So we’ve all seen a lot of posts going around that say ‘support masculine transgirls’ and ‘support feminine transboys’, but it’s never explained more than that. Transgender people who don’t necessarily present how their gender is ‘expected’ to deserve support and respect, but also to be understood.
Wearing clothes assigned to a particular gender - either deemed through society or historically - does not make you that gender. There’s a complete difference between gender identity and gender presentation which is rarely discussed, because for most people, they’re the same; most people who identify as (x), typically, present as (x). This means that trans folk who don’t present in what their gender would typically wear can get mislabelled, misunderstood, and forgotten.
Wearing certain clothes doesn’t make you a particular gender any more than being in a garage makes you a mechanic, or being in a kitchen makes you a chef. This is because gender is an identity and relates to how you feel about yourself in relation to your culture, body, and whole being as a person, and you have full and complete autonomy over what you identify as.
If you don’t present yourself in such a way that typically aligns with your identity, that’s your right to do that! You’re no less valid for it, and you’re not faking it. This is why you hear bigots in the LGBT community say things like “not trans enough”, as if being transgender means to comply with what that gender “should” do, “should” look like and “should” act like.
There’s a horrible irony that some members of the trans community hold each other to the same standards as some straight/cis people hold the trans community. “You can’t be trans if you do x/y/z” and other such bullshit. But if you really want change, if you want recognition and to raise trans awareness in public issues, the first thing you’ve got to do is stop telling trans people they aren’t trans enough, even if you’re trans.
If a trans girl identifies as a girl and presents “as a girl”, they’re a girl. If a trans girl identifies as a girl and doesn’t present “as a girl”, they’re still a girl. If a trans guy identifies as a guy and presents “as a guy”, they’re a guy. If a trans guy identifies as a guy and doesn’t present “as a guy”, they’re still a guy.
This is a major issue and I’ve hardly seen it get spoken about.
If you ID as trans and you’re reading this, I want you to know you are valid and deserve to be accepted, respected, and understood. You are trans enough.
Don’t ever change for anyone unless it’s for yourself.
“Spiritual Enlightenment is not an achievement or a future goal that we must attain; it is a simple shift in perspective, recognizing that the impersonal, universal force-field of consciousness alone exists.” -Anon I mus (Spiritually Anonymous)
jubilant (adj.) - extremely joyful, happy (The crowd was jubilant when the firefighter carried the woman from the flaming building.)
knell (n.) - the solemn sound of a bell, often indicating a death (Echoing throughout our village, the funeral knell made the grey day even more grim.)
lithe (adj.) - graceful, flexible, supple (Although the dancers were all outstanding, Joanna’s control of her lithe body was particularly impressive.)
lurid (adj.) - ghastly, sensational (Barry’s story, in which he described a character torturing his neighbour’s tortoise, was judged too lurid to be published on the English Library’s website.)
maverick (n.) - an independent, nonconformist person (John is a real maverick and always does things his own way.)
maxim (n.) - a common saying expressing a principle of conduct (Ms. Stone’s etiquette maxims are both entertaining and instructional.)
meticulous (adj.) - extremely careful with details (The ornate needlework in the bride’s gown was a product of meticulous handiwork.)
modicum (n.) - a small amount of something (Refusing to display even a modicum of sensitivity, Magda announced her boss’s affair to the entire office.)
morose (adj.) - gloomy or sullen (David’s morose nature made him very unpleasant to talk to.)
myriad (adj.) - consisting of a very great number (It was difficult to decide what to do on Saturday night because the city presented us with myriad possibilities for fun.)
nadir (n.) - the lowest point of something (My day was boring, but the nadir came when my new car was stolen.)
nominal (adj.) - trifling, insignificant (Because he was moving the following week and needed to get rid of his furniture more than he needed money, Kim sold everything for anominal price.)
novice (n.) - a beginner, someone without training or experience (Because we were allnovices at archery, our instructor decided to begin with the basics
nuance (n.) - a slight variation in meaning, tone, expression (The nuances of the poem were not obvious to the casual reader, but the teacher was able to point them out.)
oblivious (adj.) - lacking consciousness or awareness of something (Oblivious to the burning smell emanating from the kitchen, my father did not notice that the rolls in the oven were burned until much too late.)
obsequious (adj.) - excessively compliant or submissive (Donald acted like Susan’s servant, obeying her every request in an obsequious manner.)
obtuse (adj.) - lacking quickness of sensibility or intellect (Political opponents warned that the prime minister’s obtuse approach to foreign policy would embroil the nation in mindless war.)
panacea (n.) - a remedy for all ills or difficulties (Doctors wish there was a single panacea for every disease, but sadly there is not.)
parody (n.) - a satirical imitation (A hush fell over the classroom when the teacher returned to find Magdalena acting out a parody of his teaching style.)
penchant (n.) - a tendency, partiality, preference (Fiona’s dinner parties quickly became monotonous on account of her penchant for Indian dishes.)
perusal (n.) - a careful examination, review (The actor agreed to accept the role after a three-month perusal of the movie script.)
