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Hey guys this is important

Hey everyone I need your help with something
Someone on Amino (by he name Auraa Arlert)stole @demi-gray ’s art without permission
I was wondering if you guys could help me flag it please
Because I’m sick and tired of people doing this, and now it’s happening to someone very close to me and that’s a big giant no no

I already reported that they could find them on @bendy-irl but it would help if you guys could help and if you can’t help, can you at least reblog? To spread it, I know this might be stupid and overprotective or something. But I just can’t stand this and it hits home now.

(I would like to thank @squishycloudsweet for bringing this to their attention)

For the people not aware of the situation in the UK

We just had our general election, and basically it was all good and then it went to hell

When all the results came in, we discovered that the Conservative party (Republicans are the equivalent American party ish) had lost seats and that Labour (Democrats) had gained a fuckton of seats. This meant that the Conservatives were embarrassed as hell because they expected to get the majority and rule over everyone, and labour gave a bit of a shake.

But then we realised

Its a hung parliament

Idk if America has an equivalent for this, but in the UK a party has to get a certain amount of seats to take over the government. If no party gets these seats, we have a hung parliament where there is no party in charge. But there’s a way around this- a coalition. And that’s exactly what the conservatives have done with a Northern Irish party called the DUP.

Tbh I hadn’t heard of the DUP until this election, they’re a tiny party and until they haven’t had an effect on England especially, the part of the UK I live in. But oh boy, we about to hear a lot from them

The DUP are a protestant party who (i am not joking)
-believe in creationism (although this isn’t a huge issue buuuuuuut how do you explain the dinosaurs)
-believe women who have abortions should be locked up, even if the foetus is damaged or a woman raped
-are against LGBT+ (which might be an issue for me especially if I ever come out IRL) (plus I can’t link cause I’m on mobile but they’ve called gay people an “abomination”, “disgusting”, claimed that children brought up in homosexual relationships abuse their children and have vetoed same sex marriage in Northern Ireland many times, there’s a video on YouTube you can find of it)
-climate change deniers

They have some positive policies, such as triple locking pensions and improving security but right now its the heavy negatives that we have to be think in about. We have a coalition between the two most right-wing parties in the UK (apart from UKIP but they lost all their seats haha hah ha ha ha ha).

Idk how this is gonna pan out, it might all be fine, but it also might all go to shit. I’m not scared because I’m proud of Jeremy and the progress he’s made despite all the biased backlash against Labour, but I’m not happy

My lord, this is gonna be an interesting four years

(Also, it is a coincidence that in the video game Infamous Second Son, there’s a police force that oppress and imprison ‘conduits’ that are LITERALLY CALLED THE DUP???????)

BunnyRibbit: Facetime

[You got it, my dude. Though…it turned out a little long for a flash piece.]

           I’m here now, okay? Don’t leave yet! Hana was hastily texting as she got into her apartment, throwing her keys aside. Her computer was already on—naturally—so it just took a quick shake of her mouse to wake it up. Drills had gone on way longer than they should’ve, which meant that rather than having plenty of time to get home and clean up a little, she was already late for her planned Skype call with Lúcio. Their time zones were exactly twelve hours apart, so mid- afternoon for her was three in the morning for him. Still, he had answered her last few texts saying he would wait, so she figured this was better than nothing.

           Are you still up? she typed quickly as she got her webcam working.

           I’m here, don’t worry, Lúcio responded. He video called her, and she answered with a wide smile. Of course she knew he wouldn’t care that she was still in work mode, but she couldn’t help feeling bad regardless. When he saw her, he smiled back, and her stomach filled with warmth. “They’re really working you out there, huh?”

           “No kidding,” she said. “It wasn’t even a MEKA day. I’m exhausted—but I’m glad to see you! I’m sorry for making you stay up so late.”

           “It’s cool. I’ve had concerts keep me up later,” he assured her. When her eyes fell on his shirt, her smile widened.

           “Nice PJs, nerd,” she mumbled, though she was honestly pleased to see him sporting her B.Ny logo. It was one of her favorite designs, too! Had she told him that? Or did they just have similar tastes? 

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frattynattyladdie  asked:

what was that (for want of a better word, sorry) rant about exactly? not trying to delegitimize your concerns, just don't know what you were referring to and would love to learn

I’ve already kinda said this in a few of the posts that I’ve made around this whole ‘controversy’ but basically what I’m saying is that fandom treatment of Characters of Colour is racist. As I said in this post, even though the recent update was almost wholly about Ransom and Lardo, two members of the main cast of the comic who are POC, a majority of the meta I’ve seen has been about Dex. I’m not trying to bash Dex, and I talked about it a lil bit here but I simply think that he wasn’t integral to the plot of this particular episode. This is especially ironic to me when Check Please is a comic written by a WOC, who has previously addressed the racism in both her own comic and the rl subject she’s taking about.

