I got asked today if there was something special that I learned from being trans and fighting through all this transition stuff. Yes! There is! And I like to share it with you 😘
The most important thing that I learned is that this is your life and YOU should be happy with it - not your parents, not your friends, not your colleagues and not the people walking the streets… You! So do whatever makes you happy and don’t give a shit what others might think of you and the things you do to be happy.
Unfortunately I was raised with a mindset of caring very, very, veeeeery much of what others might think of you and your actions and so it took me many many years till I finally realized that it is only important what you think of yourself and not what others might think! As soon as I realized that and started to act the way I wanted to life not only became much easier it also became much more fun and I became happier than ever before..
So if I might give you one advice it is this.. act the way you want to and you will definitely get the most out of your life! If it makes you happy to walk the streets in bright red cowboy boots..do it… And don’t let anyone stop you ever.