re your attraction to men post: when I thought I was bi I misconstrued any strong emotional attraction I had to men as romantic attraction bc that's "what you're meant to feel" and i was desperate not to be gay and was really lonely. idk what I'm getting at exactly but your experience doesn't seem uncommon and I understand what you mean by the post. also what the hell is "henlo" I've never seen that word?
okay thats interesting and also good to hear bc i’ve definitely had strong emotional connections to men in the past but i think they fell short of being actual romantic/sexual feelings. ive definitely never been sexually attracted to a guy and sex with men has always been very unenjoyable for me. so when you, an actual lesbian, tell me that my experience sounds familiar that’s very comforting to me. thank u
LMAO okay it’s like another word used in cringy tumblr “smol bean” culture and it is supposed to mean “hello” i believe