okay, let me tell a story
there was this boy from my school who I had always considered to be really rude and we just didn’t get along. we couldn’t agree in literally anything (well, that’s what I used to think)
one day, we were sitting near each other and I decided to break the awkward silence between us and asked “what are you listening to?”. he took off his headphones and answered “my chemical romance” and I replied “no way.”. then we talked about our favorite bands and it turned out that we had a very similar music taste!
and here is what I’ve learned from this: never judge people before knowing them better. maybe you have something in common that you would never expect