Hey kyo i know many things have been bad but even though so many things that happened this year already even though so many things have been bad your videos have helped me a hole lot and i start my freshmen year any tips for highschool ?
TIPS FOR HIGHSCHOOL *spreads hands to make a rainbow
I aint gonna lie to ya, things are gonna get tough. With homework out the wazoo, needin to to balance school and social life and slowly becoming of age to be more adultish and take on more responsibilities. But!! It’s all possible.
Know that nothing has to be set in stone, thinking about the future is important but you never know what and where you’ll be taken to. Heck, most of my ‘notable achievements’ happened while I was in college. I was there for a good year in the ‘i dont even known my major’ category. (And i never even went for the major i picked hue) BUT EITHER WAY WHAT IM SAYING IS try your hardest not to stress, even with the peer pressure. Things take time.
Speaking of time, use what time you can responsibly! Pushing off your homework till the last second isnt good, high school is a lot rougher than college (no seriously it is). Sometimes ya get overwhelmed, but take things one step at a time. If you cut things up to smaller planned portions, it doesnt seem as frightening as a tangled mess thats just suddenly plopped onto your lap
Though, homework aint always gonna be your life, nows a good time to look into interests too. Like classes and studies, try not to turn up your nose to something if you can. Foods, classes, clubs, if it sounds interesting at least check it out! It’s better to say know with experience than accidently turn away an opprtunity because it sounded too tough even though it sounded promising.
One last thing, this is usually the time of a lot of people getting significant others and big ol friend groups. If that doesnt happen, thats all right. Sometimes making friends takes times, sometimes your great friends in school wont be until a few years later when they enter into high school themselves (no shame in having younger friends and all). Same goes for significant others. (same thing i didnt even meet my datemate until college), you dont need to rush into something because you crave companionship or for experimentation. Things like that should develop naturally. If they want things and you dont feel ready/able, you can always say no.
BUT ALSO BEWARE TO NOT BUCKLE UNDER PEER PRESSURE FOR FRIENDS. Drugs, sex, self harm (body mutilation and eating disorders). if thats is seen as norm/required/a pain olympics of competition get the heckie outta there. Youre too precious to let such things haunt you or make you do things you regret. You can always have new friends, no matter what anyone says, you can always have new friends.
I have some more but I’ve made this list long enough. I’ll wrap it up with this. This isnt the end of your life, far from it. This is a very large and tough patch to get there, btu there is always a way through it. How you end up, who knows, but whatever happens, there’s always the next day.
Take things one day at a time, and you’ll be fine.