no theres nothing wrong with me

anonymous asked:

sometimes I feel really guilt about shipping m/m and i don’t like this guilt but subaru and kou are one of my favourite ships,, is it wrong to do that? like i gotta hide this from some people in group chats because they’ll flip on me, i just want some fluff,, idk what to do anymore and it’s stressing me out. also on a similar note, fujoshis are not only fetishizing gay men but really annoying because you can’t say anything about them being “OMG GAY I WANT THEM TO —“ worst shit ever

theres nothing wrong w/ it dawg, dont feel guilty! subakou’s popular in the japanese fandom too, cuz theyre freakin cute together!! that handshake at the end of MB? legendary. like fuckin look at this

that little blush? very good. subakou is good and u should be proud abt shipping it

  • Hoseok: i'm cold
  • Yoongi: here, have my jacket
  • Jimin: hey, i'm cold too
  • Jungkook: what? [taking off jacket] i told you to bring more layers but of course you didn't listen and now [piling scarves on Jimin] now look, i've got to make sure you don't FREEZE to death and [taking somebody else's hat] how long have you been cold you should've said something sooner,

Alright, so, I’ll start this off by saying I am honestly not an expert on Kakyoin, contrary to popular belief (I’d actually consider myself more of an expert on Jotaro’s character, if anything), but I’m going to do my best to give my views on Kakyoin’s character, as well as some canon evidence to support it, and hopefully it will help a bit.

If you want a great reference of how to write Kakyoin in fic, go read Sand, sand and more sand on AO3, because it’s honestly one of the best depictions of Kak I’ve ever read, and he’s quite close to canon.

*ahem*

Kakyoin is pretty snarky. He’s subtle about it, but he’s also kind of a shithead. He’s polite most of the time, but it seems to be more of a setting he defaults to when he doesn’t feel entirely comfortable around the people he’s with. We have quite a few quips from him as examples of this, such as him laughing at andd mocking Anne during the dark blue moon arc, and saying she couldn’t possibly be the stand user on board, and in the Geb and N'Doul fight where he orders Polnareff to attack the canteen because he “doesn’t want to”. He also at one point responds to Polnareff saying “this looks bad!” with, “well it most certainly isn’t good.”

He’s blunt, but this also means that he’s honest. He dislikes liars, and prefers that everything is set out before him clearly and plainly as opposed to someone that is clearly dancing around the subject.

He also seems like quite the know-it-all, and likes being right; and he’s probably the type to argue with someone even if he knows he’s wrong. He seems to genuinely enjoy teaching the crusaders about the culture of all the places they visit on their journey, and he has the ability to retain all of that information to recant to them, as well. It seems to be somewhat of an interest of his.

And then there’s this, of course…

The cherry thing is something that kind of bothers me in fandom and fic. Yes; Kakyoin says that cherries are his favourite fruit. Child Kakyoin has cherries on his shirt (keep in mind that the scene with child kakyoin is added in my DavidPro and is not technically canon). BUT, it doesn’t mean that he has to have everything cherry-related. It’s a seriously overused trait in fandom to the point that it just becomes annoying. Kak can have a coffee without it having to be cherry flavoured. Just remember that he canonically enjoys lots of different foods, and that he doesn’t need to exclusively eat cherries and cherry flavoured things. He probably likes to eat foods from all different cultures.

Video games: There is evidence to suggest that Kakyoin spends a LOT of time playing F-Mega, however, this doesn’t mean that his extreme knowledge of the tracks and mechanics applies to every video game in existence. He’s a teenager, with no friends in the 80’s, of course he’s going to spend time playing video games. But back in the 80s, people often only had one or two games, so it’s likely that he has simply replayed F-Mega a LOT, to the point of knowing it by heart. I know the levels of Mario 3 extremely well, simply because I played them over and over again as a kid. If you are fixated on a single game for extended periods of time (especially if it’s the only game you own), you are of course going to know the game well. Knowing a lot about a single game does not mean that he’s obsessed with video games, and does not necessarily mean that he’s a shut-in, and never goes outside.

