Ok, so imagine what kind of a man Mon-el would have been right now, if he hadn’t been brainwashed by Daxam social norms for more than twenty years. Only 9 months of Kara and others influence and he went from a selfish asshole to a sweet, decent guy. We all are products of the society.
You know, I’m starting to think that Kara hasn’t really changed him, but simply showed him who he always was, deep inside. And he just followed her example and slowly unveiled his true self.
If it’s not a beautiful message, then I’m freaking Queen Elizabeth.