In regards to this post, that is just me speaking from my own personal experience with fandom and what I’ve heard from my friends, who are also POC. Unfortunately, media doesn’t exist in a vacuum and fandom culture has real impacts on real life POC. Due to the culture that I’ve seen on tumblr, where a lot of the BNFs are white, there’s a lot of people saying that POC should either avoid comics with a majority white characters, or simply just make their own content. That is simply not fair. It creates a culture where myself and the other POC I know and associate with feel that we must either completely retreat from fandom altogether where we can voice our concerns about fandom culture, or be total doormats who pretend to not be affected by racism in fandom. I’ve been the latter of the two for a while now and I cannot tell you the amount of people who have approached me irl and asked me to verify whether they’re being racist or not and it it exhausting.

tldr: fans of colour should be able to make content that criticizes the content of the media we consume, as well as the fan media surrounding it without being told that they’re overreacting and should find other content to enjoy if they’re going to be so salty

anonymous asked:

Hey could you briefly explain how the collective of blogs you belong to got together, it's purpose and style. Like do you all know each other IRL or just really good friends online?

Actually, it’s really funny…we’ve all met online. It’s been a case of someone finding the collective when we’ve got spots open and then poking Pally like ‘hey, bro, can I join?’ We have had a few in-person meetings, though–most notably, Beguiler and Knight who are now engaged. And I’ve invited those who’re around or who can get to Chicago to meet up with me at Anime Central.

- Oracle

sleeepyinseattle  asked:

Hey! So I want to get better at drawing, especially figure drawing, but my school doesn't offer any classes. Do you have any sites to suggest, or general reference that I could use instead of live models? Thanks :)

Yes!! A friend recently showed me some awesome youtube channels for fig drawing and I’ve really enjoyed using them.

New Masters Academy 

Croquis Cafe

And then there are more well known ones such as

Pixel Lovely 


Quick Gestures.

Of course I find a lot of great resources in the stocks section of Deviantart and random photos on flickr. Do a little digging, I’m sure there’s more out there. 

And of course, if you can, draw from life as much as possible, there’s really no substitute. Get friends to pose for you every now and then! It’s easy to become married to details in photos, but facing a model irl helps strengthen your problem solving skills. Especially when they’re moving and getting tired and cranky. Gotta draw quick! 

Hope this heeelps 

nadjamuller-blog  asked:

Okey I just felt like I needed to tell you this, today I saw a real life Asahi! He had the bun, the beard, almost the same height (he was shorter), same skin tone, and I'm sure he does sports, the only thing is that he is not like Asahi in personality haha, it was a beautiful moment I'll never forget you Asahi 2, have you seen people that are alike to some character? By the way thank you for your last reply you are so kind<3!

AAAAAH real life Asahi!!! That’s super cool!! RIP me if I ever saw irl asahi

I WAS FRIENDS IN HIGHSCHOOL WITH A BOY WHO LOOKED/ACTED LIKE KUNIMI! (ah highschool, the good old days) His hair, the apathetic attitude, a rare smile that made angels sing (⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)


emizell  asked:

Hi! First off I wanted to say thank you for making me appreciate bugs I've never loved them as much as I do now... also, I've been trying to draw a lot of mantises lately, but I've been struggling to find many good references of how their mouths work. Can you give me any advice? Thanks!!

yea ok so heres some good videos:

theyve got a lot of movable parts so its kind of hard to parse whats happening but you get the idea

top part is the labrum, which is one piece thats sort of like a lid. the mandibles are beneath that, which are the primary jaws, and maxillae beneath those. the bottom part is the labium, which is like a chin. the little feeler looking things are the palps, and the maxillae and labium each have a pair.

this diagram isnt mantis mouthparts specifically, but its the same general idea:

so yeah thats basically it, and googling ‘mantis mouthparts’ will get you some decent ref images, it just helps to know how their jaws work

HIATUS.  wee tiny hiatus, maybe even a  semi-hiatus,  just so i can get my irl shit sorted ( uni, work, etc. ). i haven’t been on here much anyway, as i’m sure most of you know. i’ll pop in every now and again until i lift the hiatus! otherwise, find me on skype ( im me for the user! ), on  bucky or my multi!  see ya guys soon!  / smooch emoji. xo

