not tagging all these womens ok

being a lesbian is so isolating and lonely sometimes like lesbian culture is not being able to relate to anything, ever,

This is to all my chubby wlw out there who are scared of being bigger than their partners, and are scared of their weight bc ever since we were little the media shoved it down our throats that to be accepted and attractive in today’s society you have to be skinny, petite, and straight. You’re beautiful regardless of your weight, your love for women is wonderful and valid, it’s ok if your bigger than your partner, I love you, and remember there’s not a damn thing you need to change about yourself

i’m so here for the lesbians that didn’t always know.

lesbians that thought they were straight, bi, pan, aroace – anything but a lesbian.

lesbians struggling to accept that you can be a girl and like girls.

lesbians struggling to accept they like girls and only girls.

lesbians that knew on some level that they didn’t like guys but never clued into what that meant.

lesbians who thought that because they didn’t like boys they didn’t like anyone.

lesbians who can’t recognize when they’re attracted to women.

lesbians who repressed their attraction and are only now realizing and embracing their lesbianism.

lesbians who feel alienated from other lesbians and wlw because they’ve never had a crush on another girl.

lesbians who feel like they can’t be lesbians 

All wlw are brave and amazing (especially trans wlw). It takes so much to realize that you love women. You’ve done so much for yourself just by realizing that. You’ve come so far. Everything is going to be ok.

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but the thought arrived inside her like a train: marya morevna, all in black, here and now, was a point at which all the women she had been met—the yaichkan and the leningrader and the chyerti maiden; the girl who saw the birds, and the girl who never did—the woman she was and the woman she might have been and the woman she would always be, forever intersecting and colliding, a thousand birds falling from a thousand oaks, over and over.

um here’s a thought

lesbians’ attraction to and desire toward other women is nothing like men’s attraction to and desire toward women. our love is different. our attraction is different. we have no obligation to “empathize” with men just because we’re all attracted to women. our experiences are unique to us and hold absolutely no resemblance to men’s when it comes to loving women

It's #THICKSETTHURSDAY! (Feb 2nd 2017)

It’s time to make some cute art or take some cute selfies to promote body positivity!

-What Is #ThicksetThursday?-

To help promote body positivity, every Thursday we will be spreading the hashtag #ThicksetThursday on Twitter and Tumblr with Art and Selfies!

#ThicksetThursday will be to showcase positive ART and selfies of chubby body types of ALL kinds and sizes!

If you’re an artist and want to participate, all you have to do is draw your favorite characters, celebrities, friends, etc who don’t conform to the “typical” definition of beauty.

Not an artist but proud of your body? Feel free to take a selfie and tag it as well!

This is also not just locked to one gender, art and selfies of and from ALL genders are welcome and encouraged!

Q. “Can I draw an OC?”
A. OCs are allowed!

Q. “Is this just for women?”
A. ALL Genders are welcome! Men, women, trans, agender, everyone!

Q. “Who I want to draw isn’t ‘human’, is that ok?”
A. Yes! Of course!

Q. “Can I Draw _______?”
A. The answer is YES, so long as it has POSITIVE feelings and thoughts!

Q. “What is #ThickThursday all about?”
A. Body positivity and positive thoughts/energy! There’s a lot of negativity in the world, and this is a small way that we can all put out some much needed good feelings!

If you have more questions, PLEASE feel free to ask them, and I will answer!

anyway: huge shoutout to all my fellow lesbians dealing with internalized lesbophobia. wanting to be with girls, have sex with girls doesn’t make us gross, dirty, or inherently predatory. lesbians (and trans lesbians especially!) do not have the male gaze - we aren’t men. our attraction to women does not exist in the same context as men’s attrraction to women

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in light of all the he/him lesbian disk horse, here’s a little comic to help explain why I use he/him at least! The main thing to know is that he/him lesbians arent men, and that gender is 100% fake and arbitrary. thanks for reading!

sorry for the sketchiness i literally Just woke up and I think you could tell I was slooowly losing patience haha. if it’s hard to read let me know!!

Thick Thursday is now #ThicksetThursday

Because the original hashtag was already in use, PLEASE use #ThicksetThursday as your tag for posts!

Signal boosting this is much appreciated!

-What Is #ThicksetThursday?-

To help promote body positivity, every Thursday, I will be attempting to spread the hashtag #ThicksetThursday on Twitter and Tumblr!

#ThicksetThursday will be to showcase positive ART and selfies of chubby body types of ALL kinds and sizes!

If you’re an artist and want to participate, all you have to do is draw your favorite characters, celebrities, friends, etc who don’t conform to the “typical” definition of beauty.

Not an artist but proud of your body? Feel free to take a selfie and tag it as well!

This is also not just locked to one gender, art and selfies of and from ALL genders are welcome and encouraged!

