omg you really need to stop

My thoughts during Accepting Anxiety part 2
  • Roman can talk very quickly damn
  • “And that’s what you missed on…” “ME!”
  • I want that cat plushie
  • I WANT THAT NIGHTMARE BEFORE CHRISTMAS POSTER
  • Roman’s offering to destroy spiders, but did get scared of one potentially being     behind him in Losing My Motivation hmmmm what is the truth?
  • Creepy Crawley Death Dealers
  • Anxiety has the same reaction as me when people enter my room unannounced
  • Poor Roman. Hope the brush didn’t hurt too much
  • Quack quack
  • Poor Anxiety :(
  • “Except for you Patton. You’re a funny guy.” “I love my dark strange son.” Same.
  • THE STEADILY GROWING EYESHADOW
  • “Cotton headed ninny muggins” now I’m thinking of Christmas in July thanks Logan haha
  • It seems that me and Roman share distaste in oatmeal raison cookies
  • “I’ve just got a lot of feelings” HE DOESN’T EVEN GO HERE
  • Logan going on tangents is honestly so me
  • SCIENCE TIME WITH LOGAN HUZZAH
  • BY THE HORN OF A UNICORN I am so using that
  • I am bitterly (?), jittery and not very glittery
  • E = MC SCARED A level physics flashbacks aaaggghhh make them stop
  • Yes Roman!!!!! “You make us better” *cries*
  • The Great Spider Threat of 2017 I’m proud of you too Patton
  • Patton’s been theorising he’s one of us haha
  • NAME NAME NAME VIRGIL VIRGIL NAME NAME ABORT EMMA.EXE HAS STOPPED WORKING
  • “You are nothing compared to the others” I highly doubt that that’s nothing Roman oooooooo speculation
  • “You can be a good guy” brb I need to find tissues
  • I want an Alice in Wonderland puzzle book now
  • “Greetings… friendo” why do I love the way he says friendo?
  • Roman has as many posters as there are Dalmatians and I don’t think that a coincidence
  • U R FAM ILY
  • “He never really was good at art” shhhhhhhhhhh
Cliches to avoid for essays

The Prospect

1. The Immigrant Essay

Going back over the essays I received during the college essay extravaganza, 50% of the Common App essays I read were about students and their families moving to the US and learning to adjust. Now, I’m not saying that your familial struggles aren’t intense and worthy of talking about; after all, many students wrote about the loneliness they felt being the only new kid in school or having to adjust to American customs, and those are all absolutely valid conversations.

However, if you put all of these “moving to America” stories in a pile and read them one after another, they start to bleed together. The story lines and characters all sound the same. And for you, that means less of a chance to stand out and more of a chance of being labeled “one of those immigrant kids”. Is it fair? Absolutely not. Is that the way it is? Unfortunately, yes.

2. The “They Taught Me More Than I Taught Them” Essay

Please for the love of all that is admissions don’t write about the time you went on a service trip to a third-world country and learned from the locals. Not only does it typically come across as condescending and privileged (since most high school students are not aware of how to talk about cultures in politically correct terms), but it’s also so overdone and bland.

3. The “Ski Slope” Essay

When many students answer the quintessential “talk about a time you overcame an obstacle” prompt, they tend to write something that I call the “ski slope” essay. In this scenario, the author was given a physical challenge (like a ski slope, mountain, scary water slide ride, etc.) and was eventually convinced overcome it. Again, it’s an essay that I’ve seen over and over (and over) again, and there’s no real way to write these essays well. They usually involve a lot of cliche adjectives and some other person convincing the writer to go down the slope. Inspiring? Not at all.

Look at it this way: Thousands of people learn how to ski every year; it’s boring and totally not unique. If you’re going to write about an obstacle, it needs to be an obstacle that only 0.00005% of the world has overcome. Otherwise, you’re just like everybody else.

4. The “Look at How Super Deep I Am” Essay

Kids, don’t try to go on a philosophical rant in your college essays. Not only do you typically sound like a pretentious, self-important twerp pulling stuff out of your butt (and admissions officers know it), but these tirades also tell the reader absolutely nothing about you as as potential member of a college. Don’t get meta. If you want to talk about all the great deep thoughts inside your head, start a blog.

5. The All-Dialogue Essay

Note: Spending half of your 650 words going through a conversation you had with your sister is a complete snore and a total waste of time and space. Cut our dialogue unless it’s funny or actually moves the story along. Something like this is just really dull fluff:

“Sister,”I said to her.

