things to remember:
  • there will always be a tomorrow
  • nearly all problems are fixable
  • even your smallest achievements are something to be proud of
  • being alone can be exactly what you need sometimes
  • always get back up, no matter what it is that pushes you down
  • new opportunities will come along
  • you are not alone
  • you are valid
  • you are loved
  • and you are going to be okay.
Attributes The Signs Should Develop & Tendencies They Should Let go of


Attributes to Develop

  • Independence
  • Self-awareness
  • Trusting one’s instinct
  • Courage
  • Moderation in giving

Tendencies to Let go of

  • Being Mr. or Mrs. nice
  • Attachment to fairness & justice
  • Seeing oneself through someone else’s eyes
  • Having a “tit for tat” mentality


Attributes to Develop

  • Loyalty
  • Awareness of boundaries
  • Taking things one step at a time
  • A sense of self-worth
  • Awareness of personal values
  • Patience
  • Honoring the needs of others and yourself
  • Gratitude
  • Forgiveness

Tendencies to Let go of

  • Getting into other people’s personal life
  • Attraction to crisis situations
  • Inappropriate intensity
  • Judgmental tendencies
  • Having a “my way or the highway” mentality when working with others
  • Overreacting
  • OCD tendencies


Attributes to Develop

  • Healthy curiosity
  • Seeing both sides of a situation
  • Logic
  • Talking about your feeling to someone you trust
  • A positive approach to life as well as other people
  • A nonthreatening approach when expressing new ideas
  • Listening
  • Open-mindedness
  • Seeking factual information before making decisions

Tendencies to Let go of

  • Self-righteousness
  • Aloofness
  • Assuming people can read your mind
  • Needing to always be right!
  • Speaking the “truth” without taking other’s feelings into account
  • Careless spontaneity
  • Taking shortcuts
  • Taking yourself much too seriously
  • Prejudging present situations on the basis of past experience


Attributes to Develop

  • Noticing & validating one’s feelings
  • Empathy
  • Being honest about your feelings & insecurities
  • Independence
  • Humility
  • Accepting other people’s emotions

Tendencies to Let go of

  • The need to be in control of everything surrounding you, that includes people
  • Acting before you think
  • Feeling completely responsible for everything
  • Doing everything that is “socially acceptable” rather than doing what is truly honest
  • Thinking things have to be challenging to be important
  • Caring for others’ feelings and neglecting your own


Attributes to Develop

  • Individuality
  • Willingness to take “center stage”
  • Following your heart’s desires
  • Strengthening your willpower
  • Enthusiasm
  • Self-confidence
  • Taking risks
  • Relating to the childish actions from others
  • Enjoying life
  • Looking at life as if it’s a game

Tendencies to Let go of

  • Accepting peer pressure in order to “belong”
  • Detaching yourself from emotional situations
  • Aloofness
  • Waiting for others to prompt your own actions
  • “Overlooking” the reality of a situation
  • Waiting for more knowledge before taking action
  • Excessive daydreaming
  • Running away from confrontations


Attributes to Develop

  • Participation
  • Bringing order to chaos
  • Creating routines
  • Living in the moment
  • Selflessness
  • Being caring to others
  • Analyzing and categorizing
  • Moderation
  • Taking risks in spite of your fears
  • Noticing and valuing details

Tendencies to Let go of

  • Having a victim consciousness
  • Confusion
  • Not planning ahead
  • Escapism
  • Oversensitivity
  • Self-doubt
  • Feelings of being worthless
  • Withdrawal
  • Vagueness
  • Giving up


Attributes to Develop

  • Cooperation
  • Tact
  • Increasing awareness to other people’s emotions
  • Selflessness
  • Creating win/win situations
  • Sharing
  • Seeing certain things through another’s eyes
  • Communicating self-identity

Tendencies to Let go of

  • Impulsiveness
  • Thoughts of self-assertion
  • Lack of awareness to others need of support
  • Self-centeredness
  • Lack of good judgement regarding money
  • Expecting others to be like yourself
  • Indifference to how one is seen by others
  • Outbursts of anger
  • Over concern with survival


Attributes to Develop

  • Self-discipline
  • Choosing constructive change
  • Releasing whatever is holding you back from enjoying yourself
  • Getting rid of non useful items
  • Enjoying things without owning them
  • Accepting support from others (ideas, opportunities, etc.)
  • Open-mindedness

