We broke up like 10 months ago, but we still love each other. The thing is, it isn't a good love. It's a love full of promises and lies and too many mistakes. Every time I start thinking, hey maybe we can fix things, he ends up hurting me. He's a sweet guy, but he doesn't know how to love someone. Now I'm just wondering if there's any love in the world that's worth all the pain.
Of course there’s someone to love. There are billions of people in the world who you can love and they can love you back.
Hey! How is your fish so far? I'm not trying to be rude or prying, but I was just wondering what size tank she has and what types of food you plan on feeling her. Again, I don't want you to take this wrong, I'm just really enthusiastic about proper betta care and I hope I might be able to help if you need any tips!
She’s been good so far. No twichy swimming so she’s doesnt seem stressed. Ive got her in about a two gallon tank rn, not huge but i can get another if she seems cramped. Right now she’s eating pellets but i’ll probably pick up the frozen stuff next time im at the store
izzytheturnip: Was lucky enough to meet and film with Olly Alexander for his new documentary a couple of months ago. Though none of me and my pals talking made the final cut (probs a good thing) the documentary is AMAZING and our faces pop up at some point. It’s called ‘Growing Up Gay’ and is on BBC 3 now so get yer noggins on it 😎😎 Also going to take this time to promote BLAH- Norfolks only LGBT youth group. Blah is the sole reason I’m so comfortable with my sexuality and has helped me meet loads of amazing people. If ANY of you in the Norfolk area are struggling with your sexuality, or want to find out more about this youth group, message me and I can give ya the deets or message the page!
So he's suppose to be in LA. and not NY huh? 🤔lol also I dont think he shaved his whole head last time we saw him. I think the hat covered his hair and we just couldn't see it
Well, I think that’s what we’re supposed to think….as usual. No possible way they could both be in the same place, right?
In today’s selfie his ends look very light still. Since we didn’t get a good look at his hair last time he was in NYC, who knows how much he actually took off.
My gut tells me it’s an old unseen to stop any chatter of them being in NYC at the same time, especially now with all the reconciliation & Zayn love we’ve been getting from the other boys. (Can they just give us the reunion already?!)
Until he appears in real time, all we can do is speculate, nonnie. Regardless, it was nice to get another gorgeous pic from my boy.
if feelings of worthlessness make you feel stronger, why is the alt right completely useless despite hating themselves?
right, and also it’s funny cause any time a leftist has poor self esteem, reactionaries shriek “aha! proof that leftism causes poor self esteem and mental illness!” but then when they see leftism actively acting to counter poor self-esteem they do a 180 and are like “uh actually low self-esteem is good now”
My mental health is so extremely not in a good place recently and I’m not sure what the point of saying any of this here is as ive learned this is not the place to go for validation or affection of any kind. But I relapsed last week after 6+ months clean (I stopped counting, so not sure) and have had obsessive thoughts near constantly for weeks now, totally consuming my ability to function sometimes… It’s exhausting.
I’m trying to adopt a special needs animal and that’s stressing me out because I’m losing time and I’m having to weigh taking her or leaving her here and it’s an extremely complicated situation that I can’t get clear in my head. I can’t make a decision and it’s keeping me awake at night.
I’m moving in 3 weeks. I have 2 weeks left at work. Also stressing me out. I’m not done packing, there are so many uncertainties still and it makes me feel sick thinking about it. Everything’s like suffocating me. All of this on top of interpersonal stressors feels like it’s going to kill me. I’m back to having anxiety attacks frequently and fantasizing about hurting myself for hours out of the day. I feel unwelcome on my own blog because of my issues with other people and paranoia about being hated and talked about behind my back. It fucking sucks, I’m so tired.
