By now, everyone will have heard the breakup stories. To say this past week’s news marks a big change for the One Direction fandom is an understatement. With our past of shipping wars and controversies, changes like these are bound to increase stress levels in the fan community.
That’s why, at this occasion, we wanted to bring a few of things to everyone’s attention.
1. Pledge to make your blog a safes space for everyone in this fandom, whatever their shipping history :
More than 20.000 people uploaded the Rainbow Heart Badge since we started the action last November. It signified a pledge from the social media profile owner to support to LGBTQ members of the 1D community and to make their blog a safe space from homophobia. May we please remind everyone that the Rainbow Heart also signified a pledge to WELCOME EVERYONE on their blog for discussions, whatever their (shipping) history in the fandom, and not to tolerate ANY kind of bullying. At this occasion we would like to ask you everyone to be mindful of that pledge. Anyone who has not yet taken it yet, can read more about it and find the instructions for how to do so here.
2. How to make your blog a safe space:
Welcome everyone with open arms
Be mindful of their state of mind—some people may be working through the stages of grief—everyone will be experiencing stress at this time. (This resource post is about the stages of grief in the context of coming out to your family and loved ones, but the theory behind it can apply to any type of loss, including what you may experience at the loss of a relationship)
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