now: with context!

Honestly there may have been a time when bi women were grouped under lesbianism as a construct but that doesn’t change our context now. Currently in the west d*ke = lesbian = exclusively attracted to women. Us getting the slur hurled at us is definitely a function of homophobia but that doesn’t mean it makes sense for us to reclaim it.

Id personally love other bi women to just leave this topic alone??? With the atmosphere between bi women and lesbians on this site atm rehashing this tired debate is the last thing we need tbqh


“What do you think that cloud looks like? It kind of looks like a tomato to me.”

“I think it looks like a shoe.”

“….Okay, what about that one?”

“…Another shoe.”

“Are you looking at the same cloud?”

“No, they all just kind of look like shoes to me.”


i have no excuse for this and i am sorry


You may think what you want of me. I will draw comfort in the knowledge that you’re alive to think it.