observations about me

ok but can we talk about how neil literally thought andrew was in it just for the sex- he literally thought andrews attraction was only physical

(how he wanted him to hate him so neils death wouldnt mean anything to andrew)

how he was just fucking unbelievable oblivious

and how he fucking fell in love anyway

An Observation about "Stay Close To Me" (In Light of Episode 10)

I was rewatching the first episode today (for the first time since watching episode 10), and it caught my attention that we don’t actually see Viktor skate “Stay Close To Me” during the Sochi Grand Prix. I think this is important. Until he met Yuuri at the banquet, I don’t think Viktor had ever had someone that he’d wanted to stay close to him. Yuuri is the one who truly opened up that part of him.

That’s what made his later performance at the World Championships so moving. He suddenly had a motivation beyond just skating to win. A personal connection to his program. At Worlds, more than anything, he was skating for Yuuri. For this man who’d seduced him, asked him to coach him, and then cast him aside the very next day. Viktor was reaching out to Yuuri with his skating. Long after the Grand Prix and the banquet, Viktor couldn’t get over him. Yuuri became the heart and soul - the inspiration - for Viktor’s skating.

So it’s no surprise that, when Viktor saw the video of Yuuri skating Stay Close To Me himself, he dropped everything, uprooted his entire life in a single day, and moved to Japan to become his coach.

Because Viktor’s program was a reaching out; a call. And this was Yuuri’s (however unknowing) response to that call. And that response - that confirmation - changed Viktor’s life.

y’all gotta stop expecting people, especially strangers on the internet, to take on your emotional drama and burdens. it’s cool to ask for advice but don’t put people in a hard spot by manipulating them to constantly keep talking to you about that stuff if they stop responding or don’t know what to say. if they keep talking to you great, but if they take a moment away, you have to respect that. people are gonna wanna take on that burden for you and help you out but they have to be willing to do that for you and they can’t make that choice if you’re making them feel guilty, you know? nobody has an obligation to respond here on tumblr dot com and we all just need to respect people’s virtual space and let them distance themselves from people if they need to

I honestly don’t get how talking to multiple people at the same time is considered normal and cool like… even if we’re ‘just talking’ how does it show you to be a loyal, committed or serious person to if you’re lowkey flirting with other people at the same time? I will never allow myself to be just an option for someone, it’s all or nothing b

there’s always ugly personalities in every fandom … it’s sad when they have lots of followers too @ twitter 👀

The fact that a person can grow so much in a couple of years and their ideas could change and develop is absolutely stunning and amazing.


  • Aries: Irene Adler
  • Taurus: Mycroft Holmes
  • Gemini: John Watson
  • Cancer: Molly Hooper
  • Leo: Greg Lestrade
  • Virgo: Mary Morstan
  • Libra: Anthea
  • Scorpio: James Moriarty
  • Sagittarius: Janine Hawkins/Mrs Hudson
  • Capricorn: Sally Donovan
  • Aquarius: Sherlock Holmes
  • Pisces: Philip Anderson

is it heterophobic to say that 8 out of every 10 het friends i make let me down??

My 9 year-old brother was talking to me about his favorite video game, and was complaining how there were hardly any girl characters at all out of the hundred or so available. So I kinda looked at him curiously and asked him “Are you a feminist?”, and without hesitation, he said yes, he was. So I smiled and asked him if he even knew what feminist was, and without skipping a beat, said, “Believing that men and women are equal.”

And if a 9 year-old can grasp that simple of a concept and apply it to the real world (or, in this case, video games), then it’s not that difficult of an idea. 


“To put it simply, I’m selective about who I work with…”