okay yes i do have a problem

anonymous asked:

Okay but I feel exactly the same way as what you wrote?? Like I'm extremely confident and happy with my own body but indeed if I were to assigned as male on birth i, too, wouldn't have a problem with it. And yes, society and upbringing has a lot to do with the idea of gender. Like growing up I did have a few dolls but I also had a lot of cars that I adored and I had "gender neutral" toys as well, my room was baby blue and yellow.. It has a lot to do with your upbringing, I believe

it’s definitely a thing!! i think a fair amount of people feel this way! growing up i really didn’t like anything traditionally ‘girly’ - i liked football, only wore boys clothes, was obsessed with beyblades, etc. i think gender can really vary, even for people who identify as cis! :)

anonymous asked:

Hinata, are you and Komaeda still avoiding the kids?

Well yeah I mean we-


It’s okay Hajime. I’m ready to meet them again.


Really?


Yes. I mean it will have to happen one day or another so I might as well do it now. C’mon let’s go. *walks with Hajime toward the children’s “playing room”.


Hum…Can you just…Enter first?


No problem. *squeezes his shoulder* Don’t worry, it’s going to be okay. *knocks before entering, nodding at Naegi who was supervising the children*


Oh. Hi, I don’t think we have met. *curtsies* I’m Utsugi Kotoko.


Nice to meet you. I’m Hinata Hajime. *steps aside to let Nagito enter*


Hi, I don’t think you need me to introduce myself again, right?


You are…


Oooh Servant ! It’s really you !


Daimon-kun ! To think you would remember me after all this time, I’m so glad!


Wait, don’t call him like that ! He has a name, it’s Komaeda Nagito. I don’t want to hear anymore of this “servant” thing.


Fine, fine ! You’re not funny at all !


So you really are here huh?


Oh, Shingestsu-kun. Don’t tell me you are still angry about what happened…


Of course I am !! You betrayed us ! If it wasn’t for you…!


Huh? Aren’t you forgetting something? I wasn’t alone, Monaca-chan was working with me too. She was the real mastermind behind all of this, not someone as useless as me.


That’s….


What’s happening, why is Shingetsu-kun so angry?


Huhuhu, I guess it’s time for the leader to intervene !


Oi Shingetsu-kun ! *taps his shoulder* Aren’t you supposed to be my counsevor? What are you doing right now? It’s not cool at all !


Ah…


*sighs* Sorry, I overreacted. And I told you, it’s “counselor”. *looks back at Nagito* I guess you are right. Monaca-chan was the one who really betrayed us. *walks away followed by the others 3 children*


….Are you alright?


I have a headache but I am…


Sorry, you weren’t able to proprely introduce yourself because of me…


It’s okay, I will just talk to them again later.

ToppKlass, I have had enough of your bullshit

Okay so we all know that ToppDogg are currently up against Crayon Pop in Makestar’s poll, and I just learned that some of you started insulting Crayon Pop and their fans (and Crayon Pop fans are doing the same to ToppKlass). The problem is that this isn’t the first time something like this has happened.

I love ToppDogg and ToppKlass very much but some of you need to stop acting like ToppDogg is the only underrated group in the Kpop industry. Yes, ToppDogg deserves recognition and a better treatment from their company. But so does Crayon Pop. And so does DGNA, 100%, 9Muses, Wa$$up, Stellar, Rania, SPEED, so did BTL, Tiny-G, LC9, Kiss&Cry, EvoL and I could go on and on with this list.

ToppDogg is currently under a shitty company and the fandom is doing all the promotions for them, but do you really think that by bashing other groups and fandom, ToppDogg is going to get the recognition and love they deserve? You’re only going to bring hate on the boys and our fandom, which they don’t need at all since people seem to hate us so much already.

You all need to stop acting like poor little fans who are always suffering and getting so much hate for stanning an underrated group. Because guess what: you are not the only ones!! And if you’re complaining about all the hate we get, who are you to go hate on other groups and fandoms?! Fucking hypocrites.

I’m tired of always seeing ToppKlass commenting stuff like “they are so underrated”“they deserve better”“they deserve to win this”. Instead of talking shit and complaining, do something useful! Share their MV and songs, vote for them in silence and don’t go hating on other fandoms for doing the exact same thing for the group that they love and support.