“Yes?” she said back.

She looked at me with angst. “What?” she asked again.

Three lines in and you’re bored already, right?

6. The Way-Too-Extended Metaphor Essay

What do dumplings, crayons, and hoop earrings have in common? They’re all inanimate objects that have been used as extended metaphors in college essays, and all of those essays were not good.

Pulling off the extended metaphor essay is hard, and as you’ve learned by now, it’s best to go into essay writing with the mentality that you are the rule, not the exception. So stop trying to compare your life to a squashed kumquat you saw on the side of the road and find a different topic.

7. The “Lesson about Failure Where You Didn’t Really Fail” Essay

Remember that an admissions essay is still a story, and the best heroes and heroines have legitimate pitfalls. If your biggest failure is that you had a hangnail but you eventually took care of it, not only do you look shallow, but you also look dull. Failures need to be actual heart-stopping, “OMG, NOOO!” failures. Either commit to going all the way or avoid writing this type of essay altogether.

8. The Bat Mitzvah Essay

When the Common App prompt asks for something that marked your transition into adulthood, stay away from cultural or religious events that actually mark adulthood, like a bar/bat mitzvah or a confirmation ceremony or something. The best essays about transitions into adulthood deal with unforeseen shifts, not obvious ones (for example, my friend wrote about the different types of boxers he bought throughout high school. Shift to adulthood? Yes. Totally freaking clever? Heck yeah).

9. The Straight Up Cliche Essay

There are many topics that are way overdone besides the ones listed above. Some examples of what I mean:

  • The “What I learned at this academic conference/camp/event” essay
  • The “What my mom/dad/family taught me” essay
  • The “How I felt about moving to a whole new place or being in a new environment” essay
  • The “How I learned to fit in” essay
  • The “Death of person x” essay
  • The “How my parents’ divorce changed me” essay
  • The “Here’s a very vague essay about my family’s culture” essay

Again, these are just a few of the many examples of cliche essays.

anonymous asked:

Oh god, I'm in love with the way you draw Hazel. She looks great! Could you maybe draw Rachel? (Only if you want to of course) She is my alltime favourite from the pjo-books and I sometimes have the feeling that she doesn't get enough attention. (I mean she's awesome! :D)

Thank you!! <3

Oh man yes! I have such strong feelings for Rachel and I really don’t get why people sometimes forget her?  

She truly is awesome

Science AUs
  • I accidentally spilled hydrochloric acid on you so you really need to use the emergency shower and omg, if i knew you looked that good shirtless and wet i would have spilled it on you much earlier in the semester
  • You caught me looking at your answers in the lab but you really need to let me keep copying you, please, I have no idea what i’m even looking at under the microscope
  • No one should look as good as you do in safety goggles
  • could you please stop saying “the mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell”???? it’s fucking physics
  • you keep messing up this titration and if i see this solution go bright bloody purple one more time i will beat you with the measuring cylinder 
  • i’m sorry i keep messing up the titration
  • i fainted during the dissection and you’re the one who caught me

today i went to a bakery and ordered a bun from a rly cute cashier and later when i looked at the receipt he’d written “i think you have really pretty hair” on it and um someone pls stop me from going back bc im just going to embarrass myself by getting my hopes up

lunarwolfspn  asked:

Could you do a Gaston x reader where he survives and people are rude to him but the reader gives him a chance and they fall for each other. The reader only give him a chance bc she felt bad for the way he was being treated. Thank you.

Pairing: Gaston x Reader
Fandom: Disney ; Beauty and the Beast (2017)
Warnings: /

A/N: end me, because I’ve officially fallen in love with gaston x reader and I can’t stop myself. I LOVE WRITING STUFF WITH HIM SO MUCH FUCK. anyways, thank you so much for this request love. I really hope you enjoy it!!! (also, I need this movie to come out on dvd so I can have more gifs of gaston lol. in the meantime, have other luke evans gifs BC WHY NOT OMG I LOVE THIS MAN SO MUCH)

                                                          *****

“Get out of this village, you scum!” he was thrown into the mud on the ground, several men and women standing around him with angry glares on their faces.

He had never been treated this way, so he didn’t know how to act.

Should he fight them?

But then again, he was one, they were many. He doubted anyone would stand by his side if he did indeed fight. Even LeFou had parted from him. He was on his own now and he couldn’t fight an entire village like that, so fighting back wasn’t an option.

Should he insult them?

And then what? What good what that do him?