plethora (n.) - an abundance, excess (The wedding banquet included a plethora of oysters piled almost three feet high.)
predilection (n.) - a preference or inclination for something (James has a predilection for eating toad in the whole with tomato ketchup.)
quaint (adj.) - charmingly old-fashioned (Mary was delighted by the quaint bonnets she saw in Romania.)
rash (adj.) - hasty, incautious (It’s best to think things over calmly and thoroughly, rather than make rash decisions.)
refurbish (v.) - to restore, clean up (After being refurbished the old Triumph motorcycle commanded the handsome price of $6000.)
repudiate (v.) - to reject, refuse to accept (Tom made a strong case for an extension of his curfew, but his mother repudiated it with a few biting words.)
rife (adj.) - abundant (Surprisingly, the teacher’s writing was rife with spelling errors.)
salient (adj.) - significant, conspicuous (One of the salient differences between Alison and Helen is that Alison is a couple of kilos heavier.)
serendipity (n.) - luck, finding good things without looking for them (In an amazing bit of serendipity, penniless Mark found a $50 bill on the back seat of the bus.)
staid (adj.) - sedate, serious, self-restrained (The staid butler never changed his expression no matter what happened.)
superfluous (adj.) - exceeding what is necessary (Samantha had already won the campaign so her constant flattery of others was superfluous.)
sycophant (n.) - one who flatters for self-gain (Some see the people in the cabinet as the Prime Minister’s closest advisors, but others see them as sycophants.)
taciturn (adj.) - not inclined to talk (Though Magda never seems to stop talking, her brother is quite taciturn.)
truculent (adj.) - ready to fight, cruel (This club doesn’t really attract the dangerous types, so why was that bouncer being so truculent?)
umbrage (n.) - resentment, offence (He called me a lily-livered coward, and I took umbrage at the insult.)
venerable (adj.) - deserving of respect because of age or achievement (The venerable High Court judge had made several key rulings in landmark cases throughout the years.)
vex (v.) - to confuse or annoy (My boyfriend vexes me by pinching my bottom for hours on end.)
vociferous (adj.) - loud, boisterous (I’m tired of his vociferous whining so I’m breaking up with him.)
wanton (adj.) - undisciplined, lewd, lustful (Joanna’s wanton demeanor often made the frat guys next door very excited.)
zenith (n.) - the highest point, culminating point (I was too nice to tell Emily that she had reached the absolute zenith of her career with that one top 10 hit of hers.)
yo, since it’s that time of year, here’s my unsolicited advice on how to take notes. it’s primarily for college or high school folks but i suppose anyone who is in a positive to take notes could use this.
here’s the advice:
make your notes as CASUAL as possible. by which i mean, put them in your voice, make them funny, use memes, write out information as if you were texting it to your friend, curse!, use everyday phrases and weird internet speak, relate it to your life if possible!, fucking hashtag that shit, relate it to things you like, write out academic articles like they are just Drama happening to your friends, etc etc– do this in class and when doing the readings and when making studying guides for tests!!
even if you are taking notes on the reading and you have NO IDEA what is going on (real talk: im doing reading for my english masters right now and i have NO IDEA what this man is saying), try to get the basic gist or even if you can tell the writer feels negatively or positively towards a particular subject, WRITE THAT SHIT DOWN.
Here are honest to god, some examples from my notes right now:
I have literally no idea what this man is saying– it seems to be something about God?– the difference between learning stuff just for the sake of learning and learning stuff to make order and sense and “find God”
Culture is the study of perfection and goes beyond religion because we make up religion and culture is about more than us?? its possible that’s what this dude is saying. i give it a 60-40 shot.
DONT TRUST MACHINERY. EVERYTHING IS MACHINERY. WEALTH IS JUST MACHINERY. CULTURE MATTERS OVER MONEY/MACHINERY/RELIGION/EVERYTHINGGG. GOOO CULTURE!
will he ever writer a sentence shorter than 8 lines long??? #probablynot
I am not totally convinced by his culture= perfection argument but then again that could be the exact opposite of what he’s saying.
“Another newspaper, representing, like the Nonconformist, one of the religious organisations of this country, was a short time ago giving an account of the crowd at Epsom on the Derby day, and of all the vice and hideousness which was to be seen in that crowd; and then the writer turned suddenly round upon Professor Huxley, and asked him how he proposed to cure all this vice and hideousness without religion. I confess I felt disposed to ask the asker this question: And how do you propose to cure it with such a religion as yours? How is the ideal of a life so unlovely, so unattractive, so narrow, so far removed from a true and satisfying ideal of human perfection, as is the life of your religious organisation as you yourself image it, to conquer and transform all this vice and hideousness?” 10 – I mean i do fuck with this part tho
He’s at Oxford. Fucking loves Oxford. On Oxford’s dick
the point is, i clearly don’t really know what’s going on, but hopefully the professor will clue me in and i’ll at least have some idea of what he said by the end of it. plus just writing your notes in a fun casual way is going to make reading back over them SO much more enjoyable and memorable! (there’s science to back this up but i gotta finish this work so no time to fact check myself now just trust me)
alright, advice over. good luck with school dudes!
