not to be confused with that stupid remake

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Pansexuality is one of the many ignored sexualities. I got a request asking if I could make a post about pansexuality hate after I made one about asexuality so here I am, more than ready to rant! 

Pansexuals do exist!

Pansexuals are not bi

Pansexuals are not attention seeking! 

AND THEY DON’T LIKE PANS!!!?!!

Pansexuals are people who are attracted to others regardless of gender. This may seem confusing to some people. “Isn’t that the same thing as bi?" No. 
To be bisexual means that you are attracted to the same gender as yourself and other genders. Pansexual is being attracted to people regardless of gender. 

To differentiate, some people have preferences. I bisexual person make have a preference for males, females, nonbinary, or any other gender. Pansexuals typically do not. If a pansexual has a preference it may be something like having tatoos, short hair, or really anything that disregards gender. They may also have a preference for masculinity or femininity (which do not identify a persons gender. Males can be feminine and females can be masculine). 

Pansexuals aren’t greedy and they don’t call themselves pan to make them feel "more special” than bisexuals. There’s simply a difference between them and they’d like you to respect that!

You can also be panromantic. Panromanic and pansexual are not always paired up together in someon’s identity. You can match any sexuality with any type or romantic attraction.  I will use asexuality as an example! One can be asexual and panromantic or pansexual and aromantic.

Basically, everyone should just shut up about other people’s sexualities because it’s none of your business who they like or don’t like in what way or the other? Pansexuals aren’t bi! And people need to stop calling them stupid, monsterous, or fake. Why? 

Because 

they

are

not.

Today a lady in the drive thru asked for a “grande caramel frappe as light as you can make it.” So I made it and handed it out to her, and she asked “is this as light as you can make it?” I said yes, that I made it light, and she then asked, “did you make it with the light ice though? It doesn’t say light ice.” I said that wasn’t a part of the order, but could remake it with less ice, and she shook her head and said, “not less ice, the LIGHT ICE.” After more confusion and attempts at clarification, I realized she meant she wanted a healthier version of ice??? At that point, I tried to explain that that doesn’t exist without sounding like  a complete asshole (but how do you NOT?!), and she got pissed and made me grab my SM (who gave it to her for free along with a recovery card). 

I sometimes wonder if middle aged women act this stupid just to get a free drink, or if they’re really just THAT stupid.