Same anon. Maybe if you took them with more tolerance (seeing that most of the ridiculous ones are young and questioning, like most teens), and explained your views but using their vision of gender, they wouldn't be a shame to the community anymore nor aggrieve you? At the end some of them may even realize if they're trans - or not. Those silly teens will grow into reasonable adults one day, better if they don't hate you then. Anyway, if this can be done, it will need both parts working together
Exept when I’m ranting online, I do take them with tolerance. I have friends who are in fact “nondysphoric trans” and “nonbinary” and they know my views and I respect the language they ask me to use. But me treating them with tolerance isnt the issue. It’s that many of them have little to no tolerance for different opinions and harass and ostracize people who disagree with them. That in turns makes us resentful toward them.