Hey :) I just wanted to tell you that I started reading 'Find my way back' and I don't know how I didn't start reading it before?? I'm only on chapter 5 for now but it's so good! I love the way you write; the relationships between the characters are not overdone in any way + I love how you tie some lose ends 😁
Awww THANK YOU! this means soooo much coming from you, one of my favorite yousana writers!! I hope you enjoy the rest of the chapters too, I’m really glad you like my characterization (i’m always nervous about that lol) thanks for taking the time to let me know :D :D
I'm honestly so done with Miraculous tbh... :/ I feel your pain. The only things that interests me now is the Gabriel/mama Agreste plot. And they delayed the realease date AGAIN. They said it was this Fall. December is def. not Fall... (Anyway but the Voltron panel was beautiful. They got to watch episode one. (There was a klance moment and I'm CRYING AND SCREAMINGGG.)
i guess i should have wasted my time watching the voltron panel! and now im angry bc i could have seen a stream of it if there was any and bc of this damned panel! I can’t even express how sad i am bc this panel was bad, very bad. They keep spoiling useless stuff, revealing some useless stuff and they don’t share much good content. I was expecting so many things and yet nothing. And the release date is another good shit, they delay it more times than the times i change my clothes! I just….. I can’t explain! It was bad and i’m sure that a big part of the fandom kinda knows that? I mean what was the fucking necessity to reveal who was going to be troublemaker?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!??!!? i love penny but man i guess we could live very well without knowing that fact until december.
About gabe and mama agreste, yep they and their rare friends are the main reason for me to be here lmao (tbh there was even a small thing in may where thomas spoke about them but i cant find that persicope rip) but yep i hope we find more about them on s2 and that things develop on a nice way idk (now i’m getting very sleepy and that’s why i’ll stop writing now otherwise i’ll only scream more nosense lmao, but hey if you want to cry w/ me about gabe and his missing wife my askbox will always be open heh)
i keep trying to memorize every detail of the moments i live in. in the soreness of my legs from standing so long at a concert, the chill of the night, the patterns of a tablecloth, the oily texture in my mouth after eating fried bananas. i keep trying to memorize the feelings, the quiet contentedness, the laughter, the excitement. i keep trying to memorize the people, their smiles, the way they speak, what makes them laugh. i’m constantly on the cusp of the next part of my life and that’s just so.. strange. but it makes it so much easier to find happiness no matter what’s happening to me, in a way? because i’m already kind of looking at life with those rose-colored glasses of nostalgia, simply because i know these are times i’ll never be able to live again, and these are people i might not always have, and that makes it so much easier to appreciate everything i might miss later.
Hi guys! These are the tips that I have for now, the truth is that they work quite a bit at the time of studying and I hope they do the same for you.
1. Make summaries and/or schemas:
a girl more of summaries than schemes (concept maps, or mind maps), but any of
these are good to analyze, understand and remember better what one is studying
at the time. I know that many people, like me, have the problem to put what
they were studied in either of these two methods, for example, I’m not very
good with the schemes, therefore I support more on summaries and to make them
as small as possible, carefully not to forget anything about what I am summarizing;
This is why I want to advise you that no matter how difficult and complicated
it seem any of these methods, try it. Eventually, you will handled the way to
do it and you’ll not realize when you will be all experts.
I won’t deny it, I’m 100% a girl of colors. I feel incomplete, weird, as if
something will miss me when my notes do not have color, at least highlight my
titles, I need it, it’s something that is a part of me.
Use colors doesn’t mean that our notes are freshly come out from a fairy oven
and it looks like a rainbow, no. Use them, but sparingly, as fair and necessary
to put your notes look cute and you can difference the titles of the rest, or
the term of its meaning… and of course the most important thing, that are
organized and clean so that when it comes the time for studying, you can
than for aesthetics, I occupy the colors in order to have a more dynamic vision
in my notebook, allowing me to better understand, memorize better and above all
to find what I want more easily. However, I won’t deny that I also like to have
my notes beautiful and colorful, I say, who don’t like to have their notes
organized and beautiful? To nobody.
3. Organize your time:
when we sit at our study site we spend hours on the same subject, without
advancing in others that also we have to study, so to avoid these types of
mishaps that make our work to study more heavy, because it leaves all for
after, we must organize our time of study. Some occupy the “bullet
journal" method for studies, others, the timer. I used the timer until I
met a wonderful applications that help you concentrate and at the same time,
takes your time. For example, we have a well known application called
“Forest” which is available for both IOS and Android, with the
difference that in Android you can download the free version, which in IOS is
not yet available, but there are other applications that are similar to
“Forest” that are free, such as “Be Focused”, an
application that also helps you manage your time , where you can save time and
designate them for return to them whenever you want, you also have the option
to have breaks. The only difference between “Forest” and “Be Focused”
is that the first you have the option of listening to sound of fund for greater
concentration, while the second handles you only the time, without the option
of background music. These two earlier applications are part of many more that
you can find both Android and IOS (if you want, later I will let a post with a
list of applications to study that I personally find the best of them).
