okay then bradshaw

Letting go of people or traditions is hard because you invest so much in them, that to let go can be scary. But it can also be liberating, or even essential to your happiness. If you don’t let go, you can find yourself in a dark place, unable to kick your worst habits. And sometimes, if we truly love someone, we have to be okay with letting go.
—  Carrie Bradshaw (The Carrie Diaries)