Tendencies to Let go of

  • Possessiveness
  • Questioning past decisions
  • Stubbornness
  • Doing things the hard way when there is obviously a easier way
  • Resistance to change at the expense of other people


Attributes to Develop

  • Reliance on intuition
  • Selflessness
  • Trusting yourself
  • Spending time alone in nature
  • Patience
  • Hearing the meaning behind the words

Tendencies to Let go of

  • Indecisiveness
  • Second-guessing what others are thinking
  • Gossiping
  • Saying what others want to hear
  • Invalidating intuitive knowledge with logic
  • Perpetually seeking more information
  • Impatience
  • Trusting other people
  • Not including other people


Attributes to Develop

  • Self-control
  • Self-respect
  • Staying goal oriented
  • Sensible approaches to problem solving
  • Self-care
  • Keeping commitments and promises
  • Accepting responsibility for success
  • Letting go of the past
  • Approaching life from an adult position

Tendencies to Let go of

  • Dependence
  • Moodiness
  • Insecurity leading to inaction
  • Limiting yourself because of fear
  • Using the past to avoid the present
  • Isolation
  • Lack of self-respect
  • Avoidance to change
  • Controlling others through emotional overreaction


  • Attributes to Develop
  • Desire for friendship
  • Willingness to share unconventional  ideas
  • Making good decisions in the group’s best interest
  • Awareness of equality
  • Active participation in groups
  • Relating to others as individuals
  • Creating win/win situations
  • Recognizing how others are special

Tendencies to Let go of

  • Insistence on getting your way
  • Making changes to exercise authority
  • Attachment to taking risks
  • Melodramatic tendencies
  • Doing what’s expected of you instead of following your heart
  • Prideful responses based on fear


Attributes to Develop

  • Being non judgmental
  • Compassion
  • Focusing on the spiritual pathway
  • Trusting in positive outcomes
  • Welcoming change with open arms
  • Meditation and self-awareness

Tendencies to Let go of

  • Inflexibility
  • Hypersensitivity reactions
  • Overanalysis
  • Obsessive worry
  • Exaggerating the importance of details
  • Critical first reactions
  • Being Mr. or Mrs. perfect
  • Staying in unpleasant situations
Dating Cassian Andor would include...

Originally posted by asnipplesonabreastplate

I’m in love with Diego and he’s my son, bye

  • Calling him Cass
  • And calling him captain, especially when he’s a little bossy, just to annoy him
  • You calling him captain becoming a little kink…………….
  • K-2SO being your boring, sassy and cool son with Cassian (that droid loves you lol)
  • Meaning so much to Cassian that he can’t even remember how his life was before meeting you
  • A lot of PDA because he doesn’t give a damn about what people may think about him
  • And now that he found you, now that he truly knows what love means, he has nothing to be ashamed of
  • Being his weakness
  • Totally having him wrapped around your finger
  • Cassian hugging and kissing you whenever and wherever he can (which means all the damn time)
  • Him singing for you to sleep
  • Sleeping on his arms
  • Being the big spoon sometimes, like when he’s angry or sad
  • Running your fingers through his perfect hair to calm him down
  • Giving you passionate and soft kisses
  • I mean, have you seen his lips??????
  • Cassian being gentle at sex because he likes to slowly make love to you, not to fuck you
  • But having hickeys on your neck the next morning (and Cassian being proud of it)
  • Him being quite jealous
  • Cuddling a lot because he’s so warm
  • Kissing and caressing his body when he can’t sleep, especially his back
  • Letting him cry on your chest because he finally has someone to talk to, to tell about his fears and mistakes, etc
  • Secretly being in touch when he’s away on a mission (Mon found out one day, but she doesn’t care, she knows how important you are to Cassian)
  • Having late night dates on Yavin 4
  • Kids? He doesn’t actually want them, at least not now, but is a subject that he definitely wants to bring up again someday
  • Always making him laugh, and basically, just making him a better person and a happy man

Meanwhile, Annie’s been getting the hang of the flower shop business and practices some of her new sales techniques on Shena. 

RANK 2!!! 

RANT || Theo Raeken/ Cody Christian|

I can’t believe some of us have to actually write endless posts about this and it BLOWS MY MIND that Cody actually has to make a Video or posts to remind people that the person he portrayers on TW is a FICTIONAL CHARACTER . The qualities Theo Raeken possess is not the qualities Cody holds !