organize your time, you must rely on what you are studying, because it all
depends on the amount of content. For example, in biology is usually much
content, concepts or terms to memorize and understand, so I left a full hour to
study everything and make sure that I understood. If the content is very
complicated, I can add a couple of more minutes, but without passing me in the
hour and a half, because you have to keep in mind that there are more to study.
4. Explains what you studied:
right, explain in your own words what you studied. This may be by voice or
video recorder, the idea is that once you’ve explained everything in your own
words you can hear the audio, and ensure that you’ve understood all or at least
the vast majority. So you will see your failings and strengthen your
weaknesses., correct your mistakes and learn from them. Personally, I recorded
my voice explaining the best that I can what I’ve understood, and if I’ve
doubts about having it explained well or have covered all, I send the audio to
my friends or classmates, that way I can have a second opinion and make sure I
have done well.
5. Record your classes if possible:
you need to take notes in a class, but for various reasons, are a - b or c, you
can’t be able to complete them, I recommend that you carefully get your
cellphone and begin to record the class quietly, and when you will be already
at home can play the audio and complete your notes without missing anything.
to tell the truth, I recommend over talking to your classmates and ask for
permission from the Professor, and then record
the class, both in audio as an image. If the teacher still not authorized it
(because it’s supposed to record the classes within an establishment is not
allowed), can get a little rebellious and record, put your cellphone somewhere
in the room where it isn’t seen. Sometimes be a little rebellious is not bad,
it all depends on the reason why you are, right?
This doesn’t mean that you don’t take notes in class or not pay attention
because you are recording, if you don’t understand the class less you will do
it through an audio or video, where you don’t have the support of your present
6. Creates memory cards (flashcards):
it seems typical, they are quite effective. There is the option of to make them
yourself or you can download any application that can make them, as for example
Quizlet, an application that is available both IOS and Android. This will help
to quickly memorize definitions of concepts, or important dates, people and
their works, etc.
7. Transfer your notes in order, rewrite:
you are one of the people who, like me, prefer to make a draft of his notes,
and then pass them in clean (rewrite them), you’ll know that this tip really
works. I won’t deny that it is more work, but everything has its reward, isn’t
I’m of people who have better visual memory, which read and write helps me to
memorize better. Thus I memorize and order my notes, both at the same time. In
addition, it said that rewrite is equivalent to five readings, I don’t know if
that is true, but I at least feel that I memorize best rewritting, well in my
time to study I remember things I’ve written and I can understand them better.
8. Listen to music to concentrate:
truth is that this tip is pretty ambiguous and personal, because it depends on
each person. Many people can’t concentrate with noise, so they only can study
in complete silence, and others simply cannot withstand be studying with so
much silence. I’m of people who are in the middle.
me is inevitable listen classical, instrumental music, rain, nature or just a
relaxing study melody sounds. It helps me enough to concentrate and accompany
me at the time of study. There are a variety of videos on YouTube with relaxing
music, classical or instrumental music, or sounds of nature to study, as well
as on Spotify playlists that are pretty good.
I listen to music when I do exercises such as mathematics or physics, and as
for readings or review, normally I do without music or with one that does not
have too much rhythm, as sounds of rain, wind, etc., to be able to concentrate.
9. Search material of support:
you feel that you still don’t understand the subject, either because it is very
difficult or because you don’t understand your teacher, you can’t stay still
and do nothing. You have to auto-teach you, learn and learn any other way what
you are passing in classes.
example, looking for videos that teach you what you are going through, search
exercises online, Power Point presentations, PDF documents to help you
supplement your notes or your knowledge. There are many channels on YouTube
that can help you to study, as also pages with books, exercises, and documents
about what you’re going. The idea is to find supporting material that will help
you to understand what you’re learning in class, so to be able to reinforce.