Congratulations to the Crayon Pop fandom for voting so much for their favorite group (though this post is also for you if you’re acting like Crayon Pop is the only group who deserves to win this poll) and to ToppKlass: keep voting and shut the fuck up about other fandoms.

2x07; Opinion time

Okay, nobody asked, but here is my opinion on the Malec scene. 

First of all I wanted to say that I have read a few posts already about the discussion of yes consent/ no consent on Magnus’ side. At first I didn’t really see much problem with the scene until someone acknowledged the lack of verbal consent on Magnus’ side, but after reviewing the scene, I stand by my first opinion. Sure, there was no verbal confirmation on Magnus’ side and I do think Magnus still had some concerns and didn’t feel completely at ease with them having sex yet. Alec didn’t let him finish wording his own worries about them taking this next step and Alec didn’t completely ease them either. 

But Magnus did kiss him back in the last few seconds, plus I feel like he’s old and wise enough to know that he can say no. Besides, they weren’t anywhere near the bedroom yet, so there was still plenty of time for him to do so, so either he made up his mind by the end of the hallway or we see him push Alec away in the next episode. 

On Alec’s part; I don’t think he intended to push Magnus at all (though I don’t think anyone does). He is clearly inexperienced and probably just assumed that because Magnus had been in relationships before and that they have been dating for some time now, Magnus wouldn’t mind. I believe Alec was too occupied by his own insecurities about his first time to realise that there were two people involved who could feel uncertain of taking this next step. Also, the way Magnus voiced his concerns and Alec replied to them pretty clearly meant that Alec didn’t understand the full extend of Magnus’ vulnerabilities.

Sure, the scene was edited a bit unluckily, but by cutting it off so soon, I believe the intend of the writers was to keep what happens in the next episode as a bit of a surprise. I think it was their intend to make us believe they had had sex so the fact that they hadn’t would be more of a shock in 2x08, to keep a bit of suspense. 

Then I read some things on the fact that they so easily put in a sexy times scene for Jace and some random girl, but won’t do the same with Malec. I don’t think the fact that Malec is a M/M relationship is the issue here, or at least not directly. We should not just think of Malec, but also about the people who play them. Matt and Harry are both heterosexual males who are in a relationship, so I can only imagine that filming a sex scene could be awkward or uncomfortable for them. Heck, at times I feel like their kisses are too fake? uncomfortable? careful? IDK, but I really think it’s Harry and Matt feeling uncomfortable about making out half-naked to film this really intimate scene. WHICH IS OKAY. And totally understandable. 

It could also be that it’s the just the writers wanting to actually do Malec justice by not just throwing a meaningless sex scene into the story. Matthew said in his livechat today that Magnus and Alec will grow more in the next episode and repeated multiple times that they are a healthy relationship. Healthy relationships take effort. And a whole lot of time

Matthew also acknowledged that there is so little time. They have to show the Malec relationship in little snippets thrown throughout the episode because they can’t show an entire plotline for Malec in 40 minutes while also telling the actual story of Clary and Jace and Valentine and Maia and Simon and Isabelle and … You get the picture. 

I hope that if you had concerns about this scene or was feeling a bit icky or uncertain about it, reading this soothed some of those worries. Besides that one scene, I truly did think it was a great episode and I hope you enjoyed it nonetheless. 

Happy Valentine’s Day everyone! X

When Another Member sees You Naked (BTS)

JIN

*Angrily swats the other member with newspaper in his head* 

Originally posted by jjks

SUGA

*Silently waiting for you to leave the room so he can terrorize the other member* 

Originally posted by mn-yg

^ idk why this gif makes me laugh so much ^

J-HOPE

*emotionally unstable and ready to swing*

Originally posted by jeonsshi

RAP MONSTER

“And this is my problem, how?”

