Red flowers (poinsettias are popular this time of year)
Cinnamon (sticks or ground)
sage (any variety, whole or ground)
white or yellow candle
Have a clear intention of what you want the spell to do. In my family there’s lots of disagreements around this time of year because of the high stress. Think about the “why” of the spell, and change the wording of the spell to fit your needs.
Gather your items in one place.
Light the candle
place the sage in the bowl
“Sage brings cleansing, may it cleanse my family’s souls”
place the red flower in the bowl
“red is the color of love, may it make us see the love we have for each other”
sprinkle or place the cinnamon in the bowl and say
“Cinnamon brings love, happiness and health to my family”
Write your intent on the paper “the family get together on this date will be peaceful, loving, kind and happy”
put the paper in the bowl and say
“I call the spirits one by one to help this goal come to pass”
drip the wax that has melted from the candle on to the contents of the bowl
“the wax of this candle will bind us together”
meditate over it for a few minutes. visualize in your mind your family getting together and having a good time.
Extinguish the candle
you can bring the items to a river, lake or pond and put them in there
you can burn the contents outside at nighttime
“Now is the time of Nyx’s Three, This spell is bound with harm to none, so mote it be“