why do people have to shit on other people’s forms of self care?? why can’t we acknowledge that taking a candlelit bubble bath is good for some people while taking a shower and making a healthy meal is good for others??? why can’t we just stop being assholes to people who are doing things that help them?? why does it even matter to you?? they’re taking care of themselves. leave them alone. relax. breathe. stop starting shit where there isn’t any shit to start.