obviously i am a mature adult

Honestly? Jin and Jimin are /adults/. They’re not catty teenage girls going behind each others backs and insulting each other, this was a part of a /game/, where the point is to roast someone basically.

Obviously, no one is trying to say that the statement that Jin made was okay or not uncalled for in any way (it personally made me cringe, and yeah, I’d rather it not have been said). But to criticize those kinds of statements means you should criticize them when they’re being used against anyone, including the /countless/ times they were used against other members i.e. Jin.

Going back to the adult thing, Jin and Jimin work and live together, and have for almost 5+ years. All of the boys are very close, and if there is an issue, I am sure at this point they are mature enough to address it with one another and talk it out.

Okay so I am a little worried....

Now before anyone misunderstands this post or thinks I’m bashing, I’m not. This is a legit concern…

So just found it that Katie McGrath has been confirmed for season 3 as a series regular. I think that’s great news. Now, obviously I am a Karamel shipper, but I actually like Lena and want to see more of her. I’m not going to bash Supercorp because I am a mature adult and don’t bash ships that I don’t ship or that I don’t like. I believe everyone has a right to ship what they want, canon or fandom.

But as we’ve seen this season with James and Maggie, I’m worried for Lena. Both Mechad and Floriana are listed as series regulars but they don’t get a lot of screentime. We’ve went episodes without seeing James and we get little scenes with Maggie. I’m happy for all the Lena fans out there. Like I saod, I want to see more of Lena myself. I want to see where her story arc goes. Will she be a villian or a good guy? Will she be BFf’s with Kara or will she be Kara’s nemesis? I’m intrigued and I think Katie is an amazing actress. But am I the only one concerned that even though Katie has been promoted to series regular, that she will get the same treatment that James and Maggie are currently getting?

I don’t want any hate on this post. I’m not bashing anyone. I’m not bashing any ships, etc. Any hate will immediately be blocked. I want to have a mature, adult conversation.

1x10 highlights

1. The bughead relationship development obviously and eeee they’re continuing to sort their shit out in a mature way and are there for each other and my heart barely handled it

2. ALICE COOPER IS FROM THE SOUTH SIDE I am actually really digging her character as well though like I hated her at first and totally thought she was evil and overbearing but I feel like since she kicked Hal out and we got to see another side of her I am here for seeing her be a cool mum/journalistic badass

3. FP actually being a responsible adult? Agreeing to go to a high school party because his sons girlfriend asked him to and he knew that it meant a lot to them? Bringing jughead a present? Telling jughead not to run? Saving bughead? I can’t deal.

4. The dance off. Hot damn.

5. VALERIE. Fucking Valerie continues to slay. I love that she’s such a strong female character and she doesn’t take any of Archie’s bullshit. It would have been so easy for them to hook up or for her to take him back at the end of 1x09 like nothing happened but she knows her worth and isn’t gonna settle for that

6. MOLLY RINGWALD I mean let’s be real, they couldn’t have found a more iconic redhead to play Archie’s mum and I’m hanging out for some more Breakfast club or even pretty in pink, 16 candles type references pls

Hero Time: The Wash Cave

Disclaimer: Red vs Blue and related characters are the property of Rooster Teeth.
Warnings: Language, Canon-typical violence, Alien-MPREG
Pairings: Tuckington
Rating: T
Synopsis: [Vigilante AU] Tucker’s life has been weird for a while. Weird enough that finding a brightly clad jackass bleeding out in the restaurant’s dumpster isn’t probably the weirdest thing that’s going to happen to him that day. Shenanigans ensued pretty readily.

A/N: Based on [this picture] by @ashleystlawrence and the initial prompting of @goodluckdetective.

Okay I feel terrible because (as is probably very obvious by now) I do not normally do shippy stuff, and especially not long form, but YES. Finally okay. All the world building established we now have Tucker and Wash, together, in a chapter and we can begin the juicy stuff. I’m sure the pacing has felt slow for a fic up to now but I promise! It’s going to pay off : ) Thanks for having faith in me and the story up to now!

Thanks for the feedback to @secretlystephaniebrown, @doubleodonut, alkeni, Yin, night_litany, HappyFunBallXD, @ashleystlawrence, @demoranightmares, @godoflaundrybaskets, Beawolfs_Pen, and JjThereforeIAm on AO3 and tumblr!

Impatient as the knocking was, Tucker knew to expect more than just Caboose on the other side of the door. Still, it was surprising that Church would tag along after having been forced onto babysitting duty just the night before.

