Honestly there may have been a time when bi women were grouped under lesbianism as a construct but that doesn’t change our context now. Currently in the west d*ke = lesbian = exclusively attracted to women. Us getting the slur hurled at us is definitely a function of homophobia but that doesn’t mean it makes sense for us to reclaim it.
Id personally love other bi women to just leave this topic alone??? With the atmosphere between bi women and lesbians on this site atm rehashing this tired debate is the last thing we need tbqh
who else has the tumblr messaging update where you can now pick from a list of emoji, except the emoji are huge and aren’t actually emoji but are instead a list of entirely arbitrary images with no rhyme or reason