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Qualities of an Attractive Personality

Someone with an attractive personality:

1. Is warm and friendly towards to others.

2. Is open and real

3. Knows their own strengths and weaknesses - and neither boasts nor puts themselves down.

4. Looks for the good in every situation, and is generally positive and optimistic.

5. Doesn’t gossip or pass on others’ secrets

6. Doesn’t gloat when things go wrong for others.

7. Is secure and has a healthy self–esteem; is not self-centred and narcissistic.

8. Is not highly critical or argumentative.

9. Is not possessive and jealous in relationships.

10. Makes time for the people they care about.

andromedasstars  asked:

Hi, I was wondering if you had any headcanons for Abby and Neil? I mean everyone knows that boy needs good loving parental figures and as Wymack pretty much has 'team-dad' covered...

I’VE THOUGHT A LOT ABOUT THIS OK NEIL NEEDS A GENTLE MOTHERING SOUL (this entire thing is cheesy but I’m a sucker for that shit so here we go)

  • neil knows mothers as hard and punishing and tough love
  • he recognizes his mother’s brand of love because he grew up around her
  • he recognizes being beaten for a wrong move because he needs to be safe
  • he recognizes love as caring for him even if its harsh and cold
  • its why he doesnt need to be told “i love you” by andrew and why he doesnt need to say it back
  • he knows love as protection with angry words and fists
  • and later he knows love as andrews hand on his neck and a rough pat on the back after a game
  • he doesnt recognize love as soft words and gentle hands, so maybe thats why he doesnt recognize abbys actions towards him

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If

If you can keep your head when all about you  
   Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,  
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
   But make allowance for their doubting too
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
   Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
   And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master   
   If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim 
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
   And treat those two impostors just the same
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
   Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
   And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
   And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
   And never breathe a word about your loss
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
   To serve your turn long after they are gone,  
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
   Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,  
   Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
   If all men count with you, but none too much
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
   With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,  
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,  
   And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

- Rudyard Kipling

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Spoken like a true ‘aniki’.. Everything Nanahara said there is Nanahara being the big bro that he is. 

“You stay by the boss’ side. Got it? Stay by his side and protect him.” - Nanahara

    
A story becomes more engaging when there are interesting support characters. In the world of Saezuru, out of them all I like Nanahara the best. He also got his past told and unlike the other supporting characters, he is one who did not hurt, abused and took advantage of Yashiro nor had any sexual connection with him. Though different from Doumeki’s level of respect, loyalty and very high regard for Yashiro, Nanahara in his own way respects and is loyal to boss ever since the day he became a subordinate. He may not be a so good looking character nor as badass as the others and he can be idiotic at times. But he is the big bro who is also concerned with Yashiro’s well being. And he did not maliciously judge Doumeki’s love for Yashiro. Definitely my top saezuru support character.

"If" by Rudyard Kipling

If you can keep your head when all about you  
   Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,  
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
   But make allowance for their doubting too;  
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
   Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
   And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;  
   If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;  
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
   And treat those two impostors just the same;  
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
   Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
   And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
   And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
   And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
   To serve your turn long after they are gone,  
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
   Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,  
   Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
   If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
   With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,  
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,  
   And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

@hiddlesmouse: #TomHiddleston puts the poetry “If—”(by Rudyard Kipling) on the wall in his kitchen

Would anyone be willing to please help me to understand Sangwoo in this scene? I can’t tell if he’s experiencing some kind of sick enjoyment at the thought of Bum being humiliated by Jieun Yi’s comment (I wouldn’t put it past the psycho), or if he’s shocked and slightly upset that Jieun has these things to say about Bum, or if he was trying to humiliate both of them. Honestly, I’m just trying to understand what is going through this freak’s mind at this point to better mentally prepare myself for the next chapter.

