okay it was so hard

anonymous asked:

How to deal w/ trauma in school? I'm a senior and I need to pass obviously but it's so hard when I don't feel okay

tbh? Its helped me a lot to try and distance myself from everything actually happening when i can. Walking between classes: blast music in your earbuds til the second you can’t anymore. That keeps me calm til the next class and once youre there just either hyperfocus on whats happening (write things twice, ask questions, repeat the lessons in your head) or if you cant, separate yourself. mess with things in your pockets, passively listen, take down the bare minimum or even just ask a friend to give you notes later. If you cant focus, dont. It will only hurt you to try focusing when youre in a hard place, youll burn out.
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the saddest thing to read in an article about parents of trans kids is “i didn’t sign up for this” like yes you did. yes you fucking did. you signed up the minute you decided to have a child and i’m fucking appalled that you even thought to say that, because having a child means loving and celebrating them unconditionally. when you decided to have a child you signed up for a trans kid, a not straight kid, a mentally ill kid, a mentally disabled kid, a physically disabled kid, and a chronically ill kid all at once and you don’t get to idealize any of that away goodbye

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favorite moana songs 

okay guys liSTEN UP,,, so for wesley ( my new jack falahee fc ), i kinda want a plot with him n his secretary? bc he’s notorious for sleeping with his secretaries??? and it’s late one night and he’s told her a thousand times to go home but she wants to help him finish what he’s working on? but he keeps insisting that she needs to leave, but when she finally gets up to do it he closes the door just as she goes to open it? and pushes her against it n they kiss and heated sex on his desk and it’s just rough as hell bc he’s got so much pent up stress and??? it becomes a thing but like… i want her to have previously worked for his dad as his secretary, but when his dad left this office for a different one she became wesley’s secretary… and like she slept with his dad as well? and i want it to go along for a while until he’s walking with a colleague in the building and she passes them and they’re just “dude, you know that’s the chick who had an affair with your dad, right?” and it’S JUST DRAMA AFTER THAT

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for @allmycharactersare-dead: oikawa, iwaizumi & the flock 1 and 2 trainees from wingbeats!! because dragons and dragon riders are. the coolest. also I promised you a thing!! ヾ(*´∀`*)ノ 

Levi may have done this

But he also did this

things to remember when you move out

•always have bottled water in your house/apartment
•pay your bills on time
•wash your dishes everyday
•don’t tell anyone you don’t trust you live alone
•call your mom and tell her you love her
•make sure you have extra toilet paper
•remember to close the curtains when changing
•lock all the windows and doors at night/before leaving the house
•double check that the stove is off
•don’t leave lights on too much
•use real plates instead of throwaways
•have flashlights in every room
•fruits and veggies are important
•night lights aren’t just for babies and kids
•electric and water bill are more important than cable
•don’t eat out too much
•do your laundry
•it’s okay to ask for help
•own at least two recipe books
•never lock yourself out
•but don’t hide a spare under a mat/plant
•don’t open the door without knowing who it is
•mop
•wash your bed spread a lot
•make sure you always have food in the fridge
•if you feel unsafe call someone
•candy/snacks are not meals

This is so hard for us emotionally abused. But it is okay to say no. It’s okay to set boundaries. You are not being selfish nor awful!