10. Stay away from your social networks:
know that many of us it has happened that from being studying we went from one
second to another to be checking our Instagram account. Best for these cases is
to put the cell phone as far as possible, if needed elsewhere in your home
(obviously, if you’re studying at home), and in airplane mode so that nothing
interrupts your time of study. Now, to avoid entering your networks through the
computer or laptop that you are using at the time of study, you can download
applications that will block certain pages by a certain time, and once activated
cannot be it reversed, yes or Yes you should spend that time so that the pages
are unlocked. These applications exist for both Windows and Mac.
11. Uses Post-it (sticky notes):
help me to write down something that perhaps the teacher said in class and
would not have seeing completely with the theme that we’re passing, or be any
possible question test, any dimension, a concept that I don’t know.
12. If you have any doubts,
they say the teachers, or at least of my school, “There no are silly
questions, only fools who don’t ask”. So, if you have doubts, ask. No
matter if you make a mistake, you must solve all your doubts because that will
help you better understand what you are seeing. If you are in classes and you
don’t understand, ask, solve all your doubts with the professor, because once
you get home to study you won’t understand almost nothing, if it is that it is
absolutely nothing, by not having asked.
you’re at home or out of classes, studying, grab your cell and ask your
classmates. The idea is to clear your concern in one way or another.
I really like to be able to solve my doubts with my classmates, because in
addition to answer all my questions, we can exchange notes, complementing our
notes, we can learn new techniques to solve exercises, etc.
13. Review constantly:
know that the work of reviewing every day is quite heavy, but it works. It’s
truth. At least in my experience constantly review has helped me be able to
memorize better what are passing to me in classes, since the constant review
helps to retain longer the lessons learned, and a day before the test it
doesn’t need to study too hard, ‘cause everything I learned it was be engraved
on the head, and just only a small study session will need. Therefore I
recommend that when you get arrive home after school review your notes at least
15 minutes that day, and everyday, in that way you will retain in your head
more time what they are seeing.
14. Gets emails from your professors/teachers:
my case, some of my teachers send us documents PDF or PPTs we use during their
classes, to study and reinforce what we saw, as well as complement our notes.
Course, I recommend that if you are still in school, you can put on agree with
your classmates and create an email as a group so that way you will not have
problem in contacting your teacher. This is ‘cause in some schools have
problems for contact their professors outside the establishment, and there are
some schools that are quite strict in that area. If you’re in university, I
don’t think that will be a problem to contact you through your personal email.
Teachers are not always so cool, or so nice, to give you their mail, some of
they put many excuses since in some schools the teacher-student ethics is
fairly strict with contact outside the establishment, so they are usually quite
reluctant to give them, especially if the teacher is handsome, so you have to
prove that you are really interested in the material support and not in him, or
in harass him (even while actually are haha, the key is prove otherwise 😉).
15. Lean on your textbooks:
times in our schools deliver us books of the subjects that we will see that
year (either whether we should buy them or they are delivered by the same
school), and either that the professor uses them little or nothing within
classes, we must have in mind that the book yes serves us and helps, or at least
the vast majority of them because it is a support material that contains
descriptions, images and vocabulary, and to answer key in some, that helps us
to know in what we were wrong (for example, the books of mathematics, following
exercise can confirm your answer with the solution key), this can serve when
you are studying for a test, and also the test obviously. So it is best to
always bear in mind that texts that give schools if you serve, independent of
whether the teachers based their class in them or not, there will always be
material that will help you to complement what you taught the teacher in class.
16. Have a fixed study site:
study well and be able to focus without any impediment, we need a fixed and
comfortable place. This place has to be clean, orderly, and as much as possible
wide (extended desktop), so we can have all our scope and not deconcentrate us
to go for something that you need or miss. The best thing is study in a desk in
your room, or in the table of dining room of your house, but is completely
forbidden study in bed, as to be overly comfortable us enters laziness and
sleep, interrupting our study session, and practically ensuring a long nap.
