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5

Since becoming aware of O Magazine’s comments on flat bellies and crop tops I’ve been thinking a lot about how women’s clothing is policed and how much turmoil that causes within the many different subgroups of the feminine identity experience. I’m going to talk about that more in the future, but piggybacking on that, I want to say this: That statement ripped open an old wound for me as I’m sure it did for many others. I don’t have a flat stomach. In fact, this is the smallest my stomach has ever been. I remember being young and feeling like I didn’t deserve to explore the physical aspects of my womanhood because it was co-occuring with morbid obesity. It’s statements like these, published for all eyes, that make girls and women succumb to the allure of unworthiness. It’s statements like these that make wet pillows at night and starving stomachs during the day. It was statements like these that made me stop believing in myself time and time again. Body equality is important to me and I don’t ever want to stop challenging those old and harmful ways of thinking. I want to help shape a world where a woman doesn’t have to defend her right to be in a crop top or in her underwear if she so chooses. I’m sending good vibes to everyone who has been negatively impacted by the media’s harsh regulations on your freedom of style and I hope you never stop wearing whatever the f*ck you want. Sorry for any typos. Typing this on the fly.

Every time a publication or media platform makes fun of millennials or young folks in general by gaslighting our experiences and/or misrepresenting our motivations and struggles, all I can think is they sure are shooting themselves in the foot.

Young folks are going to be your customers in the future, you won’t always have your older customers…that older demographic will someday pass away. That’s just reality.

I don’t know about you all, but I remember this stuff and I hold a grudge BIG TIME. I don’t forget this stuff.

You show me respect in the present AND in the future, period.

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1: Top 3 ice cream flavors
2: Top 3 Disney Movies
3: Top 3 vacation destinations
4: Top 3 places to shop
5: Top 3 subjects of study/classes to take
6: Top 3 make up products
7: Top 3 music artists
8: Top 3 spices/herbs
9: Top 3 drinks
10: Top 3 apps to use
11: Top 3 months of the year
12: Top 3 clothing items
13: Top 3 binge perfect tv shows
14: Top 3 romantic dates
15: Top 3 kinds of flower
16: Top 3 christmas movies
17: Top 3 OTPs
18: Top 3 quotes to describe your life
19: Top 3 characteristics you love about yourself
20: Top 3 kinds of candy
21: Top 3 ways to exercise/ be active
22: Top 3 spirit animals
23: Top 3 petnames
24: Top 3 books read outside of school
25: Top 3 most used websites
26: Top 3 people you last texted
27: Top 3 hashtags you use
28: Top 3 instagram accounts you follow
29: Top 3 guilty pleasures
30: Top 3 summer activities
31: Top 3 things to draw/doodle
32: Top 3 aesthetics
33: Top 3 things you’d buy if you gained three million dollars
34: Top 3 ways to treat yourself
35: Top 3 celebrity crushes
36: Top 3 books from your childhood
37: Top 3 accents to hear
38: Top 3 scents
39: Top 3 “Friends” quotes
40: Top 3 cupcake flavors
41: Top 3 fruits
42: Top 3 places you’ve had amazing pizza from
43: Top 3 sports teams to watch
44: Top 3 crayola colors
45: Top 3 things you hope to accomplish in college
46: Top 3 fanfictions you’ve read
47: Top 3 people you miss right now
48: Top 3 fears
49: Top 3 favorite literary devices
50: Top 3 pet peeves
51: Top 3 physical things you find attractive
52: Top 3 bad habits
53: Top 3 pets you’ve had/wish to have
54: Top 3 types of foreign food
55: Top 3 things you want to say to someone in your lifetime
56: Top 3 dog breeds
57: Top 3 cheesy romance movies
58: Top 3 languages you speak/wish to speak
59: Top 3 series (book, movie, television)
60: Top 3 pizza toppings
61: Top 3 youtubers you’re subscribed to
62: Top 3 tattoo / piercing ideas
63: Top 3 awards you want to win
64: Top 3 emojis
65: Top 3 cars you dream of owning
66: Top 3 authors
67: Top 3 historical figures
68: Top 3 baby names
69: Top 3 DIYs
70: Top 3 smoothie combos/flavors
71: Top 3 songs of this month
72: Top 3 questions of this post you want to be asked
73: Top 3 villains
74: Top 3 Cities you want to see
75: Top 3 recipes you want to try
76: Top 3 dream jobs
77: Top 3 lucky items
78: Top 3 traditions you have
79: Top 3 things you miss about being a kid
80: Top 3 harry potter characters
81: Top 3 lies you were told
82: Top 3 pictures in your camera roll right now
83: Top 3 turn ons
84: Top 3 turn offs
85: Top 3 magazines/news papers/ journals to read
86: Top 3 things you wish you had known earlier
87: Top 3 spongebob episodes
88: Top 3 places to be in the world
89: Top 3 things you’d do differently
90: Top 3 TV shows from your childhood
91: Top 3 meals you love
92: Top 3 kinds of tea
93: Top 3 embarrassing moments
94: Top 3 holidays to celebrate
95: Top 3 things to do in the rain
96: Top 3 things to do in the snow
97: Top 3 items you can’t leave the house w/o
98: Top 3 movies you’d like to see
99: Top 3 art mediums
100: Top 3 museums you’ve been to
101: Top 3 school memories
102: Top 3 things you don’t/Won’t miss
103: Top 3 pick up lines
104: Top 3 sports to watch
105: Top 3 taylor swift songs