Q. “Can I draw an OC?”
A. OCs are allowed!

Q. “Is this just for women?”
A. ALL Genders are welcome! Men, women, trans, agender, everyone!

Q. “Who I want to draw isn’t ‘human’, is that ok?”
A. Yes! Of course!

Q. “Can I Draw _______?”
A. The answer is YES, so long as it has POSITIVE feelings and thoughts!

Q. “What is #ThickThursday all about?”
A. Body positivity and positive thoughts/energy!  There’s a lot of negativity in the world, and this is a small way that we can all put out some much needed good feelings!

If you have more questions, PLEASE feel free to ask them, and I will answer!

out of all the strange, nonsensical false equivalencies on tumblr, the most puzzling to me right now is the equation of “aphobes”/”REGs” to TERFs???

for one thing “aphobe” has been so divorced from its actual meaning that it now means “anyone who was rude to an ace or aro once” so there’s that

but like… TERFs are literally the scum of the earth? they’re not saying trans women aren’t LGBT, they’re saying trans women don’t exist and they’re actually confused potential rapists/murderers and often advocate for trans women to be jailed or even killed! just for being trans! TERFs have violently physically attacked trans women and support groups like the alt-right because they’re also anti-trans!

like… “REGs” literally only say that asexuality and aromanticism aren’t inherently LGBT identities? that’s it?

just like… how??? could you compare???? those things?????????

like regardless of your opinions on ace discourse, comparing TERFs to REGs is dangerously close to normalizing TERF “““opinions”““ and making them out to be only as bad as ace exclusionism??? when TERFs are literally one of the most dangerous groups out there for trans women, like, right up there with alt-righters???

like, for the love of all the trans women in your life, Do Not compare these two groups as some kind of false equivalency bc you’re comparing the actual murder of trans women to online discourse and that is sooooo fuckin disrespectful

anonymous asked:

The reason why writers write top!magnus is bc this fandom loves to infantilize magnus just bc he's asian and slightly shorter. I mean, look at your own tags, you call magnus "subdued" and "soft" and "quiet," which is very coded language in making magnus the weaker/woman. So maybe you might hate it, but top!magnus exists as a way of subverting the stereotype people like u keep putting on magnus.

Are u saying that women are all subdued and soft and quiet? 

That men CANNOT be all that and be consider as a man? 

so WHO is actually stereotyping who now? 


Being soft spoken (which yes btw, imo harry has a very calming and soft way of speaking for Magnus character. ) or quiet DOES NOT MAKE ONE WEAK OR ANY LESS MANLY… 


Off-topic, Okay, anyone who read this.. especially the boys (if any): this is very important, ok –> it is not emasculating to be patient and soft spoken and gentle or having a sweet smile and be called beautiful. 


my tags are how i see him. I think Harry/Magnus is sweet, is that wrong?

YOU thought differently because YOU are the one been stereotyping people. God forbid a man be described as gentle. God forbid a man be described as subdued.. your mind AUTOMATICALLY went to : ah~.. this person MUST BE emasculating Magnus.. because in YOUR MIND you already thinking WHOEVER was described as gentle, sweet,.. heck, even submissive.. gotta be the ‘girl’.


Oh, and I thought because Magnus a teensy weensy bit shorter, he must be the ‘girl’? No, it was YOU who thought that. YOU were the one who feel so threatened by what that tiny height difference could do to your bottom!Alec kink that you keep hallucinate in your head that everyone must be as close minded as you are and the very second they even hint.. even dare to use less than manly words to describe Magnus: Ah!! they must be infantilizing Magnus! How dare they.. 

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Ok Tumblr. We needs to have a little chat. First of all, I got my first “sensitive” flagged post..Woot! But its kinda ridic. You all do this:

At the top of the post. This shit was tagged as Wayhaught. Ain’t no one going through that tag looking for gifs of them brushing each others hair. Someone who can’t handle the gay isn’t gonna find this by accident. 

Next, this is at the bottom of my post:

Is it the belt, the boob tops, or the fact that its two women make it NSFW? Also who are you Tumblr to decide what is NSFW or not? 

anonymous asked:

Will Bixlow and Evergreen play Magic Guild Clash Online too??? :D :D :D

OH BOY. Okay.