17. Keep a schedule of fixed study:
I’m kind of people who aren’t very organized when it comes to schedules or
events. Simply plans and me not get along very well, but I don’t deny that for
a time I tried it, being constant in my moment of planning what to do later (in
my bullet journal) and I found it quite beneficial. Apart from planning
everything and organize my time, and comply with what I should do of course, I
could see the progress of my studies, but as I said the plans and I don’t we
get along very well. But that doesn’t prevent that recommend you organize your
time, plan what to do, and between that define a time of day that is dedicated
only to study. It can be in the afternoon after school, can be in the morning
before going to school, or can be at night before going to bed, no matter the
time, what matters is that you should defined a time to study and you can’t
move that time, this will help to discipline your brain and accustom him that
in this period of the day must be aware, attentive and concentrated to absorb
everything, of course without forgetting small breaks in the study session.
Over time you’ll see the results, giving you features that you do better absorb
the information, that in that period of time your brain will be more attentive
to what he reads or exercises, so you can understand much better than before.
+ Bonus: Organize your times. For this, the best is do the technique of bullet journal, you can also go to the planner, but personally I like the BJ more, although like I said, I didn’t last long because a I’m really bad in planning constantly, but during the time I did it worked perfect, so I recommend that even if you are just as bad planning constantly, like me, try it. Who knows? Perhaps you become experts in the bullet journal.
ESFP: Look, I get it, you leave people in the dust because you know how crazy and all over the place your life can be and you’re also crazy scared to let somebody in just to have it end up with you accidentally leaving them and both of you getting hurt, but emotional intimacy and real depth in friendships are 100% worth it in the end and it’s the struggle and fight of a lifetime to keep them in your life, but it’s also the greatest gift and you can’t keep denying yourself that intimacy and friendship.
ISFP: I know you have a lot of great desires and wonderful dreams and they might seem too far off and too crazy and too beautiful to come true, but you have them for a reason, and you gotta stop paralyzing yourself with fear and take that first step and throw yourself into the unknown, and that’s the scariest part, I know, but we both know you’re braver than you look, and that your passion can make it happen.
ENFP: I know that the moment you hit an obstacle or two when you first start working towards that far off dream, it’s scary and it makes you want to crumble and run away to a new thing like you think you always do, but don’t! You’re miles more tenacious and capable than you give yourself credit for and you’ve got to discipline yourself and trust that your talents and optimism can and will propel you through whatever is keeping you from your goals.
INFP: I know it’s hard to feel understood and it’s easy to let yourself become bitter by the ways of the world or whatever’s happening, but closing yourself off to others isn’t going to save you the pain. You have a natural capacity to understand others that’s hard for the other types to grasp and when you stop yourself from using that talent, or use it for selfish reasons, you’re doing yourself a massive injustice.
ESTP: Listen, I totally get that the world is full of fun and interesting things and you want to experience them all, but you’ve got to remember that for a lot of the people that come along with you, they’re there to experience YOU as much as they’re there for the thing itself. Don’t let yourself forget that half the fun of anything is who you’re doing it with.
ISTP: I know you generally don’t mean to yell or be rude when your irritated and that it’s really just a passing thing and you don’t generally care all that much, but just apologize to people after you’ve calmed down! Explain it to them and that you don’t mean it! Admit to yourself that you care enough about them to try to make amends, even when you’re just being a little crotchety; it means a lot to the feelers lol.
ENTP: You’re a genuinely fun person to be around and you usually rack up a reputation for that, but just because you’re funny and witty and damn smart doesn’t mean you don’t have feelings and problems that need to be externalized, and trust me, the right people will be more than willing to talk about what’s really happening in your life one minute and go back to elaborate jokes the next without a problem. Don’t stunt your emotional growth for the sake of brevity.
INTP: It’s okay to not know what to do in an emotional situation. Like, it’s genuinely okay. If somebody’s opening up to you, half the time your presence and you listening is 95% of what they need in that moment. Don’t avoid the situations just because it causes writer’s block emotionally. Emotional availability comes with experience. You’ll learn. Just, be your goofy self and the rest will come with time.
ENFJ: You’ve got to realize that although holding yourself to such a high standard is noble and praiseworthy, that it sometimes eclipses your ability to be a good friend when that was the goal in the first place. You’re human and can’t do everything for your friends that you’d want to be able to do when they need help, and profusely apologizing and beating yourself up for it just shifts the focus off of helping your friend and turns it to you. Accept your humanity, and just do what you can. They appreciate the help, I promise.