HELLO ALL. consider this post a re-introduction to the mun of this blog. i am now widely referred to as OKU on all of my blogs and use the pronouns he/they. i’ve finally ‘ come out ’ as genderfluid with a preference for male pronouns. i’ve yet to decide on a name, but hopefully i can find one soon. 

i’m not gonna bite your head off for using the wrong pronouns, and i get that some people might slip up and still refer to me as she/her/claire, but i do ask that you all please please please try your hardest not to ! having to still deal with it irl is terrible enough, but i just can’t pluck up the courage to come out fully just yet. 

anyways, it’s nice to meet you all and i hope you guys still love me ahah ; v;’

anonymous asked:

Talking about gals, do u have a type and where do u find the corage to talk to a gal u find very pretty without being awkward. Coz there's this very cute girl in my class and i'm so nervous everytime and omg aaaaaah


i don’t really have a type though ? i think ?? im just attracted or not attracted and the gals i am attracted to can be very very different soooo 


i don’t XD to be honest with you i am quite awkward, introverted and shy irl, like, i legit dont know how to ppl most of the time. that said, I do recognize the tell tale glimmer of interest of men and women’s gaze. if it is a man, i will likely pretend i havent seen. 

if it is a woman… well it depends, but. let me tell u a story. 

once upon a time, as I was in Paris unhurriedly going thru a metro station to take my train i stumbled upon a group of ppl playing good music. classical music. now i’m always a sucker for classical music, so i joined the few people leaning against the wall in front of the group to listen to them. 

upon arrival i saw this rather gorgeous lady smiling at me - i smiled back and ducked my head, and focused on the music. she was tall, well dressed, wearing just a bit too much makeup for me but well. 

i didn’t think more of it until the music ended and i had to go my way again. 

and, she happened to take the same train as me. 

now here comes the blushing - we were standing up, holding onto the same handle bc there were no empty seats. and the whole damn trip she smiled at me and i’d have to be blind not to see it for what it was - i felt my face heat terribly, yet i still didn’t dare say anything because what if i was wrong? and what could i even talk to her about

so nothing happened. then two people left their seats and we found ourselves sitting next to each other, our eyes meeting a couple of times in our reflection. and still the same smile, still me going through the same should i try something? but what if i’m wrong? but come on, she’s clearly interested. but what if she isn’t? what if i make a fool of myself. 

anyway, she got up as her station arrived - which was my last chance- and when the train braked she tripped and i had to catch her. which i did. blushing furiously. 

she smiled at me one last time and said thank you, to which i replied you’re welcome and then mournfully watched her go. 

and then i regretted not having had the guts to talk to her bc there was no way i was mistaken and she probably felt just as shy and insecure on her side xD 

i’ve had a couple of similar experiences, but it always comes down to the same thing. 

you’re afraid. afraid and insecure, and what if you’re wrong? what if you misread the signs? what if she laughs if your face? so in the end, you do nothing. 

now, the woman i had sex with had been my friend since high school, and we were kinda flirting with each other since a loooong time. somehow, at one point, i always knew we were gonna end up in bed together - which we eventually did. 

so in terms of courage, i don’t have much to tell you. 

that being said. i have quite a number of people hitting on me, but few that i’m actually attracted to. i am attracted to this lady, obviously, but she’s got a boyfriend on the side and in the end i found the relation didn’t suit me. 

i have, however, many regrets regarding missed encounters, including the first gal i spoke about. 

so even if i’m shy, even if i can be awkward and insecure and even if i talk way too much about things that don’t matter, even if i don’t quite know how to people, i promised myself that the next time i saw a person i truly felt attracted to i would go and  at least try. 

so far, it hasn’t happened, but i’m staying hopeful. 



i just want to say, if she’s in your class, then it’s all for the best - you can really get to know her if you see her every day, and the more you talk the more comfortable you’ll be. as for the awkwardness, just - be yourself. i may be awkward but it hasn’t stopped me from getting laid, so, ya know  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ go for it. 



i babbled way too much about me and i am sorry but i still hope this helps somwhat ;w; 

anonymous asked:

Have you seen Google's New upgrade? If so, what do you think about it?

