not that confident

Having confidence in my body, in my fat body has literally changed my life! I see all my flaws in this picture but I also don’t give a fuck about them because I look fucking great! Haha. Like I look amazing, that smile is fucking real! I was having the time of my life and loving myself. I felt comfortable and happy! You hear me? HAPPY!

Yes, I’m overweight, yes I’m fat. Yup. But it’s the body I currently have and what I look like not loving what I have at this moment? And if my body ever changes, I'ma love that one too! I’ll be damned if anyone puts me back into a place where I cried every time I looked in a mirror. Now you can’t tell me shit! Nobody. Not a soul.

I am who I am. I am at peace with who I am. And I’m loving every inch!!!

I say all of this to say, love yourself. Nobody can love you until you love yourself! Regardless of where you are. Love it, please. I’m literally begging you. You are enough, you can love yourself just as you are. You need to know that.

you know what’s really important? teaching girls how to accept compliments. teaching girls that it’s ok to say thanks and smile. teaching girls that they don’t have to say things like “it took hours to put this on” or “really? it’s a really old dress”. it’s ok that someone is saying something nice and you can accept it, no questions asked.

our world is filled with telling girls to love themselves but the hypocrisy lays where when a girl does, she’s overconfident and it makes her seem condescending. that’s not the case. let girls show their self love without trying to take them down a notch.

let girls accept compliments with a simple thanks. don’t make them act like they don’t know they look good.

parfaitdiem  asked:

Omg do wondertrev too bc I love having my heart broken into a million pieces

  • proposes - steeeve does, big baby
  • shops for groceries - steve mostly but diana tags along often
  • kills the spiders - diana. steve is afraid
  • comes home drunk at 3am - they get drunk together!! romance
  • remembers to feed the fish - diana! she also has plants that she takes care of because she loves them and steve would probably over water them or something
  • initiates duets - steve
  • falls asleep first - STEVE
  • plans spontaneous trips - diana omg especially in the beginning because she wants to see the world and learn about different cultures and the types of people that make up the world
  • wakes the other up at 3am demanding pancakes - diana lmao
  • sends the other unsolicited nudes - both probably. it’s a competition
  • brags about knowing karate even though they never made it past yellow belt - steve does this, right before his gf diana fucking reks somebody
  • comes to a complete halt outside bakeries/candy shops - DEFINITELY DIANA oh my godddd and steve is always like “fuckin seriously… ok yeah let’s go in”
  • blows sarcastic kisses after doing ridiculous shit - they both do
  • killed the guy (also, which hid the body) - diana killed the guy, steve also killed another guy, they didn’t hide any bodies
  • wears the least clothing around the house - another competition: who can lose their clothes the fastest? they keep a scoreboard
  • has icky sentimental moments for no apparent reason - they both get fucking SAPPY but steve is more in tune with that maybe? diana is new to the romance department

I feel this on a daily basis

Why the Zodiac Signs Would Be Good in a Business/As a Boss

Aries: They are good at assessing others’ strengths and weaknesses and would be able to use this ability to their advantage.

Taurus: They would be good at tracking small changes that could be utilized to improve the business.

Gemini: They would be able to look at different business offers and consider them all carefully, without getting too excited over one and choosing it before looking at others.

Cancer: They would know when it is be wise to explore different options, but they also when to hold back and stay careful.

Leo: A Leo boss would be charming enough to have employees both willing and happy to do as they say.

Virgo: A Virgo would be dedicated to making the business as successful as possible, and thus would be willing to fire unhelpful employees, without regard to personal preferences.

Libra: They are unbiased and would be able to promote capable employees into positions of power, after making sure that they are able to do the job.

Scorpio: They wouldn’t back down or succumb to intimidation tactics when making a deal with another business.

Sagittarius: They would be able to quickly assess what should be done in the case of an emergency and are willing to make changes to solve a problem.

Capricorn: Their apparent confidence, their ambition, and their perseverance would be inspiring to employees.

Aquarius: They are organized and would be able to prevent business matters from stressing them out and getting to their head.

Pisces: Their creativity would be an asset, as they would come up with new ideas to replace older methods that are no longer helpful/of use.

anonymous asked:

Why do you answer all these tifp asks about coming out and becoming bi or something stupid like that but you won't answer my friends ask about standing up for her Christian beliefs?

I post all submissions in the order I receive them, I have 300 submissions in the inbox, please understand, it takes time to read and individually respond to each submission. 

I do not discriminate AT ALL. 

You are not welcome here if you are going to call other’s achievements “stupid”. This is not what this blog is about.