Also keep in mind that he says that he’s “pretty good at video games”. He doesn’t claim to be great at them, and since we’ve already established that Kakyoin is quite blunt, it would be out of character to assume that he’s being humble here. He literally means that he’s just “pretty good” at them. No more, no less.

His real-world experience is vast, and it’s also mentioned that his parents take him many places on vacation. He’s been to a lot of places, and retains cultural knowledge. It’s not as if he’s read it in books: he’s actually been to these places before, and he mentions it frequently. This suggests that he gets out quite a bit, and also kind of suggests that maybe he isn’t quite the model student type in school.

Kakyoin doesn’t appear to be the honours student & straight A’s type. He doesn’t think twice about skipping out on his new school to travel to Egypt, and as I said before, his knowledge appears to come more from first-hand experience rather than school studies (and I bet he missed more than a few of his classes due to the trips that he and his parents took). He’s a know-it-all, but it doesn’t mean that he does well in school.

On the other hand, Jotaro IS a model student, despite his delinquent status. It’s more likely that Jotaro would be the one helping Kakyoin with his homework.
(He might disrespect his teachers, but he still gets good grades, and let’s not forget that he becomes a marine biologist later in life.)

Kakyoin’s profile also mentions that he “appears very effeminite”. This is another thing that is often misinterpreted. His appearence may be somewhat feminine, and he takes pride in how he looks, but his personality and mannerisms are not inherently feminine.

He hates being forced into submission, and this is the reason why he despises Dio so much. Dio took advantage of his vulnerability and the fact that Kak didn’t have any friends to use him as his pawn. He drew Kak in, made him feel wanted, needed, and then took control of his mind and body.

“He appears to be very effeminate. In reality, he despises submitting to people or sucking up to them.” - Taken directly from his canon personality description.

Another thing that people seem to miss is the fact that he’s extremely sadistic. He says himself that Heirophant “loves nothing more than to rip things to shreds” and that it might “drive him mad with joy”. He likes being in control of the situation, remember. He probably hates losing fights, as well (especially since he could be considered a weakling for losing).

Kakyoin also seems to like Baseball, judging by his profile naming a favourite team, and sumo, as we all know from his exchange with Jotaro.

One of the things that fandom does definitely get right, is Kakyoin being the mother hen of the group. He’s taken on the role of the responsible one, because Joseph is… far from being an adult. He’s strategic and thinks everything out logically, and so is the mature one of the group, especially after Avdol’s “death”. He appears to be content to follow Joseph, but when it’s needed, he steps up and becomes the leader in his place. This is seen when Jotaro, Joseph and Polnareff start physically fighting random men that they suspect are the one in the Wheel of Fortune car, to which he says that, “this is not a good idea,” and that it’s, “getting out of hand”. It’s also seen in the tower of grey fight where he mentions that it’s better that he fights on the plane, because he’s the least destructive of the bunch (even though he’s capable of blasting holes into clock towers, apparently his emerald splash isn’t destructive; okay Kak…).

He’s also fiercely protective of his friends, and extremely loyal as well. Kakyoin isn’t the type to abandon his friends in any circumstance.

He’s a CASANOVA. While Jotaro draws more unwanted attention from girls due to his bad boy façade, Kakyoin is slick and smooth with them, so much so that they notice him more over Jotaro. He’s quick to diffuse the situation when Jotaro pushes the girls aside (again, in the tower of grey arc), and it’s just… yes.

Just look at this. You can bet your ass he’s not the type to blush and stutter as he’s confessing. Straight up grabbing the girl and apologizing for Jotaro. Smooth as butter.


Here are some other scenes that might be able to explain his character a bit better as well:

Mouthing off to Joseph- Jotaro approves.

This line is wonderful. (Again, to Joseph? It’s almost like they have this kind of rivalry going on, haha)

Some really good insight to his character and motivations (And one of my favourite Jotakak moments).

