no-bullshit

I want you to name me five straight movie or tv character off the top of your head. 

That was easy, right? You could probably name me 50 in under a minute. 

Now I want you to name me five gay characters. 

Okay, that was a bit harder maybe but chances are that went pretty smoothly as well.

Now I want you to name me five bisexual characters. 

Yeah. I can’t do it either. 

GROUND BREAKING NEWS (literally what i’ve been doing for the past couple years soo) :

IM GOING ON A MOTHEREFFING DIET !!!

Wish me luck :B

#growingupugly

You don’t have any bullshit drama.
You haven’t peaked too soon. And your peak won’t be in high school (thank the Lord)
You’re doing amazing in school.(I did anyway)
You’ve sharpened all your other qualities, so now you have an amazing personality.
No kids.
No issues.
You’ve formed a creative mindset.
Clear(for the most part) headspace.
Goals and motivation.
Everything is on point, so when the physical #gloup happens, and matches everything else,shit, you’ll be unstoppable.
Ps. And you’ll know that life is way more than looks.
(Speaking from experience.)
And ugly is a relative term.

You know what is interesting? Fitblrs/bodybuilders on here are essentially being praised and idolized exclusively for their body fat percentage and ability to be unnaturally lean. They appear muscular and “fit” but I would be willing to bet that they are not nearly as strong or capable as they look. Do they even have the ability to lift very much weight? Can their bodies fight off illness? Are they deprived of essential nutrients? Can they have mental peace at a restaurant if they skipped a workout that day? 

So what are these women and men REALLY being praised for if they aren’t being praised for their strength? They are being praised for restricting their calories and micromanaging their macronutrients. They are being praised for over-training and beating themselves into the ground. They are being praised for forcing their poor bodies to be in unhealthy and unnatural states. 

Is that really what deserves devout praise? When did health become all about aesthetics? Let’s look beneath the physical exterior of the body and evaluate what is going on inside – physically and mentally.