They would never forgive him for what he did and insults wouldn’t change that fact.

So instead of doing any of those things, he held his – probably broken – ribs and started walking.

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Mbti Reacting To A Crying Friend ( ಥـْـِـِـِـْಥ)

INTP: … “look at that weather” … “its nice” 

INFP: “DONT WORRY ITS OK. HERE LOOK ITS THE PIC OF THAT VIRTUAL CHARACTER U LOVE SO MUCH” … “Hey but … you’ll be fine. The world is…” *goes on and on ends up having an existential crisis themselves*

INTJ: *ERROR … ERROR … ERROR*

INFJ: if you want to talk I’m here to listen … Really just take your time. You are fine really really. I’m here to listen.

ENFP: “OMG YOU ARE CRYING!! (/゚Д゚)/  OMG TEARS !! ARE YOU OK ?? Wait !!!! What am I saying?? You are crying of course you are not ok” *BIG HUGE HUG* “lets go out for a drink or something” :)

ENTP: *unconsciously cracks a joke* … *shows Memes* … *Puns* … *Cute animal pics* … … … “If you wanna talk I really don’t mind” … *more memes* … “I KNOW LETS GO GET DRUNK!!!”…. “ oh you need a hug???” … … … … … … “Fiiiine” *gives them a hug until they stop crying* … unconsciously cracks a joke again*

ENFJ : “WHO THE FUCK MADE U CRY????” (╯°□°)╯︵   “I’LL KILL THEM FOR YOU I SWEAR” … “Oh oh no no wait you’re alright”  *gives them a hug* *cracks a joke at the end*.

ESTP : “Hey don’t worry it’ll be fiiine like seriously. Please. Stop crying. Look memes. Want to join me in on a prank?? … no? WHAT DO I DO IN THIS SITUATION???”

ESFP : “YOU ARE CRYYYYING (ʘ_ʘ) . LOOK SHE’S CRYING  (/゚Д゚)/. EVERYONE SHE IS CRYING  \(*Д* \) . What to dooo???? X_X” *acts like some clown to cheer them up*

ENTJ : “well, life’s a bitch” -_-

ISFJ : “oooh dear don’t worry. You are ok. I’m here. Its fine”  *a big hug. gets them some food* (idk why don’t ask)

ISTJ: “U can always solve the problem its not the end of the world. want me to help u put out a plan??”

ISFP: (the clumsy one): “oh daamn. uuuuuh hey! i know! wanna go with me see some flowers?? its in this rly nice calm place. And um they r rly beautiful too” *gives a hug* “hey hey hey! don’t worry u can tell me whats wrong! rly … WE CAN EAT SOMETHIN’ TOO …. MUSIC IS GOOD TOO…” *ends up crying with them*  ( ಥـْـِـِـِـْಥ)

ISTP: “oh well. wanna go out for a drink?”

ESTJ: “oh…. crying…. uuh…. ok….. welp?…. want me to kick someone’s ass for you? or nah?”

ESFJ: “ TEARS! oh damn. WHO DID THIS???  oh dear. Don’t worry I’m here if you need anything”

anonymous asked:

Can i request for a how is day6 like when they're horny? HAHAJAHAJAHAH

HDJSKS YES I LOVED THIS REQUEST BLESS UR SOUL ANON :^)
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jae :
• this boy istg
• he just keeps raising his eyebrows up and down at you
• if ur in front of the other members he’s constantly trying to hide his boner with the guitar
• brian caught on really fast
• brian : hey jae lemme borrow ur guitar real quick // jae : {throws self out of window}
• he’s so triggered by everything you do
• e v e r y t h i n g
• take it as a compliment though
• if you deny him of attention he will fucking r i o t
• tease him it’s the funniest thing ever

brian :
• he’s not uP FOR THIS SHIT
• really needy
• wont show it tho
• one time u told him to ‘beatbox that boner away my dude’ and he almost threw you out of the house
• trying to play the bass to distract himself
• he’s d y i n g
• he keeps staring at you and ur just like bro u good
• ready to pounce on you once the members leave
• refuses to stop asking “blowjob under the table? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)” // you : ohmygod how did u say that emoticon out loud
• really nervous bc like in his mind he’s like ‘omg brian what if they can s e n s e that u have a raging boner at the dinner table’

wonpil :
• heS SO N E E D Y
• OHMYGOD
• GIVE ATTENTION TO HIM IMMEDIATELY
• really shy
• dislikes telling you about his needs bc oMg whAT iF u tHink hEs wEird
• wonpil, boys get boners all the time
• most times he’s really soft + shy about it
• unless
• it’s been a long day
• but that’s a story for another day

