Hey… you guys… unless you’re specific people like cal or emily, I do not, any circumstance authorize the use of my actual name. It’s not even an actual name as it is more a professional name these days. I use it for work, I use it for the military, I allow my family to use it because they have the right. I allow the two above people to use it because they have the right. I use casper for a very specific reason and whether you dislike me or not, the professional name I use is no longer the name I enjoy using. Out of everything you want to make fun of me for, out of every reason you want to hate me for, I am legitimately asking you politely to never use my real name unless I’ve told you it’s okay and I am also asking that if you see someone doing it to spite me to please not allow them to do so. Casper is the name that comes with the change of being happy and proud to be myself and the reason my real name is professional because it does, in fact, feel like a whole different person.
I also prefer they / them because I prefer being genderfluid. This doesn’t bother me as much until you start bitching about me as a person and you lose the allowance to use she / her.
If you do use she / her, I just hope you use it knowing I prefer to be a masculine female.
Not hating but personally i strongly dislike ushioi only bc oikawa and iwachan hate him like why would i want to ship my fave character with his rival lol