not in synch

FUCK MANAGMENT AND FUCK THIS JOB. I’ve been alone since 3pm, it’s now 6.15. coworker was supposed to be here at 5.15. she never showed up, so I asked the gstl to figure out what was happening. Turns out she wasn’t written on the fucking schedule so she didn’t know she was supposed to come in, and said no when they asked if she could. they have someone here to cover my breaks and help me close at 9.30. I told my gstl that this isn’t fair, and that I WILL be leaving at 9.30pm REGARDLESS of how clean this place is. I’ve been debating on putting in my two weeks and this just synched it. im fucking out of here. fuck this place.

the-last-queen-of-eternity  asked:

Hey my dude, could I request a poly with seungcheol and mingyu comforting you in your time of need. (Going thru some though stuff right now and I really just need a break smh)

aw my love i’m sorry to hear that let me hit you right up <3


-seungcheol and mingyu oh gosh they’re so soft and sweet to you when you’re in that down space

-mingyu would 100% be cooking up your favorite food while seungcheol is a shoulder to lean on

-you two end up just sitting on the kitchen floor together while mingyu cooks and if you don’t really want to talk you just watch mingyu

-and seungcheol has his arm around your shoulders and you can feel him breathing in and out

-he tries to help you synch up your breath with him so that you can calm a little and get that steady meditation breathing going on

-meanwhile mingyu’s just talking to himself so that there isn’t silence while he’s cooking

-’oh look here come the noodles your favorite…. and oh! the chilis! let’s cook this meat… ah this is going to be so good for my lovely boyfriends…’ 

-and once the food is ready and mingyu drags you two off the floor it’s table talk time

-because all of your best discussions happen over a nice plate of food 

-and as much as you’re willing to share they’ll listen to

-mningyu makes little noises like ‘oh, yeah, uh huh’ to let you know that he’s listening but seungcheol just watches you really closely

-even if you don’t want their help or advice they’re still there to listen to you no matter what

-and the food is really nice your favorite

-mingyu doesn’t even do the dishes yet because it’s time to dogpile on you

-and it doesn’t make much sense because seungcheol is smaller but he’s on the couch first with you in his on top of/against him and mingyu…. idk just noodled across your laps

-and this way you can feel both of their hearts beating in the silence and just the content way seungcheol rubs your shoulders or mingyu mumbles about his day

-and if you get really spacey and wrapped up in thought seungcheol just brings your hand to his chest…

-’you feel that? my heart’s still beating and so is yours. you can get through this.’

Honestly if anyone is proof of Drift compatibility being a real thing it’s the McElroys. Like they are so constantly in synch with their thoughts and humour that you can totally picture them still blasting off one-liners and goofs while simultaneously suplexing a kaiju in their jaeger, Rancho Greatjob

6 Types of Loneliness

There are 6 main types of loneliness:

1. Interpersonal loneliness: This is the result of losing a significant, or intimate, relationship.

2. Social loneliness: This is where a person is on the fringes of a group, excluded from a group, or is actively rejected.

3. Cultural loneliness: This is where a person belongs to a different culture and feels that they don’t fit, or belong, in the new culture.

4. Intellectual loneliness: This is where a person feels intellectually, or educationally, out of synch with their peers, their family or their social group.

5. Psychological loneliness: This is where a person has experienced a trauma that separates them out from others around them. That is, it’s something other people can’t fully understand.

6. Existential or cosmic loneliness: This is an isolating loneliness experienced by a person who is facing death.