of attraction

When sexuality conversations come up I can never express how Im bisexual with a preference for women without everyone going “LOL BUT YOURE DATING A MAN??”

thank you. that’s what the “i’m bisexual” was for? lmao? its 2017 and bisexuals can’t talk about how their bisexuality is to them without people trying to dissect it 24/7 i s2g

What Makes The Signs Sexy.

Their Strength.

Aries are strong, whether we’re talking physically or mentally, it’s their strong aura that easily attracts you to an Aries. They will use that strength to their advantage which only attracts you more.

Their Passion.

Taurus is passionate, they will do what they need to in order for you to feel that passion, physically and verbally they will let you know how passionate they are. Their passion in their daily life will reflect in their sexuality; and you’ll like that enough to find it intriguing.

Their Straightforwardness.

You might find yourself sexually drawn to a Gemini by how well they ‘get to the point’. They’ll let you know what they want and when they want it. A Gemini will tell it to you straight, and you won’t be able to help but find that confidence sexy.

Their Emotion.

Cancer allows their emotions to rule them. So in a sexual state, everything they do will be controlled by their emotion, it could be a sense of heated passion or sorrowful desires that can be what really makes you find them sexy.

Their Confidence.

Confidence does not mean arrogance. In this case, finding a Leo sexy comes directly from the confidence they have in themselves and what confidence they have in you. They believe highly in their own abilities but will always raise their partner up with them.

Their Opinions.

A Virgo’s opinions and beliefs can be the attracting factor. Whether you agree or not you’re intrigued to know more. In a sexual manner, if you’re up for it; Virgos will show you rather than teach you to agree with them.

Their Submissiveness.

Something Libra’s are good at is listening to their partner. In a sexual state they enjoy pleasing their partner and doing what exactly is going to satisfy the other while getting satisfaction themselves.

Their Mystery.

Being sexually attracted to a Scorpio is nothing new. Their ability to flip their emotions around easily is enticing. Their secrecy could lead you into their mystery, never knowing what to expect or what’s coming from a scorpio.

Their Energy.

A Sagittarius will always leave you wanting more, and they’ll be up for it if you are. If you’re tired they probably aren’t which will only cause your attraction to grow. Their adventure and ‘never stop’ personality is intriguing to those who are willing to experience it.

Their Dominance.

Capricorns are hard workers in life and that transfers over to the bedroom. Finding them sexy comes from their dominance. They aren’t demanding but their aura will leave you putting them first and wanting to satisfy them.

Their Knowledge.

The mind can be sexy. An Aquarius’ intelligence is what attracts you. Whether it be their ability to spit out textbook facts or simply that they are more experienced; it’s their mind that will get you hooked.

Their Generosity.

Although they enjoy being satisfied themselves, it’s their ability to give that attracts one to them more and more. They enjoy giving to their partner almost more than receiving themselves. This can cause you to become invested in a Pisces’ sexuality.


Dude.  the boston accent.  at about 40 ish seconds.

holy. shit.


This is a little spell jar I did to promote my own self love and self care! This is not something that I plan to bury, but rather keep in my space as a reminder to continue my journey of loving and caring for myself. It was such a nice uplifting experience to make💕


🌸 A glass jar of your choosing that can be sealed with a cork or lid
🌸 Fire proof container, incense burner, mortar and pestle
🌸 Rose quartz
🌸 Self love sigil
🌸 Rose and frankincense incense for love and peace from insecurity and anxiety
🌸 Cinnamon
🌸 Nutmeg
🌸 Dried rosemary
🌸 Dried rose petals or rosebuds
🌸 Sugar
🌸 Pink Himalayan salt
🌸 Pink candle

💖What to do💖

🌸 Burn the incense and self love sigil
🌸 Combine with mortar and pestle and pour into jar
🌸 Add the following into the jar in this order: cinnamon, nutmeg, rosemary, sugar, pink salt and then top up with rose petals/buds
🌸 Cleanse and charge your rose quartz, hold it in your hands and think loving thoughts about yourself then add into jar
🌸 Create a list of things you love/enjoy about yourself
🌸 Light pink candle, look into the flame and read your list aloud
🌸 Put cork on the jar and seal with the candle wax
🌸 Charge overnight in moonlight and place jar somewhere you will see it often

Let me know if you make this and how it works out for you!! Love, light and blessings my dear friends 💖

35 Powerful Affirmations That Can Change Your Life

Life extends from the thoughts and emotions that you experience. This means that employing affirmations of positive words can have a powerful effect on how you feel and help boost you to new levels of achievement.

