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Signs That You Attend An #HBCU...

1. When you got to school, you thought it was going to be like Hillman…


…but it ended up being more like College Hill.



2. If you’re a girl, you may have felt a little like this…

3. Girls show up to 8 a.m. classes in stilettos and in full make up


4. Your school gear always comes up missing when you visit home…

and you catch your family wearing it a few weeks later


5. Everyone on campus is quick to rattle off the names of your alma mater’s most influential alumni.


Morehouse

Howard

Tennessee State

North Carolina A&T


6. History classes (and poli sci, and English, and music) are steeped in black history…



And you can’t graduate without taking an African history class…

7. Graduating on time would be a miracle…

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8. During finals, the library feels a little bit like the club…


9. You Try to get a copy of your transcript, and the registrar is like…





10. You’re used to seeing someone you know leaving the financial aid office looking like this:

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(Unless it was refund check time, in which case they looked more like this…)




11. You missed every class during homecoming week…




12. Then you skipped your school’s homecoming to go to Howard’s…



13. The best part of the football games was halftime…




14. Out of nowhere everyone emerges outside on the first day of spring…




15. When people suddenly disappear during the semester, it’s probably  because they were doing this…

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16. And you spend hours waiting to see them do this on the yard…

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 (even though you can’t see or hear what was going on)…

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17. When you go to a party, no one can dance because of this…

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18. But you’ve never seen more than two Iotas at the same place at the same time…

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19. You’ve never heard of Delta Zeta or TKE or Alpha Phi or Kappa Alpha….

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But you can recite the names of the Divine 9 in order of their founding dates, even if you never pledged.

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20. Every dorm has a dude who can cut hair, or a girl who can put in weave for cheap.

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21. Eventually half the girls you know go natural at one point…

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22. You get a job off-campus so you won’t forget what it was like to have white friends…

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23. When you come home to visit, your family gives you a hard time about your decision to flout family tradition and go to Howard instead of Hampton…

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Or FAMU instead of Bethune-Cookman…

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Or Southern instead of Grambling…

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Or Alabama A&M instead of Alabama State

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24. But, in spite of the rivalries with other schools, whenever you meet someone who went to an HBCU, you do this.

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25. Because you both know that there’s one thing you can agree on:

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This unity stroll is everything!

8 Things To Remember/Know About Pursuing Membership

1. Find the right org for you, not for your friends!

Take the time to properly research and understand what it means to be apart of an organization. Attend different events and socialize! Just because your friends are interested in an organization, doesn’t mean you need to be too. Also, ensure you are joining the right org that lines up with the image, reputation, and morals that you have. You need to be able to whole-heartedly represent any organization you’re apart of, and if it is NOT you, don’t do it.

2. You were an individual before you became interested in an org

Do NOT feel you need to change who you are as a person, just to be able to pursue membership for a specific org. Any org you are interested in joining should be accepting of you just as you are! If you feel you need to talk a certain way, act a certain way, or be someone you are NOT, you need to find the org that is! Being a part of any organization is about standing together as one, but appreciating the differences of each unique member. 

3. There’s nothing wrong with waiting for grad chapter

Many people are interested in the undergraduate experience of being in a D9 org, but grad/alumnae chapters do just as much and stand for the same things as UG chapters! So if you want to join an org but they’re on moratorium, they are not on campus, or you do not wish to be apart of the UG chapter on your campus, you can wait and still experience the sisterhood/brotherhood, personal growth & development as you would experience in a UG chapter.

4. We’re human, too!

When interacting with members, please remember that we are ALSO college students just like you! We aren’t Gods! We’re people! If you talk to us with respect and maybe even a little humor, we’re not gonna blow you off. If you are not discreet, then portentially. But if you attend an event and are just talking to us, we’re not gonna bite! Don’t put extra pressure on yourself just because you are talking to a Greek member. If you weren’t interested in Greek life at all…would you still be so nervous?

5. Expressing interest is not as scary as you think

When expressing interest, you are just stating that you are interested in pursuing membership. That is it! As long as you are doing it one on one with members, there is no right or wrong way to say you would like to seek/pursue membership. As long as you get the message across, you’re solid. DO NOT SAY YOU WANT TO BE AN XYZ, YOU ARE GOING TO PLEDGE, OR THAT YOU ARE A FUTURE XYZ. Even if you are legacy, there is still no guarantee. Just don’t.

6. Event attendance does NOT equal expressing interest

Do not expect members to assume you’re interested just because you attend events or socialize with them. Pull up your pants, be social, and state what you are interested when the time is right. Events are open to all of campus, so just because you attend 7/7 events last semester…that means nothing unless we understand why you were partially motivated to attend.

7. Not all chapters or organizations do things the exact same way

Each organization does membership intake differently! Just because you see a message or “hear” that things work one way, do not assume that is consistent. Until you are TOLD what you need, everything else is basically a possibility!

8. All NPHC Organizations are non-hazing organizations

Simple. That’s it. Don’t ask about it, don’t talk about it. Do not go into pursuing membership THINKING you know everything and how things will and won’t go. 

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Obtaining membership is an awesome experience, but if you are given the opportunity to do so and you eventually become a member, remember: Not to let your letters change you! 

While I am Verita: the President of SGRho & NPHC, I am also stillVerita: the athlete, student, friend, daughter, sister, coach, Girl Scout volunteer, softball team manager, and sassy, sarcastic ass bitch! Your membership becomes priority as far as scheduling, commitment, and loyalty, but it is NOT the only thing that defines you as a person! There may also be times that you shouldn’t put your org before other personal commitments and relationships. Stay in contact with your friends, family, and those who love and support you, especially those on campus. There is nothing wrong with being proud of your accomplishments and journey, but stay humble and remember who helped you get there. 

QuietStorm

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Idk what school this is, but they set owt a mean hop.

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I woulda jumped in…. this shit is madddd fun