“You look pleasant,” Tucker said with a snort as he opened the door the rest of the way.

Church grouched at him before shuffling the rest of the way in. “That how you going to treat me after I go through the snow for you, asshole?”

“You can’t get cold,” Tucker responded with a wave before leaning back against the door and waiting for Caboose to lumber on through. “I’m not keeping the door open forever, man, c’mon!”

“I am not tracking snow in,” Caboose announced, rubbing the bottoms of his boots against the door frame. “Because that would be very, very rude.”

“You know what else is rude? Making the guy holding the door open for you wait. Caboose, get in here,” Tucker ordered, watching with arms crossed as Caboose finally filed all the way through the door.

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Why, at 14, I started to be sexualized by certain elements of the media?
— 

Emma Watson

This little bit has been omitted from a lot of the transcripts of Emma Watson’s UN speech that I have seen around, but it was one that really popped out of me. When this sort of thing is pointed out, it is so sickening.

Because I realize that at 26 years old I have been dealing with being sexualized for well over a decade now. And while I thought myself to be quite “grown up” and “mature” as a 14 year old, I obviously now see young teenagers as the children that they are. I’m not meaning to trivialize teenagers or imply that they aren’t intelligent and mature, but I am merely reflecting on the fact that many of the things myself and my friends dealt with at that age should have been way beyond our understanding. We should have been allowed a few more years of childhood. 

And while I may have laughed it off back then, because sexuality was exciting and new, now I’m left to clearly see the marks made on me at that vulnerable time and how they continue to influence me as an adult woman. 

anonymous asked:

I'm sorry I don't have twitter, what did Persia do. Why do people hate her so much?? I'm always hearing about someone don't like her. Then again alot of people bandwagon are you mad because what she did was wrong or just to join this klaroline war?

Persia favorited a tweet that basically said that the girl at the PaleyFest panel (who looked like she was about twelve) was harassing Joseph Morgan. Here is a screenshot. Personally I had no opinion of Persia White until now, but I have a problem with any 42 year old who thinks it’s appropriate to essentially endorse the public shaming and humiliation of a child who clearly idolizes her boyfriend and has taken the brunt of the anti-KC anger over the past few days. Not only is that an extremely unprofessional thing for a professional actress to do, it’s something that could potentially damage her boyfriend’s public image. And what does she gain by doing this exactly, aside from taking a jab at someone who is very supportive of someone she loves? There’s pretty much no up side and a lot of down side, and even though I completely acknowledge she’s probably taken a lot of flack from KCers I think it was petty and cruel to redirect any of that tension towards a kid who had nothing to do with it. 

And no, I’m not doing this to just jump on the bandwagon and join the “Klaroline war” (to be quite honest I don’t even really know what that is). I will fully come out and say that I’m probably taking this more personally than I should, but I just find it profoundly disturbing and I can’t help but relate to this girl who probably can’t understand why people are having such a negative reaction. And just by looking at her I can tell that she’s around the same age that I was when I first became a real fangirl. Around the time I was 11 or 12 I started watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and I’m not exaggerating when I say that it literally changed my life. It’s one of the major reasons I decided to get my degree in film, it inspired so much creativity in me, and it’s still a major influence on my viewing habits and expectations when it comes to TV and film. And when I was younger I loved Buffy and Angel’s relationship soooo much that I felt like I could die. I would have cut off my left arm for the opportunity to see a BtVS panel like that, and being able to talk to one of the actors I idolized so much, even for a brief moment like that, would have quite literally been the thrill of my life (although I wouldn’t have been brave enough to do it that age as would a lot of other girls her age, so she deserves to be commended on her bravery alone). And I’m telling you right now, if I had gotten the reaction that she got I would have been crushed. If I had gotten the reaction that JM gave to her I would have wished for my death right there on the spot, and if I had gotten the kind of reaction she’s gotten from PW and so many other factions of the TVD and TO fandom I would have cried myself to sleep every night and probably stopped liking BtVS as much as I did. Which would have literally changed the course of my life. 

Now obviously I can’t assume that this girl would feel the same way that I would have felt having something like this happen, but I know she sure as hell can’t feel good about it. I doubt she has the maturity to even fully grasp why this is happening, and that’s really why I find PW’s behavior to be so inappropriate. She is mature enough to take the high road (although I don’t know what she’s taking the high road against, this girl was incredibly polite and respectful), but she didn’t. And if I, an adult woman, am losing her fangirly feelings over TO because I’m merely witnessing this fuckery, I can only imagine what it would be like to actually be subjected to it as a teenage girl.