Originally posted by bwiyomi

JIMIN

“Okay but did he see everything?” “yes” “Even that one mole you have there

Originally posted by daffodiltae

V

*leans in real close* “do it again you little prick and I will destroy you where you stand”

Originally posted by bwipsul

JUNGKOOK

*Tries to avoid the problem as much as humanly possible and doesn’t want to deal with the awkwardness*

Originally posted by baebsaes

~Admin F

KaraMel rant

Lately I’ve seen too much hate on Tumblr against KaraMel and especially Mon-El that even though I told myself I would never post anything about it, I feel like I have to, because some of the things I’ve read are really offensive and crosses the line of not liking a ship to downright being rude and disrespectful, especially towards fans, and especially two things I’ve read the most:

1. KaraMel shippers are racist.
2. KaraMel shippers are homophobic.

First and foremost, I want to point out that it’s never okay to call someone racist or homophobic for preferences. Yes, I might be shipping KaraMel over Supercorp or Karolsen but the reason for it is not because James is African-American or Supercorp is a homosexual couple. I do ship interracial and homosexual couples in other shows (i.e. Sanvers, Clexa, Sara&Nyssa) and I have no problem with James’s race, I would still be absolutely annoyed by his character if he was played by a white actor. 

But what I mostly want to focus on is homophobic part, because this is what really hurt me. The country that I live in doesn’t support gay marriage or any kind of gay relationship, so much so that couples are afraid of going out together because there’s a chance they might be assaulted because of it. I’ve grown up in that kind of an environment, and only last year that I came to terms with my bisexuality because I was taught that it was wrong. I still can’t come out to my parents, because when I ambiguously asked them what they thought about homosexuality, they said even though they weren’t against it, it was still uncomfortable seeing those couples and they would prefer not to interact with them. Now imagine living in this kind of environment, hiding an essential part of yourself, and somebody comes and calls you homophobic

It hurts. It really hurts, I’m not gonna lie about it. 

In addition, as a science geek, I have researched homosexuality a lot, especially last year, and let me tell you this: it’s not like preferring red over black, or high-heels over flats. It is coming from your genes, your birth, so it’s not as if you can change it just because of someone. It doesn’t work like that. Kara Danvers isn’t homosexual, as she’d made clear, and we should respect her choices as well, just as we respect and appreciate Alex for being open about her homosexuality. Trying to make someone homosexual when they are not is disrespecting their choices, just as trying to force someone to be heterosexual when they might not prefer it is disrespectful.

So please, let’s think twice before saying hurtful things about others, because it might be sensitive or personal to those people. We’re here to watch the show, to support our ships and stand by them, but that doesn’t mean it’s okay to be rude or disrespectful to other fandoms. Let’s just enjoy the show. 

  • Oliver: I have a problem.
  • Adam: is it your raging heart boner for the princess?
  • Oliver: well, yes, but I was talking about-
  • Adam: how everyone thinks you had something to do with your parents death?
  • Oliver: uh-
  • Adam: Or that your sister is missing and you don't know if she's alive or dead?
  • Oliver: I-
  • Adam: or maybe it's-
  • Oliver: okay! I get it! My life sucks!
6/17: you can't be serious

Me: Hey, what can I get for you today? :)

Customer: I want a venti ice coffee with 32 pumps of classic and light ice and heavy cream.

Me: (wtf is this dumbass wanting?!) Sure! I’ll have to charge for the extra syrup though. :)

Customer: yeah okay whatever they don’t charge me at any other store.

Me: yes sir, I understand but due to us being licensed we do have to charge extra after 8 pumps. We are suppose charge 50 cents for every pump but we just do it for every three. :)

Customer: so this isn’t a real Starbucks? I’m not paying two more dollars! Your manager told me I did not have to the other day.

Me: Sir my manager has been on vacation for the past week. Was there anyone else working that you can remember?

Customer: yeah some blonde guy.

Me: Sir, no men work in our front. I’m sorry if there is any confusion with another store but I do have to charge for the extra.

Customer: no I’m not paying for extra

Me: okay so I can do 8 pumps of classic without charging, will that be okay?

Customer: No! I want 32 pumps! I’m not paying extra!

Me: sir, I have to charge because that is an excessive amount.

Customer: you’re not a real barista. They don’t charge me at a real Starbucks. This isn’t real. I’m not paying for the extra.

Me: so 8 pumps is alright?

Customer: I want 32 fucking pumps of classic.

Me: sir I will have to charge for that. I’m sorry but this is our policy

The customer storms off and that my friends is how i ended a 9 hour shift.