CODY CHRISTIAN IS AN ACTOR . He ACTS . He PRETENDS to be another person in simple words . HE IS NOT THEO RAEKEN . Therefore , unless Cody Christian has actually offended you in person by saying something mean etc you have no reason to hate him and bash on him !

It’s his Job to play Theo for our entertainment. So why are you hating on him? In my opinion you should be praising the fucking guy for such OUTSTANDING acting skills . I mean c'mon he’s the best villain in my opinion . Void was good , but Theo is amazing.
Besides the point , irrelevant ..

STOP all this dumb HATE on CODY CHRISTIAN . He’s just ACTING . In all honesty he’s a freaking Warm Cinnamon Roll .

So go send him some love . And apologize if you’ve thrashed him.

Have a good day .

Potential Catalysts for Character Change that aren't True Love

Basically what this comes down to is, what could make someone question something “intrinsic” about themselves? As such, not every item on this list would make every character question that about themselves because they value different things.

To remove the “romance” aspect of this, I basically just ignored any catalyst that depends on them realizing something because someone else pointed it out. However, if a friend, stranger, or other non-romantic relationship points out a flaw, it should absolutely qualify.

To the list!

  • Hurting a good friend (physically or emotionally)
  • Being pushed beyond their morals/ethics by a mentor
  • Hurting themselves (physically)
  • Having to rebuild a home
  • Realizing they’re being left behind by those around them
  • Being arrested
  • Losing an ability they were proud of
  • Being rejected for a position they believed they were well qualified for
  • Death of a good friend/family member
  • Witnessing a violent crime


*:・゚✧    pυвlιc adverтιѕeмenт    ✧ ・゚: *
                                  ROLEPLAY     OPPORTUNITY

We, the Xiaolin Showdown rp community are a small group. Small but friendly. And we have something missing: a RMegan.Why to play rMegan: 

-rMegan is rJack’s princess and who doesn’t loves to be a princess.

-Also she can be rHannibal’s princess. Again, who wouldn’t like to be a princess?

-You will have an rJack, rHannibal and a bunch of orignal monks to play with. 

-rMegan is a character that, due to the lack of a background can be development into a complex character. If someone wants to. 

-Rolaplay with the Xiaolin Showdown community is fun and simply awesome. All the roleplayers are amazing. 

-I, xevilbusinessx (also know as evil-boy-genixs ), and darkcowbxy (also know as mercifulking ) would be willing to make and help to make icons, theme, promos and or backgrounds. 

-And finally, me xevilbusinessx and darkcowbxy will welcome you like the daughter you are to us.

Finally: Play rMegan.  

Promo by [ x ]

Art by [ x ]


So this was going to be another pastel ice cream shop, but I already built one of those, so I came up with this instead.

Non-functional, unless you remove the deco fridge counter and replace it with the OFB one. I mostly just built this because I thought it would be a cute set to shoot dates for my legacy. It also doesn’t include lights, because I use invisible lights, and those are a bitch to move if you don’t know where they’re placed.

[Download - Summer Nights]

I’m just tired.

for shipping snowbarry certain people accuse me of

  • being a racist
  • supporting sexual assault
  • and, wait there’s a new one: supporting adultery
  • bonus: if you say anything negative about Iris, there’s a 90 % chance that you’ll get called a misogynist as well.

and my favorite thing is: whenever sb shippers speak out & try to defend themselves, they’re simply getting called ‘whiny bitches playing the victim card’

there’s really no way we can say anything right, it gets twisted and analyzed by a bunch of wa shippers who will come at you in freakin groups. And in the end you’re ‘just like all those disgusting snowbats’ as so many of them love to call us ( so mature right ). Been there, done that, and I’m just incredibly tired of this shit.

I’ve said this before and I will say it again:

  • we are not responsible for policing the internet for racist posts
  • we can not babysit those bigots who exist in every goddamn fandom
  • we can not prevent hate towards cast & crew

the only thing we can do is signal boost hate blogs when we see them & get people to report them. That’s it. And before anyone feels the need to attack: I’m not speaking for an entire fandom, if you’re not one of those people, that’s amazing! I also know it goes both ways , we can find some pretty nasty people all over the internet. This is just my experience ever since I’ve said the word ‘snowbarry’ aloud, and it’s sad tbh. Cause I’d love to meet all of the lovely & peaceful people in the fandom.