It’s not looking good for neither Jieun, nor Bum. I hope he doesn’t force them to be intimate with each other, but I don’t see Jieun surviving the night, nor do I see Bum getting out of killing her. Sangwoo wants Bum to be apart of his killings; he’s stated how important this evening is; that Bum is the “main character” (translations may vary, but that’s the gist) and that’s why I’m slightly terrified that he may force Bum to sleep with Jieun because it’s part of his own killing process. I just… I don’t know, man, but I’m anxious for the next chapter.

It’s a very different show from Skam, but I figured, people looking for LGBT and mental illness representation in a non-oppressive, non-blaming way, there is an australian show called Please Like Me which is so funny and awesome.

(the main character is a gay guy, but, lo and behold, he is not good looking nor particularly likable. But still, he is real, and funny, and lovely-when he wants. He writes, directs and stars in the show, so that’ already reason enough for me to watch).

If you can keep your head when all about you  
   Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,  
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
   But make allowance for their doubting too;  
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
   Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
   And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;  
   If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;  
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
   And treat those two impostors just the same;  
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
   Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
   And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
   And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
   And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
   To serve your turn long after they are gone,  
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
   Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,  
   Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
   If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
   With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,  
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,  
   And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

— 

“If—” by Rudyard Kipling 

Apparently this is the poem Tom Hiddleston has on his wall. It’s beautiful and I can totally see why Tom likes it so much. And besides, don’t you just love it when you learn about the existence of such great things from someone whoe’s your idol? ;)

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
-
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise
-
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
-
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ‘em up with worn-out tools
-
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
-
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the will which says to them: 'Hold on!’
-
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
-
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And - which is more - you’ll be a Man, my son!
—  Rudyard Kipling, If: A Father’s Advice to His Son
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1/? Favorite Books → Flowers in the Attic by V. C. Andrews

It is so appropriate to color hope yellow, like that sun we seldom saw. And as I begin to copy from the old memorandum journals that I kept for so long, a title comes as if inspired.Open the Window and Stand in the Sunshine.Yet, I hesitate to name our story that. For I think of us more as flowers in the attic. Paper flowers. Born so brightly colored, and fading duller through all those long, grim, dreary, nightmarish days when we were held prisoners of hope, and kept captives by greed. But, we were never to color even one of our paper blossoms yellow.

anonymous asked:

First off, You're so pretty! Secondly, which vendors do you like to get your hair from? I'm new to the weave world and I don't know where to get quality bundles for a decent price. Any suggestions?

❤️️ Red Heart
Heyyyy so I’m sorta a newbie to the weave world too tbh lol my specialty is more so makeup lol. But I’ve gotten all the hair that I use for my wigs off of aliexpress. The best hair I got was from the company ali grace and its straight Brazilian and it looks like this 

pretty good hair, doesnt shed nor tangle. However, I dont know much so I’d suggest going on yt and looking up TheMalibuBarbie 

He’s always doing reviews on really good cheap aliexpress hair. Hope this helps❤️️ 

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Because they have no mouth they are silent, only the dead expect to give birth. Why not life reborn from
milk, there is plenty to spare - it drips from mouths and from skies. That is why the sun burns through heavy cloud –
it is dark in the daytime you cannot see your hands. In daytime there is no truth in being good and just, Man is neither good nor just.

2
Why do you look at me? Have I said the wrong thing again. This is correct and this is  
nothing, you cannot fly
with such an abundance of ladybirds: I count the spots there are more spots than expectation. I am no mathematician - I do not know poison from
direction or knowledge. I observe dreams: dissect my stomach find: flesh Prozac bile.

3
I am not sick, is that because I am already sick
of breaking the laws I am not frightened of breaking? I know right from wrong. I would rather do wrong than be the hypocrite.

4
The glass distorts. Beware those made of glass they are not real. ‘Pass by houses with eyes closed tight,’ Give me means to draw a circle and I fail. Only the wise can find similarities between perfection and perfection.

5
I sit inside houses.

—  words
2011/2016