Psst! Harry and Ginny for the ship thing?
oh god HELL YES I looooove thinking about these two just being domestic and gross. they deserve it so much.
Who said “I love you” first: At some point after the Battle of Hogwarts was done - maybe it was while people were still pulling bodies from the rubble, maybe it was back at the Burrow, I don’t know - they found themselves alone together. Well, maybe not physically alone, but they felt alone. They let themselves lean into each other, touching for the first time in months, and it was painfully unromantic. They just held each other up for a bit.
“I’m glad you’re alive,” said Ginny, who was never one for romance.
“Thanks,” said Harry.
“I think I love you, you know.”
Any other time Harry would have choked. He would have panicked and said something terrible, and then had to go run this by Hermione to find out exactly what he should have said.
But just then he nodded and said, “You too. I love you too, I mean.”
(He panicked about it later, wondering if they’d said it to soon, but he never regretted it.)
Who would have the other’s picture as their phone background: Ginny isn’t usually sentimental, but she does insist on taking cute couple selfies with Harry to be her background. When they’re older, there’s a picture of Harry fast asleep with all three of their small children that she’ll have as her background for years. It’s her favorite picture in the world.
Harry honestly hits me as the type of person to leave his phone background with the generic setting, so Ginny just takes some selfies on his phone and sets on as his background for him.
Who leaves notes written in fog on the bathroom mirror: Ginny but she mostly just draws dicks or dumb stuff like that.
Who buys the other cheesy gifts: I mean… they’re two huge dorks with waaaay too much money at their disposal. You know they both do. Harry literally never worries about money in the Wizard world, so whenever he sees shit Ginny might like he just buys it for her.
It took Ginny a while to get used to being financially stable, and she tries to be responsible about it anyway, but every once in a while she sees some stupid shit that Harry would love and goes “fuck it we’re rich.”
Who initiated the first kiss: as we all know, Ginny took care of that one IN FRONT OF ALL OF GRYFFINDOR, GOOD JOB GINNY
Who kisses the other awake in the morning: Harry; Ginny usually tells him his morning breath is terrible and then kisses him back anyway. (Honestly I love these kids but they’re probably like… disgustingly comfortable with each other’s grossness. Have they shared a toothbrush? It’s possible.)
Who starts tickle fights: Honestly that is… not recommended; Ginny is prone to getting violent when tickled.
Who asks who if they can join the other in the shower: I don’t think they’re a shower sharing couple, really; they both enjoy a bit of space. But one will happily hang about in the bathroom chatting with the other until they get out of the shower.
Who surprises the other in the middle of the day at work with lunch: Ginny shows up at the Ministry all the damn time just to hang out with Harry and there’s not a dang thing anyone can do to stop her. He’s Harry Fucking Potter, nobody is going to tell him his girlfriend/wife is in too much.
Who kills/takes out the spiders: They both do; there’s no spider fear here.
Who loudly proclaims their love when they’re drunk: Honestly I think drunk Ginny must be like… a riot. She doesn’t even so much proclaim her love as, like, get really handsy and try flirting with Harry very badly. He thinks it’s the cutest thing in the world.
Harry’s the one who will have, like, two drinks and be staring Ginny in the eyes and asking if she knows how much he loves her.