Draco rant(skip if needed)

Okay, unpopular opinion here: first of, I don’t understand people who say Draco was a poor smol child who was assaulted by his parents. His mother LOVED him, yes, maybe Lucius had some pressure on the boy, but that’s okay for the parents. If you let your children do whatever they want and only cherish them, it won’t end up good. THE REAL PROBLEM is, that they have brought him up in a wrong way, because the Malfoys themselves were egoistic, racist and disrespectful to others. Not a great example.
Oh, the boy suffered more than Harry! He was forced to kill his Professor! - you can probably say. Well, guess what, Harry was forced to do this shit right from the beginning, without support, trust, anything. 11 y.o. child. And he killed, and he had guts to do so. Please, stop making Draco a martyr.

I like Drarry a ship, I like the way character was written, but sometimes all I wish is that Draco would make up his mind and just apologize to Harry, Ron, Hermione, Neville for being an asshole he totally was.

//personal

I was reading up on types of mental illness for misc magick and work-related use, and saw that Gender Identity Disorder is still listed.

Okay yes it has to do with the brain and shit but it irks me that it’s literally under the “Mental illness” category. 

Now I have my fair share of mental illness, but I don’t deal with any gender-related problems, so maybe this is ignorant of me to say?

but i just

to me, it isn’t an illness?? 

these people aren’t sick?


idk feel free to yell at me

So many people ignore kids who've suffered abuse of any kind.

We’re all just whiny teenagers who exaggerate.

We just want attention.

Yes definitely, that’s it you’ve caught us.

“But your parents seem so nice?!?!”

“They’re your parents you have to love them!”

- No you do not have to.


“Respect your mom and dad.”

- No, give respect where it is deserved.

NamJin as the parents of Jungkook
  • Jin: Jungkook, you can't just kiss Jimin when his parents aren't home!
  • Jungkook: Why not?
  • Jin: It's disrespectful!
  • Jungkook: Would you rather me do it in front of them? Plus, how is it disrespectful?
  • Jin: It just is! Namjoon, help me out here!
  • Namjoon: What did he even do?
  • Jin: He kissed Jimin when they were alone. He put them in a sexual situation!
  • Namjoon: Did you guys have sex?
  • Jungkook: No.
  • Namjoon: Was Jimin okay with it?
  • Jungkook: Yes
  • Namjoon: So there's no problem.
  • Jin: You two, I swear!
  • *later*
  • Namjoon: But was there tongue?
  • Jungkook: Yeah
  • Namjoon: That's my son
Being Johnny’s little sister would include...

Anonymous said: Can you write a headcannon for what it would be like to be Johnny’s little sister, please? I love your blog btw ☺️💞

  • Him being somewhat overprotective
  • Ponyboy being one of your best friends
  • Dally having a soft spot for you, too
  • Having been abused by your parents as well and Johnny blaming himself
  • “I should have protected you, Y/N”
  • “Johnny stop beating yourself up, you couldn’t do anything”
  • “I at least could have tried”
  • Convincing Dally to bring you with to check on Pony and Johnny in Windrixville.
  • Not knowing what to do when Johnny dies
  • Having a mental breakdown which Pony helps you through
  • Ponyboy helping you through all of the hard times that them running away brought
  • Him reassuring you everything will be okay
  • “It’ll be okay, Y/N. I promise,”
  • “Are you sure?”
  • “Yes”
  • “Thanks, Ponyboy,”
  • “No problem”
today in the drive thru:

customer: hey can I get a venti iced caramel macchiato? and do you guys have blueberry muffins?
coworker: yes & yes! anything else?
customer: yeah can I have one of those muffins
coworker: okay.. anything else I can get for you?
customer: yeah, a blueberry muffin. can I have one?
coworker: yeah I got that, a blueberry muffin.
customer: okay but can I have it???

real conversations I have had with non-horse people, pt. 1

Normal: “How was your morning?”

Me: “It was okay, except for when my horse tried to kill me.”

Normal: “What?! Why would it do that?!”

Me: “Because… he’s a horse… Sometimes they just do that….”

Normal: “Even if you love them?”