“‘Yes, I have seen Google’s upgrade and I find it… interesting,’ the Host says, seeming to frown a little as he does so. ‘There’s a different type of aura around him now. Also, you know, there’s four of him running around, which can be confusing for me due to the fact that they all have the same voice. I’m not opposed to the upgrade, but I am a little confused as to what it actually affected.’“

It’s been a bad day. It’s been a bad day. And usually I’m like “I KNEW something was worse about today” but it almost always happens in hindsight–it was a truly shitty day. I was triggered a million times today. I was trying to tell Deanna a funny story and I said “remember when I was freaking out bc I couldn’t find the whip cream lids” and she said “Jasmine all you do is freak out” and I was like “ah” and basically did 🙃 but irl bc yeah. And she said “I can joke about that bc you know it’s true” and I almost started screaming but instead I just. swept. and now that story is tainted, God, I haven’t laughed that hard in AGES and the memory is now fucking–it doesn’t belong to me anymore, how do you poison a fucking MEMORY, whatever, I don’t fucking give a shit. Whatever.

And I lost Patti. And it’s my fault. It’s mostly Meg’s fault, but my fault that it was Meg’s fault, and my fault anyway bc I shouldn’t have avoided the text but it doesn’t matter now, no more DBT. No more therapy. No more Patti. I didn’t even make three years. Fantastic job, Jas, amazing. Two attacks in as many months, fan-fucking-tastic, and it’s my own fucking fault.

Don’t even have the luxury of being fucking suicidal. Just gotta sit here and suffer lmao. I deserve it.

Anyway your life flips on its head and no one is there to hold you, nobody you want or otherwise, so I crumble to pieces and I float here forever, and the rain drums on, and the day turns to night, and I don’t move from my spot on my bed staring at a wall as life goes on without me.

anonymous asked:

I was really really close friends with this girl. She makes close friends easily though because she's so charismatic and funny and just really smart and wonderful. She was probably one of my first gay crushes (I'm bi) -- she got really close to me and I was like wOW kiss her and then I was like what nO don't. She goes to another school now but I see her sometimes and just want to hold her hand so much. pretending to be straight is actually so hard

That’s a cute story, she sounds amazing :)
Oh, I feel you. I’m sorry it’s so hard for you :/
If you ever wanna talk, I’m here for you!
What could help - what you might have done already - is finding friends you can relate to (irl and/or online) and surrounding yourself with positivity.
And don’t forget you’re amazing :)

Send me your crush stories!

anonymous asked:

sorry to bother u but quick q: like until late I've been quite sure with my identity as a lesbian I've always had a primary attraction to women whether I noted it or not. But due to personal circumstances in my life I've started questioning myself. Like i don't feel an sexual or romantic attraction to guys but I can find myself really admiring how they look?? And due to said experiences I'm questioning myself. I don't have any ppl irl to ask so I was wondering if you have any advice?? Thank you!

aw hey luv. you know this is such a normal thing that i think all lesbians experience.  you know its funny, after i began to assert my lesbian identity more and more, i was finally able to see where others found men attractive. i can now actually look at some men and think they are handsome, where before i couldnt. it makes me question myself, tho this is really just compulsory heterosexuality. we can appreciate people’s beauties and still be lesbians and still solely love women. just now ur not alone! i experience the same feelings you’re having. doesnt make you any less of a lesbian

So I had a kind of incredible moment the other day:

I caught sight of another girl across the room- really curvy and confident and Amethystish- and had one of those visceral “Oh no, she’s HOT” moments that hits your guts before your brain catches up to what’s going on.

But here’s the thing.

I’m moving house, and there is furniture in all kinds of places where there normally isn’t anything. And I was walking around without my glasses on. 

Turns out I had just checked myself out in a mirror, failed to recognize myself, and decided that this mysterious other girl (in my house for some reason?) was super cute.

Which is a pretty big deal for me! I’ve just always been single because I figured that the whole world of finding someone who thinks you’re beautiful didn’t have a place for me in it. 

But I can totally fall in love with a well written cartoon character with my body type, and then IRL strangers who look like her, and then WHOOPS accidentally discover that I may be love-able after all hahahahahaha oh god.

Representation is SO POWERFUL

So here’s Amethyst in this one dress in my closet that I never wear because I don’t think I’m hot enough to pull it off. And some sh*tty self-indulgent typography.

Aaaaand, now that I’m here… how do you even start dating for the first time as an adult???