Affirmations are proven methods of self-improvement because of their ability to rewire our brains. Much like exercise, they raise the level of feel-good hormones and push our brains to form new clusters of “positive thought” neurons. In the sequence of thought-speech-action, affirmations play an integral role by breaking patterns of negative thoughts, negative speech, and, in turn, negative actions.

Repeat the below aloud and with conviction in the morning and after a few days you will notice the shift in your mood, perception, and interpretation of any given situation.

1.) I am the architect of my life; I build its foundation and choose its contents.

2.) Today, I am brimming with energy and overflowing with joy.

3.) My body is healthy; my mind is brilliant; my soul is tranquil.

4.) I am superior to negative thoughts and low actions.

5.) I have been given endless talents which I begin to utilize today.

6.) I forgive those who have harmed me in my past and peacefully detach from them.

7.) A river of compassion washes away my anger and replaces it with love.

8.) I am guided in my every step by Spirit who leads me towards what I must know and do.

9.) (If you’re married) My marriage is becoming stronger, deeper, and more stable each day.

10.) I possess the qualities needed to be extremely successful.

11.) (For business owners) My business is growing, expanding, and thriving.

12.) Creative energy surges through me and leads me to new and brilliant ideas.

13.) Happiness is a choice. I base my happiness on my own accomplishments and the blessings I’ve been given.

14.) My ability to conquer my challenges is limitless; my potential to succeed is infinite.

15.) (For those who are unemployed) I deserve to be employed and paid well for my time, efforts, and ideas. Each day, I am closer to finding the perfect job for me.

16.) I am courageous and I stand up for myself.

17.) My thoughts are filled with positivity and my life is plentiful with prosperity.

18.) Today, I abandon my old habits and take up new, more positive ones.

19.) Many people look up to me and recognize my worth; I am admired.

20.) I am blessed with an incredible family and wonderful friends.

21.) I acknowledge my own self-worth; my confidence is soaring.

22.) Everything that is happening now is happening for my ultimate good.

23.) I am a powerhouse; I am indestructible.

24.) Though these times are difficult, they are only a short phase of life.

25.) My future is an ideal projection of what I envision now.

26.) My efforts are being supported by the universe; my dreams manifest into reality before my eyes.

27.) (For those who are single) The perfect partner for me is coming into my life sooner than I expect.

28.) I radiate beauty, charm, and grace.

29.) I am conquering my illness; I am defeating it steadily each day.

30.) My obstacles are moving out of my way; my path is carved towards greatness.

31.) I wake up today with strength in my heart and clarity in my mind.

32.) My fears of tomorrow are simply melting away.

33.) I am at peace with all that has happened, is happening, and will happen.

34.) My nature is Divine; I am a spiritual being.

35.) My life is just beginning.

You Were Beautiful rearranged

I feel like we haven’t talked about this version of YWB enough?!?!? I LOVE seeing DAY6 just let go and have fun. I hope we get to see them perform this version live someday (with singing lol). I don’t know how they do it but they just make me fall in love with them over and over again. 


7 Reasons Why You Need To Try Yoga

In the spirit of No Fear Friday, let’s talk about trying something new - yoga! Here are some of the benefits practicing yogis experience both on and off their mats:

1. Yoga brain. Yoga is a great way to destress, moving into the body in this way leads to what some refer to as “yoga brain” which is an intense feeling of calm & relaxation that follows us for hours after our session.

2. Increased flexibility. Being flexible leads to better posture and the ability to perform better athletically, it can also make sex more enjoyable. Flexibility is important for our muscles because it allows nutrients to enter the tissues and let toxins out with ease.

3. Increased muscle strength and tone. Fad diets and supplements are always raving on about how they can help us to lose weight, get strong and tone up; well here’s something that won’t fail and doesn’t have any dangerous side effects - practicing yoga regularly.

4. Improved vitality. Yoga is all about the breath and moving into the body - the breath is the life force energy and when we concentrate on conscious breathing we can feel the energy inside us rise up. A regular yoga practice can reverse conditions like chronic fatigue - if accompanied by good nutrition.

5. Balanced metabolism. The movement of the body flowing from one pose to another helps to boost our metabolism which burns calories. An essential component of maintaining a healthy lifestyle is burning more calories than we put into our bodies.

6. Heart health. Yoga is considered moderate exercise and just 30 minutes of yoga a day can protect our hearts from diseases like heart disease and COPD. 

7. Protection from injury. Moving into the body and stretching regularly prevents injuries because we are not sitting stagnant which causes joints and muscles to become stiff and tight - which makes them more prone to injury.

Yoga is not for the flexible, it’s for the willing.

Peace & positive vibes.