sungjin :
• he’s a gentleman
• dislikes telling you about his problems
• if ur not in the mood don’t worry !!
• sungjin does not mind at all
• hes lowkey sad
• bUt reaLLY RESPECTS UR DECISIONS
• so do all the others but like sungjin immediately stops and just chills
• u told him to dance away the boner one time
• u weren’t allowed to talk to him for a whole two days after that

dowoon :
• hes my child don’t touch him
• that is all
• jK
• he bodyrolled and lifted his shirt up in front of u
• you locked him out of the house

idonotagreebitch  asked:

Omg omg requests are open ok. Hiii~ How would RFA+V+Saeran react if MC had a really bad heart disease and suddenly she fainted and she stopped breathing and they have to resuscitate her? But don't kill her, please😂 You don't have to do it but you need to know that all of my request are really personal. I have a disease like this and I could faint at every moment if I don't take my medicine. I will be so grateful if you write it, really, it helps me somehow:) Kisses💕

We’re sorry to hear:( Hope you take good care of yourself~ And hope you like these:)


Zen:

  • You’re Zen’s manager, and he’s been especially busy lately
  • You were running around on set one day and he notices you seemed a little out of breath
  • He stopped you in the middle of a run
  • “Maybe you should take a rest,” he says more as a demand than a suggestion
  • He sits you down and goes to get you some water and something to eat
  • He notices you still aren’t calming down at all and he starts to get worried
  • He knows about your heart disease, and he also knows how busy you’ve been
  • As you seemed to get paler and paler, dread pools in his stomach
  • “Babe…did you take your medicine?”
  • You don’t even get to answer the question
  • You crumple forward as you pass out in his arms
  • He’s frantic, but he manages to call the medical team on set
  • He feels sick as he watches them resuscitate you and place you on the stretcher
  • He follows them as they take you to the hospital
  • When you wake up, one of the first things you say is, “Sorry I forgot to take my medicine. I was concentrating on finishing today’s shoot…”
  • He begins scolding you right away
  • He’s nearly out of breath and his voice keeps breaking
  • “Is that what’s important? Your health is more important to me than any shoot or role or anything, and–”
  • He stops himself before he upsets you
  • But he’s so relieved when you can finally go home
  • He makes sure you never forget your medicine ever again

Yoosung:

  • He just came back from work, and he thought a nice little impromptu outing would be nice
  • So you two go to the park
  • It’s a warm day, but even so…you look more tired than usual
  • Then he grabs your hand, and he can feel it shaking
  • He asks if you’re okay, and you respond that you just need a second
  • You press a hand to your heart as your breaths get shallower
  • He’s watching you worriedly
  • When you don’t seem to be improving, he helps you up and says you’re going to the doctors
  • You’re almost to the car when you collapse onto the ground
  • He’s a mess
  • Half of his brain is freaking out with worry, and the other half is trying to figure out what to do
  • He dials 119
  • He just does what he knows to lessen the symptoms and to keep you breathing
  • He holds your hand and waits impatiently for help, terrified he’ll have to take further action
  • Thankfully, the ambulance gets there on time and the medical team resuscitates you
  • At the hospital, he manages to get himself together and is calm when you wake up
  • When the doctor says it was due to you not taking your meds, he seems very understanding
  • Then the doctor leaves, and Yoosung gets a lot more solemn
  • “This could be a lot worse, you know, if I wasn’t there,” he says, making you feel a little guilty. “You really need to remember, MC. If not for yourself, remember for me! I don’t know what I would’ve done if you hadn’t made it…”

Jaehee:

  • It was worse because she found you unconscious
  • You had said you were going in the back to grab something out of stock
  • And you were taking far longer than it should’ve taken
  • So when she finds your body crumpled on the ground, she freaks out
  • She doesn’t know how long you’ve been there or what had happened
  • She thinks it has to do with your heart disease, so she manages to calm down enough to call the ambulance
  • She can’t watch while they resuscitate you
  • The whole incident makes her want to faint herself
  • When the doctor says it happened because you forgot to take your medicine, she was a little upset
  • You mean the world to her so she couldn’t imagine what would happen if you had died
  • But she knows you probably already feel horrible about it
  • So she’s calm and sweet as you recover, but she’s very strict when it comes to taking your medicine
  • She will shove it in your hand if she has to

 Jumin: 

