ok this is last post like this

hi i need advice or help or something

so a few weeks ago i posted about my younger brother and how he almost died and whatnot

well like

i’m so WORRIED about him and i don’t know what to do because like. ok. he’s clearly getting mixed up in all sorts of alcohol + drugs and has been since he was 15 (he’s only 16 now) but like, between last summer and now he’s just been getting worse? like, last summer he stole my dad’s car w/o his knowledge at 3 am to go out driving and he got charged w/ driving w/o a license which is a literal felony, he almost died two weeks ago of a mix of alcohol poisoning and that bike crash and today my mom caught him shoplifting, which he apparently does a lot, he admitted to that. my mom gave him the choice to either go back to the store and return what he’d stolen or put it in a donation bin and he started throwing a raging fit that culminated in him trying to hurt my mom but punching the car and his own head instead and saying that he wishes he’d get cancer and die? 

like he is troubled. in every sense of the word and i don’t know what is making him act out this way. i don’t know if it’s a mental illness or just like, him acting out for the sake of acting out and Being Cool, which he is very preoccupied with as it is, his social image and whatever.

my family is very worried that he’s just going to end up getting himself killed. he’s a reckless person in general, a very reckless driver (i told him to stop texting and driving 3 hours ago when he was driving – he got his permit – and he told me to fuck off lol?) and is mixed up in all types of drugs and alcohol it seems. he really has no regard for others in any way which is also very concerning.

i am worried about the fact that he is very much a danger to himself and worried that he could become a danger to others because he is also prone to violent outbursts and has physically tried to instigate fights with BOTH of my parents.

like, is there anything we can do? my family? are we doing something wrong? any type of advice or suggestions would be very much appreciated. (?

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bonding moments w/ my bby boi lance <333

the beginning of taking flight is such a rollercoaster for keith like:

here is he, extremely worried about lance, watching him closely

he is so eager??? to let him out of the pod??? (you can already see allura going “wtf chill boi”)

tfw u get scolded for wanting your boyfriend out as soon as possible (pidge is judging him too)

P O U T Y K E I T H

“I just want to see my bf allura is that too much”

always by his side

he’s the last of the group to leave the pod, which means he stayed in front of it all alone for a bit

HIS SMILE??? AFTER HE SAW THAT LANCE WAS SAFE AND OKAY???? I CANNOT GET OVER HIS SMILE?????

and last but not least…..the look of betrayal™ after he sees lance flirting with allura

this guy is in love wake up america

WHY YOU SHOULD READ @grammarkid’s TRIMBERLY FIC PT.3 aka my personal highlights:

  • the top joke it’s so iconic
  • the - ahem - bedroom scenes
  • CHARACTERIZATION IS SO GOOD I COULD CRY 
  • the top joke 
  • monopoly
  • trini being fucking out of it all day because she’s thinking about kimberly hart, aka most relatable concept ever 
  • the top joke 
  • COMMUNICATION AND HOW MUCH THEY LOVE EACH OTHER AND CONSENT
  • this is the single hottest and best trimberly fic i’ve ever read. this is perhaps the single hottest and best fic i’ve ever read.
  • the top joke
  • th,,…. Kitchen Scene
  • im listing every component of this fic but thats bc every part of it is so good
  • if u havent read the first two?? what are u doing have u even been on my blog for the past,, like….. Month??? (one/two)
  • READ IT

“Have I been there, I could have healed you.”

I can’t move on, it’s been weeks, but the zutara feels won’t let me go. Curse you talented fanfiction writers, meta writers, and headcanon writers. let me move on please.

ok i tried using sai seriously and boi am i disappointed.

KIM TAEHYUNG SEXY GIF APPRECIATION POST PT. 2

Here’s part 2 of Kim Taehyung’s moments where he’s like CHONG! JOGUN! BALSA! (lol get it.. from Not Today). 

Part 1

ARE YOU READY? *IN TAEHYUNG’S DEEP VOICE*

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- the lengendary 0.00384 second face change. HOW DARE YOU! *cries*

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- this tongue of his

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- don’t forget about this fierce look

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- remember that vlive bts gayo ep where he was told to be sexy, but he didn’t need to.. standing there himself doing nothing is sexy already 😭😭😩

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- you see what i mean? 

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- him in bandanas man ……………

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- ok last one

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- Alright here’s a bonus to calm your hearts

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Alrighty so I’m officially done with Taehyung. My heart melted making this post… Let me know which member would you like me to do next. 😊😊

how to fall in rarepair hell

1. Consider the pairing 

2. Laugh at how unlikely it is (and at yourself for even considering)

3. Sudden realization

4. “maybe I should check ao3″

5. “i probably won’t find it that good”

6. “no, i don’t love it, it’s just interesting”

7. “OK but it’s still not my OTP what’s the big deal”

8. it’s 5 am and you have reblogged all those 1000 year old posts from the bottom of tumblr

9. you regret all your life choices 

Ok that last post got me fired up so we’re gonna have a quick chat about queer history and respecting your elders.

Nothing makes me more angry then when I see some 14 or 15 year old kids try to talk over queer elders and tell them what they can and cannot say about themselves and about their community. 