Tagged by @hoefflepuff

Relationship Status: Single

Lipstick or Chapstick: Lipstick

Last song I listened to: Invincible by Ruelle 

Top Three Shows: Witches of East End, Riverdale, Call the Midwife

Top Three Characters: Luna Lovegood, Queenie Goldstien and Hatsune Miku

Top Three Ships: Hermione/Fred, Harry/Draco, Remus/ME (or OC/Reader) I just have the hots for Remus y’all.

Originally posted by remuslupi

I haven’t posted anything in a while, daaaaammmnnnnn. I’m sorry! Enjoy this little nugget about me!

I tag: @ash-castle @jamespottrr @cinnamon-roll-newt @siriusblsck @muqqlestudies @synoir @for-thelove-ofbeing-lost

protect-the-smol-wizards  asked:

Babe have you ever read we need to talk about Kevin or The perks ofbeing a wallflower? ((I'm very bad with questions and I saw them on my bookshelf so I thought I'd ask))

WhooOp I’ve watched the perks of being a wallflower and I really wanna read it (I’m gonna go buy it asap, I keep forgetting!!) and I’ve never heard of we need to talk about Kevin, what’s it about??


Okada-kun, Ladies And Gentlemen!

Because of her ikemen chara everyone is crazy for Okada-kun. even craizer since she had her her hair cut, short, very short.

Doesn’t want her bro taken by another, imouto keep clingy to her.

Just like she used to, stealing kisses from Okada.

And Okada, we all know that she used to avoid miki as always

or give her a hit in a head

But apparently today

this gentlemen give her a little surprise in return

Is this the effect of

being so ikemen ?

Bonus :

CFVY needs more love you guys~
I feel like these are awful. THESE GUYS NEED MORE SCRENTIME. THAT’S WHY.

- Admin A

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Coco Adel //
- She tells her team to hide her money away from her when there’s new and expensive clothes she wants. She doesn’t want to lose all her money to clothes she’ll be too scared to take anywhere in fear of damaging them so it’s the best option.
- She’s the closest to Velvet and the two are always hanging out in the dorms, with coco laying on her back and her legs thrown over Velvet’s legs as they talk and gossip.
- NOT A MORNING PERSON. She’s miserable until it’s at least noon and then she’ll get up… but that might be a challenge sometimes too.
- I feel like she probably snores quietly and her teammates tease her for it and she’s like “Uhhh… excuse you. What a bunch ofbs.” and still won’t stop denying when one of them pulls out a recording they took.

Fox Alistair //
- He spends most of his free time with his team, but will sit there quietly while they talk because he’s busying reading his book. He pays close enough attention to nod or shake his head when they ask him something.
- He doesn’t get much sleep and usually just lies in his bed with his arms behind his head and staring outside at the stars while he daydreams and tries to fall asleep.
- I believe he trains the most out of the group, but he doesn’t overwork himself. He’s usually fighting Yatsuhashi so they can both improve their fighting.
- His teammates come to him when they have something they have to get off their chest and he’s always there to listen and try his best to help them out.

Velvet Scarlatina //
- She’s loves being with her team most of the time, especially Coco and she always has talks with her before they sleep for the night.
- She wants to make new friends all the time but all the missions often stop her from getting opportunities to. Ruby is the closest person to her that’s not a part of the team and she loves it when the two walk around the school talking about anything.
- She’s the smallest out of her group and whenever she can’t reach something, instead of just getting it, Yatsuhashi and sometimes Coco will pick her up to get it as a way of teasing her and she whines and laughs about it.
- Probably has the strictest diet (aka: vegetarian and refuses to eat junk food) out of the four, but has to fight the urge to eat sweets whenever someone eats them in front of her.

Yatsuhasi Daichi //
- He wakes up early in the morning and before the rest of the team and he goes out to train for a little every now and then before Fox shows up and the two of them spar.
- He eats a ton of food. He can eat all of his plate and still be as hungry as he was before and Velvet often goes to get food up front just for him since she’s fine with just the salad in the morning.
- He knows at least two other languages and gets a chance to use them when they’re on missions and it usually impresses the people there.
- I feel like he has a hidden stuffed animal from his childhood that he cuddles with when he’s sleeping.


Hey, can I have a text conversation where I am Lydia’s twin sister and I ask Stiles to come and watch Star Wars with me and he says its weird that I’m related to Lydia because I’m the opposite?xx

hope it’s what you wanted :)

Also can you guys follow the account i made for this blog on IG ?


& also my personal? Shivix5 ! If you do follow my personal comment on my last IG pic saying ‘Void’