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this has probably already been posted twenty times, but here’s dan and phil’s vidcon story in its entirety

Ok guys*takes a deep breath* heres the thing

I am probably the most heartbroken person in the world right now
We have all the right to be mad.
But mad at who?
Yixing… Who is overworked to death at this point? And whose chinese activities are whats keeping most chinese exoLs stick around despite exo not being there for years?
Rest of exo…? That are again constantly living in airports and touring constantly to earn money to sustain like 50% of SM at this point and spomsoring everyones comebacks?
SM entertainment? Who knows.. Its a company that works on profit and has way many artists to manage apart from exo.. They have their constraints as well…?
Yixing studio? Who knows… They know how important it is for yixing to be doing everything he is rn to maintain his still developing star status in the hugely competetive chinese industry.
Do we blame THAAD? China? S. Korea? Missiles? Wars?
We don’t need anyone to be mad at.
So like.. Be angry… Possibly cry (like me) in the shower if you like. Be disappointed. But then.. Remember how much effort everyone has been putting for this comeback. Right now exo is probably shooting in the studio working hard for the MV. They (all 9 of them) are probably disappointed too. And oh my god the amount of effort my dear fandom has been putting over these genius comeback concepts and the melon streaming passes and international group orders! Come on guys… We cant let our pretty little projects and all those hair dyes go to waste!! Sorry for being cheesy.. But the comeback being “GRAND” or not depends on us.
Yixing will come back next time soon. I know. For now.. Lets celebrate what we have. Lets not make them feel guilty for given the circumstances i am sure this is the best they can offer us. Please be angry… Scream all you want.. But if we are not going to be with exo at this time..who will? Who other than exo Ls will support exo? Cheer up girls (and guys). Its not the end of the world. We have survived a lot more than this.

also love the attitude from some of yall on here that wanting to get married and adopt kids is somehow “assimilating into straight society” or whatever. its cool if you dont want to get married or have a family, there’s a lot to critique about marriage and family in our society but to act like the goal of getting married and having a family is turning your back on the ~radical~ lgbt community is dumb as shit.

People aren’t always what you want them to be. Sometimes they disappoint you or let you down, but you have to give them a chance first. You can’t just meet someone and expect them to be everything you’re looking for and then be angry when they’re not every hope and aspiration you projected onto them. It’s foolish to believe that someone will be what you imagine them to be. And sometimes, when you give them a chance, they turn out to be better than you imagined. Different, but better.
—  Chloe Rattray

anyways a bad habit is taking pics of yourself and sending them / uploading them and whenever anyone compliments you you just denying every compliment
its a really bad form of behaviour because for one thing it benefits no one in any way, youre only making yourself feel worse and either driving the other person away or forcing them to say nice things about you
and its a path ive been down and seeing people do it nowadays they always seem to be bad people and i was a bad person back when i did that shit too and just like. why would you even do that ? someones going out their way to give you a compliment and yr just like. ‘nah yr wrong’.. like that can hurt some people..
so like……. dont do that shit. its bad. please break that habit before it only makes things worse okay