Me: “Yes, just like men, even if you love them with all your heart, they will still hurt you.”

commissions and stuff

Well… It’s just that in the future it’s possible that I will have to make money somehow so.. Yes probably I will post things about commissions with raised prices because serious reasons.. Honestly I don’t know what to do but I feel so broken right now. I just want to cry and sit in a corner and never return…

Just Stop please.

Okay everyone, this is my last post on the matter, but please stop bringing the whole situation up, I know you all mean well and jack probably appreciates that a lot, it’s just that do you really think that jack or felix would want it being brought up all the time when they’re trying to just move on? Yes, we want to support jack and felix and mark but they probably know that and appreciate that so I don’t think that bringing it up more is going to help okay, they’re human beings, they probably want some peace from all this but it isn’t going to help if their phones are going nuts or things are keep being brought up. We all have our problems and should know that sometimes we’d like to deal with it by ourselves and move on with the support of those closest to us. So stop bringing this up and just let them support their friend and move on. Because after all, our mistakes make us stronger. I know it’s such a big deal but we can get over a big deal. Be the bigger person and just, move on. Some of you may not agree with me but this will be my last post on the whole drama okay, I know I’m not the only one who wants this to stop. Remember. Be the bigger person and move on. I’m sorry for this rant but it needed to be said. You forget they’re adults, they can deal with this sort of thing.

Originally posted by marielgum

muriino  asked:

okay so i had to ask you sth: have you ever had problems playing a bad end? like, not with choosing the answers but with being mean/rude whatever. bc i certainly have. i wanted to play jaehee's bad ends but now i'm on day 10 playing the good end fml i̶̶ ̶̶j̶̶u̶̶s̶̶t̶̶ ̶̶c̶̶a̶̶n̶'̶t̶̶ ̶̶s̶̶t̶̶a̶̶n̶̶d̶̶ ̶̶b̶̶e̶̶i̶̶n̶̶g̶̶ ̶̶m̶̶e̶̶a̶̶n̶̶ ̶̶e̶̶v̶̶e̶̶n̶̶ ̶̶i̶̶n̶̶ ̶̶t̶̶h̶̶i̶̶s̶̶ ̶̶f̶̶u̶̶c̶̶k̶̶i̶̶n̶̶g̶̶ ̶̶g̶̶a̶̶m̶̶e̶

YES!!!! its like, physically impossible for me to play saeyoungs bad ends. like i start his route and im like tea but i wanna kiss him at the end tho???? like i did not just do the same four first days of chats to get a shitty ending NO

Originally posted by feelingreallyfeeling

“Felicity, could you please track down Mr. Paulson and get me an address?”

“Sure thing, boss.”

“I’ll also need a location on his drug dealer?”

“Fine.”

“Felicity.”

“What?”

“Is something wrong? You seem angry.”

“Nope. Just peachy, Oliver.”

“…Are you sure?”

“192 Canal Street.”

“Okay…hey, when I get back, do you want to go out to dinner?”

“With you?”

“Well, yes. With me.”

“No thanks, Oliver.”

“Felicity. What is your problem?”

“What? I have a problem just because I don’t feel like getting dinner with you?”

“We’ve gotten dinner together every night this week.”

“Not last night.”

“Only because the fundraiser was last night. You were there…”

“Yup, I was.”

“Felicity, please. I’m really not following this.”

“I saw you kiss that cougar at the fundraiser, Oliver.”

“Oh, that? I think what you were seeing was her kissing me.”

“You didn’t look very upset about it.”

“Felicity, it was a fundraiser for the homeless youth in our city, I wasn’t going to make it a big deal. Did you miss the part where I had security escort her out? She was drunk. I just didn’t want to cause a scene. And I definitely wasn’t kissing her back. Or enjoying it. At all.”

“Really?”

“Yes, really. Wait…were you jealous?”

“No. Of course not. We’re not together. You can kiss all the cougars that you want.”

“What I want is to be kissing you.”

“…She was gorgeous.”

“You’re gorgeous.”

“I mean, she was beautiful, Oliver.”

“So are you, Felicity.”

“I hope I have legs like that when I’m forty.”

“I hope I’ll still be between your legs when we’re forty." 

"Oliver…I wish you wouldn’t say things like that…”

“I wish you wouldn’t blush and get all breathless when I do…then maybe I could stop doing it.”

“What do you want from me, Oliver?”

“I just want you.”