  • He was supposed to be in the office
  • But he didn’t really want to go in, so he decided to work from home that day
  • It was in the middle of the afternoon and you had started cooking dinner
  • His heart sunk when he heard a soft thud from the kitchen
  • He drops his computer and runs to you  
  • His head starts spinning when he sees you unconscious on the ground
  • But he’s also composed as he immediately calls for emergency services
  • He’s super calm while you’re being resuscitated
  • And also very calm as the doctor explains what happened with your skipped medicine
  • When you wake up, he’s right there to greet you
  • He waits until you’re a little more recovered, and then he gets a little stiff
  • “You really should have been more responsible,” he scolds. “Could you imagine what would have happened if I wasn’t home? You probably wouldn’t have made it, do you know that?”
  • And it’s in the middle of his admonitions that his emotions start breaking through the cracks
  • You think your heart might shatter at the tears that leak from the edge of his eyes
  • Then he brings your trembling hand to his lips, “I can’t lose you,” he says with painful honesty
  • After that, you’re a lot more careful about taking your medicine


Seven:

  • You were on your weekly shopping trip with Seven
  • At first, you were as playful as normal
  • But halfway through, you seemed to be laughing less and being a lot calmer
  • He just thought you switched to serious mode, so he calms down as well
  • But as the shopping continues, you just don’t seem yourself
  • Before he can asks what’s wrong, you collapse in one of the aisles
  • He knows your medical issues…and he has a pretty good idea what happened when you don’t wake up after a while
  • He calls the ambulance, but he knows it would take time to get
  • When you stop breathing, he’s performs CPR right there to keep you breathing
  • He seems really calm, especially considering the crowd around you now
  • But he loses it once the ambulance gets there and has to really resuscitate you
  • At the hospital, he can’t stay still
  • He’s tapping his leg, pacing the room, going crazy until you wake up
  • When the doctors says it’s because you didn’t take your pills, Seven’s already asking you why
  • He’s worried you’ve been too busy, but when you say you “simply forgot”, he’s blowing up on you
  • He’s freaking out and scolding you for not taking care of yourself
  • At some point, you start crying…both from the scare and from the fact that you made him so upset
  • He sees you and he just kind of deflates
  • He holds you on the hospital bed and apologizes for losing his temper, but not for what he said
  • “You’re all that I have. Please…I couldn’t bear to lose you.”

Saeran:

  • You were doing overtime for work at home
  • And he noticed you hadn’t left your desk much
  • He keeps telling you to take a break, but you keep dismissing it and saying you would
  • Only…you never did
  • You lost track of time, which means you didn’t take your meds as scheduled either
  • He finds you again by your computer, but you’re collapsed off of your chair and onto the floor
  • He calls the ambulance right away, though he gets aggravated with the operator
  • He’s freaking out cuz you’re still on the floor and they’re asking him to calm down
  • But eventually he gets off the phone and just calling your name
  • He’s just praying that you’ll wake up, but you don’t and his panic gets worse
  • When the medical team gets there, some of them have to keep him calm on the side because he’s getting triggered with all the stress as they resuscitate you
  • When you’re at the hospital, he’s a lot calmer when you wake up
  • He’s so relieved to see you awake
  • He doesn’t even scold you and just helps you recover
  • But you can bet he will drag you away from work if need be, since he’s not letting something like this happening again

V:

  • He was doing a photoshoot and you were accompanying him
  • It was starting to get late
  • So he told you to go home, especially since you had to take your meds
  • He continues with his shoot, but you think to yourself that waiting another hour or so would be fine
  • You think you could surprise him with coffee, so you walk down the street to find a little shop
  • Only you lost track of time
  • By the time you came back, he was just finishing up
  • He had thought  you went home and then came back
  • So he continued along and you two had a nice chat over the coffee
  • But then starts to notice you getting pale and breathing shallower breaths
  • He knows exactly what’s happening, and he catches you the second you fall
  • The hospital is close by, so he carries you into his car and rushes you there as fast as he can
  • He’s beating himself up the whole time, even after the hospital resuscitates you and you’re recovering
  • He says he should’ve noticed, even if you keep reassuring him that it was your own carelessness
  • From that point on, you’re more careful…even if it’s so he doesn’t blame himself for something like that

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B.A.P: dating Jongup would include