The anime kind of makes this out to be a sort of “Kakyoin mocking Polnareff” scene, but in the manga he seems like he’s just stating what he heard. Pretty matter-of-fact about the whole situation.

Unimpressed.

I believe that this is the first moment that Kakyoin really realizes that he and any of his companions can die at any moment. Avdol has been shot, and he’s in complete shock. This is a normal teenager that’s now painfully aware of the danger he’s putting himself in to help out Jotaro and Joseph. Sure, he realized that he would be involved in fights, and a little blood would be shed for the greater good, but I don’t think he had realized up to this point that he might actually die.

And here’s Kakyoin’s character bio.

It’s also notable that he didn’t tell his parents where he was going prior to leaving. This doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s in bad standing with his parents (especially since his dying thoughts were of them), and could possibly be because he didn’t want to worry them, or something of the sort, but the fact remains that he didn’t tell them beforehand. Take from this what you will.

So yeah, this is what I get from Kakyoin. He’s kind, loyal to a fault, and deeply in love with Jotaro– and he’s a pretty complex character to write. Don’t feel like you need to take all of this into account, because it’s hard to keep his entire character intact with fanfiction. A lot of his personality comes across in facial expressions, so it’s sometimes difficult to translate that into non-visual media. Just refer back to canon if you aren’t sure of something, and you should be fine. Good luck!

Altean Lance hair color?

I flipping love Altean Lance guys, And I love the way he looks when people draw him with brown or white hair but here’s my thing,

brown hair is a human color, in the famous mall episode we are shown actual images of Altean’s through Shiro’s visions and none of them have brown black or blonde hair. 

Then when it comes to white hair, the only Altean’s shown rocking it seem to be the royal family.

The more common colors are shades of blue, purple and orange. sO unless Lance and Allura are siblings in your au,

Consider Altean Lance with dark BLUE hair!!! I have yet to see it but I think it would look good as hell on him and fit better with what we’ve seen !

social media creates the illusion that artists are constantly producing incredible things every single day since we see so much art on our dashboards and timelines at once…but the reality is that these artists are all individuals with their own lives and struggles, maybe some of them have a hard time making even one decent drawing in a week.

anyway what im trying to say is, theres nothing wrong with struggling making things, its ok to take breaks if you need it…this has been discussed by others but i think its important to Not draw sometimes. art is extremely important to me and its important to me to continue improving what i do, but if im feeling unhappy while drawing i just stop and do something else…theres no need to destroy yourself for the sake of creativity. nothing good can come out of that

the zodiac signs as Stan Pines quotes
  • Aries: "The word please doesn't make me any money, kid."
  • Taurus: "When there's no cops around, anything's legal!"
  • Gemini: "Sounds like something a responsible parent wouldn't want you doing... Good thing I'm an uncle. Avenge me, kids! AVENGE ME!"
  • Cancer: "Finally, a good reason to punch a teenager in the face."
  • Leo: "You see, it's, it's funny because marriage is terrible!"
  • Virgo: "Yes, YES! Burn the child!"
  • Libra: "I was awoken by the sound of mockery. Where is it? Show me the object of ridicule."
  • Scorpio: "Wash off the shame, Stan. Wash off the shame."
  • Sagittarius: "Would it be wrong to punch a child?"
  • Capricorn: "Well! I learned nothing."
  • Aquarius: "Darn beautiful men! Always eating out of my trash."
  • Pisces: "Road safety laws, prepare to be ignored!"
Hi! Friendly Reminder™:

-Respect people’s boundaries

-If they don’t want to be touched, don’t touch them

-There’s nothing “sick” or “wrong” about not liking physical contact

-Don’t corner someone and force them in to some sort of physical contact that they do not want

-If they tell you that they don’t want to be touched and you still touch them, THAT’S WRONG AND YOU’RE BEING AN ASSHOLE