Boyfriend! Kun
  • bOI this guy would be so excited for your date
  • and he would be such a gentleman
  • so prepare for him to show up at your door with a bouquet of fresh cut flowers
  • and a hUGE smile on his face
  • “you look so beautiful today, babe”
  • it’d be a city date with a bit of walking
  • he just wants to show you around and take you to his favorite places
  • and he also wants to show you off
  • so his hand would be resting on your shoulder most of the time
  • it’s very comforting to have his presence right next to you
  • he’d see his favorite bakery so of course he’d have to take you
  • he takes your hand and leads you inside, holding the door open for you
  • “what do you want to eat?”
  • you guys decide on these really cute little cakes
  • and also treats you to some bubble tea
  • you rest for a while but decide to continue exploring the city
  • he insists on taking couple selfies together
  • “ah~ isn’t my baobei cute?”
  • on the way, he sees a street food stand
  • so naturally he stops to buy something else to eat
  • he pretends to steal a bite of yours but instead steals a kiss
  • you’re blushing really hard now and he thinks it’s cute
  • while you’re outside, it starts to rain a bit
  • he wouldn’t let your hair get wet of course
  • but for someone who thought he was prepared for everything, he didn’t bring an umbrella
  • so he takes off his jacket and both of you huddle under it while you try to find shelter
  • “come a bit closer so we can both stay dry”
  • you find shelter in a nearby bookstore
  • you’d browse the shelves together but don’t find anything
  • by now the rain has stopped, but it’s also getting late
  • so he sends you home
  • before he leaves, he gives you a warm hug and you smile
  • “until next time?”
  • “yeah… are you free tomorrow?”

anonymous asked:

And np about sending an ask in! I love chatting about my 2 fav people honestly. I never get to talk about them too much irl and have never had a proper internet friend either. Most people now in the "phandom" are teenagers whilst I'm an 24 year young adult and i find communication can be really awkward at points but having this quick and supa dupa sweet nostalgia fest with you about dnp was so so nice. Hope you've had a lovely night as well and thank you for sharing your thoughts with me x

yeahh the average age of the phandom, especially on tumblr, seems to be significantly younger than 1D, but you can always talk to me about them!! I’m nearly 19 but I have a lot of friends who are in their 20s and sometimes it’s nice to talk about dnp with older people bc they just see things a little differently (although to any of my young teen friends who might see this, ilyt dw). and tbh I don’t get to talk about them as much as I’d like either so !!!! yes whenever you want I’m always ready to chat about them or whatever else lol. I hope you’re well!!! <3

anonymous asked:

Okay I have something, why do you keep screaming about your art being stolen? Like if someone finds it on another platform and then uploads it, is it really stealing? Is not claiming the art as theirs and not blurring the signature, but reposting it from another platform really stealing? Honestly I understand wanting to get credit for your stuff, but really your signature is in every picture, people will know it's your art

youre right im sorry

anonymous asked:

This may not be the best place for this question, but I don't have anyone irl I can ask so here goes: I don't masturbate. Never have. It's just not something I realized was even an option as a teen, and now I don't really know where to start. I do think it's more difficult for me to achieve orgasms because I don't really know what I like, so I can't instruct him. The world of Dildos is very intimidating, and I just wondered if you have any advice on where a 21yo first timer should start?

Sure, I have some personal advice. I’m sure you can find plenty more in-depth stuff online, like tips and techniques, but here are some pointers:

Get to know yourself! Honestly, the only way I found out what I like during masturbation/sex is through experimentation, lots of “practice” and even a few mistakes.

Take your time. Realize that you may not achieve orgasm every single time, and that’s okay: because the more you practice, the better you’ll get, just like with most other things. 

Try a little bit of everything. See what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not. What turns you on? What feels good? Maybe you like penetration; maybe you only like outer stimulation – maybe you like both at the same time! Maybe you like really raunchy fantasies. Or the shower head on a massage function. Or wearing something special. Or going very slowly. It’s okay to see what works and ditch what doesn’t.

Lube Up! Whatever bits you have, a little lube goes a loooong way towards pleasure. Crotch giblets just feel better with a dab of something slippery on them to help the process, plus it helps your fingers/toys/whatever slip around, so you might find a spot you didn’t know you liked before!

Toys Maybe! While most of the time it isn’t necessary to use toys in masturbation, they can be fun and lead to different kinds of orgasms for some folks. But getting to know yourself can really determine what sort of toy you go after (or you might prefer to never buy one or try them all)! If you like outside stimulation, then a vibe bullet, vibrating wand, finger vibrator, etc. can be nice. If you’d rather something more penetrative, then there’s a wide variety of dildos and plugs to choose from! Just see what works with your body and choose accordingly.

Most of all, just have fun! Stay relaxed, laugh at yourself from time to time and just be happy with all the fun ways your body can feel pleasure, whatever it is that it turns out you’re into!