•  please save him the trouble of internally dying and approach him first
•  though he’ll be surprised if you do bc ??? Omg you’re even more angelic and beautiful from up close
•  no matter the circumstances, he needs to contact you later somehow bc you’ve got his head and heart in a mess
•  not the type to fall in love at first sight, so he’ll intend on befriending you before anything else
•  he can totally be straightforward and blunt sometimes
•  so once he feels like you felt the same about him, he’ll go in with the big guns
•  “so I want you to know it’s fine if you don’t say yes, but are we more than friends? See, I can’t really stop how fast my heart beats when you’re around, and lately I came to the conclusion that I’m happiest when I’m dancing and when I’m with you…please, be mine?”
•  okay well he might’ve stuttered and restarted this whole sentence that it took almost an hour to finally let it out, but you got the point
•  you’ll know never to interrupt or try to get something out of him if he’s struggling
•  bc he’ll only get frustrated and give up
•  it’s so endearing that he can never get the right words sometimes when he’s trying to talk about his feelings
•  but he appreciates that you never rush him or misunderstand him, he’s just really unsure and shy sometimes
•  you’ll get lost staring at him dancing while he’s performing oml
•  he gets even more shy and flustered when you compliment him on it
•  though he doesn’t tell you often, he really loves you and your presence itself makes him happy and jumpy
•  late nights and early mornings of texting when you’re not together
•  he’d take a while before introducing you to the members
•  but once he did, he’s so relieved bc now they don’t have to stress him
•  and now they know the reason behind him randomly smiling throughout the day and checking his phone every minute during practice
•  having long, quiet talks about nothing in particular
•  getting to watch him practice his dance routines and nearly fainting when he looks you right in the eye all sensually
•  like he’s so different when he’s performing ?????
•  lazy mornings bc you can never find the strength to get out of his arms
•  him being really open and honest with you as time goes
•  just don’t ask for any fashion or cooking advice bc this boy will not sugarcoat anything
•  don’t expect too much PDA tbh
•  but having him near you with his eyes always fixed on you is enough
•  having silent moments that aren’t awkward at all
•  him kissing you so passionately bc he’s not sure if any amount of words can sum up how he feels about you
•  he’s just a lovesick puppy 💜

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Just started dating AUs
  • “I came over for dinner and tried your cooking for the first time and you’re such a good cook I’m practically having an orgasm over here oh my god………. stop laughing at me!!” au
  • “We were about to have our first bath together and I was feeling a bit self conscious but then I noticed how much freaking bUBBLE BATH YOU HAVE HOLY SHIT WHAT IS THAT FOR……………. actually please can we have bubbles I’m secretly just a kid okay” au
  • “I’m really REALLY attracted to you and the first time we had sex I came way too quickly and got super embarrassed about it but you just found it endearing and now you won’t stop smiling at me omg I need to bury my face in this pillow for a thousand years” au
  • “You had no idea that I am allergic to X food/medicine/flowers and now I’m pretty sure I’m having a reaction and we’re gonna have to go to the emergency room like I’ll be fine but just fucking kiss me rly good in case I die okay, okay” au
  • “Why did you pick THAT emoji to go by my contact name oh my god you beautiful weirdo” au
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tbone83me  asked:

Guess what! I got rid of my Daddy who wasn't a Daddy.

I cannot even express how much I smiled when I read this ask….

Having personally counselled this little myself about the issues she was facing, I can tell you this was a monumental step in forward progress that was extremely difficult for her to do… but I can also tell you how incredibly proud I am of her for having done it.

With that… I present to you…

Misters guide to leaving your daddy properly, and how to give yourself aftercare when you do.

Leaving an abusive, neglectful, or otherwise bad relationship can be difficult. Often times littles will end up going back.. and this is for a number of reasons.

The “daddy” was a manipulative abuser who will try to get you back. He will say and do things.. make promises.. or even turn the tables and make you feel like it was your fault for leaving. He will grind you into the ground until you agree to come back, and then begin the cycle of abuse all over again.

So you fall for it.. thinking that over 7 billion people dont exist in the rest of the world and hes the only one youll have inside of the bubble hes forced you into.

So how do you overcome this repetitive behavior?

The first step is to block him. and do not discuss it with him… just do it. He uses his words to hurt you and destroy you, and if you try to justify or tell him why and how and when youre going to leave, that just gives him another chance to ring you in even more. 

Its kind of like using the 1-2-3 counting method on a disobedient child… all you are doing is giving them 3 extra seconds to be a twirp. But in this case, hes going to mentally grab you by the throat and force you to stay.