-“Oh stop it! Just deal with it! Why don’t you like hugs?” Fuck you it’s not your job to decide how someone else lives their life

-R E S P E C T P E O P L E ’S B O U N D A R I E S

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them: oh yeah thats so cool man

me:i know right lmao

anonymous asked:

As a pagan I find it kind of offensive that you're doing this because it's "cute". I don't really mind if you're doing it, just be respectful please?

theres no right or wrong way to be pagan except for telling other people theyre doing it the wrong way. i can do something because the idea of it makes me happy & that can be the extent to which i take the answers/advice seriously, if i want.

and i will, because i do think my runes & pendulums & crystals are cute. whether or not i fully 100% invest myself in the concept of them having the metaphysical attributes other people choose to believe in, doesnt matter or affect you/your beliefs. ;^Y

anonymous submitted:

Hey Eruto, Minty and Ellipsis, how have you been doing? Sorry for being gone for a while… (^-^ ’)

And on the side note: noooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!! I can’t believe that I missed Asriel’s Birthday bacause of school! \(T o T )/ anyway’s… here’s a (belated) birthday gift from my new babies! Chara and Asriel from A Star Crossed Wish.

I hope you won’t hate me that my baby and your baby has the same birthday…. but he’s 18 rather 38… err.. 39 now (^u^)

The MBTI types as P!ATD quotes:
  • INTJ: "I see what's mine and take it."
  • INTP: "I want to live a life from a new perspective."
  • INFJ: "It's better to leave than to be replaced."
  • INFP: "If you're gonna be the death of me that's how I wanna go."
  • ISTJ: "With a sense of poise and rationality."
  • ISTP: "She paints her fingers with a close precision."
  • ISFJ: "They haven't seen the best of us yet."
  • ISFP: "Static palms melt your vibes."
  • ENTJ: "There's nothing wrong with just a taste of what you paid for."
  • ENTP: "Crazy equals genius."
  • ENFJ: "Put my heart on my chest, so that you can see it too."
  • ENFP: "I love the things you hate about yourself."
  • ESTJ: "I'm taking back the crown."
  • ESTP: "I'm not as think as you drunk I am."
  • ESFJ: "The cut of your love never hurts."
  • ESFP: "Champagne pouring over us."
  • friend: what's wrong?
  • me, internally: fox hasn't renewed brooklyn nine nine yet and it's really stressing me out because there's still too much that needs to happen like jake & amy getting married and having kids, and holt & kevin having an actual wedding ceremony and rosa & gina need to just hook up at some point we're all waiting for it but if fox doesn't renew it we won't get these and it feels like the walls are closing in on my chest because of it
  • me: nothing
When Hopper and Joyce find out about Mike and Eleven's kiss
  • Hopper: So kids...you know why we've brought you in today, right?
  • *Mike and Eleven look confused*
  • Joyce: Both of you aren't in trouble if that's what you two are thinking. It's just, we heard from Dustin...about you two...um...locking lips?
  • Hopper: Oh for God's sake Joyce, they kissed! Just use the word.
  • Mike: *starts to sweat and his face goes red*
  • Eleven: Is "kiss" bad? But I liked it.
  • Hopper: *inner protective dad comes out* Okay, listen here missy-
  • Joyce: -oh shush Hop, there's nothing wrong with...lip-on-lip contact! It's just that, since you two are at this point, me and Hopper decided it was time for-
  • Hopper: The Talk ™
  • Mike: *makes wheezing sound out of embarrassment* But I already got the Talk-
  • Hopper: And you'll get it again, mister!
  • Eleven: The...talk? Is that good?
  • Joyce: Yes dear, it's fine. Like I said, kissing isn't bad. I mean, I kissed a few boys when I was your age-
  • Eleven: -Like Hopper?
  • Hopper, Mike, and Joyce: *freezes in embarrassment*
  • Eleven: Aren't you two...together?
  • Hopper (to Joyce): ...yeah, this was a bad idea.