  • so Mira managed to drag Cana, Freed and Laxus on another session. she’s really excited to fight with this other Guild because they get lots of items and loot if they succeed.
  • but Mira miiiight have miscalculated the logistics on this one.
  • “okaaaaay, we’re outmanned 8 to 4 and I’m the only one of us past Level 50 and… uh, yeah, fine, we’re dead. i swear I totally thought they have only TWO Level 50 guys. Not EIGHT!”
  • good one, Mira.
  • Cana’s like “Aw, we’re retreating?”
  • Mira’s having none of it. “No retreat, no surrender, WE FIGHT THESE BASTARDS. WE DIE LIKE MEN.”
  • “We’re all girls.” Laxus reminds her. His avatar is a girl, it was an accident.
  • “LIKE WOMEN THEN!” Mira corrected. “except Freed. he’s a guy. whatever. ok team, here’s what we do - connect to FB and call a friend. two friends. five friends if they’re noobs like you. and then let’s hope they log in on time to help.”
  • there were groans of complaint from the boys. they didn’t want to connect to Facebook. they didn’t even want their friends to know they were playing because they don’t actually play seriously, they just tag along when Mira needs them.
  • meanwhile Cana starts stalling by flirting with the enemy.
  • dang, she was really good at it.
  • Freed has the least Facebook friends (his account is practically dead) but surprisingly he’s the first one to get a reply.
  • “I got Bixlow, he said he can log in for a bit.”
  • Laxus and Mira refrain from commenting about Freed’s weird friend because that weird friend is going to help them and beggars can’t be choosers.
  • then suddenly this dude arrives
  • a Seith Mage decked in full expensive-looking armor and boasting stats that made Mira almost faint.
  • and a message pops up in the screen like “hi freed i didn’t know you played this game! what can i do to help? :D”
  • Mira’s like “HOLY FUCK FREED WHO IS THIS GUY HE’S PRACTICALLY A GOD?!”
  • Laxus was quicker though: “dude hi it’s Laxus, i know you know me. could you maybe help us beat the other guys. after this, Mirajane Strauss will never take your lunch money ever again.”
  • “she doesnt take my money tho??? she just. i. um. i don’t think she notices me at all. :( i wanna be her friend tho cus i think she’s really cool.”
  • Mira doesn’t miss a beat: “HEEEYYYY! ^_____^ BIXLOW RIGHT? MY PAL. MY MAN. MY FOREVER GUY. WE ARE BEST FRIENDS NOW. YOU CAN CALL ME MIRA. OR JANE. OR BESTIE. OR WHATEVER We’RE TOTALLY BUDDIES.”
  • “really????? i can walk with u and freed in campus???”
  • “YOU CAN WALK WITH ME EVERYWHERE MY BRO MY DUDE MY TURTLEDOVE CAN U HELP ME KICK ASS RN THO?”
  • “ok bestie!!! :D”
  • Freed and Laxus stare at Mira, judging her together.
  • in the time it takes for Mira to tell them to stop judging her, Bixlow wipes the floor with the enemy Guild.
  • Cana admits being worried that her girlfriend might leave her for the God.
  • then someone else joins them, a cute Fairy girl in green novice clothes, Level 1 - obviously created the account a few minutes ago
  • she starts demanding right away.
  • “Freed what is this you’ve invited me to?”
  • “You never log in to your Facebook so I had to know whats up???”
  • “How do you move around here btw??????”
  • “ugh this is why i only play Sailor Moon Drops”
  • Mira and Laxus both look at Freed.
  • “Who is this FairyEvergreen person now?”

Fyi I don’t want people to ever hate nurtured kids. Yes, a lot of nurtured kids forget about abused kids entirely, never consider us in their actions, and can generally be very harmful. And I think it’s ok for women to hate men, gay people to hate straight people, poc to hate white people. But hating nurtured kids could have harmful effects such as encouraging child abuse so your kid doesn’t end up nurtured. It’s that mentality of “if we keep giving kids participation trophies all these youngsters will turn out to be wusses” that I want to avoid promoting. Child abuse is horrible. If I could’ve been the nurtured kid who jacks off to used and abused tags and tells people to stop talking about their abuse because they seem obsessed, I would’ve been that kid. I just hate the nurtured kids that can’t ever be good allies.

every mary-queen-of-thots post ever

mary-queen-of-thots: hurdehhrh I hate centrists and people who watch porn. you are all big old sillies! HAHAHA nazbols

fuck-yeah-centrist-anime: uhm what the heck 😂 rude!

mary-queen-of-thots: hehe bitch I mean except you. anti porn squad!!!

revoltagainstliberals1488: wow. wow! what a fucking pussy. so you think just because I like porn I’m a fucking degenerate? ok you spic faggot

mary-queen-of-thots: my dude, porn is an evil. it fucks up your brain and makes you disrespect women. *tags 20 people* tell em guys

fashiesagainstporn112: yeah man 😬😬like how can you call yourself a “traditionalist” and have porn on your blog. smh so fucking cringey

lolicon-egalitarianism: whoa OP what the fuck?? you can’t tell people not to watch porn you fucking prude. just because you’re a sexually repressed Christian doesn’t mean I shouldn’t be able to jack to underage cartoon porn

revoltagainstliberals1488: kill yourself you fucking autistic weaboo shit never associate with me again

lolicon-egalitarianism: wow ok I’m cringey?? 🙄 says the literal fucking NAZI!!

mary-queen-of-thots: tbfh you’re both totally autistic. it’s all the porn you’re watching hehehe. it rots your brain. *list of 20 links* this is how you can quit porn. God you guys are pathetic smh ://