After blocking him… you may feel a burst of freedom and joy and OMG I CANT BELIEVE I DID IT. I AM SO AWESOME…

This will be followed with remorse and feelings and thoughts of wrong doing… its going to tempt you to think you did something bad, and that you need to grovel back and apologize.. and of course hes happy to continue making you a victim. 

STOP IT.

Realize your worth so much more than being a doormat or a dumpster for some weak and impotent adult childs shortcomings and inferiority complex.

 Take note: I believe in you. I really do. And I want you to succeed. 

so do this….

On a piece of paper write exactly these things:

“I believe in you and you are awesome. You are a strong and confident person and you can get through this. You are special and worthy of only the best, and no one can tell you otherwise. Your submission is a precious gift to only be given to those who deserve it… and no one is allowed to just take it from you.

You are beautiful and adorable, and you are a prized possession for the one that someday will earn the right to be called your daddy. So stay strong and remember that you are loved by me and so many other littles out there. You are an inspiration for your choice… and you should be proud of yourself.”

And then when you have done this… sign it “Mister”

then fold it up, and keep it with you always.

And then everytime the fear and doubt monsters come.. every time it gets hard… every time its a struggle… you open it up and read it and know that I mean it. No matter who you are, if you are reading this right now… and you have the absolute courage and strength that this little did…. you do this and keep it with you always. BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU AND YOU ARE AWESOME.

I love you all…. and your progress and growth is my number one passion. Never give up… and never give in… because you are not alone.

anonymous asked:

pros and cons of dating mingyu? thank you

sorry this was in my inbox for so long as i took a hiatus during semester cos uni was hectic i do hope you get to see this anon! here we go!

PROS

  • height height hEIGHTTT
  • hes so tall so can u imagine him leaning over you to help you get stuff from the tall cupboards and ur heart races at 298310129 per second 
  • he can cook so he’d teach u to cook or u guys will have cute cooking dates
  • and baking too 
  • he’d cook for you after a long day of work 
  • and bake you heart shaped pastries when you’re feeling down 
  • you know how much i love food judging from what im writing lmao
  • he’d take you to yummy places to eat and be like: “pfff i can cook better than this”
  • he’d want to open up a restaurant and name it after you lol
  • OK ILL STOP WITH THE FOOD MOVING ON can u imagine mingyu in a cute apron with cartoons omg i cant help meee
  • he’d always want to make you laugh whether its by doing silly dances or you teasing him
  • fashionista 
  • lots of shopping as well 
  • matching coats and sunnies omg 
  • he’d be really playful and caring 
  • puts your needs before his
  • he’d be so smiley when you compliment him and would replay it in his head over and over 
  • he gonna win your dad over because hes so good at fixing things 
  • like if he helped fix your mums phone or computer they’d think he were a genius 
  • and he likes cleaning too so cleaning the house together 
  • like a family outing where y’all spring clean 
  • gives off mature vibes but also a baby best of both worlds 
  • he’d show you off to everyone and when i say everyone i mean EVERYONE including the lady that sells groceries at ur local woolies 

CONS

  • omg he could probably be really clueless sometimes
  • like you’d lowkey hint stuff but he just WONT GET IT 
  • pretty lame sometimes
  • i can imagine him to get quite jealous and defensive very easily 

i am also currently taking requests for wanna one and produce 101 for pros and cons of dating and MTLs :) 

A Massive Spones Rec List

The Spones fandom is made up of some of the most talented people but is tiny and in need of more content. Due to this fact, there are significantly less Spones fics so I searched extra hard to compile a good, lengthy list of fics.. and somehow managed to find way more fics than I did for my Mckirk one?? Why am I such trash, help I need a life.

(Listed alphabetically: ** = favourite)


Addressed to the Damn Doctor by ElloPoppet | 2.5k, T

Spock writes McCoy a letter of confession, despite not quite knowing how to write a love letter. (A super sweet insight into Spock’s mind, especially on his thoughts on the Enterprise’s resident doctor.)

Best Medicine for the Worst Patient by gammadolphin | 8.5k, T

It’s a special kind of hell, becoming obsessed with the laughter of a man who barely even smiles unless he’s high or dying of blood loss. Leonard doesn’t handle it particularly well. (A hilariously frustrating fic in which Bones becomes a little too obsessed with trying to hear Spock laugh just once more.)

Blues March by IntuitivelyFortuitous | 7k, T

Leonard McCoy sees his friends bleed. He loves the blood when it is inside them, flushing their cheeks and warming their skin. When it colors his hands on the operating table, he can think of little but the time he has with them, and a minute is too long to waste. He’s not going to let Spock get away that easily. (Gruesome and sad yet somehow really sweet.)