INFJ: I know you have a tendency to feel misunderstood and want people to show you that they love you and care about you, but you don’t get to say you’re fine AND disappear on people. Either say you’re not okay and pull back, or say you’re okay and stick around long enough for somebody to see through the BS. In my experience, y'all have a habit of making things a self-fulfilling prophecy, and that doesn’t do you any good! Be forward, be honest, and just be vulnerable; they care more than you convince yourself they do.
ESFJ: I need to be straight with y'all. Learn how to talk about something other than your 4-5 current fixations. In my experience, N’s have a crazy hard time being close with you because you keep bringing the topic back to one of your current Favorite Things™, whether it be the semester abroad you just got back from or the first date that’s scheduled for two weeks from now. Expand your area of interest and you’ll find people will be much more authentic with you.
ISFJ: You have this really amazing ability to notice the small things about people and that helps you show them you care about them in these really great and meaningful ways, but you can’t let yourself overthink the small things you notice about people. One of my good ISFJ friends started poking around trying to see if alcoholism ran in my family after noticing I’d been drinking wine a lot recently. You might have an intention to help, but overthinking/overanalyzing like that and trying to involve yourself in helping can hurt your friendships.
ESTJ: Your presence is powerful and intense and that’s great at times, but you’ve got to let out your goofy fun side more, and hoe we’ve all seen it before, you’re a damn riot after a beer or two. People, in general, care more about fun than having every plan go right during the night/event. Be willing to be fun more, you’re so good at it.
ISTJ: I know you get frustrated with yourself because you want to do new things and get out there and be a fun person, but the thing is, you’re so much better at being a responsible, caring person. Befriend the chaotic, crazy, lovable rascals and let them bring the fun to you (or more often than not, drag you kicking and screaming to where the fun is).
ENTJ: Look, I’m an INTJ, so I know how hard this is to swallow, but showing you care about a person sometimes isn’t so much giving them solutions to their problems or trying to correct an issue; a lot of the other types literally just want you to listen and hear them out. And you gotta do that sometimes, babe. And shut your damn mouth while they’re telling you everything, okay? Just. Let them finish.
INTJ: For the love of all that is holy, just cry already. Cry alone if you have to, or better yet, just go to the person you’d literally murder a thousand people for and freakin’ cry about all the crap you’ve been bottling up for the past two months and accept that you can have razor-sharp rationale and be a damn human at the same time. And just admit that you’re insecure about your relationship with that person because you care about them so much and you’re not the best at trusting people.
[translations] 2017.07.06 NCT 127 First Anniversary Event fan accounts - Rolling Paper
Taeil -> Johnny Chicago monster bro. I love your physiques, are you perhaps a model? Thank you for always looking out for the rest of the members by taking on the role of the middle man.[chewchew_do]
Taeil -> Taeyong Your features are so beautiful. Your eyes nose lips, no, I love everything about you [cheetahparrot]
Taeil -> Yuta Yukkuri ….. ????? (fan accounts say that yuta was laughing so hard that he couldn’t read it)
Taeil -> Doyoung How are you? Cutie. Every time I see your shoulders I think you are so handsome. I’m fine thank you bro [dukduk0614]
Taeil -> Jaehyun Jaehyun I like your burning passion, in the future please burn that bright and pass the passion on to the remaining members as well [chin9deura]
Taeil -> Winwin Ni Hao, Dong Si Cheng. I heard you play games really badly, practice more. Anyway you are so cute. I think you have gotten used to living in Korea, and gotten close with the members. Dong Si Cheng, Wo Ai Ni [nct_victory]
Taeil -> Mark Cute. You are so cute. I can always feel a lot of things when I’m with you. Thank you bro [markleezzang]
Taeil -> Haechan Our Lee Haechan who usually joke a lot but lately you became quiet.
However now I like how you are joking around again. We nag at you is
because we like you. I’m thankful that you are doing the role of the
maknae well, and became the mood-maker too. Bye bye I love you [xzzanx]
Johnny -> Taeil I am an only child in the family. But because hyung was by my side I was able to feel how is it like to have an older brother. I feel really happy and secured with hyung by my side. I am always thankful for that. Even though hyung don’t express it, but I know you like me a lot. I love you hyung. [chin9deura]