[OH Also, if you write a direct quote in your notes– ALWAYS WRITE THE PAGE NUMBER. you’ll need that shit if you use it in a paper.]
What house is your Uranus in? Uranus can represent freedom in the house it occupies. It also can show where brilliance could be and how you could use that to help people but there can’t be any expectations. As Uranus can also turn things upside down. Never a dull moment in the house Uranus resides.
🌟"You need chaos in your soul to give birth to a dancing star” 🌟F.N
Uranus in the 1st House~
Behavioral freedom. Do what you want and when you want to do it. You must resist the expectations of people within just about any given situation. This also means that you must have zero expectations when it comes to life itself. Just live and let live. Experiment and see what happens. Your role in life is of the livewire, capable of doing anything and at anytime.
Uranus in the 2nd House~
Financial freedom. Make your own money in the way you want to make it. Do not give into pressures to try and hold down a predictable way of making income. Find experimental, unique ways to earn money and also stay detached from a boring obsession with the material. This attitude will manifest a greater cash flow in your life, boosting your overall pleasure and self-esteem.
Uranus in the 3rd House~
Intellectual freedom. You are truly being pushed to think for yourself and in an unusual manner. Your mind can feel like it’s undergoing an endless brainstorm, filling you with all sorts of exciting ideas. Share these ideas openly with others, even if they think they’re weird, shocking, or unacceptable. Be that independent thinker; the kind of conversationalist who electrifies others.
Uranus in the 4th House~
Private freedom. You are only going to feel safe and supported when your personal space is turned upside down. Home is not home for you unless things are quite eccentric and crazy. But, there is a very comfortable rhythm to this madness and you thrive on it, even if it unnerves your loved ones. Behind closed doors, you are a maverick and often feel like the odd one out in your family.
Uranus in the 5th House~
Creative freedom. When you live in the moment, you completely throw the rule book out the window. Your creative energy is quite rebellious and unconventional. You possess a detached sort of passion that can stand back and coolly observe the drama of life unfold, all while still getting heatedly involved. You’re very hot-and-cold in matters of the heart, needing a lot of loving space.
Uranus in the 6th House~
Constructive freedom. You want to get things done in your own unusual way, experimenting with various routines. There is a method to your madness or a madness to your method, which can confuse others. You may seem to “wing it” even when you’re really calculated or vice versa. You will rebel against others’ advice unless it’s truly practical and has been tested as being so by you.
Uranus in the 7th House~
Relational freedom. In your personal connections with other people, you do not want to be controlled or suffocated. You are looking for a real give-and-take of independence and tolerance in love and friendship. You make for a rather eccentric companion and are attracted to eccentric companions. The approval of others in terms of your friends and lovers means nothing to you.
Uranus in the 8th House~
Profound freedom. When you go deep with someone or with yourself, you do not judge whatever is exposed. This makes you very tolerant when being intimate or introspective. But, you might sometimes thrive on the chaos of the darkness. You may remain detached and nonchalant about your emotional issues. But, you are also brilliantly capable of being your own therapist.
Uranus in the 9th House~
Philosophical freedom. You must develop a moral compass that is not reliant on anyone else’s issues. You can rebel against the convictions of others by insisting on your own. It’s liberating and inspiring for you to not have to follow a typical path in life. You are on your own unpredictable journey, so you must become this explorer who welcomes the weirdness around the corner.
Uranus in the 10th House~
Professional freedom. It is your mission to make a living and a calling out of being a free spirit. You have to pursue the goals in life that you really think are worthwhile, instead of surrendering to society’s expectations, building your reputation as a nonconformist. Career success will be highly unexpected, in its coming and going. Your ideal profession feels like an endless experiment.
Uranus in the 11th House~
Universal freedom. You are not just freeing yourself but freeing everyone around you. By releasing all expectations, you’re not only welcoming the random, unusual elements of life your way but giving others free reign to be individuals. This makes you a full-on individual in all of your quirkiness. Yet, you are an excellent collaborator, with a very progressive, brilliant view of the big picture.
Uranus in the 12th House~
Spiritual freedom. You must detach from conventional expectations of humanity and the Higher Power, understanding how weird we all can be and how unpredictable the Universe is. Your own eccentricities work in mysterious ways, through a genius insight into alternative forms of spirituality, wild and erratic fantasies/dreams, and/or artistic talents that are from another planet.
RAVENCLAW: “The hope of a secure and livable world lies with disciplined nonconformists who are dedicated to justice, peace, and brotherhood. The trailblazers in human, academic, scientific, and religious freedom have always been nonconformists. In any cause that concerns the progress of mankind, put your faith in the nonconformist!” –Martin Luther King, Jr. (Transformed Nonconformist)
‘Non conformes’! Récit d'anticipation mettant en scène un monde patriarcal où toute femme ‘non conforme’ est envoyée en pénitence sur BitchPlanet!
Ici ça pue la ch**** fort et violent, elles ne se laisseront pas faire 🤛🏾💪🏾💄…