The Body by therev | 13k, T

McCoy’s consciousness is transferred into an android body after a fatal accident. Spock helps him remember the man he used to be. (Wow a really creative and fascinating fic that could have gone totally wrong if it hadn’t been written by such a talented author.)

Keep reading

So I just randomly did a search for slbp on google (yes I do that sometimes) and fell on this.

Look at this.

LOOK AT THIS!

THEY LOOK SO SUPER HAPPY AND STUFF AND ALL LOVING AND PROUD AND OMG I CANT STOP LOOKING AND I HAVE THAT FEELING LOOKING AT INU LIKE OMG YOU CAN BE HAPPY NOW NO NEED TO KEEP EVERTHING INSIDE MC IS HERE FOR YOU. ALWAYS.

I never saw it before, after playing since slbp launch. I feel so satisfied, like this is the real ending of Inu’s main story pals.

**image cropped**

It Had To Be Done

Pairing: Dean x Reader

Word Count: 2,395

Summary: Dean gets jealous when he finds out the reader has a date and he tries to tag along.


Lotion? Check.

Shaved? Check.

Makeup? Check.

Nails painted? Check.

Freaking the fuck out? Check.

Tonight you have a date. It’s not just a date, it’s a huge decision. It will either make or break your fucking world. Maybe that sounds a little dramatic but it’s true. It will completely alter your life and you’re praying it will be the outcome you want.

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🗣 OUR 🗣 BOY 🗣 KENTA 🗣 IS 🗣 FINALLY 🗣 DEBUTING 🗣 ON 🗣 SEPTEMBER 🗣 10TH 🗣

😫✍️👅🚫💯📢😎👏☠️😜💸  MARK YOUR CALENDARS RIGHT NOW ✍️📅💦 SET UP REMINDERS 📣📝⛔️ A COUNTDOWN 🗓💯⏰ AND EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO REMIND YOU THAT ⚠️📛 SEPTEMBER 10TH ❗️📌 IS REALLY IMPORTANT 💢❗️ WE ARE POPPING CHAMPAGNE ON THIS FINE WEDNESDAY LADIES AND GENTLEMEN 📣🍾❗️👀✔️🤧🚫😫🙌🗓✍️💎📝🍸

(JBJ) 🕳    🏃 (me)

anonymous asked:

Pros and cons of dating Daniel?

MY BIAS HDWIHDOIWUD this may or may not turn out to be an essay lmao

PROS

  • his smile hiS SMILE EEE
  • his eyes will curl up whenever he smiles and its literally the most beautiful eye smile in the world i tell you 
  • whenever you say something whether its a compliment about him or something cute he’d chuckle and wow his eyesmile 
  • sexy and cute at the same time you’ve got the best of both worlds 
  • when he gazes at u intensely making u all sweaty and nervous s a v e m e
  • you supporting daniel at b-boying and dance competitions 
  • whenever he wins something in his thank you speech he’d proudly thank you and then smile real big cos he gets embarrassed but is super happy at the same time 
  • now LET ME SAY HIS SHOULDERS are as board as the pacific ocean 
  • cuddling up to him and leaning against his shoulders on the bus soooo comfy 
  • dont forget those abs guys
  • a real gentleman too and very sweet to your parents 
  • opens the door for you, pays on dates, surprises you with cat keyrings and cat plushies
  • walking ??? cats together 
  • visiting cat cafes together and staying til closing time 
  • volunteering at animal shelters together 
  • in honesty tho he’s a very caring and lovely person and will do all that he can to care for you and make sure you’re happy 
  • i feel like he would take relationships seriously and pour his all into it 
  • also very sweet and humble like hes not the type to go on blabbing about his achievements
  • puts your needs and others before his and just genuinely wants to be helpful 
  • binge watching harry pote together
  • having competitions to see who has a better british accent with ong as the judge lmao 
  • ong thirdwheeling and taking pictures for you two lovebirds 
  • omg and he would always lend you his jumpers, hoodies and plaids
  • and he loves it when you wear his clothes 
  • ok i’ll stop tho i have 2189301 more things i wanna say tbh

CONS

  • ong and woojin will probs tease u guys so much 
  • he might be a bit scary when he’s angry 
  • i honestly think he really puts others before himself so he might hide it when things get hard for him :((

other wanna one members: minhyun (x), sungwoon (x), jihoon (x)