“you are so good with kids, you’d make a great parent”
literally no. Yes i might make a good parent but that is not a reason to have kids. Every time i tell someone i don’t want kids they respond with “ oh you’ll change you mind” or “ But kids are such a gift to have, you’ll be missing out on the joys of life.” First I’m not missing out on anything. Second if i change my mind in the future then fine, but at this point in time i see no kids in my future Dogs? Yea. Kids? No.
I can give many reasons why I don’t want kids, but one of the main reasons is I cant handle a baby or small child 24/7. Babysitting i can do, but all day every day no. that would not be fair to the kid. Because of this if i ever did decide to have kids, i would adopt. I don’t need to make more kids when there is so many unwanted kids. I would also adopt a older child because i can handle older kids better, and older kids have a hard time getting adopted .
Don’t push people into having kids, not everyone wants them.