The queer community has a long, painful, and constantly evolving history. From things like early lesbian couples and Boston Marriages to Stonewall to the AIDS crisis, a lot of shit has happened, a lot of identities have existed and a lot of words have been used. 

Remember that if you’re young right now, you grew up in a time completely different than that of queer elders. You didn’t live through this stuff but you’re coming into it and you’re expecting to bend it to your own thoughts and needs. And that’s ok, you’re allowed to want to better your community and you’re allowed to change things where you see problems.

The problem arises when you haven’t done your research. When you come into the community with no background in it and try to change things. When you don’t know what happened in the past, but you think it should change or you think you know how to change it. 

So story time.

I live in a very liberal dorm. A very queer liberal dorm. And each semester we have guests come speak to us about whatever they do. A couple semesters ago we had Kate Bornstein come speak to us. For anyone who doesn’t know, ze is a trans author. A much older trans author. And the entire trans club at my school decided to attend hir talk. An email was sent out by the LGBTQ resource center beforehand explaining that if people chose to attend the event, they should be aware that ze was older and probably had differing views and to take it with a grain of salt.

So I attended the talk and first of all Kate is the loveliest human. Just very sweet and ze really wants to help queer youth. But, yes, ze is a little different than say a trans 15 year old. Ze explained how ze likes to use the word tr*nny. Why? Because when ze was figuring hirself out ze found a group of other trans people who referred to themselves that way and it felt like a family. Tr*nny became a family word. However, people in the audience immediately started questioning her on this. And being rude about it. 

So my takeaways from this are essentially that this was carried out horribly. First of all, I find it cringe worthy that the trans club felt the need to tell us to “take it with a grain of salt” and I found it cringe worthy that these kids fought a trans elder on zir own life story. 

Why? because this wasn’t a lesson in being queer now. This was a lesson in queer history. This was a person talking about what it meant to be queer in the past and educating us on where our community came from. And that’s important.

You don’t get to tell queer elders who they are. They know who they are and what they’ve been through far more than you do. You need to sit down and learn your history before you try to tell a queer elder what it means to be queer and what words they can and cannot use. Because you know damn well that if anyone tried to take your words away from you it would hurt. 

TL;DR: the queer community has a history, please learn it before you try to shit on it

If you need educating, please read And the Band Played On by Randy Shilts and Odd Girls and Twlight Lovers by Lillian Faderman. They’re a good start, but there’s always more to learn, please don’t stop.

self care is eating an entire tube of Pillsbury Original Crescent Roll™ dough raw while driving in the pouring rain with your windows down

*spoilers*

what she says: I’m fine

what she means: BRYCE IS STILL HERE ACTING LIKE EVERYTHING IS OK WHEN HE RAPED TWO GIRLS. CLAY DIDN’T TELL HANNAH HE LOVES HER + HE TOOK 20 YEARS TO LISTEN TO THE TAPES (like we know its hard on you but come on now). ALEX SHOT HIMSELF. EVERYBODY ELSE IS JUST CRYING FOR GOOD OR BAD. JUSTICE FOR JEFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!!! tony is gay and the chances of being with him are even less than they were before 

anonymous asked:

in your anti kylo ren post you said we ""steal"" finn's personality and give it to kylo as though stealing the personality of a liar and a coward would actually be worth our time :)

I swear if I see one more person compare that fyre festival to the hunger games I’m gonna re-enact that “ read the book ” gif like first of all, why the fuck do we have this constant need to compare shitty events to fandoms? not to be “ that asshole ” but in some situations yall need to come back to reality.

second of all its literally nothing like the hunger games. first of all the island they’re at isn’t some god damn uninhabited destitute island there’s a town like ten minutes away from the festival grounds. people tweeting they’re hiding in their tent and trying to figure out how to make weapons binch stfu you aren’t on naked and afraid, take your shit and go to the town and kindly offer compensation to anyone who can offer you shelter until you can leave.

these mf are acting like the festival grounds are the entire island and they’re required by law to stay there so they’ve gone all lord of the flies in the span of like a day.

the only people I have sympathy for are the Bahamian’s that are gonna probably somehow be blamed for all this and stuck cleaning the damages with nothing to show but a massive dent in their tourism cause you dumb mother fuckers decided to loose your fucking minds because you weren’t getting spa treatments and rentable yachts fuck off.

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Glitch Effect Tutorial

ayyeee here’s a tutorial no one asked for made this for college assignment, but i hope someone will find this useful! >w< (original drawing)

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Very-very messy illustration for the last chapter of “floating, sinking” by @shu-of-the-wind, because I am bad in commenting and I just want to say thank you for this wonderfull masterpiece. I was reading it for weeks and waiting for the new chapter like it’s my birthday.

Read it if you haven’t - it is the best fix-it fic I’ve seen.

ok this isnt to poke sleeping bears or any of that shit but.

To any and all Hidekane shippers (or any other bloodthirsty kenxwhoever shippers). 

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD
Please dont attack Ishida for the newer chapters of TG:re

Its his story to do what he wants with his own characters. I get you would be mad about your OTP not being canon or whatever but its really not worth attacking the creator for his own story.

Dont make the poor man dislike his own fandom.