and saving a planet from their attack, Lance found his left eye exposed and contact lens missing 

-He panicked at the realization of only having that one contact lens with him because he left the extras on Earth when they had to leave. he didn’t think of it much at that time until then

-It was time for dinner and Lance wasn’t at the table to join the rest of team so when Hunk looked for him, he heard Lance’s voice from inside Blue 

-Lance said he wasn’t hungry so without needing to see his face, Hunk left Lance while the blue paladin has been going around for hours looking for his contact lens, thinking it came off during the battle

-Later on, Lance starts to cope himself up in his room once his insecurities started to overwhelm him and he was torn between wearing his glasses or just stay in his room to avoid seeing the rest of the team 

-After avoiding the team for almost two weeks except when there’s a mission (he leaves his room late at night to get food and wakes up early to hang around in Blue’s hangar all day long so he wouldn’t have to run into anyone else in the castle when they are under attack or got to their Lion), Pidge came barging into his room one evening

-Fortunately, Lance could cover his face the second she came in but after some shouting from Pidge and plenty of obviously pointless excuses from Lance, Pidge decided to drag Lance without bothering to ask him to stop covering his face (surprisingly, she’s really strong despite being the smallest of them, minus the mice)

-The group plus Allura and Coran have gathered in the room when he got there with Pidge, one hand still covering the left side of his face

-Lance finally removed his hand but only to close his eyes

-He told Hunk he lost his contact lens but then for the first time in forever, Hunk scolded him saying nothing matters anymore(his glasses issue) but knew Hunk did so because he was really worried

-Lance then agreed to Hunk and put on his glasses which he kept hidden in his jacket but still had his eyes closed which now still confused everyone including Hunk

-After thinking and making decisions in his head for a few minutes, Lance discreetly opened his eyes, subconsciously opening his left eye slower than the other

-As expected, the team looked at him in surprise and strangely, but was his turn to be confused when he saw Allura and Coran’s faces: their eyes were glistening with tears and beaming with excitement

-Not long after, Lance was confirmed to somehow be half-Altean when Coran made Lance undergo a test on himself and explained that Alteans have a medical condition similar to human’s (the one where your eyes can glow in the dark like animals’) but the condition made the eye glow brighter for Alteans 

-Weeks after the incident, Lance wore new contact lens, made by using Altean tech because he wasn’t used to looking at his eyes bare naked in front of the mirror and exposed to everyone (he’s still trying though)

-Also, being taught and guided to turn into his Altean form by Allura over the past few weeks, now Lance is stuck with having glowing freckles, which is another condition he could have inherited from his predecessor and is very rare (remember that starry freckles trend? yeah, close to that but literally glows in the dark) other then having the same Altean marks Allura and Coran have on his cheeks (THIS ISN’T EVEN HIS LAST FORM)


Bonus:

-Honestly, Pidge finds it interesting so she switches the lights on and off a lot just to watch him glow in the dark

-Hunk keeps spares of Lance’s contact lens for him, just in case things happen again

-Keith sometimes find himself staring at Lance (because who could have known he had a thing for freckles lmao)

-Keith’s situation could be merged with Shiro because damn, y’all and your ships. 

-(While maybe Shiro has a thing for Lance in his round glasses *dokidoki @ the sight of Cuban megane boi when he first walked into the room that night*)


I don’t mind anyone using this as reference or something as long as they tell me in some kind of ways so I am aware of them using it

I know I suck at writing so there you go

Good day :D

Addition (It’s really not necessary depending on how you wanna do it/Im just having fun): WARNING: SHANCE Lance: Wow, I didn’t realise I was training with my glasses on. It felt uncomfortable but it didn’t fall off though??? Shiro: *in his mind* Let’s bring it up a notch; Try riding me with it on.